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Thread: Blew up at my gf because of her using a Male personal trainer

post 1705318281 08-21-2024, 12:51 PM
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Did you ask her why she chose a male trainer? I've never used a personal trainer but from what i've been able to see, you can choose who you want to train you (male/female) because their portraits are usually in the gym office or front desk.
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Forget the male PT. She's 40, wtf are you doing with her in the first place? You've already been with her 3 years, so you're not going to marry and have children. What's the point in the relationship? Is she a stand in mummy for you? You have mummy issues?

Break up with her and go get a gf in her 20s, either just to smash or marry and impregnate.
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Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
Okay so I tell her , no more male personal train

Then she’ll probably turn it around and say I’m controlling

Don’t think the relationship is recoverable
Better you find out now. I'd still tell her it makes you feel uncomfortable. If she calls you insecure, end it srs
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post 1705319581 08-21-2024, 01:27 PM
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Updates from Op?
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post 1705333911 08-21-2024, 07:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Legendsneverdie⏩
Updates from Op?
He’s currently in the corner jerkin his smol pecker using tears as lube while the PT fella stretches out his girl.

OP’s gf: “STOP BEING JEALOUS THIS IS JUST CARDIO!”


He’ll be back later
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post 1705334831 08-21-2024, 08:01 PM
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Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
Obviously don’t want to be a cuck

Don’t think she’s cheating, cheating or going on any dates , call her few times everyday, every afternoon /evening

Went to gym first time with her , when she had personal training session with the PT

End the end of the sessions he was helping her ‘stretch to cool down’ and massaging out her back and neck muscles….not her glutes or anything like that but I’d break up straight away if I saw her any type of sensual touching

I got seriously pissed although knew in the back on my mind this kind of contact must be happening

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Don’t want stupid replies

How do you think I should handle it going forward? Should I leave

I really doubt she’s cheating, but it’s disrespectful as fk , to have a MP and if i kick up a massive fuss, she’ll just say I’m being insecure

I don’t want some other dude touching her body and massaging her

Females miscers response also welcome
I was in the gym today and an old black guy was training a very pretty white girl.

I have seen him in action times and he's never doing anything weird and is very professional.

So, what was this guy like?

Was he a type your gf would get sucked in by?
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post 1705335141 08-21-2024, 08:07 PM
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post 1705335991 08-21-2024, 08:33 PM
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It’s real simple OP, if you have a woman that would pick a male personal trainer, you have the wrong woman.

Listen now or pay later, your choice.
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You're ovbiously getting cucked

She also has no respect for your lifting abilities or fitness knowledge to want some other dude to teach her
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post 1705336581 08-21-2024, 08:48 PM
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Originally Posted By PenorBrahNoHomo⏩
Forget the male PT. She's 40, wtf are you doing with her in the first place? You've already been with her 3 years, so you're not going to marry and have children. What's the point in the relationship? Is she a stand in mummy for you? You have mummy issues?

Break up with her and go get a gf in her 20s, either just to smash or marry and impregnate.
Wait, op is dating a female 5 years older?

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post 1705336631 08-21-2024, 08:48 PM
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Why does she need a trainer???

She's 40 years old and needs a personal trainer?
post 1705340311 08-21-2024, 10:57 PM
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Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
Going to have to leave her I think
did you do it?
post 1705340441 08-21-2024, 11:03 PM
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Lol imagine you use a PT

He holds your hands to help you stretch afterwards and gently massages your neck.


There is no need to touch for stretching. Not a PT job, doing it in public 1,000,000% means he tries more in private because there is no need at all to do it.
post 1705340581 08-21-2024, 11:15 PM
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Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
No children , sex 1x a week or 1x a fortnight lol

Don’t live with each other but video call each other a lot everyday
Ok, she got the PT with the idea you were not exclusive, whether admitting it or not.

Idk the point of a relationship with a 40/yo you described.
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Originally Posted By 1Yalething⏩
Lol imagine you use a PT

He holds your hands to help you stretch afterwards and gently massages your neck.


