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08-12-2024, 10:15 AM
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Originally Posted By Maestro⏩
What she fails to explain is that women can live alone because they're making an extra $8kmonth posting pictures of their feet on OF, whereas the guy has to actually go out and get an education and go to a job to make the same amount of money.

If you live in bumphuck Alabama, maybe I can understand this sentiment, but if you're in NY/LA/Miami you'll be hard pressed to find someone truly living alone unless they're making money through degenerate (porn) or illegal (drugs) means.
The women are living alone because they are going into debt and not saving chit. Then they will find a guy who lived not-alone and saved up money to buy a house and live in that.
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08-12-2024, 10:17 AM
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i think the bottom line is that if a woman sees you as someone she wants to sleep with…it's not going to be a huge dealbreaker by itself.
This is all I'm saying. She'll even want you to move in.


If you're a complete bum living at home then yeah woman don't want you.
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08-12-2024, 10:18 AM
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
Telling a woman that you still live with your parents, is like a woman telling a man, that she has three kids.
No it's not Dave. Maybe if the guy is unemployed and ugly.

If the guy is good looking and works a decent job, the woman will 100% want him to move in with her.
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08-12-2024, 10:20 AM
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this stigmatising living with parents is just lol

lots of asians do that and they're the highest earning race in USA. heck, i know an asian banker who lives with his parents while renting out his 1.5m property in the city and he's on the road to financial freedom faster than i will ever be

i wish i could retire early
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08-12-2024, 10:22 AM
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Not all women care about the same things. But in general a high quality woman will be turned off by a grown man that cannot afford to live alone. Not being able to afford basic things like housing and food on a solo budget is a pretty big red flag for a girl that's goal is to be a wife/have your kids.


Girls that are just interested in partying probably won't care so much.Girls that have lower standards of life won't care so much either because in general she's likely poor/from a lower class and just expects people live that way. But then your dealing with a girl that has very low expectations/desires out of life.


I know a lot of decent girls that will DQ a guy based on his living situation. Someone who's goal is marriage/kids/family wants someone they'll be proud to introduce to their family.





There is a big difference between having your mom move in with you and your wife. And being a grown man that cannot afford to leave his moms house.

In one case you can't perform well enough to survive alone. In the other case you perform so well you are able to take care of aging parents.

This economy is crazy, cost of rent, food, and gas is high. Are women doing much better they will look down on a man living at home? If she likes the guy and he makes a decent salary, chances are she wants him to move in.
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08-12-2024, 10:23 AM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
This is all I'm saying. She'll even want you to move in.


If you're a complete bum living at home then yeah woman don't want you.
yeah the dudes that can easily get women don't even worry about stuff like this. they already know they'll get women regardless of what they say or do. the dudes that are average or below worry about it because they know they have to check a lot of boxes to make women more open to them.
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08-12-2024, 10:27 AM
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The women who care if you have a roommate are probably overtly entitled and kinda expect "princess" treatment, IMO. I've never had issues finding a quality girl, even back in the day when I lived at home.

Either way — I have a GF, and my best friend is my roommate. We both make more than most of these princesses, anyways.

That, plus the fact they couldn't afford our rent in the first place (unless they are apart of the top 10% in terms of income, I guess).
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08-12-2024, 10:37 AM
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Who cares what sloots think?
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08-12-2024, 10:39 AM
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Who cares what sloots think?
simping is popular now. get into the mind of an irrational creature and try realllllly hard to give it what you think it wants.
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08-12-2024, 10:45 AM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
I'm not sure what you have against me Dave. I work a full time salary job, looking for another for more pay. I'm not a bum living in a basement leeching off a 92 yr old woman.

I'm simply stating an observation. I understand it's hard for some guys to understand, but that's how the game can go with you look good.
Because you're full of ****, these people still living at home, aren't making bank, they don't have hundreds of thousands in savings, it's just a fantasy you made up.
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08-12-2024, 10:48 AM
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
Because you're full of ****, these people still living at home, aren't making bank, they don't have hundreds of thousands in savings, it's just a fantasy you made up.
What's so hard to believe about a good looking man making $75k living at home being asked by a woman to move in with her?

If you're a broke bum living at home, yeah no woman wants you. If you make a decent salary and are good looking she will overlook the fact that you live at home
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08-12-2024, 10:49 AM
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
Because you're full of ****, these people still living at home, aren't making bank, they don't have hundreds of thousands in savings, it's just a fantasy you made up.
some do some don't…no different than people renting a $2k apartment not having a pot to piss in other than an obligation to pay rent.
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08-12-2024, 10:50 AM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
What's so hard to believe about a good looking man making $75k living at home being asked by a woman to move in with her?

If you're a broke bum living at home, yeah no woman wants you. If you make a decent salary and are good looking she will overlook the fact that you live at home
even being broke living at home there are definitely women that will want you if you look good enough.
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08-12-2024, 10:51 AM
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
Youre bragging about this???
It's a really sweet set up by southern English standards.
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08-12-2024, 06:09 PM
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Originally Posted By forthenoodz⏩
this stigmatising living with parents is just lol

lots of asians do that and they're the highest earning race in USA. heck, i know an asian banker who lives with his parents while renting out his 1.5m property in the city and he's on the road to financial freedom faster than i will ever be

i wish i could retire early
Nothing screams provider, and protector like a man living at home with mommy…….
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08-12-2024, 06:11 PM
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What's so hard to believe about a good looking man making $75k living at home being asked by a woman to move in with her?

