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Thread: GF went out drinking with friends for bday... NC since 6 last night. Is my tour over?

post 1452895173 07-15-2016, 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩


You have decisions to make. I think a majority of this thread agree you should end this relationship, me included. But I will play devils advocate for a second.

You need to decide what you believe/want to believe. If you believe her story about just not being on her phone, and want to continue this you need to set her straight. You were very nice about the way you brought this up. That isn't going to work because if you simply forgive it, I guarantee she will do it again because she knows she can get away with it and you'll just forgive her. Right now is the first time its happened and you need to hammer down on her firmly to let her know there will not be a second time.

I'm not saying to be a psycho control freak, but you are both adults in a serious relationships and both of your feelings are important. You need to make it crystal clear that if this happens again the relationship will be over. There is no reason she could not answer a simple text from 6PM - 5AM. Not to mention she's blowing you off because shes hungover.

It does not matter if its a big deal or not in reality. It is something that is important to YOU. She is with YOU. So something that bothers you should be something she will make sure doesn't happen again.
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post 1452895483 07-15-2016, 01:25 PM
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I still have no clue why you would not go out with your GF on her B-day.....you not wanting to go, or her not wanting you there is a big problem.

Sounds like she is still in that teenage land of "Im finally my own person and can do what I want" and you are like her parent telling her not to have fun.

Now awaiting the next catbrah new GF thread.
post 1452895603 07-15-2016, 01:26 PM
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post 1452895993 07-15-2016, 01:28 PM
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How long you guys been dating?
post 1452896283 07-15-2016, 01:31 PM
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Am pretty much set on NC unless she starts texting something that makes me believe she actually understands what's wrong with the scenario.

This is part of why I normally don't date girls 6+ years younger than me...
Good man reps, you deserve better brah. I honestly wouldn't even entertain it if she pleaded, but maybe you see something in her.
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post 1452896343 07-15-2016, 01:31 PM
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This is 3pacshaker all over again...
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edit- nevermind lul he was the one that got cucked by trey songz
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post 1452896353 07-15-2016, 01:31 PM
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Sorry to hear about your loss mate. But you'll find a better chick catbrah
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Fuark Catbrah, do you think she went to a dog park? She probably doesn't want you to smell the dog on her, so she had to go home and shower, and lint roll her clothes.


Im so sorry mayne. Brutal. . .should go NC on the other side of the flat earth we are on.
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post 1452897193 07-15-2016, 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
There is no good outcome there.

1) she answers and is annoyed I'm checking up on her.

Or
You ****ing wat. How long have you been together a few weeks? It's your girlfriend and if you're serious about moving in together you can call her whenever the **** you want.
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Cliffs?
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Originally Posted By EnderG60⏩
I still have no clue why you would not go out with your GF on her B-day.....you not wanting to go, or her not wanting you there is a big problem.

Sounds like she is still in that teenage land of "Im finally my own person and can do what I want" and you are like her parent telling her not to have fun.

Now awaiting the next catbrah new GF thread.
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post 1452898433 07-15-2016, 01:46 PM
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it could be worse.....she could have stayed up catching pokemon all night
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post 1452898673 07-15-2016, 01:48 PM
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Little late but still IN.

I got a bad feeling about this Catbrah. She may try and play it off as nothing but do you think she never looked at her phone that long? It is possible it died but really think about how often people (girls even moreso) look at their phones regardless of where they are. You even mentioned you text all the time so that leads me to believe that she would have anticipated a few messages from you over the course of that night. Personally I don't drink but I find it hard to believe you can get so drunk that you cant reply to a single text over such a long span of time.
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post 1452898773 07-15-2016, 01:48 PM
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Originally Posted By CazU⏩
Cliffs?
Catbrah in a relationship with girl much younger then him, newish relationship.

Girl lives 70miles apart, typical day catbrah and her send 100 texts

Girls birthday is this weekend, went out bar hopping with girlfriends yesterday.

Catbrah sent 4-5texts, she didn't respond to any of them until this afternoon.

Girl is already guilt tripping Catbrah ("i'm too hung over for this").

Catbrah going NC
post 1452898993 07-15-2016, 01:50 PM
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Originally Posted By James24WR⏩
underwear. Link?


edit- nevermind lul he was the one that got cucked by trey songz
god i still wish we had closure on that thread, it was such a tease, never found out what happened after the fact
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lol misc is so quick to say end it.

How long have you been together OP? I'm going to guess it's less than a year. A girl who truly cared about you doesn't have to check in at all hours, and you shouldn't check in at all hours either, but she should show a little bit of remorse upon waking up and realizing they were MIA for the entire night.
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jesus christ OP you're a weak ******* (looking at your sig). No wonder you're a Trump hater. It all makes sense now you cat-loving beta *******!
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol⏩
Catbrah in a relationship with girl much younger then him, newish relationship.