There is no need to touch for stretching. Not a PT job, doing it in public 1,000,000% means he tries more in private because there is no need at all to do it.
PT would have convinced her its necessary, probbaly made up some BS that he knows the right technique to make her lose fat fast with the right stretches
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What kind of phaqqotry is this? My woman wouldn't even consider having a male personal trainer lmao. You guys need to find religious girls. Modern feminist thots are just fuktoys.
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I sort of get this.


I wouldn't want some jacked guy spending an hour with my gf either, especially during intense moments like exercise and where he's coaching her. It's just prime time for flirting/attraction.
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Oh, OP, you asked for advice.


I'd just approach it head on. If she only has a few sessions left, just let it happen. If she has a lot, just ask if she understands that you'd be more comfortable with a female personal trainer.


Weigh your options. It's not ideal that she didn't think of this, a great girl wouldn't have put you in this situation. Or go with her once, assess if he's a threat. Maybe he's an ugly brah with no game and you're fine.
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This reminds me of another thread just this week where some chick with a boyfriends sucked off her personal trainer near the end of the end
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Originally Posted By SuperHercules⏩
You're ovbiously getting cucked

She also has no respect for your lifting abilities or fitness knowledge to want some other dude to teach her
This. I feel like at this age unless you are. King it together that is stupid. It’s a total lack of respect for a woman to get another male to train her unless you were just a fat lazy bum and she needed help for her own self esteem or unless you worked all day and she was just the social type. If you actually workout there every guy in there will think less of you and probably throw passes at your girl. I know that feeling though and they will put guilt trips in you but she is probably the type that will eventually sleep with another person after like the first fight
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Originally Posted By Paul
It’s real simple OP, if you have a woman that would pick a male personal trainer, you have the wrong woman.

Listen now or pay later, your choice.
i will head this advice, thank you

Going NC is hard though because she has also been my 'best friend' and did stuff with her nearly every weekend like go beach etc.
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Well I talked to her about it

She said nearly all PTs in gym are male (probably true from what I saw but maybe a few females there also)

And this PT was first one to sign her up for a trial so she said she went with him

She said he’s gay and has boyfriend (who knows if it’s true or if she’s lying though)

She also said she will stop sessions soon anyway because not enough money (but who also knows if true)

Now it feels like I’m micromanaging and controlling the relationship lol which is never good.
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Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
Well I talked to her about it

She said nearly all PTs in gym are male (probably true from what I saw but maybe a few females there also)

And this PT was first one to sign her up for a trial so she said she went with him

She said he’s gay and has boyfriend (who knows if it’s true or if she’s lying though)

She also said she will stop sessions soon anyway because not enough money (but who also knows if true)

Now it feels like I’m micromanaging and controlling the relationship lol which is never good.
There's nothing wrong with sitting in the corner and fapping while watching a dude doggystyle your girl...





I am not a cuck.
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Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
Well I talked to her about it



She said he’s gay and has boyfriend (who knows if it’s true or if she’s lying though)

Get him to suck your dik to prove it.

Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
She also said she will stop sessions soon anyway because not enough money (but who also knows if true)
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Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
Well I talked to her about it

She said nearly all PTs in gym are male (probably true from what I saw but maybe a few females there also)

And this PT was first one to sign her up for a trial so she said she went with him

She said he’s gay and has boyfriend (who knows if it’s true or if she’s lying though)

She also said she will stop sessions soon anyway because not enough money (but who also knows if true)

Now it feels like I’m micromanaging and controlling the relationship lol which is never good.
You cant be fking srs...

Imma give you a srs answer, its already over, over in the sense that, she doesnt see you as any kind of authoritive figure and has 0 respect for you. She sees you as the lil beta BF, and given the fact youre actually 5 years younger than her and she is fking 40? Bruh ive got no clue wtf you are doing in this situation.

You clearly failed to assert dominance and set boundaries at the beginning of the relationship, and at this point, it wouldn't even matter if you suddenly decided to start acting like a man, cause she would never take it srly.

Youre gonna be in for a real awakening.

Keep hustlin cuz.
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Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
because there’s little chance she is cheating
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Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
I’m not a cuck because there’s little chance she is cheating , I call her morning/evening / every night

It’s not cool though, wtf do Male PT have to massage cooldown on clients anyway

It’s bull****…all Male PTs going to be perming on their clients…male nature
Is he a Chad? otherwise prob not a big deal.
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