Thread: BigBalls Summer of Love 2024
05-21-2024, 01:25 PM
#121
Originally Posted By ~Hades~⏩
I've done it several times in the past. I stopped because misc was not being consistent, they adjust their opinion for the sake of the narrative they want to believe.
has op ever posted pic of himself?
I will see them say a clearly more attractive white guy is ugly, and then tell me I'm average, because that is what helps the argument they want to make.
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05-21-2024, 01:26 PM
#122
Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
This is what I've done most of my life, and it got me nothing.
I think the most important thing is to not put so much thought into getting a gf or getting laid. When you go out, you should be having a good time, regardless what the women around you are doing. That's not to say ignore women in the vicinity, just don't put so much though into them. They're the bonus. All your interactions should be natural.
Yes, pretty obvious you dont want to be trying too hard. I never have done that. But that simply means I'm not making an obvious mistake, that doesnt mean I'm doing anything that works.
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05-21-2024, 01:29 PM
#123
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
How much socializing do you do? What type of men and women are you around? Do you not know women that could hook you up with a friend? That's how a vast majority of men get a gf/wife.
This is what I've done most of my life, and it got me nothing.
Yes, pretty obvious you dont want to be trying too hard. I never have done that. But that simply means I'm not making an obvious mistake, that doesnt mean I'm doing anything that works.
Yes, pretty obvious you dont want to be trying too hard. I never have done that. But that simply means I'm not making an obvious mistake, that doesnt mean I'm doing anything that works.
I had to edit my post.
You say you have it tough, but don't realize other men aren't really in a better position
Getting laid isn't easy for a vast majority of men, unless they're tall, good looking, and confident. Most men around aren't that, most will strike out if you ask them to get a woman's number.
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05-21-2024, 01:31 PM
#124
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
It doesn't work that way . It's not an all or nothing approach. There's dudes 6'2 putting more effort into the way their physique looks and fitness level.
I stopped lifting after college, but in college I was very built. I still graduated a virgin so IT DIDNT MAKE A DIFFERENCE.
Some of you love to say how important things that never made a difference for me are.
Some of you love to say how important things that never made a difference for me are.
You are getting out worked by people more natural gifted and expect results ?
Put your best foot forward
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05-21-2024, 02:03 PM
#125
Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
I think I socialize a good amount, but its usually just with my friends. Rarely in way that involves meeting new people. Hence the plan of using online and meetup groups.
How much socializing do you do? What type of men and women are you around? Do you not know women that could hook you up with a friend? That's how a vast majority of men get a gf/wife.
I had to edit my post.
You say you have it tough, but don't realize other men aren't really in a better position
Getting laid isn't easy for a vast majority of men, unless they're tall, good looking, and confident. Most men around aren't that, most will strike out if you ask them to get a woman's number.
I had to edit my post.
You say you have it tough, but don't realize other men aren't really in a better position
Getting laid isn't easy for a vast majority of men, unless they're tall, good looking, and confident. Most men around aren't that, most will strike out if you ask them to get a woman's number.
It isnt easy for the vast majority of men, but its very different from actually impossible because women reject you on height/race alone.
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05-21-2024, 02:05 PM
#126
Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Its not an all or nothing approach, its a "is this a complete waste of time or not" approach. its possible that my situation is hopeless and nothing I do is going to make a difference. It doesnt make sense to kill myself to maxx this and that if it isnt going to make a difference.
It doesn't work that way . It's not an all or nothing approach. There's dudes 6'2 putting more effort into the way their physique looks and fitness level.
You are getting out worked by people more natural gifted and expect results ?
Put your best foot forward
You are getting out worked by people more natural gifted and expect results ?
Put your best foot forward
I need to find out the potential before I invest myself in anything.
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05-21-2024, 02:34 PM
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Quick update, I'm killing it online so far. 5 matches and just on day 3. All average black women.
They are really going to have a problem with my height, black women love heals etc. But at this rate, on pure volume there is some opportunity.
They are really going to have a problem with my height, black women love heals etc. But at this rate, on pure volume there is some opportunity.
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05-21-2024, 07:31 PM
#128
OP. Do you prefer Nina or Eneri lookswise?
05-21-2024, 07:46 PM
#129
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Except you didn't "use my exact line", you had to add your cringe to it.
I literally used your exact line about "three's a crowd". Which only became necessary because I listened to other miscers who told me not call it a date when I texted her.
What was my advice from the beginning in the thread you deleted?
05-21-2024, 08:26 PM
#130
Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
In fairness to him though brah, it almost certainly wouldn't have made a difference. My advice to him was to just get her out one on one and then make clear moves, but the moment she sent a text inviting another friend it was over. After that, it was just a matter of getting closure.
Except you didn't "use my exact line", you had to add your cringe to it.
What was my advice from the beginning in the thread you deleted?
What was my advice from the beginning in the thread you deleted?
05-21-2024, 09:42 PM
#131
Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
ye it doesn't matter, misc overthinks the absolute **** out of texts, worse than women. As long as you aren't completely retarded or desperate it doesn't really matter.
