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post 1566378151 11-16-2018, 08:02 AM
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Originally Posted By Mumra
Can't find this survey on their site.

http://www.onepoll.com/in-the-media/


I'm not saying she is now. just what I plan on doing just in case.
why would you even let it get to that point though?
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post 1566378281 11-16-2018, 08:04 AM
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Originally Posted By ssilv
why would you even let it get to that point though?
sometimes you don't know until you know. I'm not just going to go around cheating all the time just in case.
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post 1566378331 11-16-2018, 08:04 AM
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You miscers are so fking insecure.

Just lol at being constantly worried that you're not man enough to keep a woman from looking at some backup beta orbiter.
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Originally Posted By VoxExMachina
You miscers are so fking insecure.

Just lol at being constantly worried that you're not man enough to keep a woman from looking at some backup beta orbiter.
not meant to be an insecure post though.. just makes me question why any guy would ever "get comfortable" with a girlfriend when chit like this happens all the time
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post 1566381041 11-16-2018, 08:40 AM
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Shutting this down.

The extreme negativity, mysogany, hate, and pure idiocy a lot of you "men" post here daily truly makes me cringe Irl.

The reality here is: OP found a woman he loves and wanted to marry. Did it in an unconventional venue, and was a success. Good for him! Don't be such a negative ******* for the sake of beig a dick...

The insane amount of comments degrading women also has to stop. I'll begin mass banning for those comments when I see them. So knock it off.

OP has more life experience than the vast majority of the misc, with the average age being around 22, and knows his relationship better than anyone here. Who the fuk are you to tear him down? Get a life. Truly.


OP. I wish you the best of luck. It sounds like you've found a winner.
post 1566381171 11-16-2018, 08:41 AM
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you can never really knows what goes on in another person's mind or what they do when you're not around. only people that you trust can betray you.
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post 1566381491 11-16-2018, 08:46 AM
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Originally Posted By ssilv
Also, if your girl is frequently spending her time out at the bars with friends without you, she is bored with you and is low-key looking for other male attention.
Idk how many cucked guys I know that deal with this
I've never been a huge party animal, But I did the club scene enough when I was younger, that I would advise anyone toNEVERseriously date a woman who goes clubbing regularly.NEVER.

"I'm going out of town with some friends for the weekend."

"Why are you getting jealous, you know I like to go clubbing with my friends?!"


Minimum is likely at some point she was dry humping with A dude on the dance floor, which 'doesn't count'.

At worst, she's done a sex act with a dude.

I've seen it enough, to know that I would never consider dating a woman who likes to party. And that I think men who are comfortable with it are delusional.

Alcohol + Music + Club/Bar culture = cheating.

I've seen friends cheat on their partners, and I've seen women who were dating friends cheat on their partners, I've (knowingly and unknowingly) done things with women who had boyfriends (one girl literally turned up the next day at my workplace with her boyfriend, ded srs).

PLEASE, DO NOT GET IN A LTR WITH A GIRL WHO WORKS IN OR GOES TO BARS/CLUBS FREQUENTLY.

You've been warned.
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Originally Posted By FailedPotential
There's nothing inherently special about you that another man somewhere couldn't make your wife or girlfriend feel for him

People have this idea that they've found their "soul mate".. oh yeah, just so convenient your "soul mate" happened to be in a location you visited, and a number of other ridiculous reasonings that I could list...

You could feel for a million other girls what you feel for her, and the same goes for her and other men

Don't fool yourself into thinking otherwise, or do... if that makes you feel better
no one is gonna make you feel the same way that someone else made you feel

the feelings are going to be different, for better or for worse
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post 1566382211 11-16-2018, 08:55 AM
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Originally Posted By VoxExMachina
You miscers are so fking insecure.

Just lol at being constantly worried that you're not man enough to keep a woman from looking at some backup beta orbiter.
What if someone really is not man enough, so to speak though, say he's genetically not gifted physically, and she's out of his league

From the "not man enough" guys point of view, he doesn't want to lose her... and statistically speaking, and being real about it... there's a good chance that by letting her hang out with Chad, that he could lose her.

You're saying said beta male should allow his girlfriend to hang out with Chad... and what will be will be?

