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08-21-2024, 11:51 AM
#91
Did you ask her why she chose a male trainer? I've never used a personal trainer but from what i've been able to see, you can choose who you want to train you (male/female) because their portraits are usually in the gym office or front desk.
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08-21-2024, 12:02 PM
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Forget the male PT. She's 40, wtf are you doing with her in the first place? You've already been with her 3 years, so you're not going to marry and have children. What's the point in the relationship? Is she a stand in mummy for you? You have mummy issues?
Break up with her and go get a gf in her 20s, either just to smash or marry and impregnate.
Break up with her and go get a gf in her 20s, either just to smash or marry and impregnate.
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08-21-2024, 12:09 PM
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Has to be a roll bread, no way a 2010 join date is this naive. And 35 years old. Okay.
08-21-2024, 12:26 PM
#94
Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
Better you find out now. I'd still tell her it makes you feel uncomfortable. If she calls you insecure, end it srs
Okay so I tell her , no more male personal train
Then she’ll probably turn it around and say I’m controlling
Don’t think the relationship is recoverable
Then she’ll probably turn it around and say I’m controlling
Don’t think the relationship is recoverable
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08-21-2024, 12:27 PM
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Updates from Op?
IF YOU DONT SQUAT, YOU AINT SQUAT
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08-21-2024, 06:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Legendsneverdie⏩
He’s currently in the corner jerkin his smol pecker using tears as lube while the PT fella stretches out his girl.
Updates from Op?
OP’s gf: “STOP BEING JEALOUS THIS IS JUST CARDIO!”
He’ll be back later
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08-21-2024, 07:01 PM
#97
Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
I was in the gym today and an old black guy was training a very pretty white girl.
Obviously don’t want to be a cuck
Don’t think she’s cheating, cheating or going on any dates , call her few times everyday, every afternoon /evening
Went to gym first time with her , when she had personal training session with the PT
End the end of the sessions he was helping her ‘stretch to cool down’ and massaging out her back and neck muscles….not her glutes or anything like that but I’d break up straight away if I saw her any type of sensual touching
I got seriously pissed although knew in the back on my mind this kind of contact must be happening
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How do you think I should handle it going forward? Should I leave
I really doubt she’s cheating, but it’s disrespectful as fk , to have a MP and if i kick up a massive fuss, she’ll just say I’m being insecure
I don’t want some other dude touching her body and massaging her
Females miscers response also welcome
Don’t think she’s cheating, cheating or going on any dates , call her few times everyday, every afternoon /evening
Went to gym first time with her , when she had personal training session with the PT
End the end of the sessions he was helping her ‘stretch to cool down’ and massaging out her back and neck muscles….not her glutes or anything like that but I’d break up straight away if I saw her any type of sensual touching
I got seriously pissed although knew in the back on my mind this kind of contact must be happening
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Don’t want stupid replies
How do you think I should handle it going forward? Should I leave
I really doubt she’s cheating, but it’s disrespectful as fk , to have a MP and if i kick up a massive fuss, she’ll just say I’m being insecure
I don’t want some other dude touching her body and massaging her
Females miscers response also welcome
I have seen him in action times and he's never doing anything weird and is very professional.
So, what was this guy like?
Was he a type your gf would get sucked in by?
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08-21-2024, 07:07 PM
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I've seen this porno before
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08-21-2024, 07:16 PM
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Lol peace
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08-21-2024, 07:30 PM
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Dude, he's banging her or best case scenario he isn't but he will soon.
Either way, your gf is a whore and doesn't respect you.
Either way, your gf is a whore and doesn't respect you.
08-21-2024, 07:33 PM
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It’s real simple OP, if you have a woman that would pick a male personal trainer, you have the wrong woman.
Listen now or pay later, your choice.
Listen now or pay later, your choice.
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08-21-2024, 07:40 PM
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You're ovbiously getting cucked
She also has no respect for your lifting abilities or fitness knowledge to want some other dude to teach her
She also has no respect for your lifting abilities or fitness knowledge to want some other dude to teach her
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08-21-2024, 07:48 PM
#103
Originally Posted By PenorBrahNoHomo⏩
Wait, op is dating a female 5 years older?
Forget the male PT. She's 40, wtf are you doing with her in the first place? You've already been with her 3 years, so you're not going to marry and have children. What's the point in the relationship? Is she a stand in mummy for you? You have mummy issues?
