huge if true

ITT Misc has a lot of insecurities with their gf's being friends with guys

grow up ya'll

Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean you're wrong.

Real af op.

First gf ended up dating a guy she had talked about before I broke up with her. Second gf cheated on me with a guy from her classes she had told me was "super annoying". Another recent ex started dating someone ~1 month after I dumped her and she said they met on an app but I'm certain they met before we ended things. Before we dated she was talking and flirting with me constantly while she was still dating someone else.

Any time my current gf talks about a guy at work I'm just thinking "she wants his dink" or at the very least of we break up they'll get together.

Just gotta trust you're keeping your gf happy and laying good pipe otherwise they'll find someone else. It's brutal but in reality we all get crushes etc despite being in relationships, I think the particularly cruel part is that women are more likely to tell you about the guy under false pretenses "he's just s friend" or "there's this dumb guy at work" etc almost like they want to prepare in advance for your jealousy because they know there's a chance they will get with that guy.

Trust is essential to relationship success and your happiness so don't be paranoid just let the chips fall and keep rolling.

It's usually a red flag if your girl is talking about some other guy often. The actual words aren't that important. Why is she talking about him so much in the first place? Because he's on her mind.

LOL. Thanks for neg. Super solid rebuttal. Insecurities aren't always a bad thing. The word just carries a very negative connotation but insecurities are a universal motivator. If only you were insecure about your intellect so it could drive you to be smarter.

I just witnessed a colleague of mine who I thought was a honest and loyal man cheat on his pregnant wife with another married colleague at a company event 2 days ago.

The whole marriage concept should just die altogether.

can confirm, I am back up man

also married, life is weird

The question is, why would any guy want to be friends with a girl? The only girl who I have been somewhat platonic with and continued to talk to specifically on a regular basis was an ultrasloot I hung out with maybe 5 times in a year. I met her at a bar (tinde rmatch) and could not decide if I wanted to fluff or not, really no attraction to her. She ended up being in salsa dancing, fantasy novels, same profession as me, etc. and was interesting to be around so we did some chit, mostly getting zooted at salsa night and winging for each other. But there is no denying she was a massive sloot, not even remotely relationship material. I met another acquaintance through her that was cool, said they were dating for a while but she fked all of his friends, so yeah. Most women have nearly no interests, real hobbies, no real ambition (they think that getting a career equates to them being strong and ambitious, even though all they have done is trap themself in the same wagecuck life that men have always hated---then act surprised when they're all on antidepressants because they thought stupid chit would make them happy).

Also, I only keep myself around attractive people in the first place. If a girl is attractive why would I not try to sleep with her? If I get rejected then why would I continue to associate with her even if she was cool? The above is probably my only example of an actual friend I would consider a girl, and that was more of an acquaintance.

You have:

1) interesting and insane girls who will as a consequence be sloots
2) boring/average and sane girls

There is a small cross-over if you made a Venn Diagram but a very small population of women are interesting and sane. Fewer are hot and all of those. The ones that are, are basically locked down by ultra Chads and rarely single so you have to basically be in competition for the off-chance you catch her between a relationship. All terrible. So in the end it comes down to either wanting to fck or date if you are "friends" with a girl, this applies for a large portion of guys, and if you do have one of the 'unicorns' you know thirsty vultures will be lurking

i have never had any gals i've been friends with where we didn't end up at least making out at some point

see, there's no excuse not to become an ultra chad now

The only thing we can do to combat this bullshiit is to have back up women too.

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It is not insecure at all. Those male friends will bang her if they get the chance. Even if she is faithful, one too many drinks can ruin it all.The naivety.

Rip

Do you boyos think top tier males, say:

"Listen baby, I don't want you having male friends."
"Don't talk to him."
"Don't go there"
"You can't do this"
etc
etc

Honestly?I mean phucking honestly? ?












lol'd at the betas. Out.

Yeah when you look like a fukn twink, fuk like a virgin, and don't mog every other man she comes into contact with, this is your reality

srs srs srsno, "top tier" don't say anything more than once.

I wouldn't get into a relationship with a woman with multiple male friends in the first place unless they're her friends' boyfriends or something. Too much of a red flag to emotionally invest in them.

One day you will learn.

If these miscers was hitting it right they wouldn't have to worry. A lot of women aren't sexually satisfied these days.

zero. fuc.king. male. friends.

why does she need male friends? why do you need female friends?

i don't get why people have"back up plans"when they're in a relationship. you're just setting yourself up for failure and an emotional roller coaster.

You can't really help the family you're born into. That's part of the genetic lotto. Now friends is a different story.

I think the better question is, what are you scared of? Got some inadequacies, bud? Bros, this is very apparent to women, dead srs. They WILL act out in other ways when they see this behavior from you. Do you think she's just going to swallow it and forget it? LMAOOOO.






That might work for 5.5/10s and below, only srs. You're just going to have to step your game up, srs. Don't be attached toCHIT

naiveté.

Ha that actually was me in my last relationship(Im a dude).

Was so fuking bored just went out all the time.

Women have definitely gotten to you though. Afraid to speak up for whats yours because women have assigned pseudo meaning to insecurity and resulting shame? Afraid if you speak up the women will think youre undesirable? Thats exactly the game theyve weaved with the added bonus of poosy satiating all of those things.

You wanna give me 10 g's or you just insecure bro? I wont touch it, i promise. Not gonna do anything with it

I mean the end all is marriage in which you generally split assetts so id say its a split/ other things are split so why cant she also work on this?

In any case, i think what were talking about is actually beyond the scop of the thread. The scope is really just about the opportunity

And i honestly think regardless of how studly you are, if the right opportunity presents itself it could very well happen. Like maybe a small little fight makes her mad or theres a lull in the relationship. The opportunity is higher for the female because dudes are horny

scarcity mindset. Chad is operating on a completely different one, buddy.

Also, horrible analogy, because in yours I get nothing in return.

Right. If youre constantly playing the field. Im pretty sure were specifically talking about relationships

I was just giving you an example of an item you dont want touched. But for some reason, youve let womem convince you it doesnt apply to them

i've never done anything wrong, it's always someone else's fault- females in 2018

The same thing should be carried onto relationships, it just takes a higher level dude to carry the mindset over, because the stakes are a bit higher. The reward is higher quality women.

With marriage its a different story, as both parties signed a contract. Personally would tread with extreme caution here.