Thread: Stop using dating apps NOW
03-13-2024, 06:55 AM
#151
Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
Lol dude is good at pointing out what he perceives as issues..pretty useless when it comes down to finding solutions
Jesus man. If this is your attitude, I'm not surprised you can't get laid. You want some cheese with that whine?
Stop complaining about the problem and do something about it beyond being angry on the internet to strangers.
Stop complaining about the problem and do something about it beyond being angry on the internet to strangers.
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03-13-2024, 07:09 AM
#152
Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
women don't date down
The fact that you actually think every slightly above average guy is stuck with a below average chick shows just how out of touch with reality you are. Stop watching red pill vids and reading 4Chan.
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03-13-2024, 07:21 AM
#153
Originally Posted By volleys⏩
how are you determining causality as the hobbies or the literal face
I’ve seen enough attractive women dating ugly fun dudes and have done the same myself to tell you that’s not the case.
If you want to reject the advice, that’s fine, it’s really not my problem. I just want you to know that your dating failures are purely a reflection on yourself which is both good and bad. The bad being that you’re just kind of a loser without anything interesting going on in their lives. The good being that you can actually change that.
When people say you should work on yourself before getting into dating, they don’t mean “start mewing, blasting 400mg/week, go to turkey and get a hair transplant, etc”. They mean you should be doing things that make you happy. Happy people attract other people- you sound miserable.
Take a look at Matty5Ra's dating pics he's posted and compare them with the massive niche's photos. Notice how one shows a fun guy, doing fun ****, and results in matches with extremely hot chicks, and the other shows a dude taking 8 or 9 selfies in a row and getting "zero free shags"? Matty could just as easily be in the same boat if he took dogchit bathroom selfies like the train conductor himself was using for a while before we all told him to knock that **** off.
If you want to reject the advice, that’s fine, it’s really not my problem. I just want you to know that your dating failures are purely a reflection on yourself which is both good and bad. The bad being that you’re just kind of a loser without anything interesting going on in their lives. The good being that you can actually change that.
When people say you should work on yourself before getting into dating, they don’t mean “start mewing, blasting 400mg/week, go to turkey and get a hair transplant, etc”. They mean you should be doing things that make you happy. Happy people attract other people- you sound miserable.
Take a look at Matty5Ra's dating pics he's posted and compare them with the massive niche's photos. Notice how one shows a fun guy, doing fun ****, and results in matches with extremely hot chicks, and the other shows a dude taking 8 or 9 selfies in a row and getting "zero free shags"? Matty could just as easily be in the same boat if he took dogchit bathroom selfies like the train conductor himself was using for a while before we all told him to knock that **** off.
03-13-2024, 07:26 AM
#154
Originally Posted By Parkerscott⏩
So you think by 2030 women will start following 6/10 men around?
I have seen plenty of wealthy women have children out of wedlock with train wrecks of men. Or wealthy women who will date men younger than them. These single childless women that are going to be cropping up are going to be getting some real characters of men walking in and out of their life. Their future does not look good at all. Its going to be entirely mens fault too.
Its already starting now. I bet the entire landscape that we are used to now is going to look very different by 2030. The data/projections are going to start painting some crazy pictures and the memes will be coming in full force. Culture and language can move pretty quick in the internet era.
As a good man I have given up. There were times when society valued good men, and that eroded over time. The pendulum will swing the other way eventually. The current model is not sustainable when you are miserable and you can look around and see people that are genuinely happy.
They will just end up spinning their wheels in the Chad rotation unless they find someone whos looksmatched.
Its already starting now. I bet the entire landscape that we are used to now is going to look very different by 2030. The data/projections are going to start painting some crazy pictures and the memes will be coming in full force. Culture and language can move pretty quick in the internet era.
As a good man I have given up. There were times when society valued good men, and that eroded over time. The pendulum will swing the other way eventually. The current model is not sustainable when you are miserable and you can look around and see people that are genuinely happy.
They will just end up spinning their wheels in the Chad rotation unless they find someone whos looksmatched.