Mans gotta fight for what he wants in this world, he gotta be selfish
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post 1566382391 11-16-2018, 08:57 AM
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Originally Posted By ssilv
not meant to be an insecure post though.. just makes me question why any guy would ever "get comfortable" with a girlfriend when chit like this happens all the time
Women dont have any reason to come forward with the truth. So they wont

Why would they tell you about all of the stuff theyve done with others when they can lie

I personally believe women somehow contorted the game this way; this is their evolutionary advantage. Once the game is all mental, theyre going to win because they hold what you want more often than the reverse (poosy vs. Penor)

Insecure/ shame/ guilt is their other tactic where you cant broach the subject else you lose some poosy lure.

You: "Hey jenny, is this true?" Her: "no its not tim" you: "oh ok"

What exactly can you do in that case? If you continue the fight, youre "insecure" (which i do think is valid sometimes) but its used so often in various cases just to get their way when it may not be true.

Good luck defining insecurity, which may point to more nefariousness.. The fat bish that stuffs her face thinks the gym rats are insecure because they always have to perfect it whereas the gym rats think the fat couch potato is insecure because shes lazy
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Sht stinks.
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I can confirm. That's life, boyos. If you want to play, you're going to get dirty.
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
The moment you're in a relationship is the moment male friends cease to exist. Call it insecure, but I don't give a fuk.
Can confirm. I had a female friend who was genuinely just my friend, who ended up coming after me hard despite being in a relationship. Told her to go **** herself and how disrespectful she was being to the dude. I'm not saying every woman is constantly on the lookout for a backup and I truly think there are some solid women out there with good character, but I also think that girls who keep a circle of guy friends around them are most definitely doing it for a reason.
post 1566385971 11-16-2018, 09:34 AM
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Originally Posted By DCutch
Can confirm. I had a female friend who was genuinely just my friend, who ended up coming after me hard despite being in a relationship. Told her to go **** herself and how disrespectful she was being to the dude. I'm not saying every woman is constantly on the lookout for a backup and I truly think there are some solid women out there with good character, but I also think that girls who keep a circle of guy friends around them are most definitely doing it for a reason.
It's not even their fault, it's in their nature

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post 1566386361 11-16-2018, 09:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
The moment you're in a relationship is the moment male friends cease to exist. Call it insecure, but I don't give a fuk.
This..
Can’t/won’t take them serious until.
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post 1566387641 11-16-2018, 09:50 AM
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Modern dating is a joke, plain and simple. Just lmao if you put any effort into women, especially if you have an emotional attachment and relationship. Miscers saying "50% isn't bad odds"---this is only the girls who admit what they are doing or are aware of it, plus will even admit it even if the survey is anonymous. If you think the odds are good, try out Vegas. More fun than most relationships
post 1566393161 11-16-2018, 10:47 AM
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Originally Posted By ChicksMan
OP. I wish you the best of luck. It sounds like you've found a winner.
my gf right now is a keeper for me. she is exactly like me. we keep our friend circles small, have career aspirations, dont go out and club/party, and are always looking forward to working out. hope everyone else finds something like this. i met her in the gym, my fuc.king sanctuary.
Originally Posted By Mumra
you can never really knows what goes on in another person's mind or what they do when you're not around. only people that you trust can betray you.
exactly. be careful with who you give that trust to
Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck
I've never been a huge party animal, But I did the club scene enough when I was younger, that I would advise anyone toNEVERseriously date a woman who goes clubbing regularly.NEVER.

I've seen it enough, to know that I would never consider dating a woman who likes to party. And that I think men who are comfortable with it are delusional.

Alcohol + Music + Club/Bar culture = cheating.

I've seen friends cheat on their partners, and I've seen women who were dating friends cheat on their partners, I've (knowingly and unknowingly) done things with women who had boyfriends (one girl literally turned up the next day at my workplace with her boyfriend, ded srs).

PLEASE, DO NOT GET IN A LTR WITH A GIRL WHO WORKS IN OR GOES TO BARS/CLUBS FREQUENTLY.

You've been warned.
underrated accurate post. college dating is also bullchit for the most part. i didnt live on a campus when i was in and neither does my gf. even if she did though, i wouldnt be worried.

