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post 1579521631 05-06-2019, 06:11 AM
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Originally Posted By GotNext⏩
OP, hit her with the "lol sorry, I don't know who that was, my account was hacked" from a second account

Please make a screenshot of your success, double down now, lmao
this is the worst advice
post 1579521891 05-06-2019, 06:21 AM
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Originally Posted By Tamorlane⏩
this is the worst advice
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post 1579521981 05-06-2019, 06:24 AM
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Originally Posted By salamisalem⏩
neg me. I'm a *******.
Same brah lol. I contacted my old fwb last night after 8 cans of beer and she responded with a “hey, I don’t know how you still have feelings when it’s been awhile”

Crazy how was the one who was begging me to stay and switched it up like that. I was the one who wanted to end it
post 1579522141 05-06-2019, 06:28 AM
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Not gonna neg you OP but pls learn from this.
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Originally Posted By salamisalem⏩
I loved her. didn't want anyone else. asked if she wanted to come over one last time. all the essential beta ****.
LMAO I was like LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
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post 1579523041 05-06-2019, 06:57 AM
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
No she wasn't. She wasn't your best friend, she was a person who gave you attention (sometimes) and manipulated and abused you until you were both card-carrying members of Trailer Trash Misc, posting about how the police were called as you screamed at each other on the front yard. Best friends don't treat people the way she treated you. You know that, you're still lying to yourself and to us. Get it together.
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post 1579523131 05-06-2019, 06:59 AM
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Originally Posted By salamisalem⏩
neg away black jesus. neg away. I broke down. won't happen again. heartbreak sucks, never loved a girl like this before but never hated one like this before either. Her Borderline Personality Disorder or Bipolar or both or whatever has left me feeling so empty
It gets better brah. I dated a BPD sloot for two years and know these feels. The entire last 12-14 months was her abusing me and then apologizing/taking it back/promising how great things will be in the future. You get used to forgiving them and accepting your role as the punching bag. Once you end it you'll go through a period where you feel purposeless, because we learned to tell ourselves we were helping this person and we felt important, and we believed all the bull chit they promised us about how much we were loved and how great things would be in the future together. Srs the only thing that can break these victim thoughts is time and new women so just give yourself time and start talking to new sloots when you feel ready. You won't feel better overnight you gotta accept it and keep going forward.
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post 1579523391 05-06-2019, 07:07 AM
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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah⏩
you should have consulted with us first brah
In that case help a brah out who's in a similar situation. We broke up 2 weeks ago and I haven't seen or spoken to her since. She called me once to ask if I wanted to meet up one more time to talk things out like normal human beings, but I declined as I felt everything had been said. Blocked her and went NC. Now 2 weeks later I'm at my worst and not knowing how she feels about all of this is killing me. After being apart I honestly realize that I was the one who was wrong which makes the feeling even worse. So what's the misc's recomendation here, try to meet up or stay NC?
post 1579523721 05-06-2019, 07:15 AM
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Originally Posted By RainingBlood⏩
umad OP has a girl he can go back to and you've never had a girl at all
You dumb bitch.

HE DOESN'T HAVE CHIT! She ghosted his ass and is getting demolished, ABSOLUTELY DEMOLISHED by the biggest dicks to ever exist on earth. Lol @ you and OP.
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post 1579524821 05-06-2019, 07:42 AM
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post 1579525441 05-06-2019, 07:53 AM
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Happens to the best of us, try to forget this moment of weakness and move on.

just remember, your gonna be alright brah
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post 1579525491 05-06-2019, 07:54 AM
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Originally Posted By RainingBlood⏩
i've been there too, boyo. did you fap before doing this?

umad OP has a girl he can go back to and you've never had a girl at all
Didn't read the thread did you? Opie tried to go back to her and she shut the door on him.
post 1579525951 05-06-2019, 08:05 AM
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Bruh I did the same thing like a little puussie about 2 years ago, just keep doing you and be pimp and she will crawl back to you one day

