Married women putting out the feelers for cheating......

10-31-2022, 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted By TheGoldenBull⏩

There was a recent incident in our friend circle too. I have a close-knit group of 5 friends.

the shortest guy in the group has the tallest gf lol. He's about 5'9. She's 5'10 barefeet. She is also out of his league realistically speaking. He's kind of ugly but has bic muscles and NW0 hairline. happy funny guy. Very rich, he sports her whole bougey life style. they live in a penthouse downtown and drive around in his Porsche Cayanne.

Anyway, when I was single I matched with her profile on tinder and I sent him screenshots. He later found out she was cheating already with another guy.

They broke up for maybe 2 weeks. but got back together. He forgave her cheating.

Fast forward a few months.

He finds her cheating again, but with one of the guys in our friend group. The guy he's best friends with since like 20 yrs ago. BROOTAL

now our friend circle is disintegrated. nobody is talking to each other anymore lol.

I had a large group of friends that splintered into 2 in my 20s, basically someone proposed to his gf of 8years and she had to think about it, 1 month later she was moved out and fuking buddy's friend from the circle

11-01-2022, 07:35 AM

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Originally Posted By AlwaysFocus⏩

I had a large group of friends that splintered into 2 in my 20s, basically someone proposed to his gf of 8years and she had to think about it, 1 month later she was moved out and fuking buddy's friend from the circle

Goddamn... I'd have to assume she was already fuking the dude? That's brooootal to think you're ready to marry a girl who is fukking your friend.

11-01-2022, 07:39 AM

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#153

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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩

That's because most men stopped leveling up too. Most men are out of shape, lazy, don't take care of their health or finances, etc. If you're a man of value then you have standards and boundaries as a man. Doesn't matter what the chick looks like. Men have to take back control of themselves and stop simping for pussy. Too many guys though are desperate for it and females can sense it and are repulsed by it (unless you're attractive).

That's just not the right mindset to have brah because that assumes men have zero control when all they're doing is willingly giving it away.

Agree with this......I wanted to add THE SAME GOES FOR WOMEN. This is why you guys are witnessing this conundrum. Most people in general are lazy and have no discipline. That leads to all of the things you are witnessing on both sides of the coin.

11-01-2022, 07:49 AM

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#154

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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩

That's because most men stopped leveling up too. Most men are out of shape, lazy, don't take care of their health or finances, etc. If you're a man of value then you have standards and boundaries as a man. Doesn't matter what the chick looks like. Men have to take back control of themselves and stop simping for pussy. Too many guys though are desperate for it and females can sense it and are repulsed by it (unless you're attractive).

That's just not the right mindset to have brah because that assumes men have zero control when all they're doing is willingly giving it away.

There was a time after Covid where I was traveling and hadn't gotten laid in a while, and I met a chick who I started simping for hard. She was super attracted to me at first, but I could tell that my betanesss(due to her being the best pussy I'd had in a year or two), completely turned her off.

Although this chick ended up betabuxxing me for a little while and burning me badly, it was likely the best money I've ever spent in terms of making me a man.

11-01-2022, 04:14 PM

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What's not mentioned here, lots of women are insecure and settle. They're not attracted to the guy, they're attracted to the stability, and security. They convince themselves that they love this person. But they're not "in love."

They then have kids, lose complete attraction to their husbands and let themselves go as they are raising kids. Some time around 17 or when the 20 year reunion comes up, they get it back together and get their looks back. Women are beautiful in their 30's even with less glow.

Husbands have gotten fat, Norwood reaper has swooped in and now are 30 lb. overweight never to see 200 lb. again.

Sloots may sloot, but men do not get complacent.

11-01-2022, 04:50 PM

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Eh even the most attractive faces and bodies can become old news and top tier chads are still cheated on, deal with bad divorces, etc etc

You want to be this way so you always have options, but I would have no illusions that attraction with one person won't wane over the years. Monogamy is a social construct, not our biological default.

11-01-2022, 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩

Cheating is always the fault of the cheater. It’s not always about power dynamics. Lots of ugly broke loser etc people cheat too.

Cheating is always the fault of the cheater but once discovered it’s the fault of the other party if they stay. You have seen their true character and if you stay with a cheater you’re taking them as they are.

This.

I'm surprised it even has to be said.