Thread: What’s Considered Dad Bod?
06-10-2018, 03:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Non employed? Lmao strong passI understand what you mean. There's a big problem for high earning women though and that's that they basically price themselves out of the dating market.
Say a woman earns more than 80% of men. To get at least an equal earner she'd be limited to the top 20% earners. Of those many will be married. Of the single ones many will be unattractive.
And the small minority of attractive single high earners are basically at the top of the dating game so pretty much all women will compete for them (including younger women).
So it's becomes really hard to beat the competition for those guys, plus there's the added problem that for women income doesn't really add to their desirability like it does for men. In fact more the opposite because many high earning men prefer a lower earning or non employed partner, because they make enough for both anyway.
Say a woman earns more than 80% of men. To get at least an equal earner she'd be limited to the top 20% earners. Of those many will be married. Of the single ones many will be unattractive.
And the small minority of attractive single high earners are basically at the top of the dating game so pretty much all women will compete for them (including younger women).
So it's becomes really hard to beat the competition for those guys, plus there's the added problem that for women income doesn't really add to their desirability like it does for men. In fact more the opposite because many high earning men prefer a lower earning or non employed partner, because they make enough for both anyway.
But yes men don't care about that stuff if you have the same values
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
So all about the faceYeahh I only like the cute ones. Fat is fine as long as they're cute.
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06-10-2018, 04:08 PM
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Why pm me a question then turn off pm's b4 i respond?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Oh, because it's somehow different for high earning men.I understand what you mean. There's a big problem for high earning women though and that's that they basically price themselves out of the dating market.
Say a woman earns more than 80% of men. To get at least an equal earner she'd be limited to the top 20% earners. Of those many will be married. Of the single ones many will be unattractive.
And the small minority of attractive single high earners are basically at the top of the dating game so pretty much all women will compete for them (including younger women).
So it's becomes really hard to beat the competition for those guys, plus there's the added problem that for women income doesn't really add to their desirability like it does for men. In fact more the opposite because many high earning men prefer a lower earning or non employed partner, because they make enough for both anyway.
Say a woman earns more than 80% of men. To get at least an equal earner she'd be limited to the top 20% earners. Of those many will be married. Of the single ones many will be unattractive.
And the small minority of attractive single high earners are basically at the top of the dating game so pretty much all women will compete for them (including younger women).
So it's becomes really hard to beat the competition for those guys, plus there's the added problem that for women income doesn't really add to their desirability like it does for men. In fact more the opposite because many high earning men prefer a lower earning or non employed partner, because they make enough for both anyway.
Because men should expect to carry the financial burden in the relationship.
Got it.
06-10-2018, 04:10 PM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
Louisville for 2 days and then Grand Rapids. There’s a PL spot in Louisville called EA Fitness that has calibrated plates and all that jazz...I’m set.Where to now boyo? You scope out gyms before you fly out I assume?
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06-10-2018, 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa⏩
Das it mane and have a good trip.Louisville for 2 days and then Grand Rapids. There’s a PL spot in Louisville called EA Fitness that has calibrated plates and all that jazz...I’m set.
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06-10-2018, 04:19 PM
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a dad bod thread, and not a single fukin pic of the dadbod meisterhimself, hank fukin schrader
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06-10-2018, 04:22 PM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
LolWhy pm me a question then turn off pm's b4 i respond?
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06-10-2018, 04:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I was about to say something similar to this, but in a more abrasive manner, hence the "future cat lady" comment.I understand what you mean. There's a big problem for high earning women though and that's that they basically price themselves out of the dating market.
Say a woman earns more than 80% of men. To get at least an equal earner she'd be limited to the top 20% earners. Of those many will be married. Of the single ones many will be unattractive.
And the small minority of attractive single high earners are basically at the top of the dating game so pretty much all women will compete for them (including younger women).
So it's becomes really hard to beat the competition for those guys, plus there's the added problem that for women income doesn't really add to their desirability like it does for men. In fact more the opposite because many high earning men prefer a lower earning or non employed partner, because they make enough for both anyway.
Say a woman earns more than 80% of men. To get at least an equal earner she'd be limited to the top 20% earners. Of those many will be married. Of the single ones many will be unattractive.
And the small minority of attractive single high earners are basically at the top of the dating game so pretty much all women will compete for them (including younger women).
So it's becomes really hard to beat the competition for those guys, plus there's the added problem that for women income doesn't really add to their desirability like it does for men. In fact more the opposite because many high earning men prefer a lower earning or non employed partner, because they make enough for both anyway.
Rich men have no use for some plain, past her prime (even more so after "she waits a few more years" to start dating again), divorcee.
