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post 1580930921 05-27-2019, 03:36 PM
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so glad I barely skirted in a relationship before Tinder became a whole accepted thing. brb little johnny your mother and i met on a casual sex phone program.
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Originally Posted By Archangel_Lost⏩
so glad I barely skirted in a relationship before Tinder became a whole accepted thing. brb little johnny your mother and i met on a casual sex phone program.
I remember those days also. For me before online dating was the club scene and getting a girls BBM pin. I’m glad you missed the scene of online dating because for many of us in our 30’s it’s the primary way to catch a date on a Friday night or not be bored at home on a Tuesday.
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post 1581067571 05-29-2019, 05:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Well, I think a lot of people can have a one or two off that is not their norm. Especially after a long term marriage. I know I have. If you believe her then what's there to worry about? You clearly really like her, so just go with it.
Hey again. Can you elaborate a little more on the “I know I have” part? You can PM me or something if you like.
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post 1581068061 05-29-2019, 05:18 PM
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
Hey again. Can you elaborate a little more on the “I know I have” part? You can PM me or something if you like.
Would you stop overthinking it and just be with your chick?! lol I meant that after my long term marriage ended I had some hookups and casual sex. Which is not what I normally go for. I've always been a relationship type of person, over hookups and ONS. So what I mean is, that is not my norm, and after a couple I realized it wasn't what I wanted so I stopped. That was 3 years ago and I don't plan to do it again. So I'm saying there's a very good chance that having sex with you on the first date was a one off for your girl. If you're going to go forward with the relationship you're going to have to trust that she's telling you the truth.
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post 1581068891 05-29-2019, 05:31 PM
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My theory on dating a tinder girl long-term is that you should see it as a rebuttable presumption. Presume that she is a ho, but if over time she proves herself to be more than that then you should pursue it. You cant slut shame a girl for using tinder when you are doing the same thing. Would you like it if you met a girl on tinder and you wanted something serious and you were both compatible, but she said to you I can't date a fuk boy.

Dating is crazy these days. I have banged girls who are CEO's at their jobs, girls who have scored in the 99.9% percentile on the LSAT, doctors on the first or second date. What women want behind closed doors is their business, it doesnt necessarily make them a slut.

You should be happy that you found a legit connection. Most girls just use me for sex to get over an ex or just fwb. It has completely warped my mind about women.
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LOL @ thinking about marrying a girl you boned within 10 minutes of meeting. Can't turn a hoe into a housewife brah. Every guy says to themselves "but she's different" until they find out she's not.

Just waiting on that 2022 thread about how she cheated.
post 1581068981 05-29-2019, 05:33 PM
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Every female I've banged on the first date/hangout I lose long term attraction immediately. But you do you
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Originally Posted By Ephedra⏩
LOL @ thinking about marrying a girl you boned within 10 minutes of meeting. Can't turn a hoe into a housewife brah. Every guy says to themselves "but she's different" until they find out she's not.

Just waiting on that 2022 thread about how she cheated.
If the girl hasnt had sex in a long time then they are extremely horny. If they find you attractive, then you cant fault her for wanting to bang. There are girls who are very sexual, but can be great housewives. The dating game has changed, girls dont have to slut shamed to date a guy for weeks because of some arbitrary rule.

I dated a girl who I banged on the first date for 3 years before breaking up because of long distance. She is still the best overall girl I have ever met and I have banged probably close to 50 girls since her. I had the same thoughts as OP about her when I first met her, but I saw that she was an overall great girl. Biggest regret of my life was letting her go.
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Originally Posted By Archangel_Lost⏩
brb little johnny your mother and i met on a casual sex phone program.
brb after we banged and did full nelson anal, I asked her out on a date in an old timey romantic way
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Would you stop overthinking it and just be with your chick?! lol I meant that after my long term marriage ended I had some hookups and casual sex. Which is not what I normally go for. I've always been a relationship type of person, over hookups and ONS. So what I mean is, that is not my norm, and after a couple I realized it wasn't what I wanted so I stopped. That was 3 years ago and I don't plan to do it again. So I'm saying there's a very good chance that having sex with you on the first date was a one off for your girl. If you're going to go forward with the relationship you're going to have to trust that she's telling you the truth.
She is telling me the truth and if any of the guys on here saw her walking down the street they would think she was never into something like that. She’s honest to me and I believe in her. The problem for me is that we didn’t exactly have a first date or even a real date. We were travelling and using tinder and she had a few days away from her friends. I was and am the only tinder guy she ever met. We talked for a few hours on tinder then I met her the next day and we had sex within minutes. This is the struggle for me. It’s warped my thinking of her.