Just 3 days ago I had to block her off everything after she begged for me and I banged a couple times and made it clear I’d never be with her again. She tripped and I had to block..felt good bruh
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Originally Posted By BigTimeOperator⏩
wow. What you are supposed to do is find out where she is going to be with a fake account or something, then show up at the same place and play it cool. All those old feels won;t be there for a girl unless she sees you in person and hears your voice, etc.
just lol and then he watches her be a sloot with chad
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post 1579526171 05-06-2019, 08:09 AM
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post 1579526281 05-06-2019, 08:11 AM
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Originally Posted By salamisalem⏩
I loved her. didn't want anyone else. asked if she wanted to come over one last time. all the essential beta ****.
Love isn't a one-way street. Whatever it was, it wasn't love. The problem is, you convinced yourself it was. Glad you got burned, not because I'm a spiteful jerk who enjoys the suffering of others, but you clearly needed to learn a lesson - although it doesn't sound like you've entirely grasped the situation.

"Didn't want anyone else" - big problem here, because at the end of the day, there is nothing special or unique about this girl, there are plenty of girls who are just like her, or even far more compatible with you, so in your case: Better.

I'm not into this redpill, "Treat women like dogs" nonsense, but you also can't do the opposite, which is to place them on a pedestal and pretend they're more than they are. Treat women with respect, which is earned and not given, and also treat yourself with respect always.
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If you really loved her don't be ashamed that you contacted her. It's might actually be a good thing. In fact i would advise you try to contact her again and tell her how you really feel. If she ignores you again then you can move on with no regrets.
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Originally Posted By salamisalem⏩
lol I've actually thought about this far more than you can imagine. I remembered you saying that. and every time new sh*t happened with her and I took her back, this quote played in my head. and I knew you were right. but I was like "fk it oh well maybe she'll change". but nah truth is something inside of me is broken, lonely that kept allowing this whore chances even tho everyone said it was time to drop her crazy ass. I'll have to work on that. you were right. I knew you were right all along. guess I'm weak. but BPD girls are crazy man. I'm going to stop using it as an excuse, but you don't know until you've had your soul sucked out by them. fuks up your mind. you know what she said the last time we were together? "so why haven't you proposed to me yet?" then the next day she lost her chit again. she asked that night if I could put a baby in her (during sex). it really fuks with a man. we're wired to hear those things, and contrasting actions make your mind go haywire.

you want to know the real reason I think she left? bc she no longer needed my support as she finished studying for the MCAT. this hoe actually gave up on it rather than taking it, started smoking a lot of green, and peaced out with some fakeass reason bc she no longer need me as a bank account or an emotional support animal. she did try coming back but I shut her down bc I had my head on straight for a bit. I got played by this borderline psycho, and I deserved it. she only cared about herself.

but hey at least the sex was fukking insane and frequent. so I'm gonna chalk it down as a "meh"

also, give a bruh some props for going NC and refusing to take her back till I got weak today. dam.
i feel u too, going through similar stuff, take life less seriously & remind yourself that she doesnt love u..in b4 beta. contacting is fine because everyone needs a closure if not u cant move on..
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
No she wasn't. She wasn't your best friend, she was a person who gave you attention (sometimes) and manipulated and abused you until you were both card-carrying members of Trailer Trash Misc, posting about how the police were called as you screamed at each other on the front yard. Best friends don't treat people the way she treated you. You know that, you're still lying to yourself and to us. Get it together.
you know, the worst part is I went to Harvard and now I'm trailer trash. I'll get it together eventually I swear lol
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At least she didnt lead you on into thinking you'll get back together while she was dating somebody else like my ex did. Some girls have no shame
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Originally Posted By Obafemi1⏩
In that case help a brah out who's in a similar situation. We broke up 2 weeks ago and I haven't seen or spoken to her since. She called me once to ask if I wanted to meet up one more time to talk things out like normal human beings, but I declined as I felt everything had been said. Blocked her and went NC. Now 2 weeks later I'm at my worst and not knowing how she feels about all of this is killing me. After being apart I honestly realize that I was the one who was wrong which makes the feeling even worse. So what's the misc's recomendation here, try to meet up or stay NC?
holy chit don't do it man

