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post 1666796943 08-26-2022, 01:16 PM
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So you tried to curve her and she didn't like it.
post 1666797423 08-26-2022, 01:25 PM
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OP is like the male SS

How is this chit thread 5 pages
post 1666797893 08-26-2022, 01:33 PM
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Originally Posted By PenorBrahNoHomo⏩
OP is like the male SS

How is this chit thread 5 pages
Surprised Try men isn't the main theme


never proved a single claim yet here we are
post 1666798003 08-26-2022, 01:35 PM
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Originally Posted By teriyakiboy27⏩
You look pretty small, but if you're actually rich then that will definitely make you stand out, especially in Mexico.
Yeah. Too bad being rich doesn't make you stand out anywhere else in the world.
I'm back, bitches!
post 1666798023 08-26-2022, 01:35 PM
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borderline.

leave now while u have a chance.
post 1666799253 08-26-2022, 01:52 PM
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The girl should always love the guy more than the guy loves the girl.

This is why she is jealous.
post 1666799593 08-26-2022, 01:56 PM
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Yep. Have dating girls in the past like this. A little jealous is fine. But when it causes fights it’s not worth it. How old is she? Maybe if she’s young she’ll grow out of it.
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post 1666800363 08-26-2022, 02:10 PM
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Originally Posted By EagleOfWar⏩
Yep. Have dating girls in the past like this. A little jealous is fine. But when it causes fights it’s not worth it. How old is she? Maybe if she’s young she’ll grow out of it.
Shes 25. This isn’t a maturity thing.

She legit makes up things in her mind. Was watching Netflix last night with her and she got mad after I said an old lady looked nicer than in a diff show that we saw her in lol. She was like 50
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post 1666801063 08-26-2022, 02:22 PM
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
Sorry to hear that
Ditto.

I noticed that you had begun posting more again and that you no longer mentioned having an SO, but I didn't want to pry.

Hope you find the right one.<3
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post 1666801483 08-26-2022, 02:29 PM
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The breakup will be worse when she shows up unannounced at 1am.

With scissors.

Get a doorcam, ded srs
post 1666801563 08-26-2022, 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Shes 25. This isn’t a maturity thing.

She legit makes up things in her mind. Was watching Netflix last night with her and she got mad after I said an old lady looked nicer than in a diff show that we saw her in lol. She was like 50
Are you gonna admit she has BPD or this is a troll thread?
post 1666802203 08-26-2022, 02:41 PM
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Okay, then dump her.
post 1666802723 08-26-2022, 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Several times at the gym she has approached me and told me “I know what you are doing, I’m not a fool” then walks out of the gym or something.She makes it up in her head that I’m flirting with women right there and then in front of her. As in I didn’t know she’s observing my every move.


She’s just damaged, and in sorry for her. I’m no captain America either but either way I’m over this and moving on
Ouch, this one says a lot about her. That is in no way a normal behavior, even for clingy girls.

It's a tough spot you are in. Either go cold as fuk and just end it, or try one more time having a serious talk, explaining how if it happens more, thingswill not work out. And if it indeed happens one more time, then stick to your words

Edit: Just read all the posts, good advice ITT. And holy fuk at how easily she gets mad. If she was 18-20, I would have given it a few more chances, but she is 25; a full grown woman. Ask yourself if she is worth making your life harder
post 1666803463 08-26-2022, 03:05 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Shes 25.
Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
full blown introvert like me and hot as fuk. Gym rat too. Likes anime and nerd **** like that

she’s a stage 5 clinger. insanely jealous about any girl that looks my way

I get paranoid if we are eating out and a hot girl walks inside the place, if I just so happen to be looking that way when the girl enters or if I accidentally take a glimpse, it’s a one hour fight.

at least 2-3 big fights per week

She’s an ángel otherwise

no pics
Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Shes a sex freak

I treat her like a sex doll, she gets off on that ****.

Now I have zero desire to fuk her tho.
Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
I legit feel we are a very good match.

Shes submissive, does what I tell her to do or at least is willing to listen, cooks me meals, etc

One day I woke up and my desire to have sex with her was basically dead.

a legit 9/10.
Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Have talked to her several times. She realizes she has a problem, a sickness, she fully aware of it.

She’s also going to a psychologist

Several times at the gym she has approached me and told me “I know what you are doing, I’m not a fool” then walks out of the gym

she’s observing my every move.

