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08-19-2024, 02:27 AM
#91
Originally Posted By IPoopStandingUp⏩
I tried reddit again after years of not going on there, and I made one post in the photography sub and they immediately permabanned me lol
I tried to visit reddit a couple of times but hated all of the users that weren't hidden at the bottom of the threads.
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08-19-2024, 02:30 AM
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35f here and I’ve just about lost hope. Younger guys look at me as a cougar. Older guys look at me as too old. Guys my age are settled down and starting families. I just don’t feel like I fit in anywhere. Even my friends have moved out of state.
I used to be really pretty but aging has got the best of me these past 3 years. I fear I wasted my opportunity of being born attractive (this isn’t to flex, it’s just a fact of life because pretty people have it easier with dating). I wasted my youth and beauty dating a guy who didn’t commit and left me traumatized. So now I’m just sitting here regretting all my decisions and seeing my dream of motherhood die with each year. Unfortunately I wasn’t smart and never established a good career either. Sigh…
I used to be really pretty but aging has got the best of me these past 3 years. I fear I wasted my opportunity of being born attractive (this isn’t to flex, it’s just a fact of life because pretty people have it easier with dating). I wasted my youth and beauty dating a guy who didn’t commit and left me traumatized. So now I’m just sitting here regretting all my decisions and seeing my dream of motherhood die with each year. Unfortunately I wasn’t smart and never established a good career either. Sigh…
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08-19-2024, 02:38 AM
#93
Originally Posted By coast2coastam⏩
This is why after college women should only stay in dating relationships one year max. If after one year the guy still does not propose then end it and move on. Do not waste more than a year on a guy who won’t commit.
I feel bad for girls like this who weren't sloots, but got dumped in their 30s after some guy strung them along for years.
08-19-2024, 02:40 AM
#94
Originally Posted By Silence2⏩
Were/are they a good, loyal partner? Did they give me their virginity and youth?
Actually same question for all men ITT that hate older women. What are you going to do when your wife ages?
08-19-2024, 02:42 AM
#95
35 isn't that old though. When you get to mid 40s, that's when you get older
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08-19-2024, 02:58 AM
#96
Originally Posted By Silence2⏩
dont ignore me u dumb hoar
This is why after college women should only stay in dating relationships one year max. If after one year the guy still does not propose then end it and move on. Do not waste more than a year on a guy who won’t commit.
08-19-2024, 03:06 AM
#97
Originally Posted By Drop40lbs⏩
Yeah sure buddy
Were/are they a good, loyal partner? Did they give me their virginity and youth?
08-19-2024, 03:37 AM
#98
Originally Posted By NMS3⏩
mid 30s/early 40s are the same but now with a child they rushed to have for selfish reasons of wanting a baby - not build a family with a specific man (maybe 1 in 100)
Something I’ve noticed on the apps is that the sloots that have the most long list of demands on their prompts or bios are the same sloots that are usually near or past 30. Coincidence?
I don’t feel sorry for them. You reap what you sow sometimes. We as men have to work on ourselves 24/7 to become hvm, and these sloots cry when they have no shame for themselves because it’s never their fault apparently.
I don’t feel sorry for them. You reap what you sow sometimes. We as men have to work on ourselves 24/7 to become hvm, and these sloots cry when they have no shame for themselves because it’s never their fault apparently.
08-19-2024, 03:39 AM
#99
Originally Posted By Silence2⏩
i'd love them forever and ever srs
Yeah sure buddy
08-19-2024, 03:46 AM
#100
Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
35 isn't that old though
. When you get to mid 40s, that's when you get older
It actually is
And thats just if they plan on having 1 kid, it practically rules out having more. What a 3rd kid at 40? 100% chance of future miscer
Single childless women late 20s and 30+ who want kids don't have many options
Generally as a minimum they're not gonna date a guy who
*doesnt want kids
*is younger than them
*poor
So then looking at the guys left over they have these options:
1) successful Chads
good luck lol
compete against every stacey who is younger than her
successful Chads own the dating market, they got the looks and the money. any girl they want.