Girl lives 70miles apart, typical day catbrah and her send 100 texts

Girls birthday is this weekend, went out bar hopping with girlfriends yesterday.

Catbrah sent 4-5texts, she didn't respond to any of them until this morning.

Girl is already guilt tripping Catbrah ("i'm too hung over for this").

Catbrah going NC
lol fug.
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post 1452901383 07-15-2016, 02:07 PM
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Funny how most females will side with her and say you're controlling and being ridiculous. Even though we all know it's phucked up and she should apologize.

Once you set a precedent for texting that much in a day, and then it stops, regardless of why, an apology is deserved if she has any respect.

You were rightfully concerned, for various reasons, and she doesn't like that? Why? Would it be better to ignore the elephant in the room and pretend like nothing is wrong? No, that will never work because eventually it will come out.

Either she realizes she's being dumb about it, or go NC. Good luck catbrah. Get someone who lives closer and is more caring.
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post 1452901523 07-15-2016, 02:08 PM
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Well, she's pissed I'm upset. And says she only got 5 hours sleep and is too tired for this. Which means she got home at ~6am
lol wut

NC for sure. you mean to tell me she had a nearly 12 hour window in which she could have responded, but didn't? not once?

that's shady as fk. Even if my gf didn't go out, but "fell asleep" for 12 hours straight at her place, I'd be suspicious af.

imagine for a sec, that this didn't happen at night, but during the day, at the new apartment you guys will be living in.. woke up at 8, she said she was going to run errands, and you don't hear from her until 8pm at night. what would you do now?
Originally Posted By JUGGERNAUT1333⏩
You have decisions to make. I think a majority of this thread agree you should end this relationship, me included. But I will play devils advocate for a second.

You need to decide what you believe/want to believe. If you believe her story about just not being on her phone, and want to continue this you need to set her straight. You were very nice about the way you brought this up. That isn't going to work because if you simply forgive it, I guarantee she will do it again because she knows she can get away with it and you'll just forgive her. Right now is the first time its happened and you need to hammer down on her firmly to let her know there will not be a second time.

I'm not saying to be a psycho control freak, but you are both adults in a serious relationships and both of your feelings are important. You need to make it crystal clear that if this happens again the relationship will be over. There is no reason she could not answer a simple text from 6PM - 5AM. Not to mention she's blowing you off because shes hungover.

It does not matter if its a big deal or not in reality. It is something that is important to YOU. She is with YOU. So something that bothers you should be something she will make sure doesn't happen again.
This is pretty accurate too, if you really do like her and care for her. Just let her know that it bothered you and that you won't tolerate that kind of stuff, because it's not fair for you to be stressing and worried about her while she's out having a good time, and if she cares about you/your happiness, she will understand.

if she doesn't get that, just explain how pissed she would be if you went out with your boys at 6pm and didn't contact her until the next day around noon.
Originally Posted By BenadrylBandit⏩
lol misc is so quick to say end it.

How long have you been together OP? I'm going to guess it's less than a year. A girl who truly cared about you doesn't have to check in at all hours, and you shouldn't check in at all hours either, but she should show a little bit of remorse upon waking up and realizing they were MIA for the entire night.
A girl who truly cares about you won't leave you wondering for half a day where tf she is and wtf she's up to, especially if you contacted her trying to find out.
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Agreed. Will update if/when I have answers.



Honestly, not everything has to do with gaming the chick. Early on sure. Once it's a serious relationship, if you're still adjusting the level of interest you show based on how you think she'll react, it's the wrong chick.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
You're wrong. You have to game your woman the rest of your life. See author Athol Kay.
I disagree. I mean, what's the point in gaming your woman?

It's this entire mentality that breeds FA's and pathetic men. I am myself, through and through and I if that means my gf will lose interest after x amount of years then so be it. My life does not revolve around gaming a chick to keep her interested. If anything, it just weeds the fake relationships out faster as in this case.
When you say gaming women I assume it's mind games, but on the flip side I totally agree with making sure you continue to show value to your woman by working on yourself and showing her you aren't relying on her pussy. That's a different convo.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
You're wrong. You have to game your woman the rest of your life. See author Athol Kay.
Did you ever end up smashing that 18 year old and taking her to your son's wedding?
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Just read the entire thread... The immediate guilt tripping when any reasonable person would believe she was in the wrong is by far the worst part of all of this. She should have at least had the dignity to make up an apology.
























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did she invite you to come out for her birthday or did she just want to go with friends? That's a huge red flag IMO. If she invited you out but you didn't really feel like going fair enough, but if she was more like "I'm going out with my friends for my birthday" just lol, we all know how that one ends. Best of luck to you mayn, I hope you think with logic and not emotion when coming to a decision.
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