he's probably one of those guys that gets off on opening up his different accounts and getting off on the big number on the screen while driving a beater and eating rice/beans for dinner Lulu

Guys like that exist but some also make very little and blow it all.

How about guys that make a lot and spend a good portion?

I'm a fan of the latter. I'm not an idiot and definitely don't blow all my money but definitely enjoy myself going to fine dining, driving a nicer car, taking vacations, etc.

On the misc everyone is supposedly CEO10K a day, but when a guy (Sword) bought a newer Audi a bunch of loser penny pinchers driving 2001 corollas were chitting on him.

i'm actually the opposite. i spend more on food in a month than your entire paycheck, srs.

As with everything in life, balance is key. You can go too far in either direction.

I think you are coming at this from the point of view that I'm NOT enjoying what I'm currently doing. I like my job, I like the people, I like the company...I don't have many complaints in the large scheme. Hence, I'm going to continue to work, build my skills, build my position, and continue building wealth....it's enjoyable. Bigger picture, I'm currently looking for an investment property outside of California, rent it out for now, with the future option of doing a big remodel and living there once I'm ready to retire outside of California.

I tremendously enjoy traveling - I don't mean what most people mean by "traveling". I mean flying business class to Europe with my girlfriend, staying at very nice hotels, enjoying high end restaurants etc. I'm by no means a snob, but hard work allows one to enjoy these finer things in life, without needing to worry about the price. That's liberating.

Besides living a comfortable upper middle class life, eventually I'd like to start some type of fraternal organization to help men become better versions of themselves. A place that reinforces and builds masculinity, that gets them away from the brainwashing them feminine-centric culture we live in. In short - I want to help the next generation become better.
If you don't understand how any of that stuff improves dating options....I don't even know what to tell you. You are already coming at this from the wrong frame of mind, like SilenceSpeaks regarding Job versus Career. You do not do ANYTHING in life for the purpose of improving dating options with women. You always must focus on yourself first - your purpose, finances, fitness, skills, hobbies, etc. Men run the world, women come along for the ride. If you have your own purpose, your own interests (Not talking about video games) and you are an interesting person, you will NATURALLY attract women to you. YOU ARE THE PRIZE. Not only are you the prize, but women will act better around you because they can see how you carry yourself, they know you aren't full of chit like all these other losers trying to impress them, slide in their DM's, being thirsty or whatever. I'm better than them, they aren't even close to being on my level, and they can feel that - so they come at you completely different, they qualify to ME, not the other way around. I don't have time for their nonsense....because I'm ACCOMPLISHING things.

So change your frame of mind - you have to get out in the world and be successful on MANY fronts as a man, before women are even worth dealing with. When you try to deal with Women before you've "made it" they treat you like chit and you have to work super hard and spend too much time just trying to get laid. It's a waste of time, and it's never worth the average / lower tier quality of vag that guys below 8/10 get anyway.

And don't give me "It's not fair guys have to be successful on SO many fronts just so women will act like normal people". Guess what? Life isn't fair, get it over, that's what men do. We persevere, we work hard, we build, we overcome - because we're men.

Go be a man, and make a claim for yourself in this world. Or don't, and whine about it.