lol looks like youre the drama queen in this story, over reacting over two comments made in a period of various months. Can be handled better. Also lol at stringing around a girl for 6 months for nothing.

Dude, you didn't even kiss her after a few months? I can see waiting a few dates to kiss, even longer to fuk but after a while, it makes sense she'd think you were married. Obviously she turned out to be crazy but at some point, she wanted the dik.

Test it fine, but what would've been the point if you can't get off the ground with someone because of their insecurities?



I was just looking to meet someone, sane.....nice. Wasn't trying to rush anything, was just trying to get to know her. But you can't do that when someone wigs out for no reason and you have breaks in communication for months.

I have no problem with making a move or even trying to get physical, but this was a situation that didn't allow that.

That sounds like normal behavior for a woman that lives on social media. srs

Some of you guys cant read, this dude did the right thing by not sticking his thing in that woman. If she acted that batchit crazy without sex then how do you you think she wouldve reacted if he hit it and quit it? He actually wanted to get to know a chick before having sex. Yall act like that is something unheard of..

Some of you guys are so pussy deprived you're willing to put yourself in OP's situation just to have sex. Now that is ****ing pathetic.

Almost stopped reading when I kept seeing "after a few months..." "months later..."

I talk to a girl on those apps for max one day before asking them to meet, which is usually within a day or two. I don't want a pen pal and I'd rather feel them out in person.

I guarantee that girl showed red flags very soon and you ignored them. Then you kept allowing her nonsense into your life. You're better than that, OP.

We'll just start at the beginning. Late last year, I meet this bird on POF. Conversation was excellent. She works, in school, seemed to have her head on straight, we were vibing and the whole wop. So, after a few weeks of conversation and texting, we decide to meet. It goes great. We're laughing, talking, both glad that the actual pics matches what we've seen......so we decide the meet again and from there, we continue to meet.

Not that it matters, but she's 27 or 28.

I'm the perfect gentleman. Never tried to fukc, kiss her, press up on her.....I'm playing it cool because we're actually vibing and to me I'm like, "If I fukc too soon, I'll lost interest. Everything she says to me, I won't listen to. I'm going to want to fukc and that's it." We even had the talk about sex too soon, expectations, blah blah blah.

A few months go by, then sh** turns sour. When we're texting throughout the day, it's cool. But when it stops, she likes to make slick comments and get jealous. So one day she says, "Who is she?" and I'm like, "The fukc? Who is who?" and she's asking me about another chick, why I didn't get back to her.....so I tell her, "Listen, we just met. I'm not your dude. I'm not seeing or talking to anyone, it's my job." And it was. I was literally working 7 days a week. I have no kids, so I can paper chase as much as I want without being held down. 13/14 hour days were common because I was able to work as much as I wanted. In the midst of this, I explain to her that that sh** isn't cute and no man wants to deal with that insecure sh**. She apologizes, we get back to talking. A few months later, she does it again. Over what, I don't remember, but I wig out this time and tell her, "Look, you've got some growing up to do. Whatever he did, I didn't. I didn't hurt you, we don't owe each other anything....I haven't even fukced you. Lose my number."

We don't speak for a while. I delete her number, I have no social media so nothing to remove there, block her on WhatsApp, Marco Polo.....I'm done.

She reaches out a while later and apologizes. I tell her it's cool, I've moved on from it, no hard feelings. We get chummy again, MIND YOU, I'VE NEVER FUKCED OR KISSED HER, so the dick doesn't have you acting like this....it's just me being a standup nice guy. She works in the medical field and she travels while doing it, so she gets an assignment to work in a city 2 hours from us. I guess on her way there, they call her and tell her it's been cancelled, she's good to head back home. I'm at work, she texted me what happened and she says, "Wanna go to Texas?", but I couldn't respond because I was busy at the time. So I get a chance to read it finally and I'm thinking, "This is last minute to the core. I won't be able to swing that." I have a dog, so there was no way I can leave him that long by himself and although my mother loves him, I didn't want to ask her if she could watch him on that short of a notice. Before I could even get the chance to reply I couldn't, but something in the city would work, she texted me this really hateful message to the effect of, "This is why I don't give my heart out. If you didn't want to go, you could've just said no. You didn't have to go silent all this time. Men ain't sh**. Have fun Mr. Married Man."

I'm pissed off now. I reply to her, "Listen, this is the third time you've come at me foul. I've done nothing to you. I wasn't able to reply because I was working. I was going to see if we could do something in the city because I have no one to watch my dog. You need to grow up. Let your heart heal before you try to put yourself out there next time. And for the record, I'm not married. Not sure where you got that from, but you can look it up."

That was the last thing that was said for the past 6 months.

Fast forward to today, I wake up to a text message from the ex-wife and 4 missed calls back to back. The text messages are saying, "Do you know her? Who the fukc is this? Why won't you answer my calls?"