And then I read all the other comments on here how she’s pretty much a whore. Nice.
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post 1581070561 05-29-2019, 05:59 PM
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
I was and am the only tinder guy she ever met.
Oh ho lee fuk are you telling me this whole thing is a troll thread? lol well played.
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So you had sex once and now youre contemplating marriage?
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Oh ho lee fuk are you telling me this whole thing is a troll thread? lol well played.
Lol this! You seem very naive OP. Women lie all the time! They are not doing it to be malicious necessarily, but more for self-preservation reasons. Women are very vulnerable, and their are horrible guys out there who can get extremely jealous and violent. I If she said she met 20 guys before you, then you could blow up and yell or even assault her if you're crazy.
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Originally Posted By enzo818⏩
Lol this! You seem very naive OP. Women lie all the time! They are not doing it to be malicious necessarily, but more for self-preservation reasons. Women are very vulnerable, and their are horrible guys out there who can get extremely jealous and violent. I If she said she met 20 guys before you, then you could blow up and yell or even assault her if you're crazy.
What the F are you even talking about?
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post 1581070961 05-29-2019, 06:07 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
So you had sex once and now youre contemplating marriage?
No I’ve been dating a girl for 7 months and looking at long term potential with this person. But I am having some reservations.
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post 1581071461 05-29-2019, 06:15 PM
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
What the F are you even talking about?
Lol the fact that you can believe a girl who says that you are the only guy she met on tinder and you banged within minutes after meeting speaks volumes about your naivety. Girls dont do that with the first guy they meet off tinder. She's very experienced with tinder and she found a naive guy (you) to fall for all her lies lol.
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At the end of the day you know the little concrete evidence we have (quick hookup from Tinder) will result in the misc saying she's a ho.

You can give all the reasons you want on why this is an exception to the rule but all we have are words you've heard to back that up and anyone is capable of lying through their teeth.

In reality, many people have had successful relationships from what started as a hookup from online or the bar. You can either live with the fact that this is how it started for you two or not.
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
At the end of the day you know the little concrete evidence we have (quick hookup from Tinder) will result in the misc saying she's a ho.

You can give all the reasons you want on why this is an exception to the rule but all we have are words you've heard to back that up and anyone is capable of lying through their teeth.

In reality, many people have had successful relationships from what started as a hookup from online or the bar. You can either live with the fact that this is how it started for you two or not.
You have good well thought out responses. I’m just having a hard time with it.
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Originally Posted By enzo818⏩
Lol the fact that you can believe a girl who says that you are the only guy she met on tinder and you banged within minutes after meeting speaks volumes about your naivety. Girls dont do that with the first guy they meet off tinder. She's very experienced with tinder and she found a naive guy (you) to fall for all her lies lol.
If you know the girl you would think differently. But it’s online and you are free to write as you like.
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I know a coupe engaged together for 3 years now that met the same way. We're 1/5th into the 21st century it's going to become more and more common.
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Originally Posted By Joseph1990⏩
I know a coupe engaged together for 3 years now that met the same way. We're 1/5th into the 21st century it's going to become more and more common.
They matched on tinder and the guy arrived to a very awkward girl and they hooked up? The reason I know this was her first time hooking up is because she had no clue what to do. She even asked me at one point “what do you want me to do?” Not the typical hookup if had before. This is the story? Hah
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
She is telling me the truth and if any of the guys on here saw her walking down the street they would think she was never into something like that. She’s honest to me and I believe in her. The problem for me is that we didn’t exactly have a first date or even a real date. We were travelling and using tinder and she had a few days away from her friends. I was and am the only tinder guy she ever met. We talked for a few hours on tinder then I met her the next day and we had sex within minutes. This is the struggle for me. It’s warped my thinking of her.

