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ยป Do older guys ACTUALLY attract lots of hot girls?
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post 1644884363 08-13-2021, 02:21 PM
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For some men they get more attention in their 30s because you are taken more seriously and seen as mature/stable. Women in their early 20s look for different qualities in men than they do in their late 20s and 30s so you do see women still interested in you if you are well established in your 30s and 40s.

Now you can't just have money, which was mentioned before. You will just attract gold diggers. You have to be successful, educated, a leader in some capacity, have some sense of worldliness (in style, taste, etc), and attractive, but not a "Chad". It's total package that matters in your 30s and 40s.

Keep in mind though these women want commitment and relationships/marriages so don't expect women just letting you slay. Some women will try and trap you if they are trying to secure their own future.
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post 1644887433 08-13-2021, 03:08 PM
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Doctor in my 30s, smashing whomever I please (srs). I go for ages 24-30 if i'm thinking short-term. If I just want to fuk, will go as low as 21 (never lower because bitches just get weird)
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Originally Posted By Sgt
Yes. Can confirm.

34 year year old, tall in great shape and very good looking. girls get moistened for me daily. Dudes are give me plenty of double looks.
Plus a full head of hair even after bicycles.
Lol'd. Such is life for a High Value Male.
post 1644897653 08-13-2021, 05:46 PM
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro
Yeah i'm sure old men with decreased looks will pull hot young women lol.
Only gold diggers are into a guy with money and a career. Or women who are done slooting and are looking for a beta provider.

A man is in his prime from 18-25. Sorry but you're not going to pull 18 year old sloots when you turn 40 because you now own a bwm and your own house.
Women rather smash a prime broke convict/drug dealer than to hook up with a boomer.
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post 1644898263 08-13-2021, 05:55 PM
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I'm a lot more attractive to women than I've ever been right now(at age 36), but with fewer opportunities. If I had my current looks and confidence at age 28, I would have absolutely cleaned up.

Still have more opportunity than I've ever had(still have a lot of girls getting starry eyed over me), but it's not girls in their 20s like I'd like. Generally if a girl in her 20s is making a strong move on me there seems to be some ulterior motive. Not all though, and some are fantastic.
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Take care of yourself and get your **** together in your 20s and you should have a good time in your 30s.

The average American man is 5'9 197lbs. This includes all men aged 20 and up. Starting at 30 people that haven't packed on a bunch of weight and some health problems become an exponential minority with every decade.

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post 1644899213 08-13-2021, 06:10 PM
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if you werent pulling in chicks in your 20s, then theres a good chance that you wont be pulling chicks in your 30s/40s

but if you were successful in your 20s, stayed in shape and leveled up in life, then getting chicks will be easier in your 30s/40s
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post 1644899383 08-13-2021, 06:13 PM
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Originally Posted By SuperHercules
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post 1644899743 08-13-2021, 06:19 PM
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As a 31 year old, here are my anecdotes. Take 'em for whatever it's worth:

1. College grads/Recent college grads (say 18 to 23ish) - really tough at my age. Maybe I'm just ugly, but girls in that group usually go for the frat star or good-looking guy in their age group. Being financially secure, intelligent, etc. means pretty little at that age unless they're legit looking for a sugar daddy to buy them ********* shoes.

2. Mid to Late 20s (26+) -easier, but not noticeably so, than when I was ~27. Girls in this age group stop caring purely about looks and have gotten a good amount of partying out of their system. Looks matter less compared to maturity, financial independence, being a good provider, etc. If you're the deadbeat chad fuccboi type that got by solely on looks, your advantage starts to fade at this age. Chads that have it all (good looks, good job, and social) absolutely wreck this bracket.

3. Early 30s - noticeably easier. Once 30 hits for girls, the pressure is really on for them. Plus, most dudes my age look like chit and my generation (millennials) are doing extremely poorly as a whole financially. If you're someone like me who has looksmaxxed and careermaxxed, you jump from 70th percentile (womens' standards are really high in their 20s even for dudes that are a catch) to 95th percentile almost overnight.

4. Mid-30s - easy. You have to be careful here though because you're starting to deal with leftovers or crazies. The only ones I'd even consider dating in this age bracket are girls that are basically doctors or elite lawyers where I could kind of buy them not having time to date. Everyone else is just for fun/very casual flings IMO.

