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11-04-2022, 06:22 PM
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Originally Posted By induced_drag⏩
These salaries are extremely inflated except for VHCOL areas. Basically just the most expensive areas of CA make that much.BSN starting salary in US is 70-90k She will probably go right to her MSN which in a couple years is 110+
Ultimately she want to go NP(doctorate) which avg 160k up to 200k
Per diem pay for BSN which would allow her to choose any schedule she wanted without regular work hours is 50-75/hour. (her aunt did per diem nursing as a MSN while her kids were younger)
So not sure what you are thinking, but I would say that is not at all 'bad'.
Ultimately she want to go NP(doctorate) which avg 160k up to 200k
Per diem pay for BSN which would allow her to choose any schedule she wanted without regular work hours is 50-75/hour. (her aunt did per diem nursing as a MSN while her kids were younger)
So not sure what you are thinking, but I would say that is not at all 'bad'.
Also nursing is an awful career to get into now. Literally every nurse I have ever met hates it. This includes my mother and my wife. Hell half this town is nurses because Mayo Clinic is here.
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11-04-2022, 06:25 PM
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Originally Posted By volleys⏩
I agree with the first part of this. Well done OP, truly.at least you did good to raise a kid mentally strong enough to resist the brainwashing.
now post pictures of your daughter.....'s friends.
now post pictures of your daughter.....'s friends.
Also agree with the second, obviously.
11-04-2022, 09:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Gronnie⏩
Well, I have found in life that many people are 'miserable'. My sister-in-law is a NP and she has loved every minute. As I mentioned, not many carrear choices for a woman that are flexible in family life. She has also found out how much she loves helping others. Many things are hard to say, but I think she is on the right path for her.These salaries are extremely inflated except for VHCOL areas. Basically just the most expensive areas of CA make that much.
Also nursing is an awful career to get into now. Literally every nurse I have ever met hates it. This includes my mother and my wife. Hell half this town is nurses because Mayo Clinic is here.
Also nursing is an awful career to get into now. Literally every nurse I have ever met hates it. This includes my mother and my wife. Hell half this town is nurses because Mayo Clinic is here.
Originally Posted By AWSbruh⏩
I dont think that is happening. She is not attracted to that type of guy. Now if 'Tyrone' had a 140 IQ, worked his a$$ of, came from a respectful family with a mother AND a father, new how to treat a woman with respect....who knows? Not attracted to the type, but perhaps the right person of character could make her change that. Intelligence is one of my daughters 'non-negotiable's'. She is literally a genius (we had her tested full WISK IV during schooling for a reason I wont get into).How would you feel if your daughter brought a Tyrone home for Christmas break ded fkn srs.
I am afraid that she will hold every man up to the standards of her dad. She already told me she does not want a family who is stuck working 'the rat race'. I have worked from home since she was 5. My wife and I were at every school party, every practice, every everything. It will take the right guy, and if he looks deep enough he will see that he is getting someone very special. Not a lot of girls like her these days. Smart enough to do anything, yet already knows that being the best mom she can be is the most important thing she will ever do.
Not trying to brag on my daughter, but it astonishing seeing your kids become people that you are proud of. Not all parents are so lucky. We have dedicated our lives to our kids 100%. They have ALWAYS come first above all. But some parents do that too and their kids turn out to not be good people. So there is an element of thankfulness and humility that comes along with every time I think of how things have been for us.
Originally Posted By 3fifty⏩
Ha. Hard being a dad and feeling creepy if you accidently look at a girl and you realize she is your daughters age. I do the best I can to purposely not look! Lots of pretty young girls. Look at girls moms though. That is who they become a lot of times. Most girls end up recked after their first kid and never get back. (most guys do also).I agree with the first part of this. Well done OP, truly.
Also agree with the second, obviously.
Also agree with the second, obviously.
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11-04-2022, 10:21 PM
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Originally Posted By induced_drag⏩
Op can I bang your daughter? I'm a respectable guy. Career wise ok, but could be doing better.Dont want to derail topic talking about "intelligence" as that is not what this is about. But many set threshold of 'mental retardation' at 70. Depending on IQ test, 'genius' is somewhat arbitrary and depending on test can vary from 130-145 for the lower threshold.
It is the principal idea that raising a child with higher than avg intellect has challenges just as raising one with lower than avg. Schools teach to the median and neither the mentally handicap, nor very gifted with thrive in a school environment without intervention.
