Nope, I set those boundaries very early. If we're dating, it's exclusive.

I've got **** on here for that, but idc. I'll keep those boundaries, if she doesn't like them she can f off. Every girl I've dated has been very happy with it so far.

Most girls desire exclusivity with a guy they like. It's usually guys who don't.

This.

We were out to happy hour / dinner with our single 50 year old neighbor last week. She’s independently wealthy, works out daily and is hot asf (looks like brunette 40 year old Jennifer Aniston - her market value 30 years ago was rediculous) but been totally single for 3+ years because she’s looking for 40 yr old alpha rich chad with no kids. Anyway, some 60 year old alpha as fuk dude (obviously ridden the tour de France for a while) chats her up and he has his chit together. Seems like everything is going great - We’re all drinking and it’s time for another round and he orders club soda with lime. She makes a comment “oh, drink up - I’ll order you an Uber.” He responds that he’s health conscious and hasn’t had a sip of alcohol in 20 years. He might as well said that he was a convicted ****phille because she instantly went cold. He got the hint and walked away.

She let some chad that had all of his chit together because he DOENST drink. And then she cried on the car ride home how there are no decent guys…. I literally bertstared her.

He literally looked like this guy except he had jeans on and the facial hair was more manicured.

PhD on every swipe??? Are they saying it sarcastically??? Or are you being sarcastic? I don't understand.

There's an insane bubble in academia in the past decade or so. These 'Ph.D.s' are low level stuff anyone 50% literate could breeze through.

Yeah that’s really bizarre to me. I live in a really wealthy area and don’t know many women who have PhDs.

they aren't really competition though. and have priced themselves out of the market. they look at themselves and want the male equivalent or better. how many men with PhD's do you know? most know zero. so good luck to them for dating a man with a lesser education. then he needs to earn more than them also

most men don't give a fk if you have you an education or what your job title is, and often the women holding a degree/Masters aren't even in a "decent job" by their standards. It's a job they fell into because it's all they could get. all fooled into thinking a degree means something and it will take them somewhere (into debt). an education might apply to 20% of women and get them a career, but if they go down that route, by 30+ most will realize it wasn't worth and still feel unsatisfied with life. and the pressure for children and family kicks in. but what the degrees/PhD does do is inflate their ego and self worth. and the same goes with all the gucci/channel crap. they'll want a man dressing the same.

anyhow, sloots hit 30+, get creampied by a guy they think wants them because the clock is ticking. within a year or two it doesn't work out. now she's back on bumble with a new born/toddler in the photos.. stating she isn't looking for fun anymore, and is looking for the real thing BUT no rush... no rush now sloot because you already have a child. so looking for a simp that she can control.

most real men/men of value don't care about labels/education. it doesn't mean they don't make money or have nice cars/houses, they just don't need to show it off on meaningless accessories. but again, you have to fit this box for females on this app. just be funny, feminine, love to suck a d*ck, support him, and don't be too demanding. set realistic expectations. that doesn't mean settle. both sexes are supposed to better each other, and grow together throughout the relationship.

Tinder is completely different but on that app the obesity % is through the roof for women, and almost no PhD sloots with big egos. they are high with insecurities and easy to lay the pipe even on the first date.

Having a child doesn't mean you should settle for a lower standard of human being to bring into their life.

Obviously it means you only bring in people okay with having a child in their life that isn't theirs.

But yes, women in this age group do seem to be crazy.

Cambridge/London UK. not being sarcastic.

if you adjust the filters to early 20s or late 40s+ you see less. but we are talking 30s (so the last decade of feminism is kicking in.. and expect it to get worse as society becomes more liberal and women are taught MORE education matters), and there is an insane amount. the same i am sure will apply to other cities around the world.

note. they come out of uni after years of studying with no life experience, no money, no house. debt. independence. a lot of cawks taken. and then have the crazy high standards that no one can live up to. so drink and live in a world of delusion

Threads like this are always sobering

According to the US Census Bureau, only 1.2% of the US population has a PhD. This makes having a PhD very rare.

I would rather just be single than get serious with a used up, out of shape 40 year-old single mother with three kids.

I'm going to suggest that you probably don't have enough real world experience to know. Also, you just reinforced the fact that the average would be skewed lower because of these women (that's how averages work). If you have five women with 4 partners, four with 10 partners and one with 20 partners then the average is 8. Which is really how it goes.