Break up with her and go get a gf in her 20s, either just to smash or marry and impregnate.
Break up with her and go get a gf in her 20s, either just to smash or marry and impregnate.
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08-21-2024, 07:48 PM
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Why does she need a trainer???
She's 40 years old and needs a personal trainer?
She's 40 years old and needs a personal trainer?
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08-21-2024, 09:57 PM
#105
Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
did you do it?
Going to have to leave her I think
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08-21-2024, 10:03 PM
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Lol imagine you use a PT
He holds your hands to help you stretch afterwards and gently massages your neck.
There is no need to touch for stretching. Not a PT job, doing it in public 1,000,000% means he tries more in private because there is no need at all to do it.
He holds your hands to help you stretch afterwards and gently massages your neck.
There is no need to touch for stretching. Not a PT job, doing it in public 1,000,000% means he tries more in private because there is no need at all to do it.
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08-21-2024, 10:15 PM
#107
Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
Ok, she got the PT with the idea you were not exclusive, whether admitting it or not.
No children , sex 1x a week or 1x a fortnight lol
Don’t live with each other but video call each other a lot everyday
Don’t live with each other but video call each other a lot everyday
Idk the point of a relationship with a 40/yo you described.
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08-21-2024, 10:42 PM
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Originally Posted By 1Yalething⏩
PT would have convinced her its necessary, probbaly made up some BS that he knows the right technique to make her lose fat fast with the right stretches
Lol imagine you use a PT
He holds your hands to help you stretch afterwards and gently massages your neck.
There is no need to touch for stretching. Not a PT job, doing it in public 1,000,000% means he tries more in private because there is no need at all to do it.
He holds your hands to help you stretch afterwards and gently massages your neck.
There is no need to touch for stretching. Not a PT job, doing it in public 1,000,000% means he tries more in private because there is no need at all to do it.
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08-21-2024, 10:51 PM
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What kind of phaqqotry is this? My woman wouldn't even consider having a male personal trainer lmao. You guys need to find religious girls. Modern feminist thots are just fuktoys.
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08-21-2024, 11:01 PM
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I sort of get this.
I wouldn't want some jacked guy spending an hour with my gf either, especially during intense moments like exercise and where he's coaching her. It's just prime time for flirting/attraction.
I wouldn't want some jacked guy spending an hour with my gf either, especially during intense moments like exercise and where he's coaching her. It's just prime time for flirting/attraction.
08-21-2024, 11:04 PM
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Oh, OP, you asked for advice.
I'd just approach it head on. If she only has a few sessions left, just let it happen. If she has a lot, just ask if she understands that you'd be more comfortable with a female personal trainer.
Weigh your options. It's not ideal that she didn't think of this, a great girl wouldn't have put you in this situation. Or go with her once, assess if he's a threat. Maybe he's an ugly brah with no game and you're fine.
I'd just approach it head on. If she only has a few sessions left, just let it happen. If she has a lot, just ask if she understands that you'd be more comfortable with a female personal trainer.
Weigh your options. It's not ideal that she didn't think of this, a great girl wouldn't have put you in this situation. Or go with her once, assess if he's a threat. Maybe he's an ugly brah with no game and you're fine.
08-21-2024, 11:52 PM
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This reminds me of another thread just this week where some chick with a boyfriends sucked off her personal trainer near the end of the end
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08-22-2024, 12:57 AM
#113
Originally Posted By SuperHercules⏩
This. I feel like at this age unless you are. King it together that is stupid. It’s a total lack of respect for a woman to get another male to train her unless you were just a fat lazy bum and she needed help for her own self esteem or unless you worked all day and she was just the social type. If you actually workout there every guy in there will think less of you and probably throw passes at your girl. I know that feeling though and they will put guilt trips in you but she is probably the type that will eventually sleep with another person after like the first fight
You're ovbiously getting cucked
She also has no respect for your lifting abilities or fitness knowledge to want some other dude to teach her
She also has no respect for your lifting abilities or fitness knowledge to want some other dude to teach her
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08-22-2024, 01:41 AM
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Originally Posted By Paul Kreul⏩
i will head this advice, thank you
It’s real simple OP, if you have a woman that would pick a male personal trainer, you have the wrong woman.
