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post 1582684451 06-24-2019, 07:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Rajc⏩
talked to some sloot today, at first she was receptive but didnt workout at the end
this pretty much sums up how every cold approach is going to go.
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tried cold approach

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post 1582701401 06-25-2019, 03:38 AM
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Originally Posted By puffdaddy68⏩
this pretty much sums up how every cold approach is going to go.
It doesn't work it's a meme lol.
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There's a chick that frequents my gym the same time I go.

White, brunette hair, about an inch taller? Maybe. Anyways she definitely looks like she lifts because she has some muscle. She looks cute, but I can never get a clear look at her face lol.

I've never cold approached at a gym so I'm not feeling too confident. I really have no objective here, but I want to try anyways.

Hopefully I get a decent opportunity so I can break the ice.

My lifts are poverty and all of my insecurities come out at the gym. Doing this may do me some good. Just gotta do it now...
post 1582728481 06-25-2019, 12:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
There's a chick that frequents my gym the same time I go.

White, brunette hair, about an inch taller? Maybe. Anyways she definitely looks like she lifts because she has some muscle. She looks cute, but I can never get a clear look at her face lol.

I've never cold approached at a gym so I'm not feeling too confident. I really have no objective here, but I want to try anyways.

Hopefully I get a decent opportunity so I can break the ice.

My lifts are poverty and all of my insecurities come out at the gym. Doing this may do me some good. Just gotta do it now...
What are ur lifts? Woman dont care about how much you lift tho, as long as ur in decent shape theres no need to be insecure.
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Originally Posted By voidgaze⏩
there's a chick that frequents my gym the same time i go.

White, brunette hair, about an inch taller? Maybe. Anyways she definitely looks like she lifts because she has some muscle. She looks cute, but i can never get a clear look at her face lol.

I've never cold approached at a gym so i'm not feeling too confident. I really have no objective here, but i want to try anyways.

Hopefully i get a decent opportunity so i can break the ice.

My lifts are poverty and all of my insecurities come out at the gym. Doing this may do me some good. Just gotta do it now...
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post 1582729301 06-25-2019, 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted By samosajoe⏩
What are ur lifts? Woman dont care about how much you lift tho, as long as ur in decent shape theres no need to be insecure.
Still trying to get past one plate on the bench
That's my fault though. Not eating enough.
Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
eta?
Whenever I grow a pair of fukn balls.

If the opportunity presents itself, I'll take it. We just never cross paths.
post 1582729391 06-25-2019, 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted By s2hot⏩
Wasn't knocking you down, I just think you need to swim closer to the deep end before you celebrate too early. But I commend any progression that is made by a person!

Plenty of hot girls in supermarkets and in clothing stores. I think cold approaching with a friend makes it more light hearted, I would recommend that method for people new to this. If you and your friend hit on girls it just lightens the mood a little.
I hate cold approaching with friends, adds pressure cuz you don't want your friends to see you get blown off lol.
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post 1582730311 06-25-2019, 12:56 PM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
I hate cold approaching with friends, adds pressure cuz you don't want your friends to see you get blown off lol.
What kind of 'friends' do you have that if you bomb a cold approach in public would (in a serious way) give you chit for it?

Those don't sound like friends to me.
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post 1582731351 06-25-2019, 01:17 PM
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post 1582734831 06-25-2019, 02:05 PM
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In on this thread. Cold approached a girl a couple weeks back from the local park. Took her out on a date the following week. No sparks but I'm trying to meet at least 1 person a day. Easy in a big city
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post 1582736991 06-25-2019, 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes nobody cares how much you lift lmao.
Can't tell if srs, or rubbing it in.
post 1582737901 06-25-2019, 02:57 PM
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where to cold approach? i've downloaded tinder and will start cold approaching soon..
Ever tried, ever failed..
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post 1582740071 06-25-2019, 03:34 PM
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Does cold approach mean you just go up and talk to people at random?

I smashed this Thai girl I met at a comic-con convention. Just walked up to her and commented on her outfit. Told her I would go up to her city to chill with friends then we hooked up.
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post 1582741051 06-25-2019, 03:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
Still trying to get past one plate on the bench
That's my fault though. Not eating enough.



Whenever I grow a pair of fukn balls.

If the opportunity presents itself, I'll take it. We just never cross paths.
you can't even bench 1 plate? Jesus Christ. I hit that in my 1st month of training weighing like 155lbs.

You're not ready.

Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
I hate cold approaching with friends, adds pressure cuz you don't want your friends to see you get blown off lol.
Your friends should support you srs, if your friends give you chit they are bad friends. And they can give you valuable advice as sometimes you can't see your wrong doings from your own perspective
post 1582741241 06-25-2019, 03:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
There's a chick that frequents my gym the same time I go.

White, brunette hair, about an inch taller? Maybe. Anyways she definitely looks like she lifts because she has some muscle. She looks cute, but I can never get a clear look at her face lol.

I've never cold approached at a gym so I'm not feeling too confident. I really have no objective here, but I want to try anyways.

Hopefully I get a decent opportunity so I can break the ice.

My lifts are poverty and all of my insecurities come out at the gym. Doing this may do me some good. Just gotta do it now...
Used to be this dude in his 40s at my gym that would introduce himself to tons of people. He'd just look you square in the eye, smile, extend his hand and say "(Name) nice to meet you"

Pretty soon almost everyone in the gym was shooting the chit with him. Younger guys, older guys some of the girls. It really is that simple just gotta have a base level of confidence. I'm not exactly pro-cold approach but if you're gonna do this that's the biggest gamechanger.
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post 1582741321 06-25-2019, 03:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes nobody cares how much you lift lmao.
A fit chick is not gonna want to be talked to by some slob. I have girls at my gym that can bench a plate ffs.
post 1582741881 06-25-2019, 03:59 PM
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Originally Posted By s2hot⏩
you can't even bench 1 plate? Jesus Christ. I hit that in my 1st month of training weighing like 155lbs.
I think you misread that. GET PAST one plate. I already bench one plate, and try to add 5-10lbs as I go.

EDIT: Nevermind. Another mentally ill multi account. Nice try.
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
I think you misread that. GET PAST one plate. I already bench one plate, and try to add 5-10lbs as I go.
if you don't bench at least twice your body weight it's over for you.
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post 1582742081 06-25-2019, 04:03 PM
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport⏩
Used to be this dude in his 40s at my gym that would introduce himself to tons of people. He'd just look you square in the eye, smile, extend his hand and say "(Name) nice to meet you"

Pretty soon almost everyone in the gym was shooting the chit with him. Younger guys, older guys some of the girls. It really is that simple just gotta have a base level of confidence. I'm not exactly pro-cold approach but if you're gonna do this that's the biggest gamechanger.
This guy was your Dad wasn't it?
Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport⏩
if you don't bench at least twice your body weight it's over for you.
That's fair. 300lbs will take some time though.

Surely you don't expect this in a few months right?
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
I think you misread that. GET PAST one plate. I already bench one plate, and try to add 5-10lbs as I go.

EDIT: Nevermind. Another mentally ill multi account. Nice try.
what are you talking about? Put some effort into the gym ffs. Feb 2018 join date and benching 135. You're the one with issues.
post 1582743611 06-25-2019, 04:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
This guy was your Dad wasn't it?



That's fair. 300lbs will take some time though.

Surely you don't expect this in a few months right?
lmao was some random middle aged bald black dude. But he was so friendly people couldn't help but be friendly back.

Cold approach is sketch because people usually feel like you got some agenda, even if it's just to meet more people.
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post 1582744921 06-25-2019, 04:54 PM
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport⏩
lmao was some random middle aged bald black dude. But he was so friendly people couldn't help but be friendly back.

Cold approach is sketch because people usually feel like you got some agenda, even if it's just to meet more people.
lol

Mirin' his bravery. But yeah it can be especially sketch with sloots since most will assume you want some hole. I do, but not from this particular one. Even if she is cute.


Now about that bench press. Might be a form/consistency issue, but I'll figure it out.
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
lol

Mirin' his bravery. But yeah it can be especially sketch with sloots since most will assume you want some hole. I do, but not from this particular one. Even if she is cute.


Now about that bench press. Might be a form/consistency issue, but I'll figure it out.
Lol at acting like you don't want her hole. Yes you do, badly! Otherwise you wouldn't have brought her up in the first place. You're just scared of rejection, so you're downplaying your attraction to her to justify your anticipated failure. Meanwhile Everytime you go the gym you hope to see her and can't take your eyes off her

I don't know why some of you guys on here you act this wimpish. Sigh.
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
Still trying to get past one plate on the bench
That's my fault though. Not eating enough.



Whenever I grow a pair of fukn balls.

If the opportunity presents itself, I'll take it. We just never cross paths.
Dude cross the path! Take action! This still the same mindset of what if, shoulda woulda coulda, etc.

Just go and introduce yourself and tell her you always see her and just wanted to know her name.

Expect it to be awkward. Just share a fun moment make a new bud at the gym. If you’re trying to smash make the vibe a lil sexual
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