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Thread: Optimal # of girls in rotation? FA’s stay out

post 1552352801 05-25-2018, 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
No she was a head software engineer at a multinational financial technology company. You know the chips in credit cards? She helped develop and produce that a few years ago in the U.S. for BoA, Chase, Capital One etc... I always told her if she wasn't so smart she could have been a model. And her lay count was less than 10. She got out of a 5 year relationship 6 months before I met her and rebounded with 1 guy before me. She didn't let me bone on date 1 etc...

The only stupid thing about her was that she fell so hard for me. Only girl I ever regret letting go.

The other 3 yea, dumb sloots.
Okay, so she was cool with you fukking other women while dating her, or you just hid it from her really well?
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Okay, so she was cool with you fukking other women while dating her, or you just hid it from her really well?
I didn't keep it from her. But she wasn't "cool" with it. At the beginning we were exclusive then I got board and started seeing girls on the side. I told her I can't be exclusive to her anymore and told her she can start seeing other guys but she didn't want to. So my deal with her was I wouldn't tell her about other girls but would tell her if I had sex without a condom with another girl.
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i cant handle any more than 3 without it becoming a chore to talk to them all


and i can only do 3 if one or more is in a different city, minimizing my time commitment towards actually seeing them
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It depends. If you can juggle it, 3 is probably ideal. But if you have less free time, then 2 is probably ideal.

I've had up to 4 and it's real hard to manage once you get past 2
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
Thread is about optimal # to have not about my rotation. Need insight
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well you've been married a long time so you are probably unaware of how competitive modern dating is. I didn't know either when I got divorced.

It's not easy to get a guy with options to date you for an exclusive relationship. You have to basically be his best option, better than all the other women he could date.

So the higher value the guy is, the more options he has, and the harder it is to get an exclusive relationship with him. Most women do want exclusivity but can't get it with the guy they want.
I think what Rabbit is saying is a worthwhile woman isn't going to be out having sex with a bunch of different guys on rotation or be willing to be with a man who is having sex with other women.
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post 1552355081 05-25-2018, 07:19 PM
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
I didn't keep it from her. But she wasn't "cool" with it. At the beginning we were exclusive then I got board and started seeing girls on the side. I told her I can't be exclusive to her anymore and told her she can start seeing other guys but she didn't want to. So my deal with her was I wouldn't tell her about other girls but would tell her if I had sex without a condom with another girl.
Right, and do you think a self respecting woman would stay with you after not being "cool" with it. The whole situation sounds really fukked up to me.
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post 1552355721 05-25-2018, 07:32 PM
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i Basically just have a 1a, and 1b combo and then a backup backup who i hit up when im desperate lol. So 2 in rotation i suppose


Generally hard to keep that third chick around because she basically knows what the deal is
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Originally Posted By YvonDucharme⏩
I don't understand your og post. You say you're juggling multiple women. Are you spending money on these women? Do they think that they're in a relationship with you? Sounds like you're meeting women off tinder which I dont understand why that warrants a thread.
I don't understand what warrants your ****ty comment


2-3 is ideal depending on how free you are & how free the girls are
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Right, and do you think a self respecting woman would stay with you after not being "cool" with it. The whole situation sounds really fukked up to me.
Yes and no. Depends on the woman. My ex wife for example would not have any of it. This other girl fell madly in love with me, and I basically held her hostage by saying if she wants me she has to accept the fact she will always be my #1 but there will be others. It ugly a few times. She would stalk my ig and found a random tinder sloot commented on a pic of mine with hearts or some chit and she commented after calling her a slut and telling her she's just a phuck for me. Not happy about making her feel bad, but she knew what she was in.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
My mind is blown by guys that are:
1. Spending so much time and energy into getting laid. What an absolute sinkhole of time w/ communicating etc.
2. Willing to have sex non-exclusively with multiple women, and accept the risk of STI and/or pregnancy.

I guess I must be the weird one.
x2 brah I am with you. But it happens sometimes with no condom also and then u stress for weeks
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i'm from a small town and it was literally impossible to have more than 1 girl at a time cause everyone knows everyone. now i live in a pretty big city and still try to keep them as far away from each other as possible so there's like 3 major colleges and i try to have one from each so there's almost know chance they would even know of each others' existence lmao
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
Yes and no. Depends on the woman. My ex wife for example would not have any of it. This other girl fell madly in love with me, and I basically held her hostage by saying if she wants me she has to accept the fact she will always be my #1 but there will be others. It ugly a few times. She would stalk my ig and found a random tinder sloot commented on a pic of mine with hearts or some chit and she commented after calling her a slut and telling her she's just a phuck for me. Not happy about making her feel bad, but she knew what she was in.
If she really had self respect she wouldn't have stayed with you though, she must have had really low self esteem.
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Like Luc1fer I'm also mind blown.
So y'all are alright with her fuking another 3 dudes on the side as well? If you both agree not to be exclusive then one would assume that she's also fuking other guys on the side.
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Originally Posted By LordMU⏩
Like Luc1fer I'm also mind blown.
So y'all are alright with her fuking another 3 dudes on the side as well? If you both agree not to be exclusive then one would assume that she's also fuking other guys on the side.
I think you guys are missing the premise of seeing a girl casually. Of course you aren't exclusive and you're not expecting her to be as well. She can do whatever she wants. If you decide to be exclusive with her obviously you would be faithful and only see her. But if that's not the case, why would you have an issue if she may be seeing other guys?

