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post 1572587481 01-31-2019, 05:38 PM
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Wincel have you ever met Duracell? I hear she is nice and pink. Don’t thank me just bring her batteries. I don’t know why its weird but she just really likes them for whatever reason.
post 1572587531 01-31-2019, 05:39 PM
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the thing about nice guys is that they won't beat me and treat me like a slave i like to be a little bitch to my man

bonus points if im asian and he's white

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post 1572587561 01-31-2019, 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Chloebabe
Wincel have you ever met Duracell? I hear she is nice and pink. Don’t thank me just bring her batteries. I don’t know why its weird but she just really likes them for whatever reason.
Are you talking about your Dildo or theEngergizerbunny?
post 1572587651 01-31-2019, 05:41 PM
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Originally Posted By CementPizza
I'm right here. So, I see. You are a prostitute. We are just negotiating price and terms.
Answering a question makes me a prostutute? Like really? No You said you would rep me if I answered your dumb question. I don’t like pizza anyways.
post 1572587711 01-31-2019, 05:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Chloebabe
Answering a question makes me a prostutute? Like really? No You said you would rep me if I answered your dumb question. I don’t like pizza anyways.
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post 1572587741 01-31-2019, 05:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Polaris
Are you talking about your Dildo or theEngergizerbunny?
Well I definitely wasn’t talking about a dildo. That would be super weird and inappropriate.
post 1572587751 01-31-2019, 05:43 PM
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post 1572587811 01-31-2019, 05:43 PM
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Originally Posted By wincel
It's not about being nice or mean. It's about being Chad. Sloots want nice Chads. Sloots don't want nice Timothys.
No, a woman will get bored of a pushover "Chad" as well. Its all biologically driven emotions with them. If you show WEAKNESS, she will lose interest in you period regardless of what you look like. This is why being distant and indifferent is ALWAYS better than being too into the girl or showing attachment. The more that you can show that you really don't give a **** about the girl, the more she'll be attracted to pursue YOU...period. Women will always test your power in a relationship, no matter how long you're with her. Its like a subconscious test they'll play to make sure you're the man she thinks you are. Never let her push you off your "center", never argue using temper or show your emotions (this is a form of feminine energy), and keep the validation to a minimum. You want to validate her enough to keep her around, but you literally want her questioning just how much you're really into her. It seems ridiculous, but that makes women obsessed with the guy. It shows extreme strength if you can portray a sense of "I don't even need you, I can find a replacement tomorrow". Girls need to WONDER about you, thats why using pullback strategies literally raises their attraction. Once you show too much availability (ie: you start spending all your time with her) it's a wrap for you because it sends off extreme neediness vibes.
post 1572587821 01-31-2019, 05:44 PM
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Originally Posted By CementPizza
The misc is a forest of horrors, it's best not to spend too much time here.
I need to call the pizza place and tell them I want a refund.
post 1572587921 01-31-2019, 05:45 PM
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Originally Posted By Chloebabe
I need to call the pizza place and tell them I want a refund.
Once you had the Cement, you won't ever be able to relent.
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post 1572587951 01-31-2019, 05:45 PM
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Originally Posted By Chloebabe
Wincel have you ever met Duracell? I hear she is nice and pink. Don’t thank me just bring her batteries. I don’t know why its weird but she just really likes them for whatever reason.
I don't get it. Are you suggesting I peg myself with a vibrating dildo?

you kinky sloot
post 1572588131 01-31-2019, 05:47 PM
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Originally Posted By wincel
I don't get it. Are you suggesting I peg myself with a vibrating dildo?

you kinky sloot
Hey you said it not me
post 1572588331 01-31-2019, 05:49 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
An explicit example or what?

Bad boy vs. Nice guy

Bad boy is more sexually appealing but is bad for relationships. You continuously see women get into relationships with men they know arent good for them but they cant explain the attraction

I think often times women associate niceness with desperation; like you have nothing else to offer. Therefore its not of genuine niceness its placating and expecting something in return. E.g. if they had something else to offer then pleasing or whatever isnt the focal point

Dominance, strength, assuredness, confidence are all > nice

Place a strong guy next to a nice guy and the strong guy will make him look like a bish

As silence already elucidated, as long as they arent FEMININE, which to me points to a masculine baseline that is more important than "nice" and "nice" is a good subsidiary but is not the main focal point

Basically. Nice produces warm fuzzy feelings but doesnt open the vagina
This fukin post should be stickied. That said if you want chicks to think you’re a good dude that’s masculine all you have to do is lift, be 6’8, wear a cowboy hat/belt buckle/boots, works like a charm for me. If you can’t do those things idk what to tell you.
post 1572588341 01-31-2019, 05:49 PM
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Originally Posted By irmocool
Don't worry about what sloots want, just focus on yourself. You want her puss , go up to her let her know shes attractive and see where things go brah. Your the man create your reality. Women don't know what they want until its inside em
I am a fukkin nice guy! That's my default state. My ex used to roll her eyes and whine like a bitch whenever I'd take the time to help someone or give them money or whatever. Always rubbed me the wrong way because it clearly bothered her so much srs. It's definitely a detriment with the ladies, but I don't GAF anymore.
post 1572588751 01-31-2019, 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
I am a fukkin nice guy! That's my default state. My ex used to roll her eyes and whine like a bitch whenever I'd take the time to help someone or give them money or whatever. Always rubbed me the wrong way because it clearly bothered her so much srs. It's definitely a detriment with the ladies, but I don't GAF anymore.
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post 1572588951 01-31-2019, 05:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
No it doesn’t. Idk why everyone keeps conflating nice with beta.
that's the way most people perceive nice people though. is what it is. i'm a nice guy, but for people to not take advantage of me i have to dress like a badass
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post 1572589031 01-31-2019, 05:58 PM
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who is trolling northernlights7? I am a female I am just not intimidated by the misc culture. Cementpizza didn’t hurt my fee fee’s I just wanted reps.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
No it doesn’t. Idk why everyone keeps conflating nice with beta. You can be masculine, confident, and nice.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
I’ve been repeating the same point over and over. Masculine and nice are not contradictory. They can exist perfectly together and those are the best guys.

