final bump of the night.

my pipe dream is to play poker for a living should i do it?

Of course. Life is too short and your existence is too meaningless to not chase after your desires.

lold at the bolded. Has there been anything new with the ass hole at your job?

You did a masterful job at being vague. I had assumed this was a supervisor or someone you were dating. I remember suggesting that you take a stand next time, so that you didn't have to leave whatever it was that you valued; but I'm glad you did something instead of idly standby & accept the circumstances. That is still taking a stand. Can you instantly recognize the moment that someone tests to see what they can get away with?

Cardio before or after a workout? I see a lot of people run before working out. And I usually do mine after lifting.

I was always told after? Will wait for someone more knowledgable than me, lol.

when youre fasted anything is cardio

which is why i lift in fasted state whenever possible

Got a few for you:

1.
I let people step on me far too much. Have had 2/10 whales talk **** to my face and I let it slide. No idea why, but I'm the type to let things build up and then burst.How do I stop people from walking all over me?

2.
I've been told I should consider doing some modelling work by a few people irl and here on the misc. Do you know how I'd get started with this?

im stuck on my bench press what should I do ????

1. The good thing is that you're aware of being a pushover. I use to have this problem as well. Unfortunately, if you're too nice that's blood in the water for a lot of sharks out there. Would you say you're confident? Do you have low self esteem? If you have low self esteem, that would make you an easy target; ESPECIALLY for a 2/10 whale. She should never have the audacity to talk **** in your face and not expect a repercussion. Honestly man, there is no answer other than nipping it in the bud the moment someone tries to test you. There will be a lot of little subtle tests, so try to be attentive enough to sniff it out.

Until you gain that confidence & exude that you do things for your own happiness & generally don't give a fuk; you're going to have to rely on stopping it the moment it happens.

Just remember this: Anything that you allow more than once, no longer makes you a victim. It makes you a volunteer.

2. I'm not sure where you're located so I'll just give you general advice.

- Look up your local agencies and see when they have a casting call. Come in with simple a simple headshot a profile pic, and a full body picture. They don't need to be professionally done. Just have someone takes these photos of you in natural sunlight.

- Apply to all of the agencies of your choosing online, and see if they get back to you.

- join modelmayhem and be a freelancer and with the experience decide if you want to be apart of an agency or not. By that time, you'll have a solid portfolio. A lot of aspiring photographers are willing to take pictures for free.

How often do you lift heavy in the 1-5 Rep Range?

-Take a week break
or
- Change your routine

or

- increase your calories.

Definitely after if you're going to be doing both of them in a short window of time.

I prefer to run early in the morning fasted, and head to the gym in the late afternoon or at night.

If time isnt on your side then just do cardio right after

Ok, thanks Dr!

should I get my gap filled with that bonding **** ? yes or no ? no pic or details atm. Invisalign is way too much and **** actual braces.

I'm all about keeping traits that make you unique, but if it'll make you happier then get it taken care of.

At the end of the day, do what makes you happy, and change the things that don't

id attract more sloots thou no ?

also was thinking about getting jaw implants. I have really good prominent cheekbones but evertime I watch a a7x music video I see my man Brian haner jr and his facial fat levels are ridiculous. I mean yea the dude obviously lifts but he's like 20 % bf and his face is still chiseled.





brb getting jaw implants so I can still retain my facial aesthetics when I dreamer bulk

not that he has implants ^ his fat distribution genetics are just good

I think a lot of people on the misc don't get it. Don't expect an insecure beautiful man to be able to keep a chick. What would attract sloots is your confidence, and selling yourself as the man you want to be, and actually being that man. It's a full time job, and there are never any breaks.

I've seen your face. You don't need any jaw implants or any of that nonsense. You need a reality check and higher self esteem.

you aren't even ugly
I agree 100%. I really wish it weren't that way, but that's just life.

I wasnt saying i was ugly bro lol. I was saying itd be nice to not have worry about being lean if my face was already chiseled and had a ridiculously strong jaw. Face > all. Lets be real tea , 99% of liters only diet down to 10% and below to get sloots.

my bad. Well anyway, the point of my post is that you don't need jaw implants. Making changes in your life are nice, but with plastic surgery there are far too many cases of people looking like freaks and they always get surgery because they are never happy in their own skin

I understand that you hate losing, but in order to win you have to play the game and risk losing. You're losing automatically by not playing, and by rotting on alcohol. The worse thing a man can do is give up and quit. Do you know how pathetic it is to just watch life pass you by?

Don't be the biggest loser OP. That fire is still lit, and the only thing that can diminish it, is time. Which you seem to enjoy wasting by feeling sorry for yourself.


Our minds are funny because we hardly ever live in the now. We are always stuck dwelling in the past, or looking towards the future. Focus on right now.

I've been on LDAR mode for the past couple of months. Finish university, moved back in with parents in city with little friends, no money, every day is just eat, lift, apply to jobs, and sleep. I can feel myself getting stupider and more socially inept by the day. What do?

thanks brah, good stuff to think on. Reps on r/c

You have control over what happens with your life. The funny thing is that it absolutely is important to keep working on your social skills because they can absolutely diminish. I almost want to tell you to get a server job just because it's a great way to make cash, meet new people, and increase your social skills. The only problem with that, is that you finished university so it may be time get started on your career.

You have to put yourself out there man. It's cliche at this point, but find something you enjoy doing and find a group that does it together online if you have to. Or pick up an entirely new hobby and mingle with the people you meet. I know it's uncomfortable, but comfortable is what will keep you rotting at your parents house, buff as fuk, and socially inept in 5 years.

[QUOTE=drvillain post_id=1517864601]You have control over what happens with your life. The funny thing is that it absolutely is important to keep working on your social skills because they can absolutely diminish. I almost want to tell you to get a server job just because it's a great way to make cash, meet new people, and increase your social skills. The only problem with that, is that you finished university so it may be time get started on your career.

You have to put yourself out there man. It's cliche at this point, but find something you enjoy doing and find a group that does it together online if you have to. Or pick up an entirely new hobby and mingle with the people you meet. I know it's uncomfortable, but comfortable is what will keep you rotting at your parents house, buff as fuk, and socially inept in 5 years.

[img]http://i.imgur.com/KilO2MQ.jpg[/mg][/QUOTE]Funny, I actually worked as a server for a couple months during university. I feel like my entire life is on pause atm until I get a career job, but its just months going by and no real accomplishments. I'll look into new hobby's that I find interesting. Been considering mma for a while actually...

You're guaranteed to make some friends this way. Go for it.