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post 1537056231 12-09-2017, 10:17 PM
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OP my dad kicked me out about 6 months ago. It was the best thing that has happened to me. I put up with his sht for 22 Year’s and lived by “his rules”. Will never talk to that POS again. Gj OP you will likely never see your son again. Us millenials that have chit parents like you will never look back
post 1537056781 12-09-2017, 10:27 PM
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He will come back and do better for a week or two before everything going back to the way it was.
post 1537057071 12-09-2017, 10:32 PM
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Originally Posted By miscallday12⏩
OP my dad kicked me out about 6 months ago. It was the best thing that has happened to me. I put up with his sht for 22 Year’s and lived by “his rules”. Will never talk to that POS again. Gj OP you will likely never see your son again. Us millenials that have chit parents like you will never look back
Just lol at you being proud to have been kicked out at 22 and now pissed at your parents because you are too much of a low-life to make the decision to grow the phuck up and live on your own. They obviously must be chit parents for rising such a chit kid, take your entitled millennial garbage to reddit and let the adults speak
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post 1537057301 12-09-2017, 10:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Hornlesscow⏩
Just lol at you being proud to have been kicked out at 22 and now pissed at your parents because you are too much of a low-life to make the decision to grow the phuck up and live on your own. They obviously must be chit parents for rising such a chit kid, take your entitled millennial garbage to reddit and let the adults speak
Sorry my parent were not terrorist and instilled extreme discipline into me to become like them. Fuking pathetic culture of yours hahaha
post 1537057601 12-09-2017, 10:43 PM
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Originally Posted By peterplsss⏩
You were a sht parent, that's why you have a child like that 100% srs.
Don't listen to this idiot. He's phucckking retarded.
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just give him a good spanking
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post 1537058151 12-09-2017, 10:54 PM
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Originally Posted By miscallday12⏩
Sorry my parent were not terrorist and instilled extreme discipline into me to become like them. Fuking pathetic culture of yours hahaha
LMFAO right EXTREME discipline, so much so you need your mommy to wipe you pussy and daddy to clean your ass at 22. Americans and their ignorance lol GL with your sucking dick for money you obviously didn't learn anything useful from your uncle paw and aunt maw
"Biggest fear in life is holding babies. Their so fragile, if you drop them you can ruin their entire life.
When a baby is looking at me and no one else is, I like to make sad faces to get the baby to cry and no one knows why it's crying. If they are young enough they will mimic other peoples emotions so if you act sad they will get sad." -captiontom
post 1537058431 12-09-2017, 11:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Hornlesscow⏩
LMFAO right EXTREME discipline, so much so you need your mommy to wipe you pussy and daddy to clean your ass at 22. Americans and their ignorance lol GL with your sucking dick for money you obviously didn't learn anything useful from your uncle paw and aunt maw
Lol you rustled?? Fuking Manlets I swear
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Lol at all the pussies thinking hes going to die in the cold before he'd crawl back home lol
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Originally Posted By miscallday12⏩
Sorry my parent were not terrorist and instilled extreme discipline into me to become like them. Fuking pathetic culture of yours hahaha
Lmfao you are the cuck that lived with your parents for22 years. At least you grew up eventually right?
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Lmao brings back memories. My parents kicked me out so many times during high school I can't even count. I'd walk around outside for a few hours, try to crash at friends' place if it gets cold but they all suck so eventually I had to go back home. One time I was so desperate, I called toll line for runaway children or something and stayed the night at a foster home. Half the girls were teens and pregnant, they lock up your stuff as if you're in a prison, no privacy whatsoever so after the night I was like nope, never ending up in a shelter again. Went home, graduated high school, negotiated with my parents to pay for my college education if I get good grades, started working, paying for my own grad school education, and now I'd say i'm doing better than most people my age.