03-13-2024, 07:28 AM
#155
Met my wife on Bumble back in the day.
its the only way to date these days lol
its the only way to date these days lol
We living in a clown world.
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03-13-2024, 07:29 AM
#156
Met my wife on Bumble back in the day.
A true 10/10 unicorn as well.
Most my friends have met their partners from dating apps.
but we are talking circa 2017….don't know what its like these days…its probably turned into a cash grab.
A true 10/10 unicorn as well.
Most my friends have met their partners from dating apps.
but we are talking circa 2017….don't know what its like these days…its probably turned into a cash grab.
We living in a clown world.
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03-13-2024, 07:33 AM
#157
Originally Posted By jack5432⏩
They might get bored with Chad after he's been fuking them for a while.
Nope they get bored even with chad.
Chad still has to pretend he likes her ideas and music and whatever.
You think chad can just go to the mall and pull out his dick and random girls will start sucking it without first having a conversation?
No it doesn’t work that way.
Chad still has to pretend he likes her ideas and music and whatever.
You think chad can just go to the mall and pull out his dick and random girls will start sucking it without first having a conversation?
No it doesn’t work that way.
They NEVER even acknowledge the other men exist.
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03-13-2024, 07:34 AM
#158
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Out of that 100 men someone's getting laid . Shoot the fking shot.
You're misreading this. Women are not looking around desperate for men. They can go on an app and match with 100 in a few hours.
The problem is and has been that they are just too picky and dont want 85% of the men they see. And that isnt going to change unless they are culturally/socially/economically coerced into it again like we used to.
The problem is and has been that they are just too picky and dont want 85% of the men they see. And that isnt going to change unless they are culturally/socially/economically coerced into it again like we used to.
Stop over exaggerating how much easier you'd have if you were slightly more visually attractive
You're acting like oh yeah if I was a 6 ft white man I'd have stacys coming over easily- not the case man I've listened to 6 ft 4 good looking dating coaches and even they will say any girl that comes over straight from an app ain't worth your time
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03-13-2024, 07:35 AM
#159
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
True but back when girls approached me when I was lean.
They might get bored with Chad after he's been fuking them for a while.
They NEVER even acknowledge the other men exist.
They NEVER even acknowledge the other men exist.
They would no contact me for even the simplest disagreement.
03-13-2024, 07:35 AM
#160
Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
I love getting told this by men who've never dealt with 1% of my situation.
Jesus man. If this is your attitude, I'm not surprised you can't get laid. You want some cheese with that whine?
Stop complaining about the problem and do something about it beyond being angry on the internet to strangers.
Stop complaining about the problem and do something about it beyond being angry on the internet to strangers.
Do me a favor, unless you've gone your entire life with no results with women no matter what you do, shut the fuk up about me. You have no idea what my situation is like.
Many of you would have roped yourselves if you had to go through even a modest version of my situation
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03-13-2024, 07:36 AM
#161
Originally Posted By jack5432⏩
Ok, and for most men nobody ever approaches us, they dont care about us.
True but back when girls approached me when I was lean.
They would no contact me for even the simplest disagreement.
They would no contact me for even the simplest disagreement.
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03-13-2024, 07:38 AM
#162
Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
Women absolutely do care if you're fun, in fact, it's pretty critical.
A big part of why incel types don't get women is because they broadcast their low energy, which is the opposite of fun. Depression and negativity are low-energy states.
Having fun and enjoying yourself is indicative of being "energised". In other words, it's a high energy state, and women are drawn to high energy states, most likely because it signals vitality.
A big part of why incel types don't get women is because they broadcast their low energy, which is the opposite of fun. Depression and negativity are low-energy states.
Having fun and enjoying yourself is indicative of being "energised". In other words, it's a high energy state, and women are drawn to high energy states, most likely because it signals vitality.
You can be 'fun' but if a woman thinks you're unattractive you will be FRIENDZONED. She will have fun with you as a friend and then go fuk someone she is sexually attracted to.