You are having doubts which is normal just understand you went NC for a reason. Don't second guess yourself.
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Originally Posted By Peacening⏩
It gets better brah. I dated a BPD sloot for two years and know these feels. The entire last 12-14 months was her abusing me and then apologizing/taking it back/promising how great things will be in the future. You get used to forgiving them and accepting your role as the punching bag. Once you end it you'll go through a period where you feel purposeless, because we learned to tell ourselves we were helping this person and we felt important, and we believed all the bull chit they promised us about how much we were loved and how great things would be in the future together. Srs the only thing that can break these victim thoughts is time and new women so just give yourself time and start talking to new sloots when you feel ready. You won't feel better overnight you gotta accept it and keep going forward.
thanks man. helps hearing it from someone who's dealt with a psycho bish. much love.
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always knew you were a cumguzzling poosy *******, op.

this thread is just icing on the chit cake.

I dun told you what would happen, now look at you... all sad and chit.
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So many feels after reading everything. I've been there OP, and I did some way more beta chit than you. At least you immediately realized you messed up and owned up to your mistake of breaking NC. But now you can stick to it without doubts.

She's no good for you bro. You reached a level of comfort and familiarity with her drama and manipulation. Throw crazy hot sex into the mix and the whole thing becomes addictive. Some time away from that will be good for you. You have your answer and now you can move on. The rejection stings, but you'll be thankful for it later. Trust me I know.

After my first breakup my Dad told me "When you find a woman who truly loves you, the difference is like night and day".

You're gonna make it brah.
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don't ever do that again dude, we've all done it when we were young, don't ever do it again, trust me

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Originally Posted By RainingBlood⏩
anytime bro. it's imperative that you don't fall into the trap of waiting for her. there's an entire thread about this type of **** on the relationship section (something like "exes always come back") and it's filled with the saddest ****s who are waiting for their exes to come back. dont be like that.

i waited for someone to come back for ~2 years and they never did. was a huge waste of time and prolonged the inevitable heartache.

srs
You're spitting the truth, brah. 3 months ago I broke up with my first serious girlfriend of 3 years, we kind of stayed friends for a while but I started to miss her badly, so I sent all those typical beta stuff, like 'you were the best ever, I'll never find someone like you etc.'. I'm really not into playing mind games or doing NC as you said, it only makes it worse cause you're keep hoping for something that might never happen and you'll just keep thinking about it. If she cared, whatever I sent to her, she'd try to get back together, but she doesn't want to, so yeah it's time move on. Even though it still hurts at times, this is for the better. No one knows what future holds.
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[QUOTE=Voidgaze post_id=1579530141]So many feels after reading everything. I've been there OP, and I did some way more beta chit than you. At least you immediately realized you messed up and owned up to your mistake of breaking NC. But now you can stick to it without doubts.

She's no good for you bro. You reached a level of comfort and familiarity with her drama and manipulation. Throw crazy hot sex into the mix and the whole thing becomes addictive. Some time awat from that will be good for you. You have your answer and now you can move on. The rejection stings, but you'll be thankful for it later. Trust me I know.

After my first breakup my Dad told me "When you find a woman who truly loves you, the difference is like night and day".

You're gonna make it brah.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=BeerBellyBrah post_id=1579530711]We're all gonna make it brah[/QUOTE]we're all gonna make it <3

[QUOTE=redraider86 post_id=1579530881]We both know our educations and pedigrees don't keep us from making pants-on-head-retarded decisions when our feelings and hearts are involved. Heck, I even had to catch myself from saying, "People make us do crazy things." No, people act crazy and we make independent decisions, no one makes us make bad decisions. We are always responsible for our reactions towards others.

Setbacks are normal. You messed up but you know that, so move on. You call it mean, I call it tough love. <3[/QUOTE][QUOTE=wasp9166 post_id=1579530921]don't ever do that again dude, we've all done it when we were young, don't ever do it again, trust me

[youtube]KtypSRcwIhA[/yout ube][/QUOTE]for sure <3
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