> brb walk through a college bar and be the most jacked dude in there
> girls with their boyfriends turn their heads and stare at me

im not making this chit up or trying to be narcisstic
Originally Posted By propreffered7
Women dont have any reason to come forward with the truth. So they wont

Why would they tell you about all of the stuff theyve done with others when they can lie
I've only had to say once that I don't put up with that cheating bullchit and dont need anyone else to function or live my life.

so many old friends have been cut off because they don't understand my lifestyle. finding a girl who fits in with my lifestyle has been like a 1/1000000 puzzle piece
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post 1566394631 11-16-2018, 11:02 AM
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Why tell this to miscers? There are more likely to be the back up man than the bf.
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more like back door man
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
I can confirm. That's life, boyos. If you want to play, you're going to get dirty.
This is known, what isn’t known is, HOW dirty are you willing to get
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
The moment you're in a relationship is the moment male friends cease to exist. Call it insecure, but I don't give a fuk.
This^

Theres no reason for a married woman to be friends with a man and no reason for a married man to be friends with a woman. Shouldnt even have contacts of the opposite sex in your phone.
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Lol @ this thread

Your girlfriend/wife is not your property. She has her own ambitions, feelings, emotions and desires. You are not a special snowflake, the same characteristics that make you attractive to her, she will find attractive in other men. You cannot change this, you cannot stop biology.

Worrying about inescapable and uncontrollable facts of life is the most pathetic, BETA thing you can do.
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
The moment you're in a relationship is the moment male friends cease to exist. Call it insecure, but I don't give a fuk.
I want to agree with this but one of my best friends in the world is a female. she's like a sister to me and her husband is my other best friend. you couldn't pay me to betray that.

on the flip side I had a broad that I thought was a very good friend for about 4 years. long story short she got me drunk and flipped the script on me one time. she had been planning this for years. I had no idea. needless to say it didn't work out.
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Originally Posted By BroImNigerian
Lol @ this thread

Your girlfriend/wife is not your property. She has her own ambitions, feelings, emotions and desires. You are not a special snowflake, the same characteristics that make you attractive to her, she will find attractive in other men. You cannot change this, you cannot stop biology.

Worrying about inescapable and uncontrollable facts of life is the most pathetic, BETA thing you can do.
why are you coming in here posting generic statements like "your gf is not your property" when im simply providing statistics?

you're right, alphas don't worry, but a beta is illiterate about how most women work and the amount of cheating that actually happens. i've noticed the cheating happens when the guy settles down or gets comfortable with the girl, and the next step (whether she cheats or not) comes down to her lifestyle, friend choices, and how she was raised.

now we're talking nature vs nurture
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tfw you are the backup plan
Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
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Originally Posted By ssilv
why are you coming in here posting generic statements like "your gf is not your property" when im simply providing statistics?

you're right, alphas don't worry, but a beta is illiterate about how most women work and the amount of cheating that actually happens. i've noticed the cheating happens when the guy settles down or gets comfortable with the girl, and the next step (whether she cheats or not) comes down to her lifestyle, friend choices, and how she was raised.

now we're talking nature vs nurture
Because it doesn't matter.
You cannot control her, if she wants to cheat, she will and there is no force on earth that can stop it. You can be on top of your game 100% of the time and it doesn't matter. Every woman (and man) is capable of this, some have higher likelihoods than others but the possibility exists with every relationship so its irrelevant in the long run,
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Originally Posted By BroImNigerian
Because it doesn't matter.
You cannot control her, if she wants to cheat, she will and there is no force on earth that can stop it. You can be on top of your game 100% of the time and it doesn't matter. Every woman (and man) is capable of this, some have higher likelihoods than others but the possibility exists with every relationship so its irrelevant in the long run,
true, the possibility does exist.

that's why we have to stay on top of our game all the time, every day. why settle and become normal?

no, give me the tech sandwich, give me the plastic pills, give me the botox, give me the money, get out of my way if you're in it

most importantly, give back to those who will never be able to compete with you.
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Originally Posted By Noahbro
This so much

If your girl has sloot friends more than likely your girl is a sloot too.

This statement is very true, You ARE what your friends ARE.
This is true tbf.

Coming to think of it, one of my girlfriends friends is a turbosloot.
I better dump this bish rn.
Originally Posted By BroImNigerian
Because it doesn't matter.
You cannot control her, if she wants to cheat, she will and there is no force on earth that can stop it. You can be on top of your game 100% of the time and it doesn't matter. Every woman (and man) is capable of this, some have higher likelihoods than others but the possibility exists with every relationship so its irrelevant in the long run,
Not wrong. And you could be the most alpha chad in the world and some sloots will STILL cheat srs.
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