In fairness to him though brah, it almost certainly wouldn't have made a difference. My advice to him was to just get her out one on one and then make clear moves, but the moment she sent a text inviting another friend it was over. After that, it was just a matter of getting closure.
Although, the retarded and autistic part is certainly a valid concern on this forum. BBMG's "high functioning" autism is off the charts and he doesn't even recognize it.
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05-21-2024, 10:02 PM
#132
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Gratz on finally learning about women. I'm so proud of you bro.
ye it doesn't matter, misc overthinks the absolute **** out of texts, worse than women. As long as you aren't completely retarded or desperate it doesn't really matter.
Although, the retarded and autistic part is certainly a valid concern on this forum. BBMG's "high functioning" autism is off the charts and he doesn't even recognize it.
Although, the retarded and autistic part is certainly a valid concern on this forum. BBMG's "high functioning" autism is off the charts and he doesn't even recognize it.
05-22-2024, 05:07 AM
#133
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I dont have autism you retard. Just because I like to think carefully about what I do doesnt make me autistic.
ye it doesn't matter, misc overthinks the absolute **** out of texts, worse than women. As long as you aren't completely retarded or desperate it doesn't really matter.
Although, the retarded and autistic part is certainly a valid concern on this forum. BBMG's "high functioning" autism is off the charts and he doesn't even recognize it.
Although, the retarded and autistic part is certainly a valid concern on this forum. BBMG's "high functioning" autism is off the charts and he doesn't even recognize it.
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05-22-2024, 05:10 AM
#134
Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
Everyone knows it wouldnt have mattered, the question was what the best way to do it, regardless and the misc didnt have perfect answers either. And then when I call them out they act offended.
In fairness to him though brah, it almost certainly wouldn't have made a difference. My advice to him was to just get her out one on one and then make clear moves, but the moment she sent a text inviting another friend it was over. After that, it was just a matter of getting closure.
The vast majority of you have no idea what the fuk you're talking about, because you can't see outside of your own experiences. Most of you are narcissists and cant put yourself in my shoes, so you only think in terms of what you would do or say and not what I should. thats the entire problem.
you're mostly decent looking white men who think you have answers for a 5'3 african incel. You do not.
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05-22-2024, 05:14 AM
#135
Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
its not about being cringe, its about being clear about what was going on so she didnt have to say it herself. That was the problem. If I didnt add my line CLEARLY ASKING FOR A DATE it would have been even more awkward. The ambiguous chit was not the right move, misc was wrong.
Except you didn't "use my exact line", you had to add your cringe to it.
What was my advice from the beginning in the thread you deleted?
What was my advice from the beginning in the thread you deleted?
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05-22-2024, 05:29 AM
#136
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
What was my advice from the beginning in the thread you deleted?
its not about being cringe, its about being clear about what was going on so she didnt have to say it herself. That was the problem. If I didnt add my line CLEARLY ASKING FOR A DATE it would have been even more awkward. The ambiguous chit was not the right move, misc was wrong.
05-22-2024, 05:31 AM
#137
Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
Not saying it would have made a difference, just pointing out he didn't, as he claimed. used my exact line.
In fairness to him though brah, it almost certainly wouldn't have made a difference. My advice to him was to just get her out one on one and then make clear moves, but the moment she sent a text inviting another friend it was over. After that, it was just a matter of getting closure.
05-22-2024, 05:35 AM
#138
Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
i said the exact line you gave me. you're being retarded again and Im going to start ignoring you again
Not saying it would have made a difference, just pointing out he didn't, as he claimed. used my exact line.
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05-22-2024, 05:36 AM
#139
Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
I have no idea because you're on ignore and I usually ignore you, which I'll go back to again.
What was my advice from the beginning in the thread you deleted?
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05-22-2024, 05:38 AM
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now op thinks he will have luck on the apps
my apps have been dry lately
if you do get a slumpbuster butterface to meet up with you, she's gonna go to the bathroom and never come back as you are height frauding.
it's still mind blowing to me you can't maintain meaningful employment and you expect women to give you their time.
head so far up your arse m8 i am not sure how you breathe
my apps have been dry lately
if you do get a slumpbuster butterface to meet up with you, she's gonna go to the bathroom and never come back as you are height frauding.
it's still mind blowing to me you can't maintain meaningful employment and you expect women to give you their time.
head so far up your arse m8 i am not sure how you breathe
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05-22-2024, 05:39 AM
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Hey man, its nice that you are giving it a shot…..but as we have been saying for a long time…..your results will be way better once you adjust your mindset. You low key have a negative tone towards things and women can pick up on it pretty easily.
So it not just about shooting your shot as many times as possible. Its about creating the best version of yourself in order to up your chances of attracting the person you want.
That takes time and extreme effort.
So it not just about shooting your shot as many times as possible. Its about creating the best version of yourself in order to up your chances of attracting the person you want.
That takes time and extreme effort.
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05-22-2024, 05:41 AM
#142
Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
let's summarize op
Hey man, its nice that you are giving it a shot…..but as we have been saying for a long time…..your results will be way better once you adjust your mindset. You low key have a negative tone towards things and women can pick up on it pretty easily.
