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Just brokeup with the best GF I've had in about 10 years #deardiary (nopics)
01-07-2020, 09:56 PM
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Originally Posted By BuckNakedinBama⏩
You're 100% correct here, it is your fault. You're supposed to be the man in the relationship, you should dictate how the relationship is run. Clearly you didn't do that.I'm surprised and really appreciative of all the responses and support in this thread. Thank you even for the hate and snide comments.
This morning she's texted saying how much she had fallen for me and how hard this is and that I could've done things differently (always my fault, apparently) and that it didn't need to be this way, but that she understands I've decided she's not worth the risk and time. A lot of guilt tripping packed into one text, but I know she didn't mean it to be a guilt trip, but fukk it does suck.
This morning she's texted saying how much she had fallen for me and how hard this is and that I could've done things differently (always my fault, apparently) and that it didn't need to be this way, but that she understands I've decided she's not worth the risk and time. A lot of guilt tripping packed into one text, but I know she didn't mean it to be a guilt trip, but fukk it does suck.
Originally Posted By Bo_Flecks⏩
This.Gotta agree with Godfrey here, OP. If you were really into her like you said, you wouldn't have thrown in the towel. She didn't tell you to fukk off with that noise; she said she'd work on it. Obviously, you weren't willing to. Relationships take work, so maybe being in one isn't for you.
The sheer brutality of this brings the lulz. Never change, misc.
The sheer brutality of this brings the lulz. Never change, misc.
Originally Posted By BuckNakedinBama⏩
You're 92 years old, NC is a bit childish don't you think? Especially for a woman who didn't cheat on you, and didn't scam or steal from you.Been full NC all day. Trying to stay strong.
Originally Posted By Tanerian⏩
This, CementPizza Jr is 100% correct here. If the relationship is serious, she needs to understand that you will be a father figure to that child, whether either of you want it or not. And if you're gonna do it, you might as well do it right.So does the wife tho.
Little bit of this lol. You sound mad jelly, But kids aren't for everyone so good on you for realizing it and breaking it off I suppose
Fuking this, unless OP's demands are infrequent.
Otherwise she's ignoring her kid to fuk you, but won't ignore her kid when you guys go out, which means you are boring when you guys go out, and likely didn't pay much attention to her kid.
Can't date a single mom with a young child on a serious level if you aren't willing to step in as a father "figure".
Lesson learned OP. Smash single moms, do not date.
Little bit of this lol. You sound mad jelly, But kids aren't for everyone so good on you for realizing it and breaking it off I suppose
Fuking this, unless OP's demands are infrequent.
Otherwise she's ignoring her kid to fuk you, but won't ignore her kid when you guys go out, which means you are boring when you guys go out, and likely didn't pay much attention to her kid.
Can't date a single mom with a young child on a serious level if you aren't willing to step in as a father "figure".
Lesson learned OP. Smash single moms, do not date.
Originally Posted By BuckNakedinBama⏩
If you're not willing to be the man in the relationship, don't waste her time. If you put in the work as a man should, you won't have the kinds of issues you're having now.Well boyos she begged me last Saturday night to meet me out for a drink and I was drunk from the Patriots game so agreed and well of course she stayed over.
Is begging me right now to come over. Swears she just wants sex and to not date again.
Ugh.
Is begging me right now to come over. Swears she just wants sex and to not date again.
Ugh.
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01-07-2020, 10:03 PM
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Originally Posted By BuckNakedinBama⏩
I’m sure it’s slim pickins’ in the single women with no kids pool in ‘BamaThanks brahs for the support. This really hurts, but hearing people tell me I did the right thing takes the edge off a bit.
I don't detest children at all. I just don't want any of my own and don't like when they hog all the attention. Literally whenever the gf would start talking to me the kid would be like "mommy come see this" and instead of her saying "just a minute, I'm talking to OP" she'd immediately leave me to tend to whatever BS her kid wanted to show her.
lol, would never harm a child. The kid is sweet, and I really like the kid, but she's annoyingly needy.
To not date moms.
Joint custody, brah. Obviously only SOD when the dad has the kid.
I don't detest children at all. I just don't want any of my own and don't like when they hog all the attention. Literally whenever the gf would start talking to me the kid would be like "mommy come see this" and instead of her saying "just a minute, I'm talking to OP" she'd immediately leave me to tend to whatever BS her kid wanted to show her.
lol, would never harm a child. The kid is sweet, and I really like the kid, but she's annoyingly needy.
To not date moms.
Joint custody, brah. Obviously only SOD when the dad has the kid.
I think OP dun goofd.
Everyone got baggage brah.
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01-07-2020, 10:15 PM
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Originally Posted By AlphaAlfalfa⏩
Agree at age 58 from alot of experience.Never date Girls with kids... you will always come second...
in fact.. just never date girls at all.. they're all trash
in fact.. just never date girls at all.. they're all trash
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