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post 1585136111 08-02-2019, 04:08 AM
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Originally Posted By Claud3⏩
No, i dont watch red pill videos, I only watch this guys channel for entertainmenthttps://www.youtube.com/user/FACEandLMS

As for friends, I had friends when I was younger. But I also know a lot of people from school university etc., doing sports. Also whenever I go outside I always see people being looks matched and the tall Chad with the hot girls. Literally wherever I turn its all about looks, whether its the Internet or real life. I dont know what more informaion you need.
Agree like 95% of younger people are looks matched. The younger generation is obsessed with looks.
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post 1585136211 08-02-2019, 04:11 AM
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Originally Posted By Claud3⏩
No, i dont watch red pill videos, I only watch this guys channel for entertainmenthttps://www.youtube.com/user/FACEandLMS
I'm skeptical that it's 'for entertainment', because you are stating the same stuff (in this thread, and others) that he says on those vids.

Those vids seem to be, at the least, reinforcing your beliefs. (I've watched vids on his channel.)
As for friends, I had friends when I was younger. But I also know a lot of people from school university etc., doing sports.
So, pretty much you've only directly observed, and spoken to, teenage/college age people about their dating life then?
Also whenever I go outside I always see people being looks matched and the tall Chad with the hot girls. Literally wherever I turn its all about looks, whether its the Internet or real life.
Maybe those people could get someone more physically attractive, but they are with those people because they are a better match personality wise. (You seem to dismiss that possibility.)

You'll never know that that though, because you're not friends with them and haven't seen their dating life, and nor have you had a conversation with them.

You don't know with certainty what their dating life was like, and you only see them with their current partner, and seem to assume that you know that it was looks based. You don't even know how long they've been together.
I dont know what more informaion you need.
Do you know what the concept of cognitive bias is?
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post 1585136361 08-02-2019, 04:14 AM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Agree like 95% of younger people are looks matched. The younger generation is obsessed with looks.
He seems to think it's beyond just the younger generation, he seems to think it's true regardless of age group.
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post 1585136421 08-02-2019, 04:17 AM
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post 1585136491 08-02-2019, 04:22 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Still think it’s all compatible. Start out dating someone you’re attracted to and have fun with and enjoy being around as a person.

Then if you both want to stay together you spend more time together and eventually build a life together and support each other through problems etc. That just comes from extended time and commitment (both sides).
Starting out.. OK.

You pretty much have said, in multiple threads, that you don't care about having meaningful conversations with a partner.

You've also never said (to my memory) that you care about having shared values with someone.

You've also never said that you care about building a life with someone, having someone who is there for you and you're there for them, etc.

All you tend to talk about is wanting someone that is 'hot, chill and fun'. That's basically what you said ITT, until I began speaking about building a life, working through problems together, etc.

Do you understand why I said, it seems that you want a teenage/college style relationship? You never express (to my memory) anything beyond 'hot, fun and chill'regarding what you want from a relationship. You constantly talk about your desired looks from a partner, and never talk about want you want from their personality apart from 'chill and fun'.
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post 1585136671 08-02-2019, 04:31 AM
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Originally Posted By momo5⏩
women can't be incel...you can literally put a picture of your booty on a dating app and 100's of guys would be willing to have sex without even seeing your face. Some even prefer the blob bbw angus 500lb women yes they to can get laid.

Only a straight guy can be incel because you have to insert your penis in to have sex, you can't just post your angus pic and get laid with a women.


women can voluntary be celibate, even the most ugly women can find someone to have sex. Thing about incels is that they are deranged in the mind. they have something wrong with them and they need help with a mental doctor but don't seek it. It really says something when your a fat dude making 30k a year and you fap to porn /instagram models and want that 10/10 you fap to or see on instagram who is making 100-200k a year working out and fit with a nice ass/tits taking care of themselves. This is mental illness to think you can get this caliber of woman when you can't even take care of yoruself.

Just a pro tip good women don't want to a beta loser who cry all day. They want go getters , fun people not people lost in mental illness talking about jaw line. Work out, be better each day in knowledge, finances than the previous day. Enjoy life and have fun. Then women will want to be with you and have fun with you.
Look at the market. Not all men can get laid these days without lowering their standards significantly.

Not all incels are mentally ill
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post 1585136791 08-02-2019, 04:34 AM
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post 1585136911 08-02-2019, 04:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
My main motivation for a new relationship is male companionship and sex.
Looks like you can have that with your fwb, who wants a relationship.

I am surprised you are finding it so hard to find a superficial relationship.
So yes I do care most about it being someone I’m attracted to and enjoy being around. With a good/normal/nice personality too.
I'm not sure why you were debating me then...
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post 1585137311 08-02-2019, 04:57 AM
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If legit then she is self-sabotaging or has too high standards. She could find a date or get fuked that very day she typed that post. There are ditch pigs getting 5-6/10 males, a woman has to look like primordial sludge to not find someone and even then there's probably a fetish male who is into that.
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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck⏩
Yes, the majority of people need a baseline level of attraction towards their partner. Especially if you are a man, because you literally can't get hard if you aren't attracted to your partner.