And then I read all the other comments on here how she’s pretty much a whore. Nice.
Well, you're going to have to decide if you can deal with it or not. None of us can tell you or make you feel better about it.

Also, this is the Misc where every female is a whore who's looking to cheat and steal all yo money! Watch out yourself before you get cucked! Worst place you could have asked this question. lol
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Well, you're going to have to decide if you can deal with it or not. None of us can tell you or make you feel better about it.

Also, this is the Misc where every female is a whore who's looking to cheat and steal all yo money! Watch out yourself before you get cucked! Worst place you could have asked this question. lol
Half these boys are idiots who cannot string a sentence together. The women they attract are not who I am speaking of.

If that’s all this place is then why are you on here..?
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Well, you're going to have to decide if you can deal with it or not. None of us can tell you or make you feel better about it.

Also, this is the Misc where every female is a whore who's looking to cheat and steal all yo money! Watch out yourself before you get cucked! Worst place you could have asked this question. lol
The misc has a cynical view of women, but what miscers say is true, just not about all women. It's just a stereotype thats been developed from experiences with women. People remember negative experiences much more than positive/neutral experiences because they can be more traumatic. Their are plenty of evil women who are constantly loooking to take advantage of a naive man, but there are good women have been raised to be a women of character and principles. Ultimately the biggest problem these days is social media which is reinforcing the idea to young girls that its better to be a THOT than a girl with morals and character. Our society is so fuked in the head where we provide huge platforms for the most terrible examples of women, while great women are hidden in the shadows. So young girls are taught to act like a THOT because that gets more praise/attention/validation which all women seek.
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Originally Posted By enzo818⏩
The misc has a cynical view of women, but what miscers say is true, just not about all women. It's just a stereotype thats been developed from experiences with women. People remember negative experiences much more than positive/neutral experiences because they can be more traumatic. Their are plenty of evil women who are constantly loooking to take advantage of a naive man, but there are good women have been raised to be a women of character and principles. Ultimately the biggest problem these days is social media which is reinforcing the idea to young girls that its better to be a THOT than a girl with morals and character. Our society is so fuked in the head where we provide huge platforms for the most terrible examples of women, while great women are hidden in the shadows. So young girls are taught to act like a THOT because that gets more praise/attention/validation which all women seek.
I know these women and have dated many. 250 probably. That’s how I am not naive and I can differentiate between a complete slut and someone who’s had sex with 5 people including me which was a one off. It’s not always the case where a woman is a complete lying whore. But they are out there and it’s common.
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
Half these boys are idiots who cannot string a sentence together. The women they attract are not who I am speaking of.

If that’s all this place is then why are you on here..?
Well, it's not all that there is here, though. There are also good people here, and good convo about all different things, some good debates. Talk about lifting too which I enjoy. Plus it's pretty lulzy here.
Originally Posted By enzo818⏩
The misc has a cynical view of women, but what miscers say is true, just not about all women. It's just a stereotype thats been developed from experiences with women. People remember negative experiences much more than positive/neutral experiences because they can be more traumatic. Their are plenty of evil women who are constantly loooking to take advantage of a naive man, but there are good women have been raised to be a women of character and principles. Ultimately the biggest problem these days is social media which is reinforcing the idea to young girls that its better to be a THOT than a girl with morals and character. Our society is so fuked in the head where we provide huge platforms for the most terrible examples of women, while great women are hidden in the shadows. So young girls are taught to act like a THOT because that gets more praise/attention/validation which all women seek.
I do agree about social media. What I don't agree with is if you get screwed over that you should be so bitter and hate en entire gender. I've been screwed over by men before, and I don't hate all men.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Well, it's not all that there is here, though. There are also good people here, and good convo about all different things, some good debates. Talk about lifting too which I enjoy. Plus it's pretty lulzy here.



I do agree about social media. What I don't agree with is if you get screwed over that you should be so bitter and hate en entire gender. I've been screwed over by men before, and I don't hate all men.
I shouldn’t have posted as this has got into my head. Thanks for your responses and have a good day.
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