I know this because I can make women friends just fine. I'm sure they think I'm fun and also they'd rather swallow cyanide than fuk me because they arent attracted to me.
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03-13-2024, 07:40 AM
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03-13-2024, 07:41 AM
#164
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Im 17% bodyfat now, girls laugh at me.
Ok, and for most men nobody ever approaches us, they dont care about us.
When im 10% they follow me.
It’s rediculous.
03-13-2024, 07:41 AM
#165
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Clearly you just have no idea to market yourself
I love getting told this by men who've never dealt with 1% of my situation.
Do me a favor, unless you've gone your entire life with no results with women no matter what you do, shut the fuk up about me. You have no idea what my situation is like.
Many of you would have roped yourselves if you had to go through even a modest version of my situation
Do me a favor, unless you've gone your entire life with no results with women no matter what you do, shut the fuk up about me. You have no idea what my situation is like.
Many of you would have roped yourselves if you had to go through even a modest version of my situation
How do you explain thousands of years of short man procreating?
Next time you leave your house just observe ….there's a lot of short men around and I'm talking 5'3-5'5 …. they probably don't hold themselves in the same light you do.
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03-13-2024, 07:42 AM
#166
Originally Posted By volleys⏩
Miscers say this all the time, and then we ask for examples the guys they show me are average or above average white men almost every time.
I’ve seen enough attractive women dating ugly fun dudes and have done the same myself to tell you that’s not the case.
If you want to reject the advice, that’s fine, it’s really not my problem. I just want you to know that your dating failures are purely a reflection on yourself which is both good and bad. The bad being that you’re just kind of a loser without anything interesting going on in their lives. The good being that you can actually change that.
When people say you should work on yourself before getting into dating, they don’t mean “start mewing, blasting 400mg/week, go to turkey and get a hair transplant, etc”. They mean you should be doing things that make you happy. Happy people attract other people- you sound miserable.
Take a look at Matty5Ra's dating pics he's posted and compare them with the massive niche's photos. Notice how one shows a fun guy, doing fun ****, and results in matches with extremely hot chicks, and the other shows a dude taking 8 or 9 selfies in a row and getting "zero free shags"? Matty could just as easily be in the same boat if he took dogchit bathroom selfies like the train conductor himself was using for a while before we all told him to knock that **** off.
If you want to reject the advice, that’s fine, it’s really not my problem. I just want you to know that your dating failures are purely a reflection on yourself which is both good and bad. The bad being that you’re just kind of a loser without anything interesting going on in their lives. The good being that you can actually change that.
When people say you should work on yourself before getting into dating, they don’t mean “start mewing, blasting 400mg/week, go to turkey and get a hair transplant, etc”. They mean you should be doing things that make you happy. Happy people attract other people- you sound miserable.
Take a look at Matty5Ra's dating pics he's posted and compare them with the massive niche's photos. Notice how one shows a fun guy, doing fun ****, and results in matches with extremely hot chicks, and the other shows a dude taking 8 or 9 selfies in a row and getting "zero free shags"? Matty could just as easily be in the same boat if he took dogchit bathroom selfies like the train conductor himself was using for a while before we all told him to knock that **** off.
The misc often calls ME average looking, but then all of a sudden when its convenient, decent looking white men are ugly.
its nonsense. Even moderately attractive women are not dating ugly men unless:
1. He's tall and white
2. He's white and she's asian
3. He's rich
the end.
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03-13-2024, 07:42 AM
#167
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Your job as the man is to approach the girl stop acting like you wanna be admired and have it easy …not gonna happen for about 99.9 % of men.
Ok, and for most men nobody ever approaches us, they dont care about us.
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03-13-2024, 07:43 AM
#168
Originally Posted By FelixTheCat1919⏩
-50 points is you pick up an std. if she's banging you within a week of talking she's banged a few football teams worth of men. and to think dudes go on to wife these women up when she runs game on them making the man feel special and that she's pure lol.