May not even want kids or to settle down
2) Successful grinders/some miscers
Guys who were **** on earlier in the dating market and still haven't been taken yet
Now successful, fit
Generally smart guys who weren't born with looks but highly ambitious with strong self discipline
They're not gonna choose a used up roastie
If you've achieved success in every other aspect of life, why would you compromise on one of the most important ones
3) manchilds or failed Chads
Poor, unsuccessful, going no where in life
lets be honest they're not gonna choose these guys
4) Much older Divorcees, single dads
May not even want anymore children
Personally in 2) and know a few guys also in 2). We all know if you do the maths and you want multiple kids she can't even really be late 20s
These guys aren't gonna risk everything and have a kid with a girl he's known for less than 2-3 years
They're finally getting attention from the 20yo girls they didn't get much attention from when they were younger
They want kids but they're gonna choose wisely, making smart decisions like they did in their 20s to get to such a successful position in life
I also know a lot of guys in 3), these women are basically going to be baby sitting a guy who never got his **** together
you know the type, stoners, lazy, wastes all his spare time, more or less lives the same life they lived when they were 20.
unambitious
Sure some of these women will land one of the guys in 1) or 2)
but there are way more women who want those guys than guys who would take those older women
On average most will be left out
Lets not forget most of these women are fat too lol
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08-19-2024, 04:05 AM
#101
Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
Smarter than waiting for marriage to have kids. If you want a kid and you’re 30+ just have them without marriage.
mid 30s/early 40s are the same but now with a child they rushed to have for selfish reasons of wanting a baby - not build a family with a specific man (maybe 1 in 100)
Of course having kids after marriage is ideal but once you hit 30 that ship has sailed so you’re better off just having kids anyway.
08-19-2024, 04:28 AM
#102
Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
I'm 39, and during the past year is when I finally started feeling like my body was aging. But this is the hardest and most consistent I've ever worked out before(while also having demanding times with my business), so it could just be stress.
35 isn't that old though. When you get to mid 40s, that's when you get older
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08-19-2024, 04:51 AM
#103
To be fair, there's plenty of girls who slooted it up and still got married and have families. Some of them just got shyt outta luck.
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08-19-2024, 05:08 AM
#104
Originally Posted By OneLegSquats⏩
many have that in their bio. that they are looking for marriage and kids, no time wasters (been there done that. no fk boys)
I had a 33 year old chick on Bumble open with 'So when are we getting married and having kids?'. It was such a massive turn off that she basically admitted that's all that's on her mind because she's hitting the wall. I hit back with 'Bold of you to assume that would ever happen, your bj skills would have to be better than a pron stars', and she got mighty butthurt about it
08-19-2024, 05:19 AM
#105
Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Yeah prob just stress. If you switch to a low stress lifestyle with lots of sleep and stay fit you’ll feel young forever.
I'm 39, and during the past year is when I finally started feeling like my body was aging. But this is the hardest and most consistent I've ever worked out before(while also having demanding times with my business), so it could just be stress.
I’m 51 and feel literally the same as at 21 srs no physical issues at all.
08-19-2024, 06:17 AM
#106
Originally Posted By Silence2⏩
yeah sounds great for the child. a single parent household where mom will be bringing new guys in to smash her after a couple of years - once the new motherhood experience has worn offer and she needs to feel something new again (multiple chadlites cawks in her emptying their nuts in her butthole). hedonism to have a child - selfish reasons like everything the modern woman does
Smarter than waiting for marriage to have kids. If you want a kid and you’re 30+ just have them without marriage.
Of course having kids after marriage is ideal but once you hit 30 that ship has sailed so you’re better off just having kids anyway.
Of course having kids after marriage is ideal but once you hit 30 that ship has sailed so you’re better off just having kids anyway.
not to build a family and sacrifice
modern sloots really need to be shamed again like the good old days
you know in the UK, some sloot politician is now pushing a law for online misogyny that men could end up in prison for making comments speaking facts and reality - because sloots cannot handle the truth, or any criticism
08-19-2024, 06:29 AM
#107
Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
Raising a child in a solid marriage is 100% the ideal situation.
yeah sounds great for the child. a single parent household where mom will be bringing new guys in to smash her after a couple of years - once the new motherhood experience has worn offer and she needs to feel something new again (multiple chadlites cawks in her emptying their nuts in her butthole). hedonism to have a child - selfish reasons like everything the modern woman does
not to build a family and sacrifice
modern sloots really need to be shamed again like the good old days
you know in the UK, some sloot politician is now pushing a law for online misogyny that men could end up in prison for making comments speaking facts and reality - because sloots cannot handle the truth, or any criticism
not to build a family and sacrifice
modern sloots really need to be shamed again like the good old days
you know in the UK, some sloot politician is now pushing a law for online misogyny that men could end up in prison for making comments speaking facts and reality - because sloots cannot handle the truth, or any criticism
HOWEVER if you are over 30 and want kids it’s much better to just have them instead of waiting for a marriage that may never come.
08-19-2024, 06:30 AM
#108
Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
Well that’s what they should be looking for right?
many have that in their bio. that they are looking for marriage and kids, no time wasters (been there done that. no fk boys)
08-19-2024, 06:35 AM
#109
Jesus christ those tiktok videos…
I'd say 9 out of 10 women would kill themselves within weeks if they had to deal with what men deal with in life.