So it not just about shooting your shot as many times as possible. Its about creating the best version of yourself in order to up your chances of attracting the person you want.
That takes time and extreme effort.
So it not just about shooting your shot as many times as possible. Its about creating the best version of yourself in order to up your chances of attracting the person you want.
That takes time and extreme effort.
hates himself
is always right
argumentative
unemployed
given up
checked out
short
ugly
black
sounds like a real catch.
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05-22-2024, 05:41 AM
#143
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
The motivation to work has to come first…..then you get the prize.
I didnt dump all of them and those were 5 and 8 years ago in an entirely different part of the country. Its not relevant to whats possible or not today.
Yes I'm NEET, but this isnt about maintaining a relationship which is when that would be a problem. This about seeing whats possible.
If I'm fated to be incel, it validates my plan to stay NEET. If there seems to be opportunity I'll have some motivation to work.
Yes I'm NEET, but this isnt about maintaining a relationship which is when that would be a problem. This about seeing whats possible.
If I'm fated to be incel, it validates my plan to stay NEET. If there seems to be opportunity I'll have some motivation to work.
As noted…..your reasoning is backwards.
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05-22-2024, 05:42 AM
#144
Originally Posted By DeputyDong5⏩
I literally am already doing better than I've ever done in real life. I have 6 matches in 3 days. Thats 6 potentials. 6 more than I've ever gotten in real life EVER.
now op thinks he will have luck on the apps
my apps have been dry lately
if you do get a slumpbuster butterface to meet up with you, she's gonna go to the bathroom and never come back as you are height frauding.
it's still mind blowing to me you can't maintain meaningful employment and you expect women to give you their time.
head so far up your arse m8 i am not sure how you breathe
my apps have been dry lately
if you do get a slumpbuster butterface to meet up with you, she's gonna go to the bathroom and never come back as you are height frauding.
it's still mind blowing to me you can't maintain meaningful employment and you expect women to give you their time.
head so far up your arse m8 i am not sure how you breathe
The only dates i've ever been on were from online. if not for online I'd literally be a kissless virgin.
Again, you idiots are narcissists who think your experience is all that matters and cant see outside to my situation.
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05-22-2024, 05:43 AM
#145
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Nope, you removed the first couple of words, and added your signature cringe to it.
i said the exact line you gave me. you're being retarded again and Im going to start ignoring you again
As for you ignoring me, that's your loss, not mine.
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05-22-2024, 05:43 AM
#146
Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
The dating game isnt a meritocracy. I've gotten dates/relationships before and I didnt do anything to "earn" those. It was just luck from a numbers game.
The motivation to work has to come first…..then you get the prize.
As noted…..your reasoning is backwards.
As noted…..your reasoning is backwards.
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05-22-2024, 05:45 AM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
Hey man, its nice that you are giving it a shot…..but as we have been saying for a long time…..your results will be way better once you adjust your mindset. You low key have a negative tone towards things and women can pick up on it pretty easily.
So it not just about shooting your shot as many times as possible. Its about creating the best version of yourself in order to up your chances of attracting the person you want.
That takes time and extreme effort.
So it not just about shooting your shot as many times as possible. Its about creating the best version of yourself in order to up your chances of attracting the person you want.
That takes time and extreme effort.
I have gotten dates and a girlfriends before, with the exact same mindset I have now. Actually even worse cause when I was literally a 25 yr old virgin I couldnt even draw on any past success.
You are just ignoring reality to fit your worldview.
This is just a numbers game to find someone who thinks im attractive. Thats all it was before, thats all it is now. The question is how bad of a numbers game I need to play.
None of this other chit you guys are saying matters
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05-22-2024, 05:45 AM
#148
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Reminder for everyone who might not be aware - this dude has Ivy League education.
The dating game isnt a meritocracy. I've gotten dates/relationships before and I didnt do anything to "earn" those. It was just luck from a numbers game.
I guess it doesn't mean anything these days.
05-22-2024, 05:46 AM
#149
Originally Posted By DeputyDong5⏩
I'm only this way with retards on the misc. You guys are so fuking stupid.
let's summarize op
hates himself
is always right
argumentative
unemployed
given up
checked out
short
ugly
black
sounds like a real catch.
hates himself
is always right
argumentative
unemployed
given up
checked out
short
ugly
black
sounds like a real catch.
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05-22-2024, 05:46 AM
#150
Originally Posted By DeputyDong5⏩
Yeah man I feel you. There are some things on that list he cant control…..but there are a ton of things on that list that he can but for some reason chooses not to. The most unbearable one is the argumentative and stubborn side. I dumped a few dimes in my day that had those traits. No matter how hot they were…..that attitude was completely insufferable. Imagine not being hot and being like that……………..
let's summarize op
hates himself
is always right
argumentative
unemployed
given up
checked out
short
ugly
black
sounds like a real catch.
hates himself
is always right
argumentative
unemployed
given up
checked out
short
ugly
black
sounds like a real catch.
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