I think that is oversimplified.

IME and based on looking at some research... With only knowing a little about you, people are more inclined to base their impression of your personality on your looks.

However (and this happens all time, you just need to go out and talk to people in relationships) people literally become more attractive to a person, once they get to know them, because their personality is such a turn on. I'm not talking about 'game', I'm talking about having a psychological connection, making someone become more attractive.

Again, that happens all the time, all you need to do is talk to people in relationships."I thought she was OK looking, we chatted a bit at work... But then I got to know her when we went out for a work party, and we were just chatting and laughing the whole night, and then I couldn't stop thinking about her."

Those incel forums are poison for your brain. Crabs in a bucket.



That's a pet peeve of mine...

Science doesn't deal in proofs. That's (damaging hyperbole to state that something is 'scientifically proven'. The social science are already considered 'soft science' (e.g. self reports of things like how much a person says they are attracted to someone, can't be intersubjectively verified... We have to take them at their word, and assume that they have accurate introspection, or aren't lying.

I would strongly advise doing some research into the philosophy of science, especially if you are on incel forums and they are telling you thing like;"This is scientifically proven!".



Silencespeaks really does not represent the dating mindset of the average 45 year old woman. I assure you.
If I want to ask someone if a girl is 'in my league' I'll show my sister. I couldn't believe when she called a girl I had a massive crush on 'very ugly'. This particular girl is a dream to be around, happy & charismatic, just one of those people that lifts you up when you are around them. It never even occurred to me that her face was a 4/10 would not bang in misc standards. Personality literally makes you more attractive don't let the online 'swipe left' Tinder & internet culture tell you otherwise. The boomers are right about this one. Your looks you are born with, your pleasantry and self respect are something you can change, and what we should all strive to improve until the day that we die.
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post 1585192111 08-02-2019, 09:45 PM
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Originally Posted By EoR⏩
If legit then she is self-sabotaging or has too high standards. She could find a date or get fuked that very day she typed that post. There are ditch pigs getting 5-6/10 males, a woman has to look like primordial sludge to not find someone and even then there's probably a fetish male who is into that.
The girl in the OP is a 21 -year old girl who hadn't found a boyfriend yet so she calls herself "incel", even though she's technically not since even us ugly ones can get sex according to misc.

However, then let's not call those guys incels either who just don't want to have sex what's available to them. There was a post itt explaining how incels don't want to be Chad's leftovers or second best. Well..nobody wants to be used neither females nor males. So, the term incel is kind of vague here.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Ratings are at least somewhat subjective though. Especially in that middle range of neither ugly 4/10- nor model looks 8/10+. The middle range of 5-7/10 is pretty subjective.

For example I think my fwb is goodlooking like 7/10 to me personally. But he’s kind of fat so maybe misc would rate him 6/10. And my friends don’t think he is attractive at all so maybe they would say 5/10 just average.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah as to using in relationships. I think some relationships are genuine where both sides genuinely love each other and are attracted to each other. Then the sad scenario is where only one side is genuinely in love and attracted and the other side is just using them.

Then there are pretty much transactional relationships where both sides are using each other and both sides are fine with that. Typically the sugar daddy/golddigger type relationship where neither is really emotionally invested.
I don't get why anyone would want transactional relationships. I'd rather get a vibrator, probably better sex than some gross dude lol.

Edit, by gross meaning personality mainly..
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No pics but he’s 280-290 lbs.
So what sets him apart from men your age that are also obese? I doubt he looks good
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well women trade sex for money/lifestyle/social status in those relationships. They’re just using the guy for that. But in return the guy is only using them for their looks. So those type of relationships are actually pretty fair if both sides equally see them as transactional.
Haha. Btw..I was gonna tell you this in your callout thread not to sidetrack this thread but very weird thing happened today at the gym. This guy came to me (early twenties maybe), and he said he has a problem and if I could advice him. He said he's interested in older women but he wants a real relationship not just a fling. It was very awkward and I was just like I don't know how to help you and had to flee..

I was just thinking how can you be attracted to someone that young because I kept thinking this kid is saying inappropriate things.

But maybe because your preference is having them so big they don't appear like kids.
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I wouldnt touch her, but shes an average sloot just looking for attention from white knights.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Mirin!! Was he cute?

And yeah I don’t see him as a kid. I see him as an adult equal to me. Just feels natural like connecting with another human bean equally.

Maybe it’s because I don’t feel my own age at all. And I don’t take a motherly role with him or like a teacher role or anything like that. It just feels even.
He was cute but prolly not fat enough for you, otherwise I would've given him your number.
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