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Just be a good person without expecting anything in return. Do your thing and be desireless.
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Originally Posted By Tabris⏩
If you're a genuinely nice and decent person, the majority of people will admire it because it comes with a level of charisma and confidence that only someone that is genuinely good, or at least decent most of the time, can acquire. Being nice, as in being a little slimeball that is only nice to get something is snide, spineless and pathetic, so these types of guys are taken for a ride.
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Originally Posted By maverickTT1⏩
be desireless.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No they can be amazing sexually too. As long as they are masculine.

Idk why everyone is conflating nice with beta or feminine. They are different things. You can be masculine and nice.

Look at Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth or Tom Brady or Jimmy Garroppolo. Those guys seem very nice and respectful. But at the same time they are confident and masculine. That is the GOAT combination.
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I find it hilarious that people say nice guys are putting on an act..

but I think its the opposite..

the "bad guys" are always putting on an act, trying to be cool. it goes both ways..

being nice isnt hard.. but when youre giving people rides all the time, covering their shifts etc when you dont have any free time for yourself.. thats where you have to draw the line with kindness.
Besides that. theres nothing wrong with being a good human being. if people think there is.. well they are whats wrong with society.
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OP doesn't understand you can get women and still be a nice decent person. What you you do is compromise your own identity to please the women like a slave, you agree with everything, you say the obvious thing she hears 100's times a day in messages and pick up attempts " oh your beautiful!", I love that song to, I love that to! Oh NO you don't bother me with that! Oh yes I will hang out anytime. There is a diff. between being nice, and being nice and agreeable only to please someone or because you think it will get you laid.


Any guy who says " Why don't I get any girls i'm a nice guy " is a entitled and manipulative person very selfish as well. You think you are being nice by agreeing with everything and having no free time, or views when talking to a girl you like. You think everyoen girl should fawn over you cause your so nice! A truely nice person does not ask such questions and has no trouble getting girls. He is nice and decent doesn't hurt people, or batter people, commit crime. But he also has his own time and things he loves.

Clear example: a nice guy will withdraw something he loves to try and please the girl... I see all the time GIRL: Anime/ and gaming is dumb as hell. GUY: Yeah that is dumb stuff I would never do that... when he loves gaming and anime he is compromising himself to please a woman this is called nice guy syndrome he is lying to himself and the girl because he wants to get her. Instead of trying to welcome her to gaming or anime he just agree it's garbage when he likes it. He's so desperate to get a girl he is willing to lie and give up something he loves to be with her... lame as hell and no girl will ever want a sad man like that. You would be a poor sad father and and protector, you can't even protect and stand up for yourself.

All these guy saying they are " Nice" are bullsht a nice person does not be nice to gain something from it. It is his character, what you are is a deceiver and manipulator/selfish and foolish.
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
I find it hilarious that people say nice guys are putting on an act..

but I think its the opposite..

the "bad guys" are always putting on an act, trying to be cool. it goes both ways..

being nice isnt hard.. but when youre giving people rides all the time, covering their shifts etc when you dont have any free time for yourself.. thats where you have to draw the line with kindness.
Besides that. theres nothing wrong with being a good human being. if people think there is.. well they are whats wrong with society.
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Originally Posted By momo5⏩
OP doesn't understand you can get women and still be a nice decent person. What you you do is compromise your own identity to please the women like a slave, you agree with everything, you say the obvious thing she hears 100's times a day in messages and pick up attempts " oh your beautiful!", I love that song to, I love that to! Oh NO you don't bother me with that! Oh yes I will hang out anytime. There is a diff. between being nice, and being nice and agreeable only to please someone or because you think it will get you laid.
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Originally Posted By EgoActor⏩
came in to post this. mr nice isn't pulling your hair, choking, spitting or calling you a whore/slut while roughing you up with a hard dick.
Who said anything about choking, spitting or verbally degrading a woman? Sadistic sex acts are not the same as "rough" or passionately raw sex...
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Originally Posted By momo5⏩
OP doesn't understand you can get women and still be a nice decent person.
Never once did I say you can't be a decent percent and get women. Those are not mutually exclusive.
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Did not read thread.

