Update: She came to me to discuss and now says she doesn't even want to go anymore and isn't going. She sounds resentful tho srs. Asked her if she'd want me going on a trip to a party city with one of my boys who is a known cheater and she said no of course not. Was upset at me for "making her choose between me and her best friend of 10 years"

Idk if I can even look at her the same anymore now brahs the damage might be done.

How does she feel about her good friend cheating?

The type of people your gf is friends with should be more concerning than any trip.

One thing I've learned is that women are just like the friends they surround themselves with, even if you think they're the exception.

He was over her by then and only met up as a courtesy. Banged her, then basically ignored and ghosted her, and afterward she went back to her hometown and browbeat her boyfriend into proposing to her within months (according to coworker).

She literally got "scared sloot straight."

Asking a forum of 90% incels about anything women related will only result in doomed answers

What kind of fcking girls do you kunts date lmfao

I would pull up to Miami srs, fuk the work event / problem

You’re going to let the work ruin your relationship? Only solution that will leave both happy is if you go. She gets to go in the trip, you get assurance and get to have fun. If she stays she’s going to resent you. If she goes she’s going to sloot, and even if not you’ll be paranoid for life

This is still the only correct answer I’m the thread otherwise relationship fails srs

This is still the only correct answer I’m the thread otherwise relationship fails srs

The correct answer is there's a problem with the relationship if he doesn't feel like he can trust her. I've had gf's I trusted, and others I didn't.

And based on her friend list, I'm suspecting there may be reason to distrust her.

It’s a solid reply I would have to agree , most of these dudes put a lot of things in front of their wives/gfs too often and wonder why they wind up in ****ty situations/broken up with

But for OP his situation is a bit diff because he already said he wouldn’t go now and what he said to her, if he starts backpedaling might work but the gf might have already lost respect for the OP

Best bet is to find another chick who u can trust at this point

Yeah best move now is to not backpedal at all, stand firm, and move past it.

So my gf went to Miami for her best friends bachelorette party a few years ago (before I met her, no cuck)

I met this girlfriend of hers a few months ago and she seemed like a nice girl, now married obviously. Husband was cool too but could tell he is too nice.

My gf knows my thoughts on girls trips (any brah who has fuked enough sluts with bfs/husbands on vacation is wise to this red pill) and is overall a great and very submissive girl who treats me well. Anyway, she mentioned to me a few months ago this same girlfriend of hers is going back to Miami next month for a work trip weekend and she invited my gf to come hang out and stay with her. My gf invited me along to which I initially said yes and we were gonna book our own room and chit but things came up with work so I went against my gut and told her I'll prob just stay home while she goes and stays with her friend in Miami for the weekend.

Well, I question her more about the bachelorette party from 2 years ago and turns out her friend cheated on her fiance (It was only a kiss! riiiiiight lol) I got pissed and told her of course my gut feeling about girls trips is true and that if she wants to go, she can but she'll be going as a single woman. We aren't currently speaking.

Did I do the right thing brahs? Or am I too red pilled? I gotta stick to my guns now either way.

I’m not budging or backpedaling on anything brahs. Thing still aren’t quite back to normal but she did cook me enchiladas and doesn’t seem mad anymore. Lmao

Lmao , good man.

But if u don’t think you can trust her beyond this is it really worth it?

age: 33


it was your turn an now your turn is over. next.

Thanks for the advice incel. Mirin the sopranos quote though

This



lmao, cuck

The correct answer is either leave, or while she's away fuk other sloots in the bed you share - because she's sure as chit gonna be getting railed

You can play this as a beta loser or an alpha dog

How does she feel about her good friend cheating?

The type of people your gf is friends with should be more concerning than any trip.

One thing I've learned is that women are just like the friends they surround themselves with, even if you think they're the exception.

When I was younger I would be concerned about something like this

But now that I’m older I don’t mind…shiyat there are times when I want to head out of town without my girl

But I was loyal when I was younger…now, if I’m not married to the girl then why should I act like I am

She almost justified and rationalized it in a way. "Yea she kissed a guy which is horrible but its not like she fuked Magic Mike or half the city"

Told her that hearing that kind of sloot logic scares me and is the real concern. If she can make those kinds of rationalizations for her friend she can easily do the same for herself.