Better question, why would you even ask?
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
I think you guys are missing the premise of seeing a girl casually. Of course you aren't exclusive and you're not expecting her to be as well. She can do whatever she wants. If you decide to be exclusive with her obviously you would be faithful and only see her. But if that's not the case, why would you have an issue if she may be seeing other guys?

Better question, why would you even ask?
STDs for one (as already stated), and secondly it turns my stomach. Imagining fukking her.... and the night before some other guys dik and cum was all over her pvssy. I guess it comes down to how much you're capable of turning her into a shared sex object cum bucket and discarding afterwards. Is that how you picture each girl?
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
I think you guys are missing the premise of seeing a girl casually. Of course you aren't exclusive and you're not expecting her to be as well. She can do whatever she wants. If you decide to be exclusive with her obviously you would be faithful and only see her. But if that's not the case, why would you have an issue if she may be seeing other guys?

Better question, why would you even ask?
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
STDs for one (as already stated), and secondly it turns my stomach. Imagining fukking her.... and the night before some other guys dik and cum was all over her pvssy. I guess it comes down to how much you're capable of turning her into a shared sex object cum bucket and discarding afterwards. Is that how you picture each girl?
Dude, you are projecting really hard right now. Who the hell said they pictured women like that? Wtf? You really think most women do that? And why would I pick the ones that did? I pick high quality girls that I enjoy spending time with and getting to know, I just don't want to be in a relationship. I don't lie to them about it. I'm not looking for a serious relationship and they may not be either. We hang out, we enjoy each others company. What they do after is their business. If it ever gets to a point where they want to have that talk and they aren't ok wit me going on dates with other women, then I date her or I tell her we just aren't in the same place right now and it's probably best we hold off.

Why are you talking about cum dumpsters..
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Three maybe?
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This is gunna rustle some FAs jimmies but I was juggling 3-4 back in the day, rotating out ones I didn't necessarily like or ones with whom things started to get stale. Yeah, I might be a "pos" but consider it portfolio theory applied to the dating world. I don't want to carry that risk of wasting my minutes on one girl at a time
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Originally Posted By garthismad⏩
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Lol stfu, wench

Women do this WAY more than guys do
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
My mind is blown by guys that are:
1. Spending so much time and energy into getting laid. What an absolute sinkhole of time w/ communicating etc.
2. Willing to have sex non-exclusively with multiple women, and accept the risk of STI and/or pregnancy.

I guess I must be the weird one.
A mate of mind got herpes from doing oral on a chick out from Tinder 2-3 months ago. He's got the strange facial rash now...

Take home message: Never do this to a random Tinder girl. If it's your g/f etc who you know well and has been tested, no problem
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Theoretically speaking would you prefer a girl just out of a serious relationship where she was having sex daily without a condom with the guy cumming everywhere in her, or a girl who only had sex twice in a year in hookups using condoms for everything and without any exchange of bodily fluids?
My ideal would be 1 partner.. Id prefer a virgin. Thats not to say i dont like whores. I do like girls who fuk well. But in regard to investing, i prefer high quality; not somebody whos been passed around. So, yea.. Thats ideal. I would teach the virgin everything

In your scenario.. the latter
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Who cares if you get an STD. I got warts the first time i had sex.


And there it is... stupidest fkn thing I've read all day.
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
Dude, you are projecting really hard right now. Who the hell said they pictured women like that? Wtf? You really think most women do that? And why would I pick the ones that did? I pick high quality girls that I enjoy spending time with and getting to know, I just don't want to be in a relationship. I don't lie to them about it. I'm not looking for a serious relationship and they may not be either. We hang out, we enjoy each others company. What they do after is their business. If it ever gets to a point where they want to have that talk and they aren't ok wit me going on dates with other women, then I date her or I tell her we just aren't in the same place right now and it's probably best we hold off.

Why are you talking about cum dumpsters..
It was a serious question, not an insulting one. Honestly, sounds like you might be the one deluding yourself here.

"We hang out, we enjoy each others company. What they do after is their business."

And if she's seeing other guys (like you're seeing other women), my scenario could easily play out. It's weird now that you're acting blind to that, makes me think you're intentionally turning a blind eye to it.
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