I'd say 9 out of 10 women would kill themselves within weeks if they had to deal with what men deal with in life.
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08-19-2024, 06:52 AM
#110
Originally Posted By Silence2⏩
they had their whole 20s to find a good man.
Well that’s what they should be looking for right?
at 30+ no fks given if they are used now for pumping and dumping by guys.
those men that do that built themselves up over years to be in the position they are in - unless they have natural charisma and boyish good looks like your man AWillis where the panties get moist and drop pretty much instantly
but yes, those men that are 30+ don't owe these women anything. no one promised older sloots that prince charming will be waiting for them after get tired of their career and getting slammed by a new cawk every month of the calendar year - for years
as for your comment about they should have kid if they are 30 and not worry about marriage. how about just not have a child? you didn't give a fk all these years, now acting on feelings and emotion again. just get a gold fish.
off topic - it is good now that in Florida a new law is being passed where alimony is getting cancelled on a case by case basis - not paid to these sloots - if they cannot prove they actually need it. hopefully that spreads to all states. it affects older sloots that divorced a man and took half his sh*t, but for sure will save a lot of young brothers in the future
08-19-2024, 06:55 AM
#111
for the UK censorship
08-19-2024, 07:10 AM
#112
Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
This chick's post history is fantastic.
Yeah I need to see a picture. I bet money she's fat.
She's also $60k in debt not counting student loans while wanting to move to L.A. woman is a train wreck
https://www.reddit.com/r/personalfinance/s/gKrrKS8X8k
She's also $60k in debt not counting student loans while wanting to move to L.A. woman is a train wreck
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Hello,
SOOOO…
I got into Love after Lockup. For kicks, I looked up personals ad. I reached out to an inmate that had a high profile case (he was on the news for a dark web scandal). He was a doctor. He's been in jail a little over a year now.
His ad was written pretty well. I sent a greeting card, I introduced myself, I touched on the reason I found him was because Love After Lock Up.
There is a woman posting on YT about writing him already and "they're in a relationship." So I didn't include that I knew her but said, I'm offering my friendship and want to to respect any relationships he has. I joked that I knew he's probably getting marriage proposals every day.
I touched on that we are both in the medical field. He's older by about 20 years. (30s to 50s).
I did explain I wrote a lot about myself but it was to introduce myself to see if he felt there could be a connection worth writing back to.
I left my email, and mailing address. I knew all about his case but didn't let him know any of that.
I asked him not to share my info as I wouldn't be writing any other inmates.
I included no photo but described myself as a petite brunette.
It's been 1 month almost, what are the chances my letter actually reached him and decided not to reply?
Could the jail not have liked I am reaching out to him and that I don't personally know him? Seemed odd I didn't even get a reply, thoughts….??
SOOOO…
I got into Love after Lockup. For kicks, I looked up personals ad. I reached out to an inmate that had a high profile case (he was on the news for a dark web scandal). He was a doctor. He's been in jail a little over a year now.
His ad was written pretty well. I sent a greeting card, I introduced myself, I touched on the reason I found him was because Love After Lock Up.
There is a woman posting on YT about writing him already and "they're in a relationship." So I didn't include that I knew her but said, I'm offering my friendship and want to to respect any relationships he has. I joked that I knew he's probably getting marriage proposals every day.
I touched on that we are both in the medical field. He's older by about 20 years. (30s to 50s).
I did explain I wrote a lot about myself but it was to introduce myself to see if he felt there could be a connection worth writing back to.
I left my email, and mailing address. I knew all about his case but didn't let him know any of that.
I asked him not to share my info as I wouldn't be writing any other inmates.
I included no photo but described myself as a petite brunette.
It's been 1 month almost, what are the chances my letter actually reached him and decided not to reply?
Could the jail not have liked I am reaching out to him and that I don't personally know him? Seemed odd I didn't even get a reply, thoughts….??
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08-19-2024, 07:23 AM
#113
As much as y'all talk about the wall, its just a fantasy dude. Women will always be able to get dudes no matter how they look lmao. They will just start dating 7/10's instead of 10/10's when they get older. There are always levels to this life. Men get royally shafted whether they are 10/10's or 1/10's because its WAY harder… men are disposable, women are put on a pedestal unless they are literally -1/10 pigs.