5. 40s+ - medium. I'm sort of stuck in purgatory with this range, I've noticed. Girls do usually prefer a guy that's older than them and I'm a bit young at 31 for their taste. It's fine though because outside of divorcees that are disillusioned with marriage/relationships or perpetually single cougars who just want some fun, I have literally 0 interest in an LTR with a 40 year old at my age.

Overall, I think that if you're like most of the misc and obsessed with 18-23 year olds, <26 is the maximum window you have for that age group. For mid-20 to late 20s and early-30s, sub-35 or so is ideal, provided you didn't let yourself go like most dudes have by the time they hit 30. I think you're kind of fked as a dude if you haven't locked something down by 35, +/- 2 years for aging genetics. To me, the prime wife material age is around 26-32 and you start to age yourself out of that bracket even in your mid-30s. Plus, it's very rare a guy will still look like he's in his 20s at 30, much less 35.

The only reason guys peak at late-30s/40s in OP's graph is because women are on average beyond SOL by that point and guys in that same age group now have the upper hand. It's not because 20-somethings are magically attracted to graying, balding, fat guys or anything like that.
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only the ones that still party every weekend and are/know drug dealers
post 1644901433 08-13-2021, 06:54 PM
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Originally Posted By gorex
Late 30s checking in.

This is mostly correct in my experience.

But I do have decent genetics (hair, height etc) and mad discipline (still have a four pack, use sunscreen, eat clean, etc)

I have way more money, status, sports car, boat etc than in my 20s so itโ€™s much easier in many ways to get girls, even bearded and even chicks in their early 20s. They do sometimes ask my age but I usually deflect it and itโ€™s forgotten quickly.

On the other hand, I recently noticed I donโ€™t go out of my way to hit on the younger chicks like I use to, itโ€™s as if I start to feel self councious of my age
Nice Brah,

Late 30's also checking in - I've gotten WAY more women in my mid-late 30's than I ever did in my 20's. I didn't have the confidence, I didn't have my style, I didn't know who I was in my 20's.

Now I'm confident, extremely successful, good style, disciplined in the gym for most of my life, 6'2 so I mog most of you, and attractive. The dating apps are stupid but I get tons of matches on them, I even got banned from hinge because so many girls would get butthurt that I wasn't into them they'd report me, and apparently Hinge will just straight up ban you for that...cuz god forbid women ever get ghosted / rejected. I crush it on Bumble, and anytime I get out of the Bay Area which is easily the hardest dating market in the US, my phone completely explodes with matches. I was in a Bar in Nashville waiting for a friend, just texting on my phone, and some girl figured out which person I was and sent me sexy pics of her through Bluetooth...just so I would go talk to her. That kind of chit NEVER happened in my 20's.

It's all about putting in the work in your 20's, men have to build themselves up into something, when you walk into a Bar in Nashville with tons of hot chicks and you are a top 3-5% man, you walk in there with a certain confidence, nobody can mog you, nobody can say chit to you, you can literally look around the room an go "Yeah, I'm better than every single person in here". Girls can feel that chit.

But if you look at the stats most people of both genders are fat / obese, men are earning 50k, girls are chunky / not feminine, they are miserable because they have NO IDEA how to find what they really want....love. So they just keep throwing puss@y around at any guy they *think* might be a good prospect, and just hope. They have no idea how to choose men / find what they're looking for. It's really more sad than anything. Men are weak beta simps, and girls are completely lost.

I just keep slaying prime sloots and building wealth
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not in general. young sloots set their tinder prefs to 20-30 so straight off the bat you lose a huge potential market
but if your handsome and keep in shape your G2G

also just sign up to tinder with your age as 29/30, then 'hide age' and you can slay
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post 1644903203 08-13-2021, 07:27 PM
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Originally Posted By CulturalDecay
Nice Brah,

Late 30's also checking in - I've gotten WAY more women in my mid-late 30's than I ever did in my 20's. I didn't have the confidence, I didn't have my style, I didn't know who I was in my 20's.

Now I'm confident, extremely successful, good style, disciplined in the gym for most of my life, 6'2 so I mog most of you, and attractive. The dating apps are stupid but I get tons of matches on them, I even got banned from hinge because so many girls would get butthurt that I wasn't into them they'd report me, and apparently Hinge will just straight up ban you for that...cuz god forbid women ever get ghosted / rejected. I crush it on Bumble, and anytime I get out of the Bay Area which is easily the hardest dating market in the US, my phone completely explodes with matches. I was in a Bar in Nashville waiting for a friend, just texting on my phone, and some girl figured out which person I was and sent me sexy pics of her through Bluetooth...just so I would go talk to her. That kind of chit NEVER happened in my 20's.