An example of raising a child with high intellect, was when my daughter was 7. Most kids her age are happy watching Dora the Explorer. She on the other hand heard about the Fukushima nuclear disaster in Japan. She became obsessed with learning about tsunami's weather patterns, and nuclear power production. I had to explain to her how nuclear power works, what we use as safe guards. (because we live within 50 miles of a nuclear power plant). During this discussions of Chernobyl came up and I had to explain to her all about that. I had to find reading materials for her to learn about it...etc. This from a 7 year old. So as a parent, you do the best you can to answer every question. It is not always easy. But anyway, it was my general point that kids of all types come with their specific challenges. As parents it is our responsibility to recognize our kids needs and give them an environment in which they can be THEIR best. The emotional aspects are just as important as the intellectual ones.
BSN starting salary in US is 70-90k She will probably go right to her MSN which in a couple years is 110+
Ultimately she want to go NP(doctorate) which avg 160k up to 200k
Per diem pay for BSN which would allow her to choose any schedule she wanted without regular work hours is 50-75/hour. (her aunt did per diem nursing as a MSN while her kids were younger)
So not sure what you are thinking, but I would say that is not at all 'bad'.
I dont think I have those kind of funds honestly. 12 years ago, I made the decision to not continue the pursuit of MOAR. We have enough to be comfortable, but we dont live an extravagant life style. Happy and satisfied with what we have and of course thankful. Just want to see what their potential brings them. They need to have their own accomplishments.
It is the principal idea that raising a child with higher than avg intellect has challenges just as raising one with lower than avg. Schools teach to the median and neither the mentally handicap, nor very gifted with thrive in a school environment without intervention.
An example of raising a child with high intellect, was when my daughter was 7. Most kids her age are happy watching Dora the Explorer. She on the other hand heard about the Fukushima nuclear disaster in Japan. She became obsessed with learning about tsunami's weather patterns, and nuclear power production. I had to explain to her how nuclear power works, what we use as safe guards. (because we live within 50 miles of a nuclear power plant). During this discussions of Chernobyl came up and I had to explain to her all about that. I had to find reading materials for her to learn about it...etc. This from a 7 year old. So as a parent, you do the best you can to answer every question. It is not always easy. But anyway, it was my general point that kids of all types come with their specific challenges. As parents it is our responsibility to recognize our kids needs and give them an environment in which they can be THEIR best. The emotional aspects are just as important as the intellectual ones.
BSN starting salary in US is 70-90k She will probably go right to her MSN which in a couple years is 110+
Ultimately she want to go NP(doctorate) which avg 160k up to 200k
Per diem pay for BSN which would allow her to choose any schedule she wanted without regular work hours is 50-75/hour. (her aunt did per diem nursing as a MSN while her kids were younger)
So not sure what you are thinking, but I would say that is not at all 'bad'.
I dont think I have those kind of funds honestly. 12 years ago, I made the decision to not continue the pursuit of MOAR. We have enough to be comfortable, but we dont live an extravagant life style. Happy and satisfied with what we have and of course thankful. Just want to see what their potential brings them. They need to have their own accomplishments.
11-04-2022, 10:53 PM
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You’re telling her to keep her opinions to herself and just roll with it? That’s the kinda chit that creates these problems. Tell her to voice her opinion when she feels like it. Lawsuit against any school that discriminates unfairly.
Or maybe just don’t send your kid to a college? Plenty of ways to have a good life without supporting that chit system.
Or maybe just don’t send your kid to a college? Plenty of ways to have a good life without supporting that chit system.
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11-05-2022, 10:38 AM
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Originally Posted By ShakeBrah⏩
I am not sure your age or how far you have been though life. I know that for my path through life, I have LONG AGO learned to pick my battles. I think success in life demands this.You’re telling her to keep her opinions to herself and just roll with it? That’s the kinda chit that creates these problems. Tell her to voice her opinion when she feels like it. Lawsuit against any school that discriminates unfairly.
Or maybe just don’t send your kid to a college? Plenty of ways to have a good life without supporting that chit system.
Or maybe just don’t send your kid to a college? Plenty of ways to have a good life without supporting that chit system.
In fact, that is one lesson that I try to impart on my kids over and over. No person has success on their own. It takes others to not stand in the way of your success, OR...even better to help you! Learning to navigate this and the relationships you form along the way will play a large part of what determines either your success or failure.
You simply cant fight every battle, or try to un-do every wrong. The higher education system has been broken and overrun by the left for almost as long as it has existed. I am NOT a big fan of college unless you need it for your intended career. I am a college dropout. But if your intended path requires it, you just have to successfully get through it.
Life requires you to be a chameleon at times. Taking this class for her, and being successful, will actually teach her a good skill. How to check your ego at the door and understand that now is NOT the time to fight.
If you spend your time fighting every battle that you come across that disagrees with you, you will never know any level of success. You will waste your time engaging with worthless pursuits. (like arguing with people on the internet
). You may win that battle, but it is meaningless.On the other hand....make sure you fight the battle when it matters......

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