They have countless options and wont give her the time of day.
06-10-2018, 04:40 PM
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Seth Rogan isn't a dadbod lol. He's just a fat piece of chit!
Hank Schrader, now there's a prime time dadbod.
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Originally Posted By TheRougarou646⏩
Honestly you'll be lucky to land a pump n dump from a pizza delivery guy at your age.When did I say rich? Seriously. I didn’t say he had to me a millionaire just financially well to do and I’ve explained why.
I mean it’s not like I will be venturing outside of my social circle to try and land some 10k a day ceo or something.
I mean it’s not like I will be venturing outside of my social circle to try and land some 10k a day ceo or something.
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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
l m a oHonestly you'll be lucky to land a pump n dump from a pizza delivery guy at your age.
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What most guys have on this site, your regular miscer has a dad/grandpa bod
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa⏩
I'm in an airport too at 0115 and my flight was delayed to 0300 lol. Might screw with my planned workout at 0800 since my first meeting is at 1000.Louisville for 2 days and then Grand Rapids. There’s a PL spot in Louisville called EA Fitness that has calibrated plates and all that jazz...I’m set.
Just chiming in tbh since people are going in hard.
Maybe, Rougarou, what might have been easier for some to swallow is "I'm doing really well for myself and expect any partner of mine to be in the same situation" or something like that. I don't want to speak for you and I think I get what you wanted to say but it is the "earns more than I do and I earn a lot" that seems to get some peoples' back up.
Like Tommy said earlier, some very well paid people change careers later on for something more "rewarding" in a different way. I have a lot of respect for people who choose jobs (e.g., paramedic like USRanger on these forums) who do that kind of thing as a vocation. It shows grit and strong values in a way that many lucrative jobs just can't.
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I mean I'm not trying to be that guy but...basically look like chit. That's a dad bod.
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06-10-2018, 06:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Any man with sense and options will frown upon a divorcee.That's really good, if you can date within your social circle your chances probably improve a lot. Especially if in your social circle it's frowned upon for men to date younger or lower in social status.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Celeb of peaceYeah it's not easy, but there are women who do find love again after divorce.
Meghan Markle for example
Meghan Markle for example

She is low tier though, Janet Jackson, Halley Berry and Salma Hayek all got billionaires
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Originally Posted By Polaris⏩
I was going to post something similar to this. I'm going to direct this to all of the 40+ year old females on the misc who have a sense of entitlement (you know who you are)I was about to say something similar to this, but in a more abrasive manner, hence the "future cat lady" comment.
Rich men have no use for some plain, past her prime (even more so after "she waits a few more years" to start dating again), divorcee.
They have countless options and wont give her the time of day.
Rich men have no use for some plain, past her prime (even more so after "she waits a few more years" to start dating again), divorcee.
They have countless options and wont give her the time of day.
A man who ticks all the boxes you want will have plenty of options other than you. Plenty of options from women are younger, probably make less money (appreciate him more) and probably won't have bank account requirements of him.What specifically do you have to offer him that would make you worthwhile over someone like that?
We all know silencespeaks likes to dodge these sorts of questions so I'm not expecting a response from her. But how about the others? Legz I know you're lurking this thread so plz respond. Srs I'm not trying to be a dick, I'm genuinely curious how this sort of mindset comes about.
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa⏩
My try Stella's Lounge in Grand Rapids if you are up for a burger. We liked it and our waiter was really good.Louisville for 2 days and then Grand Rapids. There’s a PL spot in Louisville called EA Fitness that has calibrated plates and all that jazz...I’m set.
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06-10-2018, 07:34 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
Well I'm old and on misc. Don't feel entitled.I was going to post something similar to this. I'm going to direct this to all of the 40+ year old females on the misc who have a sense of entitlement (you know who you are)
A man who ticks all the boxes you want will have plenty of options other than you. Plenty of options from women are younger, probably make less money (appreciate him more) and probably won't have bank account requirements of him.What specifically do you have to offer him that would make you worthwhile over someone like that?
We all know silencespeaks likes to dodge these sorts of questions so I'm not expecting a response from her. But how about the others? Legz I know you're lurking this thread so plz respond. Srs I'm not trying to be a dick, I'm genuinely curious how this sort of mindset comes about.
A man who ticks all the boxes you want will have plenty of options other than you. Plenty of options from women are younger, probably make less money (appreciate him more) and probably won't have bank account requirements of him.What specifically do you have to offer him that would make you worthwhile over someone like that?
We all know silencespeaks likes to dodge these sorts of questions so I'm not expecting a response from her. But how about the others? Legz I know you're lurking this thread so plz respond. Srs I'm not trying to be a dick, I'm genuinely curious how this sort of mindset comes about.
