Yeap ^^^

Seems cringe to me to engage with “how are you” when you don’t know the person.


I noticed females have better openers than men, not sure why that is, but this one woman messaged me and she was just like: “happy monday“ I thought is was cool, short and not weird or anything.

FUARK This is new AND exciting!

Not from what I've seen.

this is true i know tons of pigs who get hit up constantly

This always confuses me, do men get sexually attracted to ugly women? isn’t it better to just watch porn and jerk off? Why message an ugly sloot?

i think they prob vacillate between being a "good girl" and putting on that persona, while also imbibing in the short sighted chit when they want.

then back to the "good" persona. never let them actually know. if men actuallyknew they wouldn't commit

you have to think there's almost 0 repercussion for them lying (and anybody if you want to go that far). they're excellent communicators and that's their skill

they hone their communication skills cause they're small and dainty and weak

this is depressing as fick
whats the point anymore

it's interesting when men actually know.. they lose interest?

almost like that plays into women keeping up the persona

I feel sorry for the young, impressionable virgins who visit this page. This RedPill chit will destroy their minds, make them think even getting a 4/10 is impossible no matter how much they bring to the table.

Not saying you're wrong about the matches, I 100% believe it. But that's online dating. It's very low risk to send even a sexually explicit text, so men will try the shotgun approach and put in absolutely zero effort. Also doesn't help that more and more men are scared to approach in the real world (#MeToo, social anxiety), so it's becoming the norm.

Yet despite all of this, I still get plenty of matches with average and above average girls. And they respond to me more often than not. I'm tall, have a witty bio, and some pretty nice white coat photos (gonna be a dentist in <2 years), but I'm no male model. And I know tons of dudes uglier than me with beautiful girlfriends, I see them every day.

All that JesterMaxxing/cringe pickup game chit is popular online, but IME women are more likely to go on dates with you if you're authentic and nice. Sure there's those gutterwh*res who actively seek out only the top 1% of guys to hookup with, but you can pretty easily stand out by putting in just a bit of effort and trying to be a normal human.

That being said, I really feel for my short ethnic brothers who get on average 0 or 1 matches a week. Does a number on their confidence for sure.

lol nice humble brag bro. I'm recently single and i'm getting plenty of average to above average matches. Im just Fckin around though so i don't even talk to most of my matches. too busy with school and work and my fitness. most dudes here are ugly though so that will impact their matches.

you've always been bluepilled to the max. i think it comes from protecting your sister in your mind or something

i'd rip your fuken face off irl. you have like 0 intensity. all it would take is for a girl to be around a guy like me and you'd see

there's 0 chance you're making poosies wet. and at the very least you'll be in tumultuous waters unless the girl is wearing the pants and likes that

actually trying to help you if you take offense to the "ripping off the face thing"

tbh my bumble is overwhelming and I could go on multiple dates a day if I wanted to, tons of great looking girls that I end up ghosting just because there's new ones all the time. just throw them on my insta and see what happens in the future at this point.

Or you can just meet women irl like a normal person.

Dating apps represent only a small fraction of the dating pool and it's mostly dumb guys and sluts.

How did this beef start?

Can't we all just get along?

Lol at dating apps

Just follow a hot chick on ig and if she follows back go straight into the dms that way you won't be in the same category as the indian miscers sending her 10 messages to not even get seen in the requests category

TeraChad

This thread doesn't match with my real-life experience at all.

Call it a 'humble brag' if you want but there are enough decent looking quality females interested in me on Bumble to get as many dates as I want, and it would be similar for other reasonable looking dudes I would imagine. Meeting people in person should be the end goal you should aim for as quickly as possible anyway, there are some attention-seeking IG sloots but these can be weeded out pretty quickly.

I am not interested in hooking up and care more about personality anyway, so maybe that comes through on my profile.

My profile is showing social photos (hiking with friends, photos with a few women, one selfie, one at work and one with my parents) and I'm tall and decent looking, so maybe that affects it to some extent.

These types of threads can make young dudes very cynical about women, it is a very warped view of the world when IRL this is not the case (in my experience anyway).

Average age range of the men DMing you? Srs, it's important to know.

No incel, but brah, have some self-awareness lol. Tall + prestigious job + not fat (based on avi) + white = easily top 10% of Bumble. Congrats to you, but I think you'd be singing a different tune if you were the average white male (i.e. 5'9, skinny fat build, ~$50K a year career) or if you were Asian/Indian w/r/t online dating success.

DeltaChad

No idea how people date now days when apparently everyone does online dating. Plus when i go places every decent looking girl is swarmed by orbiters. They get so much attention and probably have dozens of dudes talking to them when they go places. It was hard dating even 10 years ago but it wasn't like it is now.

i highly doubt the girl in OP is a 8/10 hence no pics because the hottest chicks on tinder are going to have very little matches since they are extremely picky since they know they can get any guy they want. Why would a 8/10 want 1000 unnecessary messages when she already knows she is hot af?

it's only the 5-6/10 girls who use the best possible pics they can take that mass swipe on every guy and buy tinder gold with tons of matches because they are insecure and need validation