I'm sleep, so I hear nothing and see nothing until I wake up and I'm like, "Wtf are you talking about? I was sleep." So we get into this back and forth and I finally tell her, "Listen, I have no idea why she did that. I haven't spoken to her and I don't condone that. I apologize, but I had zero knowledge of this." Apparently, she found her on FB and sent her a message asking her if we're still married. So now here I am, having to answer for some sh** I'm unaware of and don't condone. I had to go back into my archives to find her number and when I did, I lit into her.....

We go back and forth a little bit and she tells me she was unsure of me and insecure. Because I couldn't answer at the time, someone hurt you to the point you feel like everyone is out to get you, you invade my personal life and involve someone who has ZERO to do with this scenario. This bitch is crazy.

I've seen a car like hers the past few months driving past my house. I can't say 100% sure it's her, but based on this, I'm almost positive it is.

Since my divorce, I've met 6 chicks....ALL of them have been scarred something crazy. This was just the first to actually take it this far.

These apps are trouble. Delete them.

I never said I dated her. We didn't get that far. I said we conversed a bit, saw each other a few times.....we were nowhere near the stage of being intimate.

Dude, you didn't even kiss her after a few months? I can see waiting a few dates to kiss, even longer to fuk but after a while, it makes sense she'd think you were married. Obviously she turned out to be crazy but at some point, she wanted the dik.

Almost stopped reading when I kept seeing "after a few months..." "months later..."

I talk to a girl on those apps for max one day before asking them to meet, which is usually within a day or two. I don't want a pen pal and I'd rather feel them out in person.

I guarantee that girl showed red flags very soon and you ignored them. Then you kept allowing her nonsense into your life. You're better than that, OP.

no pics again?

and gay story bruh

last thing i want to hear about is how much of a stand up guy you are FGT

how great ones fall




and youre really worried about your whore divorced wife?

Is this the MISC hero we need or deserve?

Do you not understand what dating is?

Fukc you AND your pics *******. The fukc I look like posting pics??? Eat dick.



This muthafukca can't read....

I specifically said we both agreed on conversation and getting to know each other....neither one of us mentioned relationship or dating.

It's time to change your name to IMADSOMEBODY.

You should have known creating this thread would have resulted in you getting ripped to shreds lol

Almost stopped reading when I kept seeing "after a few months..." "months later..."

I talk to a girl on those apps for max one day before asking them to meet, which is usually within a day or two. I don't want a pen pal and I'd rather feel them out in person.

I've met some older birds that are batty as well. Definitely a sad thing to experience when you're just trying to meet someone nice without all the extra sh**.

We gotta pay for what the last muthafukca did to you???? Fukc outta here.

He cheated, you're insecure.
He did you dirty, you stayed, you're insecure.
You stayed all that time, your heart is broken.

You finally decide to leave, don't heal, meet someone new who is unaware, he gets the attitude and all that.

Nah, I'm good.

This guy has been the misc king of cringe for years at this point, so the story is hardly surprising. His "text advice" threads are good for trolling people, but nothing beyond that. Carrying on months of texting an unstable girl, without even the idea of smashing, is laughably ridiculous.

no pics again?

and gay story bruh

last thing i want to hear about is how much of a stand up guy you are FGT

how great ones fall




and youre really worried about your whore divorced wife?

Is this the MISC hero we need or deserve?

Do you not understand what dating is?

you're a FGGOT



this


guys a total FGGOT

derp derp girl i text/"date" with, and 1921 date ( holding hands, no kissing) is mad because im leading her on with my gay christian orthodox dating methods

derp derp we text for months derp derp and sometimes go on dates, I swear this isnt dating though derp derp

derp derp she is wondering why i am such a FGGOT because im acting like one derp derp heeheeheee shes so crazyyyyyy guys

I'm 38. And no, they don't bother me, it's just funny that they want drama to happen for no reason when you can avoid the sh**.

We're too old for that nonsense.

And the reason for making a thread about this poverty non-story? 5 miles of text, no point, no conclusion, just like a women’s magazine.

Interesting

I used to think you knew women, relationships, people

But that story ?

Whole load of wtf were you playing at up in there

Yeeeeah, none of that happened. Calm down and pat your pussy in the corner Susan.

Yeah and you're too old for dating Gramps

"sonny, you got to wait 3 years before you go steady for a girl and hold her hand.""

**** off grandpa




except lifetime movies and womens magazine articles have good story arcs

this drivel was self-righteous nonsense disguised as alpha male " derp derp GUISE IM SO BUSY WITH LIFE im 38 OLD, NO WIFE, DIVORCED, BEARDED TRADIE but look at this CRAZY GIRL I DATED , I MEAN DIDNT DATE LOLLLLLLLL shes so DUMB for thinking i LIKED HER AFTER NUMEROUS DATES AND TALKING FOR A YEAR LOLLLLLLLLL women today are CRAZY ARENT THEY MILLENIALS AND GEN Z?

You're not fooling us GRAMPS

This broad isnt crazy, you just are a total FGGOT who plays games because youre an old divorced loser.




hes a FGGOT OLD TIMER NOW

what do you expect?

btw nice slim thicc physique



all of that happened buddy

never EVER POST AGAIN

This broad isnt crazy, you just are a total FGGOT who plays games because youre an old divorced loser.