It's all about putting in the work in your 20's, men have to build themselves up into something, when you walk into a Bar in Nashville with tons of hot chicks and you are a top 3-5% man, you walk in there with a certain confidence, nobody can mog you, nobody can say chit to you, you can literally look around the room an go "Yeah, I'm better than every single person in here". Girls can feel that chit.

But if you look at the stats most people of both genders are fat / obese, men are earning 50k, girls are chunky / not feminine, they are miserable because they have NO IDEA how to find what they really want....love. So they just keep throwing puss@y around at any guy they *think* might be a good prospect, and just hope. They have no idea how to choose men / find what they're looking for. It's really more sad than anything. Men are weak beta simps, and girls are completely lost.

I just keep slaying prime sloots and building wealth
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Originally Posted By Scarrdbutsmartr
I'm 46 in great shape (sub 10% body fat) with a good career and dress well. I've never had so much attention in my years as I have right now.Most men are failures and have let themselves go so the "competition" is ridiculously thin.I literally have 5-10 women that would have immediate interest if something happen to my current relationship status.

With that said, Im happily married and no interest. My wife is hot and is more awesome than 99.99% of the women on the planet. She is actually funny, likes to drink with friends, doesnt nag...so I pretty much have it made.
this is what I figured. More and more women are getting tired of the younger millenial men/older zoomers for obvious reasons so they are looking out for better older guys.
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more women than ever crew. so boring i dropped it.
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Originally Posted By CulturalDecay
Nice Brah,

Late 30's also checking in - I've gotten WAY more women in my mid-late 30's than I ever did in my 20's. I didn't have the confidence, I didn't have my style, I didn't know who I was in my 20's.

Now I'm confident, extremely successful, good style, disciplined in the gym for most of my life, 6'2 so I mog most of you, and attractive. The dating apps are stupid but I get tons of matches on them, I even got banned from hinge because so many girls would get butthurt that I wasn't into them they'd report me, and apparently Hinge will just straight up ban you for that...cuz god forbid women ever get ghosted / rejected. I crush it on Bumble, and anytime I get out of the Bay Area which is easily the hardest dating market in the US, my phone completely explodes with matches. I was in a Bar in Nashville waiting for a friend, just texting on my phone, and some girl figured out which person I was and sent me sexy pics of her through Bluetooth...just so I would go talk to her. That kind of chit NEVER happened in my 20's.

It's all about putting in the work in your 20's, men have to build themselves up into something, when you walk into a Bar in Nashville with tons of hot chicks and you are a top 3-5% man, you walk in there with a certain confidence, nobody can mog you, nobody can say chit to you, you can literally look around the room an go "Yeah, I'm better than every single person in here". Girls can feel that chit.

But if you look at the stats most people of both genders are fat / obese, men are earning 50k, girls are chunky / not feminine, they are miserable because they have NO IDEA how to find what they really want....love. So they just keep throwing puss@y around at any guy they *think* might be a good prospect, and just hope. They have no idea how to choose men / find what they're looking for. It's really more sad than anything. Men are weak beta simps, and girls are completely lost.

I just keep slaying prime sloots and building wealth
cam you regularly smash college aged sloots?
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I know a 57 year old guy who is still slaying hot 20 year old poon. But he violencemaxxes: former marine, beats up guys half his age in mma fights, tatted the fuk out etc.
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro
Men being in their prime at 40 is the biggest cope i ever heard. You'll be swiping for single moms at that age lmao.
Only young sloots old men with money are able to pull are gold diggers.
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Originally Posted By _zman
A good looking guy in his mid 30s has a better chance with high quality women than any guy in his mid 20s. The key being good looking.

With age comes maturity, money, and experience. If you're talking about just sleeping with women, then that's a whole different scenario. I've gotten more and more attention the older I get from women, high quality women. The younger ones are starting to fade out for me (early 20s). Likely just looking for a bang and don't care about a LTR, so maturity, money and experience matter less.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Ewwww lmao he sounds soooooo gross.
Wtf? Your cartoon avi looks gross as fuk while normally it should be flattering. Go feed your cats and stfu.
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