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09-10-2016, 07:11 AM
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Not even interested in girls my own age. lol @ OP dating women 25+.
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09-10-2016, 07:23 AM
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Originally Posted By Cadet4life⏩
The other dude who mentioned princess syndrome is right too, and this is harder for me to understand. I can see waiting for thst knight in shining armor, but honestly as u approach late 20s it's time to get realistic. Women still hold out for this. Then they will try to bag a man fast enough so that they will give her a child before they see that she's romantically inept. Once that egg is fertilized, they know it doesn't matter how they act, you're in it biologically and legally, no escape.i can see your logic. makes sense
Aging women need to realize that they may need to come back to reality regarding that "I'm gonna find my prince: garbage. If they couldn't hold on to the prince they likely met in the past for whatever reason (crazy, want to experience different coks, too career focused to nurture the relationship), it might be time for them to chill out and start with the basics with an average guy. The older a woman gets, the steeper that curve drops when it comes to finding some incredible perfect man.
09-10-2016, 07:27 AM
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I feel you guys pain, I got divorced when I was 29. Tried dating and the women were useles, not worth my time. Then went on a trip to Colombia, found my future wife been married over 11 years things are great. The mind set of a Latino women is totally different, not ruined by feminist. If only had American women to date I'd be single forever.
09-10-2016, 07:31 AM
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Originally Posted By badbart⏩
Buying plane ticket now.I feel you guys pain, I got divorced when I was 29. Tried dating and the women were useles, not worth my time. Then went on a trip to Colombia, found my future wife been married over 11 years things are great. The mind set of a Latino women is totally different, not ruined by feminist. If only had American women to date I'd be single forever.
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09-10-2016, 08:40 AM
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Originally Posted By ppself⏩
I totally agree with this but your missing the final part... Women also need to understand that if they're going to be his way then the man is the authority and she needs to stay in line. Gone are the days when she starts going too far and you could check her with a good slap to the face and everyone would snap back into place and be thankful you did it.Wait, wut?
All women are like this.
When they are not. It's because they have no responsibilities or care in the world. Bascially they are young.
#1 Example? Both me and the wife are strict Christians. We don't really say weird religious stuff.
#2 Means they really like you. They would rather talk to you than someone else.
#3 Means they are not interested in what you are saying. Which my wife does to me when i talk about gaming or comics.
#4 I see this with personal appearance daily. It's a woman thing.
#5 Yep. It's a human thing. Women have hormones that get crazy.
IMO. Men need to start being men. There is a reason why we are men and they are women. Women push the BS, and Men are able to adsorb it.
All women are like this.
When they are not. It's because they have no responsibilities or care in the world. Bascially they are young.
#1 Example? Both me and the wife are strict Christians. We don't really say weird religious stuff.
#2 Means they really like you. They would rather talk to you than someone else.
#3 Means they are not interested in what you are saying. Which my wife does to me when i talk about gaming or comics.
#4 I see this with personal appearance daily. It's a woman thing.
#5 Yep. It's a human thing. Women have hormones that get crazy.
IMO. Men need to start being men. There is a reason why we are men and they are women. Women push the BS, and Men are able to adsorb it.
Women want to feel and act like men when it's convenient and be women the rest of the time. There's no checks and balances anymore. Before women could put this all on heir husbands and men could keep them in line if they went too far. Women on the other hand ****ed and kept men fed and healthy. If a man got out of line and really did abuse her she could file divorce and take half and that kept men in check. It's all ****ed up now.
09-10-2016, 09:05 AM
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Originally Posted By Rayzor84⏩
FWIW I think you are missing a bit of the story in a big general kind of way.In a way I feel kind of bad for these women. There's a small subset that had to work from a young age and could never not work due to their circumstances, so they never really had the time to develop their relationship skills.
Then there's others, a much larger subset, that were brainwashed from a young age by pride, home life, whatever into thinking that they needed to adopt masculine traits. They become so concerned with not being submissive that they become overly dominant. They feel that to be equal they need to focus on their career and "don't need no man" mindset, even while in a relationship (so the partners are pretty much roommates, no affection, no passion, no gender connection). Then as time goes on, that inevitable instinct kicks in where they want to be feminine deep down. They want to have a kid. Maybe they get a glimpse that career isn't all there is to life, they want a family. But by then for alot of them it is too late, they are so mired in their old mindsets that they never developed healthy relationship skills so now you have aging women in constant self conflict (translates to being batchit crazy) who don't know how to be in a relationship.