Nice boys (hypocrits, manipulators, sacrifices self for others instead of making putting self first and making choices, resentful)

Assertive Man (well adjusted mature adult that is himself not pretending to be a bad boy or nice boy)


Bad boys (aggressive, over the top animalistic, bully women/men, narcissic)

/end thread.
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Originally Posted By tecom⏩
Did not read thread.

Nice boys (hypocrits, manipulators, sacrifices self for others instead of making putting self first and making choices, resentful)

Assertive Man (well adjusted mature adult that is himself not pretending to be a bad boy or nice boy)


Bad boys (aggressive, over the top animalistic, bully women/men, narcissic)

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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
I find it hilarious that people say nice guys are putting on an act..

but I think its the opposite..

the "bad guys" are always putting on an act, trying to be cool. it goes both ways..

being nice isnt hard.. but when youre giving people rides all the time, covering their shifts etc when you dont have any free time for yourself.. thats where you have to draw the line with kindness.
Besides that. theres nothing wrong with being a good human being. if people think there is.. well they are whats wrong with society.
you have some points.. a lot of people want to act like they are cool when they are around a lot of people
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I actually read the book years ago. The point to the whole book is basically assertiveness.
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Originally Posted By CementPizza⏩
I'm right here. So, I see. You are a prostitute. We are just negotiating price and terms.
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I think people mix "nice" with beta. Nice is the old term but beta would be more accurate for the typical "nice guy" who's afraid to offend people, flirt with girls, and isn't masculine.

There's tons of alpha dudes who are nice.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah that’s what I’ve been saying.

Maybe people will finally get it now that you said it.
Yeah it's just the nice guy/bad boy dichotomy. Typical oversimplification, girls like all kinds of guys. Even flannel wearing hipster soy boys.
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Nice guys lack:

Confidence
Assertiveness
Masculinity

I can't imagine why women are su[ine on the pavement with their legs spread in awe for all the nice guys out there
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Originally Posted By ANumber1⏩
Shut the fukk up, you dumb cuck. Negged.
look at this cool guy here, damn
wish I was this coool
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In my view "nice guy" isn't a personality trait, it's just the basic vibe of a Guy who is operating whilst suffering from depression, or in any of the various ways ones mental state can be off kilter. The distant, uncaring Guy isn't really distant or uncaring, he's just emotionally stable and his life vibe at that time isn't bad enough for him to exhibit weakness.

Obviously any Guy can cycle between these states. It's not as if there are Guys who are happy and content that whine about the friendzone. Nor are there Guys with mental health or addiction issues who don't wind up embarassing themselves if they try dating.

Fix your mental state/frame. All this BS about the actual behaviors themselves are just examining symptoms.
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The funny thing is, i'm totally white knighting this girl right now. Calling her beautiful, saying we were meant for each other and stuff like that and she loves it. Maybe it goes differently for girls?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I’ve been repeating the same point over and over. Masculine and nice are not contradictory. They can exist perfectly together and those are the best guys.

Same examples again: Brad Pitt, Chris Hemsworth, Tom Brady, Jimmy Garopolo.

Idk why I have to keep repeating myself.
Brad Pitt had an affair with Angelina while he was with Jennifer Anniston, Tom Brady left his pregnant gf for Giselle. No wonder you think nice guys are the best. You see these scumbag guys and buy into their personas.
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Originally Posted By ilovelifenow⏩
The funny thing is, i'm totally white knighting this girl right now. Calling her beautiful, saying we were meant for each other and stuff like that and she loves it. Maybe it goes differently for girls?
Damn

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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩
you have some points.. a lot of people want to act like they are cool when they are around a lot of people
I think you just described many (but not all) of the misc crew......LOL
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
look at this cool guy here, damn
wish I was this coool
There's hope for you. You're Canadian, yet you did not just instinctively apologize.
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
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Originally Posted By tecom⏩
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Did not read thread. narcissic)

/end thread.
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Originally Posted By etet1919⏩
I think you just described many (but not all) of the misc crew......LOL
if that is true then most miscers are *******s i do not want to associate myself with. come @ me miscers
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