Lol you gotta get some of that. Are you in Thailand?

Can we chill at least?

Full homo

That was in South Korea

China is good too

One place i seem to have trouble initiating any conversation is Japan (tokyo)

Thailand you dont really need any online pickup apps and you get hounded by ladyboys sending you dick pics

Philippines is horrendous, loads of very average looking girls trying to find a way out of their hardships

Malaysia is ok

Havnt tried Vietnam but the girls there i think are the best mix and balance between NEA and SEA looks wise. Nowadays i only like thai girls who have had surgery done and whiten their skin/have chinese blood, guess i should go live in China or Korea

So is this app dying, or is it just me? Last year I'd get 5 matches a day at the minimum, all 7/10 at least. Now I get like 1 match a week. Using the same exact pics and bio too.

Would you put this in your pic lineup?


What's your location?

I live in a suburb in connecticut

on the rare chance i even get a response they never follow up with meeting irl. wat do?

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on the rare chance i even get a response they never follow up with meeting irl. wat do?[/QUOTE]Lmao I wonder why. Don't make corny Star Wars jokes to tinder girls for one. Just chat them like you would chat some kid that wants to be your friend but your not too sure if you want to be his friend. In other words don't give a phuck. Just be like "how's Thursday night at XYZ place?" If they say they can't but don't offer another day/time than say "perfect let's reschedule" and leave it there. If they offer another day/time it means they're interested...

Not gonna pursue this chick is out in east bumblephuck but for educational purposes this is how I invite myself over girls houses. I'm above her league so if I made tomorrow night seem like her only chance she probably would have gave in.

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Damn brahs so my cold spell continues on tinder. I used to get 7-10 matches a week from 6-8+ rating women but nothing led to anywhere. Now Im getting 1-2 matches a week from the decent looking ones. I just got 3 matches today but from whales. I decided to like some whales to see wtf is going on.

I dont know I might need to update my pictures to better ones. How are you guys doing on tinder?

[QUOTE=lupus002;1508441611]So is this app dying, or is it just me? Last year I'd get 5 matches a day at the minimum, all 7/10 at least. Now I get like 1 match a week. Using the same exact pics and bio too.[/QUOTE

Which app are you on? Tinder is doing that to me right now

its been on a decline since mid 2016, and recently (jan 2017 onwards) has been getting even worse

its one of those things - always look to be improving

just because it worked well, doesnt always mean it will continue to work well, goalposts move boyo!

8good advice man. thought this might be the norm having to wait a few dates. just got to stop being a pussy now and try.

Thanks boyo! How's your tinder adventures going? This other app called coffee meets bagels is more active for me at the moment

^^ dont get how yal have patience for these trashy hoes lolol at 4 dates to smash a dumb broad who has endless guys hitting her up on tinder and has been ****ed by multiples of dudes

I think Tinder hold back your matches if you don't pay, either that or you just don't get seen. (as a guy)

Have about 40 matches after 3 weeks, averaging 2/3 per day. I got one month of plus, but tbh I right swipe maybe, on average, 15 people a day.

Doesn't sound like much, but I would say 95% are 6/10+

It probably doesn't help if you like everyone. I've noticed that my elo score must be going up, since I've started to get more delayed matches from hotties

Think I'll stick to real life game though, cba to hold some girls' hands through a conversation

ive been seeing this girl since like February properly - was using tinder was jokes and triggering and helping brahs itt - but havent been on it for a couple months - just cba tbh

not paying £3/month to troll!!

Just deleted Tinder app yesterday. I wasn't getting 6/7 anymore, only 3-4-5.

I've matched a few 6 two weeks ago and opened them with dedicated openers like I use to do. One of the girl was a 8 but I think it was a fake. Anyway, the 5 i've also been texting with in the meantime were absolutely boring. No conv efforts, ****ty replies, never saw this before. Since the end of May and the hop temperatures there, girls are not involved as before on Tinder probably because of an increase of opportunities by going on club / bar / outside.

So all the 6 I've opened didn't reply to me. Worst, the 8 removed the match and maybe flagged me. As I know Tinder is taking care of the conv to adjust your elo score, i think it dropped mine then.
Once this story, I'm not suggested any hotties anymore.

Went to a few date with some 5 lately just to have a better opinion about them, but all these dates were so-so and cost me money. Don't think it's worth it. So finally after 2 days of swiping whales with a few 6 that I did not matched, I chose to delete the app. Going to wait 1 week before using it again. Have to work IRL, I wish I was hotter to spend less time in fluff talk. Don't want to put some efforts in conv with so-so profiles while I can put the same effort with girls in subway. It's just a bit more chalenging.