It's really a product of them listening to all these bitter old hags and trying to be a feminist or trying to be the dominant in everything, which is anti-feminine. The truth is, very very few men want a masculine woman, and these women don't seem to understand that. But by the time they do, usually the tour is over bc they are psychologically damaged and can't even give a relationship what it needs on the most basic levels.
Then there's others, a much larger subset, that were brainwashed from a young age by pride, home life, whatever into thinking that they needed to adopt masculine traits. They become so concerned with not being submissive that they become overly dominant. They feel that to be equal they need to focus on their career and "don't need no man" mindset, even while in a relationship (so the partners are pretty much roommates, no affection, no passion, no gender connection). Then as time goes on, that inevitable instinct kicks in where they want to be feminine deep down. They want to have a kid. Maybe they get a glimpse that career isn't all there is to life, they want a family. But by then for alot of them it is too late, they are so mired in their old mindsets that they never developed healthy relationship skills so now you have aging women in constant self conflict (translates to being batchit crazy) who don't know how to be in a relationship.
It's really a product of them listening to all these bitter old hags and trying to be a feminist or trying to be the dominant in everything, which is anti-feminine. The truth is, very very few men want a masculine woman, and these women don't seem to understand that. But by the time they do, usually the tour is over bc they are psychologically damaged and can't even give a relationship what it needs on the most basic levels.
-'80s no fault divorce caused the divorce rate to spike up
-enter a generation of women aware that you can't depend on marriage for life; need to be able to fend for yourself
-said women teach this to their daughters
Call if feminism if you want, but it was an adaptation to changing reality. Divorce went from something kind of rare that happened w/cheating, abuse, addiction, to quite quite common.
My mom was in that divorce wave, though it was absolutely warranted. She pushed that "you can't depend on a man" meme. And, TBH, it is pretty true.
OTOH I also had the example of my grandmas that both were married for life. Loved my paternal grandma who was like my second mom because we spent so much time together. So I was alright with the traditional role and still am, though it is probably going to bite me in the azz...been out of the workforce nearly 10 years.
But most men are not okay with it and you get the "financial dependent" meme. Maybe some men would like it, but don't make enough money to support it. Or maybe they could possibly have a wife that stays home, but would rather she work so they have more money/security.
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09-10-2016, 09:12 AM
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I have smashed 50+ chicks and got into a relationship with an 8/10+ european the last year. I can see myself marrying her but cant help but feel like I am still too young(25) not to be smashing sloots.
Thanks op for reminding me im making a good decision.
Thanks op for reminding me im making a good decision.
09-10-2016, 10:31 AM
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Originally Posted By Rayzor84⏩
That's not the only problem. Our emotional response to experiences are always strongest the first time. So even though we objectively meet a better partner later in life, our emotional response might be weaker. Now add to all this that women are creatures of the moment and slaves of their feelings, and a general tendency to romanticize things we experience in the past, and you have an impossible situation. 30+ year old women, holding on to some warped past experience of love, a massive ego and a biological clock that is racing...no wonder they are crazy.The other dude who mentioned princess syndrome is right too, and this is harder for me to understand. I can see waiting for thst knight in shining armor, but honestly as u approach late 20s it's time to get realistic. Women still hold out for this. Then they will try to bag a man fast enough so that they will give her a child before they see that she's romantically inept. Once that egg is fertilized, they know it doesn't matter how they act, you're in it biologically and legally, no escape.
Aging women need to realize that they may need to come back to reality regarding that "I'm gonna find my prince: garbage. If they couldn't hold on to the prince they likely met in the past for whatever reason (crazy, want to experience different coks, too career focused to nurture the relationship), it might be time for them to chill out and start with the basics with an average guy. The older a woman gets, the steeper that curve drops when it comes to finding some incredible perfect man.
Aging women need to realize that they may need to come back to reality regarding that "I'm gonna find my prince: garbage. If they couldn't hold on to the prince they likely met in the past for whatever reason (crazy, want to experience different coks, too career focused to nurture the relationship), it might be time for them to chill out and start with the basics with an average guy. The older a woman gets, the steeper that curve drops when it comes to finding some incredible perfect man.