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08-19-2024, 07:25 AM
#114
Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
It's crazy how they don't understand what a turn off/bad deal that is to men "yeah I slooted around when I was younger and hotter, but now I want to be taken seriously and 'treated right'/'no time for games' now that I'm older and used up".
many have that in their bio. that they are looking for marriage and kids, no time wasters (been there done that. no fk boys)
08-19-2024, 07:25 AM
#115
Originally Posted By IPoopStandingUp⏩
Over the past 5 years, the number of bots on reddit has skyrocketed.
I tried to visit reddit a couple of times but hated all of the users that weren't hidden at the bottom of the threads.
I wouldn't be surprised to find the ratio of fake-to-real users is 5:1.
Just look at /r/pics
Supposedly has 30+ million members.
Mostly propaganda pictures that get 100k+ thumbs up within minutes.
Reddit is a liberal propaganda machine and porn.
It's also owned by one of the world's richest jews. ded fkn srs.
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08-19-2024, 07:27 AM
#116
Originally Posted By Jms89⏩
It's all about the sloots' asking price for their snatch. They can find dudes who want a one night stand at the drop of a hat. They can't find dudes willing to marry them and give them children within a year and pay off $60k of their personal debt when they're 38 years old.
As much as y'all talk about the wall, its just a fantasy dude. Women will always be able to get dudes no matter how they look lmao. They will just start dating 7/10's instead of 10/10's when they get older. There are always levels to this life. Men get royally shafted whether they are 10/10's or 1/10's because its WAY harder… men are disposable, women are put on a pedestal unless they are literally -1/10 pigs.
It's like Domino's. If they offered a free pizza day, there'd be a line of 200 people out the door. If they charged $50 for a pepperoni pan, they wouldn't get a single sale in months.
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08-19-2024, 07:40 AM
#117
Originally Posted By tendies⏩
cliffs:
- always bet on wall
compared to what? As bad as the wall is for them they still reject 90% of men lol. They are still choosing to be alone
cliffs:
- always bet on wall
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08-19-2024, 07:41 AM
#118
Women don't want relationships.
They want to constantly chase so things better than them.
This is literally the first lesson the desert sand people wrote about in the old testament 5000 years ago.
The moral of the story is that women could be in literal paradise and women will still want "more", even if what more is is not clearly defined.
Original sin was not eve eating the apple, it was Adam not telling his wife NO and giving up leadership.
They want to constantly chase so things better than them.
This is literally the first lesson the desert sand people wrote about in the old testament 5000 years ago.
The moral of the story is that women could be in literal paradise and women will still want "more", even if what more is is not clearly defined.
Original sin was not eve eating the apple, it was Adam not telling his wife NO and giving up leadership.
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08-19-2024, 07:42 AM
#119
Originally Posted By Polaris⏩
Nail on the head. I don't buy into a lot of the redpill/stuff you hear on the misc tbh because it's so unrealistic and ridiculous. But it's literally just a natural feeling for a man to be extremely put off by the 'full on ness' of their proposal. It just makes you think, 'Why couldn't you find that in the past 10 years or more?', so naturally you come to the conclusion that there must be something severely wrong with her which makes her not LTR suitable which is a huge red flag. It isn't even redpill, it's just the basics of finding a partner 101.
It's crazy how they don't understand what a turn off/bad deal that is to men "yeah I slooted around when I was younger and hotter, but now I want to be taken seriously and 'treated right'/'no time for games' now that I'm older and used up".
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08-19-2024, 07:50 AM
#120
Originally Posted By OneLegSquats⏩
Now that I'm almost fifty I just stopped caring how many guys a woman has been with in the past, as long as she's slooty with me as well. I sort of assume that all of them went through a whoring phase, and some of them are still in it. It's pretty easy to dig out. I've even gone through girls' phones I'm dating when they show me and laughed at the amount of desperate guys they leave hanging or are messaging while they are letting me rail them.
Nail on the head. I don't buy into a lot of the redpill/stuff you hear on the misc tbh because it's so unrealistic and ridiculous. But it's literally just a natural feeling for a man to be extremely put off by the 'full on ness' of their proposal. It just makes you think, 'Why couldn't you find that in the past 10 years or more?', so naturally you come to the conclusion that there must be something severely wrong with her which makes her not LTR suitable which is a huge red flag. It isn't even redpill, it's just the basics of finding a partner 101.
They have to give up sex in order to snag a man properly, and they all know that now. So if anyone holds out at all I just say see ya, next. Sorry, I can get laid anytime I like, you're nothing special just because you have a vagina.
And yes, if they are in their late 30's and never had a serious committed relationship, there's a reason. I have no problem with divorced women, but I also know a ton that are divorced and have been single for fifteen years, and there's a very clear reason. 95% of them are damaged beyond repair.
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