Anyone tried "First" app?

Looks epic, but ******** won't authenticate my account. Can someone else check it out?

>Trashy hoe
>Waits till date 4 to smash

Pick one.

The reality is that tinder has evolved from just a hookup app into a risque social media dating app. Tinders increased popularity + monetization strategy has made ithardernot easier to hookup with girls using the app. Thats because theres plenty of girls now on tinder that arent trashy hoes who just want to hookup + increased competition for getting the girls that do want to hookup.The #1 reason why guys don't smash in this thread (assuming they get matches and get a date) is because they don't initiate.

9 out of 10 fail stories where the guy doesnt smash on date 1 and the girl goes NC afterwards are because the guy didn't make a move. Now, not making a move is usually just a symptom of low confidence, fear of rejection etc...if these guys show up to a date like James Bond and sweep the girl off her feet with charm you better believe she'll be down for a date 2 even if they didn't kiss on date 1.

But for the most part not initiating is a beta characteristic and/or sign of an underlying issue that a girl gets a sense of on the date and then loses interest.Just relapsed after 2 days no tinder. Last thing I need is another dating app distraction

Just been hanging out with my 8-9/10 friend who's travelling here (major city).

Can confirm, looks get you matches, looks get you smashes . This dude has zero game, usually opens with hey, follows up with "Whats up?" and then lastly with "Are you there?". Then after they respond he just asks what they're up to/if they want to meet up that night. He is quite literally getting laid with a different girl every night.

a true 8-9/10 guy wouldn't have to reply 3 times to get a message back.

Guys that good looking can just say "#" and get it.

Um lol. Even with very hot guys some girls will not respond to "hey". They can match with more than one 8-9, believe it or not, and some of them have slightly more than 0 game. Or maybe they're not there. Or are juggling a couple of others. Or a myriad other reasons.

lol deleted

Nobody on it yet, will DL if it gets any steam

Couldn't even last a few days. Resurrected from tinder banned camp and opened a new account with new fb. I'm pretty sure new fresh accounts are given priority placement up there with boosters. At least for the first day. I got over 70 matches in 24 hrs in NYC and spoofing in Boston. Last few hours matches tailed off dramatically so something must have happened. Either the tinder database is bugged, or tinder stopped giving me as good placement. I did change a few things on this account thats likely getting me more matches.

1. Put my age as 29. Some girls cut off on 30 so wouldnt have seen me before.
2. Put I went to an ivy league school
3. Put executive job title at famous company

But still maybe 20 or so matches on a good day is normal, not 70. Well I guess if its two different markets it makes more sense. Anyways got some hbb matches. Sceptical at least ones a catfish...



Got one of them to respond on the top convo here. The one in the bottom convo isnt on the same level but still very pretty, heres top notch game.



I wasnt serious btw lol. "Come here now" is a great opener. You guys should try it. This opener failed miserably.



Gotta delete this chitty app. Such a fukin time waste.

Misc how is my tinder profile? Am I ugly (semi srs)?

usually don't get a ton of matches. my pic situation isn't very good btw, hardly got any new ones in the past few years since finishing my first degree

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Misc how is my tinder profile? Am I ugly (semi srs)?

usually don't get a ton of matches. my pic situation isn't very good btw, hardly got any new ones in the past few years since finishing my first degree[/QUOTE]Needs work. Your bio fails for starters should be "an" egg and delete one of the nights. Some girls will swipe left because of grammar. Also thats a semi-fukboi bio, I get chit for matches with fukboi bios. Ig models can pull it off. You and me cant.

General critique. Your pics have no style. You come across social which is good, but not a lot of flavor and you need better pics.

Pic 1. Blurry, posing too hard, ducklips, in a basement with electrical panel behind you? Replace with natural lighting selfie looking straight into camera with slight grin like you are about to flirt with a girl.

Pic 2. Best pic. Shows you are social with a sense of humor. If any keep this one.

Pic 3. No clue what's going on here. Replace with physique pic, shirtless if you arent fat, doing something outside (take a fukin mirror selfie if your physique is 8+/10)

Pic 4. Shes cute but where are you? Behind the 4? Then crop that other dude thats cockblockin you out the picture. Really get rid of this pic. You arent in it enough. Replace with another pic with cute girl more 50/50 you and her or you as center.

Pic 5. Zoom in cant see chit. If clear and the girls are cute after zoom keep it.

Pic 6. Get a pic in suit or blazer.

You need more pics that clearly shows your face.

Edit: just saw your avi. Put that pic in rotation but ideally you want a pic outside shirtless doing something.

What does cba stand for?

#16

another coffee pull


'not looking for hookups'