...and even if they do fall in love, they have this constant conflict between their feelings and their expectations to how love and relationships should really be. The last woman I dated crushed hard on me the first 6-7 months, but then the crazy started sneaking up on me. She started behaving really erratic, throwing tantrums whenever I disagreed on something important, only to come begging for forgiveness hours later.
09-10-2016, 11:08 AM
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Originally Posted By Hypernation⏩
OP you are actually describing all females1. saying wacky religious chit while you're in the sac (and after)
2. Obsessive calling and texting
3. deer in headlight during conversations like not all the lights are on inside
4. Hyperinsecurities in bed
5. Bipolar as fu ck
The list goes on, man. I'm just saying these are probably girls you have all dealt with, but they're in utmost surplus past 29 years of age. It's terrible.
2. Obsessive calling and texting
3. deer in headlight during conversations like not all the lights are on inside
4. Hyperinsecurities in bed
5. Bipolar as fu ck
The list goes on, man. I'm just saying these are probably girls you have all dealt with, but they're in utmost surplus past 29 years of age. It's terrible.
09-10-2016, 11:18 AM
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
This may be the case with some women but I disagree overall. Even prior to the 80s there were many movements about sexual freedom (slooting), women's independence from a feminine gender role, etc. They stopped shaving, demanded equal rights (which is fine in itself but a prelude to how things are today, skewed in the other direction), etc. The mentality of woman power and masculinization began long before the no fault divorce. Any feminists I know today didn't start out saying "damn I wish I could depend on men but I can't so I'm going independent," but rather "I am woman hear me roar I don't need anyone, I'm perfect and men arent ****." And this latter mentality has landed them in alot of trouble because it goes against our biological programming and has driven alot of them nearly insane as they crave feminine, family roles yet developed an unnatural sense of masculinity and gender pride.FWIW I think you are missing a bit of the story in a big general kind of way.
-'80s no fault divorce caused the divorce rate to spike up
-enter a generation of women aware that you can't depend on marriage for life; need to be able to fend for yourself
-said women teach this to their daughters
Call if feminism if you want, but it was an adaptation to changing reality. Divorce went from something kind of rare that happened w/cheating, abuse, addiction, to quite quite common.
My mom was in that divorce wave, though it was absolutely warranted. She pushed that "you can't depend on a man" meme. And, TBH, it is pretty true.
OTOH I also had the example of my grandmas that both were married for life. Loved my paternal grandma who was like my second mom because we spent so much time together. So I was alright with the traditional role and still am, though it is probably going to bite me in the azz...been out of the workforce nearly 10 years.
But most men are not okay with it and you get the "financial dependent" meme. Maybe some men would like it, but don't make enough money to support it. Or maybe they could possibly have a wife that stays home, but would rather she work so they have more money/security.
-'80s no fault divorce caused the divorce rate to spike up
-enter a generation of women aware that you can't depend on marriage for life; need to be able to fend for yourself
-said women teach this to their daughters
Call if feminism if you want, but it was an adaptation to changing reality. Divorce went from something kind of rare that happened w/cheating, abuse, addiction, to quite quite common.
My mom was in that divorce wave, though it was absolutely warranted. She pushed that "you can't depend on a man" meme. And, TBH, it is pretty true.
OTOH I also had the example of my grandmas that both were married for life. Loved my paternal grandma who was like my second mom because we spent so much time together. So I was alright with the traditional role and still am, though it is probably going to bite me in the azz...been out of the workforce nearly 10 years.
But most men are not okay with it and you get the "financial dependent" meme. Maybe some men would like it, but don't make enough money to support it. Or maybe they could possibly have a wife that stays home, but would rather she work so they have more money/security.
09-10-2016, 11:20 AM
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Originally Posted By sunchine⏩
Seriously wtf... I read through that whole garbage to read a funny story and he didnt provideYour post is useless unless you tell some anecdotes about crazy 30 year old bishes
fk ohp and calves *crew*
09-10-2016, 11:30 AM
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Originally Posted By Rayzor84⏩
I see the sexual freedom bit, aka the Pill. And, heck yeah, I want equal rights as in the right to vote, right to own property, equal pay, etc. The shaving thing is pretty fringe-y.an unnatural sense of masculinity and gender pride.
Want to expand on the above though? 'Cause I'm unaware.