She’s just damaged
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
my ex was very conflict avoidant with our problems and didn't address them. In June she had a major blow up (i.e. throwing ****, breaking glass, yelling) and late July she got physical with me. Thing is she is usually calm but you never know how someone will react when a break-up happens. I came to the realization that it was incompatible for a while. I had reservations for months and we ended it.
the white girl who wouldnt eat your bunghole as often as you'd like? sad.
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post 1666806283 08-26-2022, 03:58 PM
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don't change the woman... CHANGE the woman

how she behaves is a reflection of how you are as a man

improve yourself, set boundaries. and she will be a feminine sloot that obeys at all levels

you don't understand the game if she is acting out of place

srs
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post 1666806473 08-26-2022, 04:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Hey I saw When Harry Met Sally yesterday and the guy reminds me of your facial expressions and mannerism etc pls confirm
Been hearing that all my life since I was a kid srs
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post 1666814533 08-26-2022, 06:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Have talked to her several times. She realizes she has a problem, a sickness, she fully aware of it. It just keeps happening.

She’s also going to a psychologist, and when I ask her how it goes she freaks out and tells me she can’t change in one day lol. Also if I say her attitude and jealously is causing us a problem she loses her ****, says that I’m not happy and that only makes her think I’ll leave her for somebody that doesn’t have her issues. So I can’t even have that talk without it turning into an issue and her getting all emotional on me.


Several times at the gym she has approached me and told me “I know what you are doing, I’m not a fool” then walks out of the gym or something. She makes it up in her head that I’m flirting with women right there and then in front of her. As in I didn’t know she’s observing my every move.


She’s just damaged, and in sorry for her. I’m no captain America either but either way I’m over this and moving on
What did the psychologist diagnose her with? BPD or another Cluster B personality disorder? If so it’s not like she’s damaged for life. There is Dialectical Behavioral Therapy that is only supposed to go for 2 years and then the person learns how to cope with emotions such as jealousy.
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Not enough reps for the quality and funny posts in this thread.

Roll around Ken, you’ll be alright
post 1666820583 08-26-2022, 08:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
Yeah. Too bad being rich doesn't make you stand out anywhere else in the world.
It depends on what your definition of "rich" is too, he might have 100K or something and consider himself rich. He calls himself tall and aesthetic, yet he looks 5'10", 170 lbs to me, so it's all relative. Compared to other Mexicans he is probably quite large.
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Yea get out OP.

She doesn't need a relationship, and you don't need that behavior to deal with. What a girl like that needs is to be alone to fix herself. Although women fear being alone so unless she sees that she is doomed to have a long ride. She is acting like that because she knows she has these issues and being in a relationship makes her extremely insecure about them. That's why any mention of them will set her off emotionally.

Time to end it OP. In a very nice way. Sounds like a good girl but has past trauma she needs to deal with. Trauma that isn't your problem, but hers...and she won't accept your help.
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Originally Posted By teriyakiboy27⏩
It depends on what your definition of "rich" is too, he might have 100K or something and consider himself rich. He calls himself tall and aesthetic, yet he looks 5'10", 170 lbs to me, so it's all relative. Compared to other Mexicans he is probably quite large.
Why is that so important to you bro? Thread isn’t even about that.
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post 1666823393 08-26-2022, 09:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Why is that so important to you bro? Thread isn’t even about that.
I was just responding to that guy, you're the one who claimed to be rich and look like a Greek God.
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post 1666824163 08-26-2022, 09:52 PM
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Originally Posted By teriyakiboy27⏩
I was just responding to that guy, you're the one who claimed to be rich and look like a Greek God.
Nah man you are putting way too much thought into that
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
What did the psychologist diagnose her with? BPD or another Cluster B personality disorder? If so it’s not like she’s damaged for life. There is Dialectical Behavioral Therapy that is only supposed to go for 2 years and then the person learns how to cope with emotions such as jealousy.
Cluster B personality disorders are really hard to treat and a it's a huge risk to take thinking they can change. It's way more common to stay in toxic relationships with these people (whether it's men or women) far too long trying to "fix" them.
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Originally Posted By EiFit91⏩
Cluster B personality disorders are really hard to treat and a it's a huge risk to take thinking they can change. It's way more common to stay in toxic relationships with these people (whether it's men or women) far too long trying to "fix" them.
The person has to do that type of therapy and want to change. Ken couldn't change her. She would need to do it herself. Yet I agree that they're hard to treat because even with Dialectical Behavioral Therapy they may not follow it correctly.
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