If you're a broke bum living at home, yeah no woman wants you. If you make a decent salary and are good looking she will overlook the fact that you live at home
No woman wants to hear, "Hey, can we go back to your place, I still live with mommy……"
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08-12-2024, 06:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
No woman wants to hear, "Hey, can we go back to your place, I still live with mommy……"

That's why you go to her place…..
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08-13-2024, 12:45 AM
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Originally Posted By Paul Kreul⏩
How can you only afford a 1500 mortgage? What do you do for a living?

I make just shy of 6 figures.

I'm not going to be paying a mortage more than $2k a month. I'm not going to become a slave to my job.

There is no home that can offer a mortgage of $1500 unless I save an abundance amount of downpayment. Which is what I'm doing right now.
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08-13-2024, 12:48 AM
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If you’re living with your parents or a room mate after your 20’s it’s over .
My neighbours kid is a 45 years old unemployed drug addicted sloth drunken Mongolian that lives in her basement rent free .
His mom let him have a dog , dog gets knocked up now they have 3 .
Unfortunately he doesn’t like cleaning up dog chit so they usually only do it once a few hundred pounds have accumulated.
If you don’t have your chit together after your 20’s your most likely a loser like my neighbour
this is literally bad advice. You can live with your folks if you have a high income job and can save for a downpayment. If you'd rather move out and double your time needed to save, you are literally cucking yourself. You can enjoy life independently yes but you have to choose that or buying a house.
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08-13-2024, 12:49 AM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Chad can still live in his grandma's basement and a career woman will still choose him over a pajeet doctor living in a mansion.

Looks and Charisma will take you extremely far
If chad is not alrready at some career womans luxury condo before his 30s, he is no chad.
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08-13-2024, 12:51 AM
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this is literally bad advice. You can live with your folks if you have a high income job and can save for a downpayment. If you'd rather move out and double your time needed to save, you are literally cucking yourself. You can enjoy life independently yes but you have to choose that or buying a house.
Theres way too many variables. if he is comfortably living with his parents and he gets along well with his parents than okay, but thats mostly not the case, there will be always be some stigma over someone overstaying at their parents home , even from their parents. No one is proud of a loser son. Any of the actually good parents would of help get their son their own place way before their 30s.
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08-13-2024, 12:55 AM
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Theres way too many variables. if he is comfortably living with his parents and he gets along well with his parents than okay, but thats mostly not the case, there will be always be some stigma over someone overstaying at their parents home , even from their parents. No one is proud of a loser son. Any of the actually good parents would of help get their son their own place way before their 30s.
unfortunately its the opposite for asian households, they'd rather have you live with them for the time being
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08-13-2024, 12:58 AM
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unfortunately its the opposite for asian households, they'd rather have you live with them for the time being
Thats because they like the control it comes with. Nothing is free in life.
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08-13-2024, 02:38 AM
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would rather be broke living on my own than saving money living with parents srs
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08-13-2024, 03:39 AM
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would rather be broke living on my own than saving money living with parents srs
Would rather live on the street than with my parents srs
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08-13-2024, 08:34 AM
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Wait, you guys claim that this is the norm in Asian households, and the next thing you read about, is how they're under-populated, and how the men are pretty much incels.

So maybe you should stop using them as examples.
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08-13-2024, 08:35 AM
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Would rather live on the street than with my parents srs
Nothing like needing to use the bathroom, and you can't, because it's occupied by mommy.
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08-13-2024, 08:43 AM
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would rather be broke living on my own than saving money living with parents srs
This srs

Rather pay half my income to have a nice spot to myself.
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08-13-2024, 09:46 AM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
This economy is crazy, cost of rent, food, and gas is high. Are women doing much better they will look down on a man living at home? If she likes the guy and he makes a decent salary, chances are she wants him to move in.
Women aren't expected to live alone or be able to afford to fund a family. And I don't know of any guys who cares if a girl has room mates or still live with her parents. I might argue a girl that lives with her mom and dad and has a good relationship with them is more likely to be wife material.


For men its just age dependent. At a certain age still living with parents or room mates is kind of looked down upon. But at the same time 'struggling' financially because you live alone ain't great either. In my experience a lot of girls kind of expect guys to be financially stable/independent. Especially when he's in his 30s.


I was single/dating casually into my early 30s. Some of the girls I dated/hooked up with were 18-24. They come over to a guys house that's over 30. They kind of expect a nice truck in the drive-way and a nice/fully furnished home that I live alone in. It wasn't impressive to them. It was normal and expected. They wouldn't have cared if I'd have had a nice apartment either. But a nice home is a status symbol for a single brah.
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08-13-2024, 10:21 AM
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Women aren't expected to live alone or be able to afford to fund a family. And I don't know of any guys who cares if a girl has room mates or still live with her parents. I might argue a girl that lives with her mom and dad and has a good relationship with them is more likely to be wife material.


For men its just age dependent. At a certain age still living with parents or room mates is kind of looked down upon. But at the same time 'struggling' financially because you live alone ain't great either. In my experience a lot of girls kind of expect guys to be financially stable/independent. Especially when he's in his 30s.


I was single/dating casually into my early 30s. Some of the girls I dated/hooked up with were 18-24. They come over to a guys house that's over 30. They kind of expect a nice truck in the drive-way and a nice/fully furnished home that I live alone in. It wasn't impressive to them. It was normal and expected. They wouldn't have cared if I'd have had a nice apartment either. But a nice home is a status symbol for a single brah.
If I met a girl in her 30s, who was living at home and broke, red flags would be going off.
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