The only thing I can think of that *might* get called masculinity and gender pride would be telling girls that they can do the same kind of work as men (mostly true, but real tea most men are better suited for some roles and most women are better suited for others) and maybe some focus on women's history which seems legit to me as women weren't recognized for much in traditional history classes.
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09-10-2016, 11:44 AM
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Cot damn I'm going to be celibate and single for the rest of my life... all this scares the living chit out of me.
I hope I can find a woman with similar values compared to my mother (no incest) she's been with 1 man her entire life (my father) and they're still married even after he cheated on her. We only found out once but honestly I wouldn't be surprised if he did it a couple other women.
Anyways my very first girlfriend who was white sounds a lot like the "good" girls explained in this thread, like for example she could never seem to lie to me about anything, she wanted take care of me (dat female maternal aspect) and she had her crazy moments but if I stood my ground with masculine energy and demanded she be submissive to me through my actions she was always there for me, and it seems to have turned her on that she could never sway me from my path unless of course I was genuinely being a fool or not treating her right...
Sigh I think it's true about latino women they do have a certain mentality to them. I think it's their culture
I hope I can find a woman with similar values compared to my mother (no incest) she's been with 1 man her entire life (my father) and they're still married even after he cheated on her. We only found out once but honestly I wouldn't be surprised if he did it a couple other women.
Anyways my very first girlfriend who was white sounds a lot like the "good" girls explained in this thread, like for example she could never seem to lie to me about anything, she wanted take care of me (dat female maternal aspect) and she had her crazy moments but if I stood my ground with masculine energy and demanded she be submissive to me through my actions she was always there for me, and it seems to have turned her on that she could never sway me from my path unless of course I was genuinely being a fool or not treating her right...
Sigh I think it's true about latino women they do have a certain mentality to them. I think it's their culture
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09-10-2016, 11:48 AM
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Originally Posted By Rawp0wer1O1⏩
this. and i know what im talking about.protip: it's women of all ages not just that age range lmao
age range 18-40. there are just and unbelievable high amount of crazy girls on this earth.
not even the obvious ones, lots of "hidden" ones too, where you can't believe it at first before they finally show their real face and get jelly
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Lmfao @ pathetic scared miscrs ITT.
Every man knows men get better with age and women don't. Time is on our side boyos, we enter into our Prime later in life, not sooner. So enjoy the building and the journey. Once we make it women literally throw themselves at you.
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Every man knows men get better with age and women don't. Time is on our side boyos, we enter into our Prime later in life, not sooner. So enjoy the building and the journey. Once we make it women literally throw themselves at you.
We all gonna make it.
09-10-2016, 11:50 AM
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Originally Posted By leafs43⏩
Reminds me of something I once heard a comedian say:Your first mistake is thinking there are sane women to begin with.
"I used to think some women were crazy, then I met EVERY WOMAN IN MY LIFE, EVER. Turns out they're all crazy."
When the opportunity has arrived,
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
I'm talking more about family dynamics with this one. It's more like women who treat a relationship as of they are dominant, they make final decisions, etc. It should always be equal power, equal decision making and compromise. Alot of women try to take the role of the 1950s husband, where they should be catered to (most can't even cook anymore), and that they hold the power. Alot of times this ends up true but in a down low understanding, which is different than blatantly trying to be dominant. I even had a girl propose the idea to me of if kids happened, she be the career women while I stay at home with the child. I pretty much put my foot down on the spot. It was probably one of the most disrespectful and immasculating statements a woman ever made to me in a relationship. This is what I mean by alot of women not being happy with equality, they actually want to be the man role that they claim to hate so much.I see the sexual freedom bit, aka the Pill. And, heck yeah, I want equal rights as in the right to vote, right to own property, equal pay, etc. The shaving thing is pretty fringe-y.
Want to expand on the above though? 'Cause I'm unaware.
The only thing I can think of that *might* get called masculinity and gender pride would be telling girls that they can do the same kind of work as men (mostly true, but real tea most men are better suited for some roles and most women are better suited for others) and maybe some focus on women's history which seems legit to me as women weren't recognized for much in traditional history classes.
Want to expand on the above though? 'Cause I'm unaware.
The only thing I can think of that *might* get called masculinity and gender pride would be telling girls that they can do the same kind of work as men (mostly true, but real tea most men are better suited for some roles and most women are better suited for others) and maybe some focus on women's history which seems legit to me as women weren't recognized for much in traditional history classes.
