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Thread: Found out my girl of 9 years has been having an affair srs..... FUAAAARK

post 1565980591 11-11-2018, 06:20 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
No. She's over at a friend's. Just me and the doggo from here on out.
ok bro. Good man.. You got this.
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post 1565980791 11-11-2018, 06:23 PM
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Originally Posted By RightKindaGuy⏩
sooo were there any warning signs? were you guys happy before this?
There were little things, mostly. Most concerning was her BFF who is a total piece of tinder sloot trash. They started texting constantly and spending lots of time together. She left her husband and I know she was working on my girl. But again, I was told I was just being paranoid.
post 1565980921 11-11-2018, 06:25 PM
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yeah she was nice, but I wish her FWB surgeon would have fixed her beef curtains
Groce tbh
post 1565981311 11-11-2018, 06:31 PM
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post 1565981921 11-11-2018, 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
There were little things, mostly. Most concerning was her BFF who is a total piece of tinder sloot trash. They started texting constantly and spending lots of time together. She left her husband and I know she was working on my girl. But again, I was told I was just being paranoid.
bruh that sucks. Cancerous friends like that are bad news. As bad as it sounds I would forbid my wife spending too much time with a recent divorcee.

Thankfully she prefers to be at home with her children and isn't a whore so it isn't a worry at this time.
post 1565982481 11-11-2018, 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted By Frank
Thankfully she prefers to be at home with her children and isn't a whore so it isn't a worry at this time.
you aren't safe either. she been cheating on you....
post 1565982501 11-11-2018, 06:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Frank
bruh that sucks. Cancerous friends like that are bad news. As bad as it sounds I would forbid my wife spending too much time with a recent divorcee.

Thankfully she prefers to be at home with her children and isn't a whore so it isn't a worry at this time.
Stay safe. I don't know how anyone can really trust a partner 100% after something like this.
post 1565982571 11-11-2018, 06:52 PM
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is she a lot younger than surgeon brah?
post 1565982641 11-11-2018, 06:52 PM
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Originally Posted By thatsnarf⏩
you aren't safe either. she been cheating on you....
no one is safe, not even my wife
post 1565983121 11-11-2018, 06:57 PM
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Originally Posted By WrestlingFan123⏩
is she a lot younger than surgeon brah?
I think about 10 years.
post 1565987551 11-11-2018, 07:53 PM
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Originally Posted By KyleAaron⏩
Do you see a possible connection, here?
No connection.
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post 1565988041 11-11-2018, 08:00 PM
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Originally Posted By BOZZ⏩
Can't speculate on that, but you definitely can't deny that finding a suitable life long partner played a role in her cheating. You said she tried to get the surgeon to marry her. Clearly while YOU thought it was a non issue in a relationship she didn't
Jesus christ you realize you can be a lifelong partner and never get married right?
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post 1565988091 11-11-2018, 08:00 PM
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I've given in once. It destroys your self-esteem (buckling) and things don't get better. It's not just an angry knee-jerk reaction that's making people tell you to hold the line. This will make you stronger if you manage it.

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post 1565988731 11-11-2018, 08:10 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
She's already trying. Been crying and apologizing for hours. Obviously there's no salvaging this one. I'd hate myself forever.
If for whatever reason you ever find yourself faltering, just close your eyes and envision the amount of times that she was lapping up that guy's salty scrotum with her tongue and enjoying it. Or picture all of the loads she took on her face with a smile. Because I think that when people who have been cheated on think about taking their partner back, they don't pause for a moment to contemplate what the cheating actually entailed. And I can't say there's anything more sobering than thoughts like that.
post 1565988971 11-11-2018, 08:12 PM
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Originally Posted By RonaldMcflurry⏩
LOL @ the mods in here trying to justify her cheating. Not only did she cheat, she cheated with a fking married man who has children. I think that it is obvious what type of character this woman has. I'd bet she has been cheating on him with others throughout the entire relationship. There is never an excuse for cheating. End the relationship, then do what you want.
Mods have been cucks since that one withdrew thousands from his kids college fund to give to a whore.
post 1565989091 11-11-2018, 08:14 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Long time, but I don't live in a common law state. In theory she could take me to civil court, but I'm really doubting that happens. She earns a good income and will be fine.
why would she? she is sleeping with a Chad surgeon... $$$
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post 1565989561 11-11-2018, 08:21 PM
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Originally Posted By mcdojo⏩
Mods have been cucks since that one withdrew thousands from his kids college fund to give to a whore.
most of the mods here are very low IQ, this isnt surprising.

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post 1565989961 11-11-2018, 08:27 PM
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Originally Posted By RainingBlood⏩
bet.

Congratulations on your newfound freedom. Breaking off from a long term relationship really sucks. Lots of ups and downs ahead of you for a long time, but if you can make it through this, you can make it through anything.

Stop spouting this incel bull****.

At the end of the day, most people are reasonable, and most people have feelings. You telling OP that she's happy is a poor attempt at redpilling him.