Matches in an of themselves don't mean chit. Here's how the scale works with a given chick:
No match = 0 points
Match = 0 points
Meet them 1x = 1 point
Meet them multiple times = 2 points
Bang them = 5 points
Get a legit gf who is actually wife material = contgrats, you've won the dating app lottery
No match = 0 points
Match = 0 points
Meet them 1x = 1 point
Meet them multiple times = 2 points
Bang them = 5 points
Get a legit gf who is actually wife material = contgrats, you've won the dating app lottery
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03-13-2024, 07:44 AM
#169
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
If you think just being tall and white alone gives you access to top tier asian females you'd be sadly mistaken
Miscers say this all the time, and then we ask for examples the guys they show me are average or above average white men almost every time.
The misc often calls ME average looking, but then all of a sudden when its convenient, decent looking white men are ugly.
its nonsense. Even moderately attractive women are not dating ugly men unless:
1. He's tall and white
2. He's white and she's asian
3. He's rich
the end.
The misc often calls ME average looking, but then all of a sudden when its convenient, decent looking white men are ugly.
its nonsense. Even moderately attractive women are not dating ugly men unless:
1. He's tall and white
2. He's white and she's asian
3. He's rich
the end.
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03-13-2024, 07:45 AM
#170
I think most of the issues ya'll have when it comes to getting females is simply not knowing how to talk or act
That's one of the most important things is knowing how to make the convo flow and making the girl feel comfortable around you
You will get better at this by practicing and getting the fuk off the internet
That's one of the most important things is knowing how to make the convo flow and making the girl feel comfortable around you
You will get better at this by practicing and getting the fuk off the internet
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03-13-2024, 07:46 AM
#171
Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Women are inherently picky. You cant convince someone who thinks you're ugly that you're not. This idea that you can talk yourself out of being unattractive is retarded. Notice how the advice men always get is 'looksmaxx moneymaxx statusmaxx'. its not 'be a short fatazz, its ok just market yourself.
Clearly you just have no idea to market yourself
How do you explain thousands of years of short man procreating?
Next time you leave your house just observe ….there's a lot of short men around and I'm talking 5'3-5'5 …. they probably don't hold themselves in the same light you do.
How do you explain thousands of years of short man procreating?
Next time you leave your house just observe ….there's a lot of short men around and I'm talking 5'3-5'5 …. they probably don't hold themselves in the same light you do.
The thousands of years of short man procreating have absolutely nothing to do with recent dating. Smartphones, social media, dating apps etc are the problems and those have just started. What the fuk is the point of bringing up all of human history before all this was true.
I do not see "a lot" of 5'3-5'5 men walking around. Men that short are relatively rare. When I do see it, the vast majority of those men are single. I do not see them with women.
And the ones I do, are usually always white OR with some digusting monstronsity of a hambeast. Is that some prize?
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03-13-2024, 07:47 AM
#172
Originally Posted By dopamine72⏩
No, its that women have gotten extremely picky because they have easy access to unlimited numbers of men.
I think most of the issues ya'll have when it comes to getting females is simply not knowing how to talk or act
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03-13-2024, 07:48 AM
#173
Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Your job as the man is to approach the girl stop acting like you wanna be admired and have it easy …not gonna happen for about 99.9 % of men.
I only said that because HE said HE gets approached.
The fact that even happens to him shows how attractive he must be. So why is he in here trying to compare his situation to me.
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03-13-2024, 07:50 AM
#174
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
How am I talking to multiple different females then if I'm bald?
No, its that women have gotten extremely picky because they have easy access to unlimited numbers of men.
Literally have no hair bro and I'm getting fatter
Its so much more about how you talk, act, compose yourself
Females don't know what they want, they only know and go by how you make them feel
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03-13-2024, 07:51 AM
#175
Originally Posted By N0rds⏩
Im so fuking tired of this racist chit. The mods are pieces of chit. They ban that incel guy every single time he makes a new account, but allow this blatantly racist chit with no consequences.
