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post 1569644131 12-27-2018, 09:50 AM
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Man, some of you are coming off asreallyinsecure.

I can be friends with and text whoever I want, be they male, female or something in between. So can she. Just having a text chat doesn't mean I or she is looking to get in bed with the person on the other end.
post 1569648771 12-27-2018, 10:43 AM
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Originally Posted By Zjunky
Man, some of you are coming off asreallyinsecure.

I can be friends with and text whoever I want, be they male, female or something in between. So can she. Just having a text chat doesn't mean I or she is looking to get in bed with the person on the other end.
Yep that is it... OR Maybe...

It is that males and females typically have dramatically different interests. In addition the only reason most males are willing to put up with a girls crazy and "support them" is if they are looking for a chance to fill a hole.

I think I have had one female friend in my life that I would hang out with just to "chill". We also use to be physical back in HS. Every other one is more "spouse of friend" or work "friend".

This is not atypical. This is the Norm. You do not want your girls that have friends that are hoping for their chance at every opportunity.
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post 1569654011 12-27-2018, 11:54 AM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey
I could be friends with a girl without wanting to fuk, have a few women I used to work with years back that I wouldn't mind being friends.

Out of respect though, I couldn't see myself hanging out with them if I'm in a relationship. Then again, maybe that's a good thing and keeps your girl on her toes.
Where in that post of mine did you see anything about f$#king?
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post 1569655051 12-27-2018, 12:06 PM
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she props out there sucking dick brah
post 1569657581 12-27-2018, 12:41 PM
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Never thought this thread will reach 5 pages thanks for all the insight brahs
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post 1569658101 12-27-2018, 12:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Correct I have not had any male friends since high school. Because if I’m attracted to a guy I want to date him, not be his “friend.” And if I’m not attracted to a guy I don’t want to hang out with him and I don’t want his attention either.

And of course I don’t think every guy wants to sleep with me. Not sure where you even got that.
I don't think that my post madeyouout to be one of those women. I was trying to say that the way you're approaching this means (and you're confirming it) that you're not really open to friendships with someone in the opposite gender (unless you are attracted to that person). Cool.

But there's another category of woman out there that truly do believe that they can 'have any man' and that 'every man is evaluating every woman for sex' and so on, and that's what I was addressing too - not you in this case of course.
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Women dont have male "friends" - she just have a bunch of guys waiting for the opportunity to smash her.

I feel the same way as a man - I dont have female "friends". They are either co workers, relatives, or girls I want to sleep with. I dont hang out with a woman Im not attracted to.
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post 1569680951 12-27-2018, 06:09 PM
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If your gf has straight male 'friends', your a damned fool of a cuck.
post 1569682491 12-27-2018, 06:43 PM
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Any girlfriend who respects her boyfriend doesn't have beta orbiters (male friends)
post 1569684591 12-27-2018, 07:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Zjunky
Man, some of you are coming off asreallyinsecure.

I can be friends with and text whoever I want, be they male, female or something in between. So can she. Just having a text chat doesn't mean I or she is looking to get in bed with the person on the other end.
Looking forward to your "caught my girlfriend in a MMF gangbang" thread
post 1569685051 12-27-2018, 07:37 PM
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she's gonna talk to and text other males at some point in the relationship. lol if you think you can stop that from happening. just hope that she has enough sense and integrity to know when a nicca is trying to fuk her
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post 1569685151 12-27-2018, 07:41 PM
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Originally Posted By TimeTravelerBro
Any girlfriend who respects her boyfriend doesn't have beta orbiters (male friends)
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post 1569685971 12-27-2018, 08:02 PM
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Honestly can't think of a single female I'm "friends" with other than male friend's spouses or work or something. If you're in a relationship it's just not appropriate and I expect the same from them. At some point every female friend I've ever had we've either fuked, I tried to fuk and got turned down, or she wanted to fuk and I wasn't interested. Every GF I've had with male friends have admitted they have tried to get with her in the past. Platonic friends of the opposite sex absolutely do not exist.
post 1569914621 12-30-2018, 07:11 PM
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They aren't her friends. None of my guy friends want to fuk me that I am aware of. If they did want to fuk me they wouldnt be my friend. Because 1. I don't want to be friends with some sick sodomite and be constantly watching my back/drink and 2. if the person is only around because they want something from you the relationship by definition is not a "friendship".

Women are not stupid. And in general, women are more socially intelligent than men. Women play the innocent naive little girl act and men fall for it. Women know exactly what they are doing when they have these "guy friends" hovering around like a swarm of mosquitoes. I'm sick of it and I don't put up with it anymore. There comes a certain point where you have to have boundaries. It isn't being insecure. It is called having self respect. Just like if a guy comes up and hits on your girl right in front of you. I will fight the guy not over the girl. I am fighting to defend my respect.
post 1569915041 12-30-2018, 07:18 PM
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If I'm being honest, if the guy is good looking, no.

It's inevitable. Hit a rough or boring patch at home...Guess who is really funny and pays attention to her at work?

When I was younger I wouldn't have liked it, but would have dealt with it. I don't have time for that stuff now that I'm adult. If I'm in a relationship I avoid women I'm attracted to. I'm not a cheater but I understand the door that it opens.
post 1569915241 12-30-2018, 07:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Zjunky
Man, some of you are coming off asreallyinsecure.

I can be friends with and text whoever I want, be they male, female or something in between. So can she. Just having a text chat doesn't mean I or she is looking to get in bed with the person on the other end.
Lmao. This can't be real.
post 1569915291 12-30-2018, 07:24 PM
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains
This. I'd never take a girl like that seriously in the first place.

At worst, it means that she's a sloot. At best, it means that she's too much of a kunt to make female friends. Male friends, especially orbiters, have a higher tolerance for bullchit from females than females do. Female friends will criticize or abandon her for being a sloot, being too catty, being a liar, etc, but male "friends" will hang on either to get a whiff of vag or simply because they don't care. But of course, the girl will always play off her having a lot of male friends and little to no female friends due to girls bringing "too much drama." Yeah, because you're the one bringing it.

A man having a lot of female friends is a red flag as well.
This dude right here gets it.


When a girl says other girls are "too much drama" it's because she's the one bringing the drama.
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