Your son is grown, leave the door open for him but don't baby him, he's an adult he'll find a way to survive. People need to hit rock bottom to change.
post 1537058701 12-09-2017, 11:05 PM
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Originally Posted By jdmx⏩
"no amount of care, licking, defending, will fix this"

How about the lions try a vegetarian diet so you they get fuarked up by beasts they are trying to kill and eat?
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Originally Posted By SweetDreamz⏩
Lmao brings back memories. My parents kicked me out so many times during high school I can't even count. I'd walk around outside for a few hours, try to crash at friends' place if it gets cold but they all suck so eventually I had to go back home. One time I was so desperate, I called toll line for runaway children or something and stayed the night at a foster home. Half the girls were teens and pregnant, they lock up your stuff as if you're in a prison, no privacy whatsoever so after the night I was like nope, never ending up in a shelter again.

Now i'm doing fine with life, doing better than most people my age. Your son is grown, leave the door open for him but don't baby him, he's an adult he'll find a way to survive. People need to hit rock bottom to change.
18 is not an adult stop giving out bad advice you're still a child yourself.
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post 1537058761 12-09-2017, 11:07 PM
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post 1537058921 12-09-2017, 11:09 PM
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tons of ******* advice ITT

This dude doesn't need ya'll to tell him how "chit of a parent" he was. There is no formula to how a kid can and will turn out. I have 3 siblings, we all had the same upbringing, strict, high expectations, etc. I have a sister who is a former crack and ******* addict and was a massively destructive force in our family for years.

All of you saying "he's this way because of your parenting" need to have a nice tall glass of shut the fuk up. You clearly have never been a parent and are immature yourself if you legitimately believe you can control a child's formation simply by imposing "good parenting" on them.

I sincerely feel bad for OP. He's reaching out to get something off of his chest, something he is no doubt struggling with, and he gets 5 pages of "Well you made it this way..."

Yeah, because human beings aren't individuals with free will and choice and all of that...

I'm not sitting here saying he's completely free of responsibility or that he didn't contribute to his child's demeanor, I don't fukking know. For all I know he could have been the best parent in the world. For all I know he could have been an absent father in his kid's life and development.

Fact is he's in a situation and asking for help with life at current face value. He doesn't need a forum full of armchair quarterbacks talking about the past.

OP, I sincerely hope you work things out between you and your son. I don't really have any advice to give, as I'm not really sure what I could say that would help. You know your son better than anyone on this forum, you know the dynamic that exists. If it's clear to you that you cannot impact the current dynamic by yourself or with your wife, perhaps seek outside help? At any rate, I hope the situation turns for the better.
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post 1537058981 12-09-2017, 11:11 PM
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OP I wish you good luck. I fuked up my relationship with my dad and I do regret it but I am the person I am today because of all my mistakes, I do not regret them
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post 1537059051 12-09-2017, 11:12 PM
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Is your son somewhere safe?
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Originally Posted By miscallday12⏩
Lol you rustled?? Fuking Manlets I swear
nah buddy i'm typing this from my home office, not daddys iphone while tyrone stretches my angus.
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When a baby is looking at me and no one else is, I like to make sad faces to get the baby to cry and no one knows why it's crying. If they are young enough they will mimic other peoples emotions so if you act sad they will get sad." -captiontom
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Originally Posted By jonB89⏩
18 is not an adult stop giving out bad advice you're still a child yourself.
18 is definitely an adult, and the law agrees with me.

Please tell me why an 18 years old man can't fend for himself. Way too old to have mom and dad spoon feed. As a parent, it's hard to imagine abandoning your kid but trust me, he'll thank you in the long run. OP if your son is too dumb to negotiate with you then you can offer to negotiate a deal where you can help him apply for a job or apply to university and if he gets good grades then you can continue to support him financially or get a grant/loan. Give him a deadline as to when he needs to start by.
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Originally Posted By Hornlesscow⏩
nah buddy i'm typing this from my home office, not daddys iphone while tyrone stretches my angus.
Nice avi *******. Did chad pound you hard?
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Originally Posted By 21stCenturyKid⏩
OP is an honest-to-godshtfather.

Reminder: You brought him into this cruel, awful world. You selfishly forced him into this existence.