Listen now or pay later, your choice.
Listen now or pay later, your choice.
Going NC is hard though because she has also been my 'best friend' and did stuff with her nearly every weekend like go beach etc.
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08-22-2024, 02:17 AM
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Well I talked to her about it
She said nearly all PTs in gym are male (probably true from what I saw but maybe a few females there also)
And this PT was first one to sign her up for a trial so she said she went with him
She said he’s gay and has boyfriend (who knows if it’s true or if she’s lying though)
She also said she will stop sessions soon anyway because not enough money (but who also knows if true)
Now it feels like I’m micromanaging and controlling the relationship lol which is never good.
She said nearly all PTs in gym are male (probably true from what I saw but maybe a few females there also)
And this PT was first one to sign her up for a trial so she said she went with him
She said he’s gay and has boyfriend (who knows if it’s true or if she’s lying though)
She also said she will stop sessions soon anyway because not enough money (but who also knows if true)
Now it feels like I’m micromanaging and controlling the relationship lol which is never good.
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08-22-2024, 02:41 AM
#116
Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
Well I talked to her about it
She said nearly all PTs in gym are male (probably true from what I saw but maybe a few females there also)
And this PT was first one to sign her up for a trial so she said she went with him
She said he’s gay and has boyfriend (who knows if it’s true or if she’s lying though)
She also said she will stop sessions soon anyway because not enough money (but who also knows if true)
Now it feels like I’m micromanaging and controlling the relationship lol which is never good.
She said nearly all PTs in gym are male (probably true from what I saw but maybe a few females there also)
And this PT was first one to sign her up for a trial so she said she went with him
She said he’s gay and has boyfriend (who knows if it’s true or if she’s lying though)
She also said she will stop sessions soon anyway because not enough money (but who also knows if true)
Now it feels like I’m micromanaging and controlling the relationship lol which is never good.
There's nothing wrong with sitting in the corner and fapping while watching a dude doggystyle your girl…
I am not a cuck.
08-22-2024, 02:49 AM
#117
Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
Get him to suck your dik to prove it.
Well I talked to her about it
She said he’s gay and has boyfriend (who knows if it’s true or if she’s lying though)
She said he’s gay and has boyfriend (who knows if it’s true or if she’s lying though)
Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
"Damn, he's on to me"
She also said she will stop sessions soon anyway because not enough money (but who also knows if true)
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08-22-2024, 02:56 AM
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Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
You cant be fking srs…
Well I talked to her about it
She said nearly all PTs in gym are male (probably true from what I saw but maybe a few females there also)
And this PT was first one to sign her up for a trial so she said she went with him
She said he’s gay and has boyfriend (who knows if it’s true or if she’s lying though)
She also said she will stop sessions soon anyway because not enough money (but who also knows if true)
Now it feels like I’m micromanaging and controlling the relationship lol which is never good.
She said nearly all PTs in gym are male (probably true from what I saw but maybe a few females there also)
And this PT was first one to sign her up for a trial so she said she went with him
She said he’s gay and has boyfriend (who knows if it’s true or if she’s lying though)
She also said she will stop sessions soon anyway because not enough money (but who also knows if true)
Now it feels like I’m micromanaging and controlling the relationship lol which is never good.
Imma give you a srs answer, its already over, over in the sense that, she doesnt see you as any kind of authoritive figure and has 0 respect for you. She sees you as the lil beta BF, and given the fact youre actually 5 years younger than her and she is fking 40? Bruh ive got no clue wtf you are doing in this situation.
You clearly failed to assert dominance and set boundaries at the beginning of the relationship, and at this point, it wouldn't even matter if you suddenly decided to start acting like a man, cause she would never take it srly.
Youre gonna be in for a real awakening.
Keep hustlin cuz.
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08-22-2024, 03:51 AM
#119
Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
because there’s little chance she is cheating
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08-22-2024, 04:23 AM
#120
Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
Is he a Chad? otherwise prob not a big deal.
I’m not a cuck because there’s little chance she is cheating , I call her morning/evening / every night
It’s not cool though, wtf do Male PT have to massage cooldown on clients anyway
It’s bull****…all Male PTs going to be perming on their clients…male nature
It’s not cool though, wtf do Male PT have to massage cooldown on clients anyway
It’s bull****…all Male PTs going to be perming on their clients…male nature
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