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friend of mine who's 30 dated a 33 year old one...he was quite desperate and horny..she was okay looking for a 33 y old..
but jesus christ she was insane..I would rather deal with some 18 year old teenager over that clingy desperate shi.t this one came up with..
I saw the ESSAYS of text messages she sent him while and after they dated/broke up...and seriously 1 time me and my mates were almost calling the cops, because we thought she had kidnapped and murdered him lol, because he had been in a strip club..
girl(woman) was generally just desperate as fuk, wanting to marry within 1 month..baby talk...and was just dramatic as **** the whole time..like she was in a fukin hurry all the time if he didn't respond etc..
stay safe
but jesus christ she was insane..I would rather deal with some 18 year old teenager over that clingy desperate shi.t this one came up with..
I saw the ESSAYS of text messages she sent him while and after they dated/broke up...and seriously 1 time me and my mates were almost calling the cops, because we thought she had kidnapped and murdered him lol, because he had been in a strip club..
girl(woman) was generally just desperate as fuk, wanting to marry within 1 month..baby talk...and was just dramatic as **** the whole time..like she was in a fukin hurry all the time if he didn't respond etc..
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09-10-2016, 12:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Rayzor84⏩
Truth. The worst part is their coping mechanism for why they are single and can't make a relationship work.. They like to say that their 'confidence' is intimidating to men, or that these men can't handle their dominant personality, etc.In a way I feel kind of bad for these women. There's a small subset that had to work from a young age and could never not work due to their circumstances, so they never really had the time to develop their relationship skills.
Then there's others, a much larger subset, that were brainwashed from a young age by pride, home life, whatever into thinking that they needed to adopt masculine traits. They become so concerned with not being submissive that they become overly dominant. They feel that to be equal they need to focus on their career and "don't need no man" mindset, even while in a relationship (so the partners are pretty much roommates, no affection, no passion, no gender connection). Then as time goes on, that inevitable instinct kicks in where they want to be feminine deep down. They want to have a kid. Maybe they get a glimpse that career isn't all there is to life, they want a family. But by then for alot of them it is too late, they are so mired in their old mindsets that they never developed healthy relationship skills so now you have aging women in constant self conflict (translates to being batchit crazy) who don't know how to be in a relationship.
It's really a product of them listening to all these bitter old hags and trying to be a feminist or trying to be the dominant in everything, which is anti-feminine. The truth is, very very few men want a masculine woman, and these women don't seem to understand that. But by the time they do, usually the tour is over bc they are psychologically damaged and can't even give a relationship what it needs on the most basic levels.
Then there's others, a much larger subset, that were brainwashed from a young age by pride, home life, whatever into thinking that they needed to adopt masculine traits. They become so concerned with not being submissive that they become overly dominant. They feel that to be equal they need to focus on their career and "don't need no man" mindset, even while in a relationship (so the partners are pretty much roommates, no affection, no passion, no gender connection). Then as time goes on, that inevitable instinct kicks in where they want to be feminine deep down. They want to have a kid. Maybe they get a glimpse that career isn't all there is to life, they want a family. But by then for alot of them it is too late, they are so mired in their old mindsets that they never developed healthy relationship skills so now you have aging women in constant self conflict (translates to being batchit crazy) who don't know how to be in a relationship.
It's really a product of them listening to all these bitter old hags and trying to be a feminist or trying to be the dominant in everything, which is anti-feminine. The truth is, very very few men want a masculine woman, and these women don't seem to understand that. But by the time they do, usually the tour is over bc they are psychologically damaged and can't even give a relationship what it needs on the most basic levels.
They don't understand that a relationship doesn't work well with two dominant people. You constantly hit heads on ****, decisions are harder to finalize, and two people constantly trying to out-alpha each other is stressful and annoying. I'm not saying one partner has to be a doormat, i'm saying their has to be a king and a queen, not two kings. These women don't understand that men aren't intimidated by them, they are just annoyed by some kunt fighting them and trying to get their rosy **** in-front of the line all the time.
Then these women settle with a beta they lets them dominate, and the most unfortunate thing happens for them. They don't respect the man at all, lose all attraction for them, and end up leaving the man while crumbling him financially and emotionally.