Therefore, it is your duty to buy himanythingthat he pleases, whether it's the latest Xbox, the latest Alienware PC's, a new car, it does not matter. Invite him back to the house. Build him a new room. Buy him a mini-fridge. Buy him a pool table. Cook and clean for him (or at least get mom to do it) let him have parties. Let him bring his girlfriend. You mustpaythe price for exposing him to this bitter, cruel, degenerate world. End of story. This idea that you just turn "18" and now like magic you are kicked out on the street like a dog.

Rubbish.
Nah.

You are a cuck. You "must pay the price"? wtf are you even talking about. What happens when OP dies and his son has no life skills to take care of himself? OP is showing his son a much more valuable lesson. You are a fool.
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Bitch wouldn't do his own laundry then cussed when asked not to
Kick em out, he's 18, legally an adult, and ungrateful as ****
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But who was lack of pre frontal cortex development?
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sounds like OP went to work everyday and let the Public School system and the TV in his house raise his kid.
Originally Posted By SoSteezy⏩
Nah.

You are a cuck. You "must pay the price"? wtf are you even talking about. What happens when OP dies and his son has no life skills to take care of himself? OP is showing his son a much more valuable lesson. You are a fool.
OP had 18 years to teach his son the value of hard work, morals, ethics.... the higher ideals of integrity, honor, virtue.....

sounds like OP went to work everyday and let the Public School system and the TV in his house raise his kid.

Then he's shocked when his kid is doing drugs to "be cool", and doesn't understand the importance of having life skills.
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Poor parenting leads to poor kid.

lol@u for blaming YOUR OWN CHILD

A child is a reflection of his parents.

another entitled boomer blaming his own blood for his own doing rofl
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Originally Posted By SoSteezy⏩
Nah.

You are a cuck. You "must pay the price"? wtf are you even talking about. What happens when OP dies and his son has no life skills to take care of himself? OP is showing his son a much more valuable lesson. You are a fool.
What about the 18 years before now?

There was no life lessons then?

So for 18 years he gave him zero advice and help but now he is some hero giving LIFE LESSONS? LOL

If your kid is a retard at 18 years old then the only person to blame is YOURSELF
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it seems to me that what pisses you most is he doesn't understand the consequences of taking decisions on his own. which is what everybody at his age is facing.

If his attitude made you kick him out, stick to your grounds, and no need to be pissed yourself, this is the time he learns that his decisions have consequences, and if he decides to swear in your house, well that is the consequence.

Don't listen to all this idiots ITT, nothing is going to harm him. He just needs time to take it all in and understand that it was a direct consequence of his acts.

Another piece of advice, next time you have to do it again, don't do it in a pissed off manner, but do it regardless, that will help you also take good decisions like maybe giving him some money or simply doing it calmly might make him understand and apologize, even maybe change.

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Originally Posted By thehypocrit⏩
If your kid is a retard at 18 years old then the only person to blame is YOURSELF
Yes, because the kid is a pile of play-dough absent choice or free will and cannot think, create, or make decisions for himself...
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Regardless of whether OP contributed to this problem or not, there comes a point in everyone's life when they have to learn that you don't get to mouth off to the people whose house you are living in, without consequences. Age 18 is old enough that parents can and should kick someone out if they refuse to accept that reality. I'm not saying disown them for life but a long walk and having to decide to either crash on a friend's couch or come home and eat humble pie is not the worst thing to ever happen to an adult.
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Originally Posted By Mr
Regardless of whether OP contributed to this problem or not, there comes a point in everyone's life when they have to learn that you don't get to mouth off to the people whose house you are living in, without consequences. Age 18 is old enough that parents can and should kick someone out if they refuse to accept that reality.
the issue is, 18 year olds are still full of hormones, emotional, aggressive, angsty.....

gotta give them some leeway.... especially since the OP failed as a parent.

Be loving and be smarter.


or...... do like OP and fail to properly raise a child..... and then when the child is 18, get personally offended by his behavior and enter a pissing contest with your seed.
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