Same examples again: Brad Pitt, Chris Hemsworth, Tom Brady, Jimmy Garopolo.

Idk why I have to keep repeating myself.
Because we're speaking in generalizations, and in general, most women associate kindness with weakness. That's well established by science.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Brad Pitt, Chris Hemsworth, Tom Brady, Jimmy Garopolo
How do you know all four of these men haven't killed strippers?
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
I’ve been repeating the same point over and over. Masculine and nice are not contradictory. They can exist perfectly together and those are the best guys.

Same examples again: Brad Pitt, Chris Hemsworth, Tom Brady, Jimmy Garopolo.

Idk why I have to keep repeating myself.
You just named 4 celebrities. These aren't "real" people because they hold so much social status (note: NOT money) that they can set a high level of attraction with any girl regardless. Besides, you literally have zero proof that any of those four are "nice" LOL.
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Originally Posted By chloebabe
answering a question makes me a prostutute? Like really? No you said you would rep me if i answered your dumb question.i don’t like pizza anyways.
wait what
A million miles away - I don't.. feel.... anything.
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Originally Posted By ANumber1
How do you know all four of these men haven't killed strippers?
Because they have enough money to pay someone to do that for them.
Originally Posted By Chloebabe
who is trolling northernlights7? I am a female I am just not intimidated by the misc culture. Cementpizza didn’t hurt my fee fee’s I just wanted reps.
and no way in hell you're new here
A million miles away - I don't.. feel.... anything.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
I’ve been repeating the same point over and over. Masculine and nice are not contradictory. They can exist perfectly together and those are the best guys.

Same examples again: Brad Pitt, Chris Hemsworth, Tom Brady, Jimmy Garopolo.

Idk why I have to keep repeating myself.
They exist in Dalton, not those *******s.

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I think the real measure here is how much fun she is having with the guy
most nice guys I'd say are not fun because they are afraid to take risks and do crazy stupid stuff..

that's what I would say it the real measure here
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Originally Posted By seanb1979
Because they have enough money to pay someone to do that for them.
I think we all know those are men who would only kill strippers because they enjoy it, not because they have to.
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
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Being 'nice' is the absolute minimum you should be as a decent human being. If your defining trait being 'nice' as your absolute defining personality trait, you're basically signposting that you can breathe and function within human society. It doesn't help that most self-proclaimed nice guys are only nice to select people (aka. the girl he wants to get in the pants of) and is only nice to her and in front of her, usually being an snaky fuk when she is out of view. And if you have to call yourself nice and pat yourself on the back in public about how nice you are, you probably aren't. A genuinely nice person is good for the sake of being good and won't rant online about how it doesn't get them sex, for example. They'll just do nice chit and get on with their day like nothing changed. The difference between a genuinely good person and a "nice guy" being nice to get some pussy is very obvious because the latter tends to talk themselves up far more than is necessary.

Then you have the entitlement. Being nice to a girl makes nice guys think they deserve her affection, sex and whatever else. It doesn't entitle you to chit. So that's why nice guys end up being bitter and cry about the friendzone, because they think they deserve a relationship. The fact that people even use words like the friendzone makes them think there was ever a chance and that they can force romantic feelings out of a woman because they're too autistic to understand how emotions work. They try to engineer scenarios that will get them laid, no matter how intricate or ridiculous. They're also the types that avoid confrontation and think that waiting for a girl will mean they should fall into their arms. The moment a nice guy starts complaining about how them being nice means that they should have a gf is an instant red flag that they are not genuinely nice people. They put up this facade of what they think is ideal and fake it until their vile inner-selves comes out at the point of rejection.

You hear about it all the time from girls matching with "nice guys" on dating apps. If the girl matches and doesn't reply within 30 seconds, the nice guys will go on autistic tirades about how they'd treat her like a princess, then call her a worthless sloot that deserves to die in the same sentence. This is why a lot of nice guys tend to get nowhere. They have this warped view of how relationships work and how they form. So when they fail time and time again, they begin to lash out in different ways. They start thinking being a bad boy that's a little cheeky means insulting somebody and demeaning them as pieces of chit at every opportunity when it actually requires a sense of situational humour which leads to a downward spiral which isn't appealing at all.
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that's the way most people perceive nice people though. is what it is. i'm a nice guy, but for people to not take advantage of me i have to dress like a badass
If you're a genuinely nice and decent person, the majority of people will admire it because it comes with a level of charisma and confidence that only someone that is genuinely good, or at least decent most of the time, has. Being nice, as in being a little slimeball that is only nice to get something is snide, spineless and pathetic, so these types of guys are taken for a ride.
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Dear Seanb1979 check the join date. My join date reads Jan 30th 2019. If that isn’t new I don’t know what is. Like I said just not scared of misc culture.
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