Here's what's really happening:
- Said girl is likely shocked/dumbfounded/embarrassed right now, and is trying to process what just happened. She hasn't realized the full scope and implications of her actions. She, no doubt, feels bad, and probably regrets her decision. She is slowly realizing that losing the security and comfort of a 9 year relationship for a quick fling with another male isn't worth it. He may have money/prestige, but he can't replace all the good memories OP and his ex have had. He has likely been there for her many times, while the surgeon couldn't give less of a ****.
- Said surgeon probably doesn't know about OP. Said surgeon probably doesn't care about the girl enough to marry her and give her a good life.

Cliffs:
- People who make mistakes/poor decisions are not immune from feeling bad.
This.

Not to sound like I'm on her side, I'm not, but if she was hoping for marriage with this surgeon odds are that's what she wanted from you. Soooo 9 years of her life has been wasted playing house. I will never understand why people who want marriage stay playing bf and gf for 5+ years.

That all said, she should not have been a coward and started talking to anyone when she was in a relationship. A scummy thing to do.
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post 1565990171 11-11-2018, 08:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Andrew99⏩
So you strung along a girl for 9 years and she got fed up and ****ed a surgeon. Good job Dave man.
Since when was cheating an appropriate response to a relationship? Adults can split up amicably if they aren't satisfied with the conditions. In retrospect, OP's circumstances would be 100% worse if he married her and had children. (assuming this isn't a troll thread)

If anything, OP had his reasons for not getting married validated in spades.
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Sorry to hear man, sometimes even the guys with good heads on their shoulders get burned. Very happy you played your cards right with your life choices though and can come out of this with a new lease on life and happy. I'll be getting married soon but live very similar to you, no kids, her name is on nothing, and prenuptial, if things go south or I am just not pleased with the relationship anymore I have the freedom to walk. As much as the betrayal hurts j think you have to be happy that you aren't tied to this woman or owe her anything, the split will be as easy as it can be and because of that not long from now you will be in a better and happier place.
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Originally Posted By digitalchi⏩
gf

9 years

no marriage

no kids

and no side chicks? Just lol.

Whats the points of dating someone for that long without committing to anything...shoulda just stayed single
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Originally Posted By thunderykoala⏩
If for whatever reason you ever find yourself faltering, just close your eyes and envision the amount of times that she was lapping up that guy's salty scrotum with her tongue and enjoying it. Or picture all of the loads she took on her face with a smile. Because I think that when people who have been cheated on think about taking their partner back, they don't pause for a moment to contemplate what the cheating actually entailed. And I can't say there's anything more sobering than thoughts like that.
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post 1565992231 11-11-2018, 08:55 PM
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the misc is so biased

everyone wants the female cheater to get what's due

get dumped, get embarrassed, know her place

not one single post has said anything about the guy cheat and what needs to happen to him

OP, beat his ass or bang his wife, or both

mofoker knew and put his interests in front of yours

obviously he did you a favor but you damn well know it wasn't intended for your benefit
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Originally Posted By BOZZ⏩
What does that have to do with this scenario? it is absolutely idiotic and serves no point to apply generalizations to specific scenarios. He's the one that said she tried to get the surgeon to marry her.
I'll have to reread it but I don't think those were his exact words.

Regardless the action she should have took would be to sit down with him and say I really want to get married and give OP a choice.

If he says no then go off on her merry way.

If he says yes then everything works out.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
I'll have to reread it but I don't think those were his exact words.

Regardless the action she should have took would be to sit down with him and say I really want to get married and give OP a choice.

If he says no then go off on her merry way.

If he says yes then everything works out.
This. What the fuk is so hard to grasp about this? It's inexcusable what she did. If she wanted to get married and knew he didn't want to, then she should've left him.

It's not like it was a one time thing either.. she has apparently been doing it for awhile and hiding it from him which is even more fuked up. She would've cheated regardless if she married him or not.
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that surgeon been operating on her poosy
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9 years together without marriage or kids.. What would keep two people together for so long? BOZZ is right lol.

She's obviously a scumbag OP and you had no control over her issues. It isn't that bad considering you had no kids or own her 50% of your wealth. IMO it's a lot scarier when you have more on the line. Think if you had kids and spent 20 years together building a relationship and then she cheats on you? That's ****ing a nightmare to me. Count your blessings and move on. As the Misc always says.. sloot gonna sloot.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Supposedly it's been called off for a few weeks already. Which is why I should totally forgive and forget.
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Lol proof ITT that the mods are cucks, been saying it for years. Also OP, whenever she comes over or whenever you have any interaction with her make sure you have it on tape or keep record of it in some way like save the texts and sht.
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post 1565997391 11-11-2018, 10:14 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
Jesus christ you realize you can be a lifelong partner and never get married right?
Yes. You can also buy a house or work in the same job for fifty years without a contract. But you'll find that most people like something in writing.

If you're not willing to make the commitment they want, they'll go find someone who is. And the process is likely to be messy, involving lots of shouting, screwing around, maybe some slaps back and forth, arguments over property and one of you ending up temporarily homeless.

"It's just a piece of paper." So is money, but we bust our arses for that every day.

This isn't justifying infidelity. It's simply saying that you reap what you sow. The surgeon is not going to have a sterling family life from now on. His wife will hate him and take him for everything she can get, and his kids will turn against him. Twelve years of twelve hours a day to become a surgeon and build wealth and a family, and he tosses it away to fck a chick who's bored with her boyfriend who won't commit. He's reaping what he sowed, too.

If you liked it then you should have put a ring on it.
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