GO FUK YOURSELF YOU RACIST PIECE OF FOURCHAD DOGCHIT
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03-13-2024, 07:51 AM
#176
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I've seen a lot..what I noticed is that there are a lot of short Indian men
Women are inherently picky. You cant convince someone who thinks you're ugly that you're not. This idea that you can talk yourself out of being unattractive is retarded. Notice how the advice men always get is 'looksmaxx moneymaxx statusmaxx'. its not 'be a short fatazz, its ok just market yourself.
The thousands of years of short man procreating have absolutely nothing to do with recent dating. Smartphones, social media, dating apps etc are the problems and those have just started. What the fuk is the point of bringing up all of human history before all this was true.
I do not see "a lot" of 5'3-5'5 men walking around. Men that short are relatively rare. When I do see it, the vast majority of those men are single. I do not see them with women.
And the ones I do, are usually always white OR with some digusting monstronsity of a hambeast. Is that some prize?
The thousands of years of short man procreating have absolutely nothing to do with recent dating. Smartphones, social media, dating apps etc are the problems and those have just started. What the fuk is the point of bringing up all of human history before all this was true.
I do not see "a lot" of 5'3-5'5 men walking around. Men that short are relatively rare. When I do see it, the vast majority of those men are single. I do not see them with women.
And the ones I do, are usually always white OR with some digusting monstronsity of a hambeast. Is that some prize?
Yeah you're height might hinder you a bit…but my point is there is a whole other side of the game here that's a variable you aren't taking in to account…things you can change…the vibe you give the girl , your attitude, how you speak , how you come across.
Takes most men a long time to master it.
Most girls aren't that fking vain and wanna critically examine a guys looks
Yeah maybe the top 1 % of men in terms looks have it easy…but it's literally the top 1 % . Everybody is gonna have to get creative these days
Whens there high competition you can't just lay down and rot and lose by default
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03-13-2024, 07:52 AM
#177
Originally Posted By dopamine72⏩
Because you can still be bald and attractive. The keys are height race and face.
How am I talking to multiple different females then if I'm bald?
I'll go ahead and guess that you're not short, you're white, and you're solid in the face.
And then you go and act like its all game bro!!! I just make her feel good!!!
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03-13-2024, 07:56 AM
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NEWSFLASH : the average American man is 5'9 and 200 pounds of fat
That's who you are competing against generally on average
Stop acting like you're competing vs A- list celebs or something
What I noticed is that it's fairly easy to beat about 75 % of men
That's who you are competing against generally on average
Stop acting like you're competing vs A- list celebs or something
What I noticed is that it's fairly easy to beat about 75 % of men
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03-13-2024, 07:57 AM
#179
Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
No, women all have height requirements below which they reject you immeditately. Its a hard filter and nothing you do can change that if you dont meet it. thats not 'just a little hinderance'. You people refuse to see reality because it doesnt fit your forced narrative.
Yeah you're height might hinder you a bit…
At my height, 95% of women reject me outright regardless of anything else.
95% of women would reject a man simply for being 5’5
https://www.researchgate.net/publica...for_both_sexes
Women of all races would rather date short white men than tall ethnic men. - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsyP...nnel=RehabRoom
Men of all races heavily prefer women of their own race. Women of all races heavily prefer white men.
http://web.archive.org/web/201001180...lly-i/19261774
Men rate women on a normal distribution while women rate 80% of men as below average
https://web.archive.org/web/20100725...online-dating/
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03-13-2024, 07:59 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Another common misconception.
NEWSFLASH : the average American man is 5'9 and 200 pounds of fat
That's who you are competing against generally on average
Stop acting like you're competing vs A- list celebs or something
What I noticed is that it's fairly easy to beat about 75 % of men
That's who you are competing against generally on average
Stop acting like you're competing vs A- list celebs or something
What I noticed is that it's fairly easy to beat about 75 % of men
You are not competing with the average man, because women can, and increasingly do, pick NOBODY. The often cited number is 45% of women will be SINGLE BY CHOICE instead of accepting any of her options.
You have to beat out what she personally wants. Not the average man.
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