Early days and I've mostly just been missing regular sex...some days more than others. Don't know if I want to live with a man again at all and no strong reason to get married at this point since I feel pretty certain kids aren't in my future.
Things I may possibly have over a younger woman?
- experience
- generally calm and low maintenance
- not clingy/needy/jealous/paranoid
- can agree to disagree; don't have to win or be right
- can carry on a reasonable conversation on a wide range of topics
- capable of seeing things from other's point of view
I am plain though, pretty old and over all not too exciting.
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
Lmao, heard that one a few times beforeThings I may possibly have over a younger woman?
- can agree to disagree; don't have to win or be right
I am plain though, pretty old and over all not too exciting.
- can agree to disagree; don't have to win or be right
I am plain though, pretty old and over all not too exciting.
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
weird I always assumed you were marriedWell I'm old and on misc. Don't feel entitled.
Early days and I've mostly just been missing regular sex...some days more than others. Don't know if I want to live with a man again at all and no strong reason to get married at this point since I feel pretty certain kids aren't in my future.
Things I may possibly have over a younger woman?
- experience
- generally calm and low maintenance
- not clingy/needy/jealous/paranoid
- can agree to disagree; don't have to win or be right
- can carry on a reasonable conversation on a wide range of topics
- capable of seeing things from other's point of view
I am plain though, pretty old and over all not too exciting.
Early days and I've mostly just been missing regular sex...some days more than others. Don't know if I want to live with a man again at all and no strong reason to get married at this point since I feel pretty certain kids aren't in my future.
Things I may possibly have over a younger woman?
- experience
- generally calm and low maintenance
- not clingy/needy/jealous/paranoid
- can agree to disagree; don't have to win or be right
- can carry on a reasonable conversation on a wide range of topics
- capable of seeing things from other's point of view
I am plain though, pretty old and over all not too exciting.
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Dad bod is pretty much a guy that used to work out alot then let himself go for multiple years.
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
Was.weird I always assumed you were married
Together 16 years; said he wanted a divorce early October last year, living apart since late April.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
But you have admitted your standards are higher than they realistically should be. I would say that fits into an entitlement mentality.Oh I'm not saying I'm entitled to anyone. Just saying I'd rather stay alone than be with someone I'm not into. I've repeated that over and over in many threads.
And I don't want to describe myself too much, plus it doesn't really matter anyway because the main dating issue is my age. I can list many good things about myself but I can't change my age.
And I don't want to describe myself too much, plus it doesn't really matter anyway because the main dating issue is my age. I can list many good things about myself but I can't change my age.
Originally Posted By TheRougarou646⏩
It's not about lowering your standards it's about making them realistic. Congrats on your career but it would be chitty to reject a guy because he didn't make enough money when otherwise he would have been good enough. I'm not sure what matching finances or not would say about his character.Good question and honestly I’m not really sure what I have to offer, but I’d imagine if I didn’t tick any of his boxes I wouldn’t even get a second chance. When I finally make my way out into the dating abyss I’ll be more equipped to answer a question like this in depth.
You know maybe the misc will be right and I’ll end up a cat lady because of my attitude, age, looks—whatever. I guess I’ll find out. I’ll make a log in the RH section
You know maybe the misc will be right and I’ll end up a cat lady because of my attitude, age, looks—whatever. I guess I’ll find out. I’ll make a log in the RH section
Originally Posted By katya422⏩
Also didn't know you were divorced. You've never really come across as entitled or stuck up so I don't think you would have much problem out there.Well I'm old and on misc. Don't feel entitled.
Early days and I've mostly just been missing regular sex...some days more than others. Don't know if I want to live with a man again at all and no strong reason to get married at this point since I feel pretty certain kids aren't in my future.
Things I may possibly have over a younger woman?
- experience
- generally calm and low maintenance
- not clingy/needy/jealous/paranoid
- can agree to disagree; don't have to win or be right
- can carry on a reasonable conversation on a wide range of topics
- capable of seeing things from other's point of view
I am plain though, pretty old and over all not too exciting.
Early days and I've mostly just been missing regular sex...some days more than others. Don't know if I want to live with a man again at all and no strong reason to get married at this point since I feel pretty certain kids aren't in my future.
Things I may possibly have over a younger woman?
- experience
- generally calm and low maintenance
- not clingy/needy/jealous/paranoid
- can agree to disagree; don't have to win or be right
- can carry on a reasonable conversation on a wide range of topics
- capable of seeing things from other's point of view
I am plain though, pretty old and over all not too exciting.
btw dad bods are lame.
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