Trust me, I've had my fair share of highly sexualized women and the ones who have had the highest number count are definitely older rather than younger. Women who get divorced and are single in their 40's bang anything that moves and is remotely attractive.

Just like only 15% of men are over 6 feet but that's what women want. Not realizing they are negating 85% of the dating pool.

We know someone like this...

Went to an EDM Festival recently.

I only found less than 20% of females there to be attractive.

Everyone's just gotten fat now.

It's a shame really.

Same. She's 32, hot and has a good job, own house, etc. But she's always saying how she's "picky" - but then complains about the fact she's single all the time. Now, 90% of the guys who try to date her are total losers, but there's been several that are definitely good catches and seem like good guys. Some women will always find a flaw no matter what because they are holding out for perfection, not realizing that a) it doesn't exist and b) as the years pass their own value plummets.

I think that's the biggest problem with modern dating. Women's standards are the most unrealistic thing you've ever seen.

They want a unicorn who is perfect in every aspect at all times. Oh, and this unicorn has to come to them at the exact right time and not when they're slooting it up or focusing on their career.

And to sum it all up perfectly, here's an article from CNN where an author to a book about how crazy women's standards are references the perfect statistic.

"Gottlieb: There are a lot of picky men out there, so this isn't about all men and all women, but I did talk to hundreds of men and women, single and married, for this book, in addition to the researchers and scientists. Talking to men was eye-opening. Men and women were asked, if they [had] any deal-breakers for going on a second date, what would those be?And men named three.If she's cute enough ... warm and kind ... and interesting enough to talk to, she gets a second date. Men are not going, "Am I going to marry her?" Men are like, "Do I want to spend another two hours with her?"

CNN: How did women respond?

Gottlieb:Women named 300 things that would be deal-breakers for a second date. We're talking a second date, another two hours with the person. And they were things like, "You know, we were having a really good time, but then he did this Austin Powers impression, and it just so turned me off. I can't get that out of my head." Well, if she goes on a second date with him, and he starts doing Austin Powers impressions, then dump Mr. Austin Powers guy. Don't go on that third date. Absolutely not. Who wants that? That's annoying. But the thing is, there's no correlation between the guy who's the nervous first dater ... and the guy who's going to be the great life partner that you're going to fall in love with. The smooth, charming guy who sweeps you off your feet on that first date, there's not saying he's going to be a better life partner than the other guy.

https://edition.cnn.com/2010/LIVING/...ieb.marry.him/

Nice pic.But are we going to pretend that only women can be fickle and have unrealistic standards?



I mean this is the home of "elbows too pointy", "no hymen, no diamond", etc.

Miscers who say that 99.9% of the time are trolling. IRL is different (obvious statement is obvious)

I admit my troll sensor could better.

Also wizard above my post.

jfl

The problem is that most people have no idea what they want.

Nope

part of it is because they are all liberals...... and part of the 'acceptance' movement that the young have been indoctrinated into. wait until these landwhales hit 30... they'll be in for a shock

From an evolutionary standpoint this doesn’t make sense to me. I would think women absolutely would not want to share their children’s provider and protector with other women. Wouldn’t it diminish what their kids receive.

So much truth in this thread and so many reps to pass around.

Dating is definitely a chit show. Doesn't matter if chad or normie. Ghosting happens to either at any given moment and time regardless. Have to date 30+ people to find five that are compatible. Only to find out that two out of the five are actually compatible and maybe one of the two will last. Very cyclical

Proves women cant notice a good man and sarcastic jokes

their only redeeming quality. I love cheese and I especially love toast. combine them and I'm 100% erect 100% of the time.

Tough to generalize ALL divorced women into the same category. Some are decent people who chose the wrong dude...stayed married for 10 years, got cheated on, and here you are with an L on your record and a child. As you get older, divorced women are the main course. You guys are delusional if you think a 9/10 22 year old is going to be lusting after a 35 year old single dude who makes 70k a year. But this is the misc...so press on. Just know reality is much different that the portrait the misc paints you.

My advice is get married young to a vibrant woman with no baggage. Don't wait...but if you take a different path, just know that 9/10 women will be divorced within your age range, and that 1/10 that isnt will have severe mental problems.