Tldr: These women are disasters.
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Originally Posted By Milkahol⏩
Pretty much. There's really nothing worse than being a dominant personality, agreeing to be equal in partnership with another dominant personality. Inevitably if the other person fails to follow the equal part, it's going to turn into a **** show and every single issue turns into a massive fight bc no one wants to submit the the other. And if you submit just to end the fight, next time they expect you to do the same thing ND before u know it you're the submissive. And if u aren't a submissive person, this will make you very unhappy.Truth. The worst part is their coping mechanism for why they are single and can't make a relationship work.. They like to say that their 'confidence' is intimidating to men, or that these men can't handle their dominant personality, etc.
They don't understand that a relationship doesn't work well with two dominant people. You constantly hit heads on ****, decisions are harder to finalize, and two people constantly trying to out-alpha each other is stressful and annoying. I'm not saying one partner has to be a doormat, i'm saying their has to be a king and a queen, not two kings. These women don't understand that men aren't intimidated by them, they are just annoyed by some kunt fighting them and trying to get their rosy **** in-front of the line all the time.
Then these women settle with a beta they lets them dominate, and the most unfortunate thing happens for them. They don't respect the man at all, lose all attraction for them, and end up leaving the man while crumbling him financially and emotionally.
Tldr: These women are disasters.
They don't understand that a relationship doesn't work well with two dominant people. You constantly hit heads on ****, decisions are harder to finalize, and two people constantly trying to out-alpha each other is stressful and annoying. I'm not saying one partner has to be a doormat, i'm saying their has to be a king and a queen, not two kings. These women don't understand that men aren't intimidated by them, they are just annoyed by some kunt fighting them and trying to get their rosy **** in-front of the line all the time.
Then these women settle with a beta they lets them dominate, and the most unfortunate thing happens for them. They don't respect the man at all, lose all attraction for them, and end up leaving the man while crumbling him financially and emotionally.
Tldr: These women are disasters.
The only place where power struggles should always be happening is in the bedroom. This makes for amazing sex bc one is always trying to outdo the other, hop on top, etc. That power give and take in sex is incredible. But elsewhere, constant power struggles are a huge problem. And lol at those excuses, so true. Yeah, it's not that I'm intimidated by strong women, it's that I have no patience for domineering behavior.
09-10-2016, 12:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Mercworx⏩
feel the same way brahIt trips me out. The total lack of logic she had, her incoherent babble.
The only good thing from this is that I really enjoy my own company and I care even less about what women want or think now than I did before.
I'll rock socks and sandals to go watch a movie by myself, I've felt less societal pressure than ever before.
Another good point.
The only good thing from this is that I really enjoy my own company and I care even less about what women want or think now than I did before.
I'll rock socks and sandals to go watch a movie by myself, I've felt less societal pressure than ever before.
Another good point.
Funny how being slooted on totally changes your outlook on the world of relationships and dating
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09-10-2016, 01:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Rayzor84⏩
Gotta point. Two dominant personalities doesn't really work.I'm talking more about family dynamics with this one. It's more like women who treat a relationship as of they are dominant, they make final decisions, etc. It should always be equal power, equal decision making and compromise.
Have a friend like that who married a less intelligent/beta guy. Will say that they seem happy with their arrangement though.
Also have a couple of cousins that are career type. One would still like to marry, but it seems pretty unlikely. Her mom was the boss in her family too FWIW.
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
Yeah I've seen that alot...dominant mom's tend to create dominant daughters. And divorced moms tend to fail to instill healthy family and relationship values in their daughters. Seems to be one reason that the divorce cycle continues through these families.Gotta point. Two dominant personalities doesn't really work.
Have a friend like that who married a less intelligent/beta guy. Will say that they seem happy with their arrangement though.
Also have a couple of cousins that are career type. One would still like to marry, but it seems pretty unlikely. Her mom was the boss in her family too FWIW.
Have a friend like that who married a less intelligent/beta guy. Will say that they seem happy with their arrangement though.
Also have a couple of cousins that are career type. One would still like to marry, but it seems pretty unlikely. Her mom was the boss in her family too FWIW.
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The reality of the situation is that EVERYONE who "has a hard time" finding someone, simply has personality and or physical flaws preventing them from doing so. It's nothing to do with women. Or men.
Git gud.
Git gud.
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