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post 1701401593 05-22-2024, 08:52 AM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey
You need to meet new people. If your current friends are single nerdy gamers you'll never get laid being.


A lot of guys get a gf/wife through friends of friends or friend's wife. Without that dynamic, a lot of dudes would be single, just like you. I actually could've met a woman through a coworker's wife, but wasn't interested. That's how the real world works.


So you need to meet new people, guys already in relationships and his gf/wife will introduce you. It's actually easy this way because once a woman accepts you as a good guy, her friend will accept you.
post 1701401633 05-22-2024, 08:53 AM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus
I never claimed to be good looking.
compared to me you are gigachad. we live in a different universe in this aspect of life.
post 1701401663 05-22-2024, 08:54 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
compared to me you are gigachad. we live in a different universe in this aspect of life.
I did ok with women because I had a positive attitude and I was always striving towards something. Women like men who are "up to something".
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Originally Posted By donblaximus
I never claimed to be classically good looking. I am average at best if I were not a hard worker and above average due to the fact that I am fit.
To be honest, if I had an acquaintance like BBMG ( note I didn't use the term "friend"), I would not be introducing him to any of my friends, especially not in a romantic sense.

post 1701401713 05-22-2024, 08:55 AM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus
Yes, we know because you are always right.

Kind of like the ONE DUDE that broke the 4 min mile they suddenly after all these other people broke it ther after. That mindset doesn't apply here.
It doesnt mean anything to me because its anecdotal and I also dont have the full story. You can come up with false conclusions that way, which is why we do not base our understanding of anything on a few people that one guy knows.
post 1701401733 05-22-2024, 08:56 AM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus
Yes, we know because you are always right.

Kind of like the ONE DUDE that broke the 4 min mile they suddenly after all these other people broke it ther after. That mindset doesn't apply here.
One time in HS track there were some no-shows and I got bumped up to the fastest heat for the 1600m with a bunch of guys from a school with a pretty elite team. I ran the mile 30 seconds faster than I ever had merely because I was running with faster people and didn't want to fall behind. It was crazy to realize I could have been running that fast all along with a different mentality.
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Originally Posted By bradlehman
One time in HS track there were some no-shows and I got bumped up to the fastest heat for the 1600m with a bunch of guys from a school with a pretty elite team. I ran the mile 30 seconds faster than I ever had merely because I was running with faster people and didn't want to fall behind. It was crazy to realize I could have been running that fast all along with a different mentality.
A chess player who only ever plays against mentally handicapped people is going to plateau at being the best of that grouping.

post 1701401823 05-22-2024, 08:57 AM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus
I did ok with women because I had a positive attitude and I was always striving towards something. Women like men who are "up to something".
I believe it.

But when you are 5'3 ethnic and not good looking in the face, they do not care about these things.
post 1701401883 05-22-2024, 08:59 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
I believe it.

But when you are 5'3 ethnic and not good looking in the face, they do not care about these things.
How would you know?

You do not have a positive attitude and you're not striving towards anything....

post 1701401993 05-22-2024, 09:03 AM
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Originally Posted By Anachron
To be honest, if I had an acquaintance like BBMG ( note I didn't use the term "friend"), I would not be introducing him to any of my friends, especially not in a romantic sense.

Yes of course not because when you are dealing with people of high quality......your recommendations are tightly tied to your own credibility.
post 1701402033 05-22-2024, 09:04 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
It doesnt mean anything to me because its anecdotal and I also dont have the full story. You can come up with false conclusions that way, which is why we do not base our understanding of anything on a few people that one guy knows.
I have given you the cliff notes. The actual factors that played a heavy hand.

Good attitude
Passion about subjects and hobbies
Rich

Do you need to know what his brother's name was?
post 1701402113 05-22-2024, 09:07 AM
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Originally Posted By bradlehman
One time in HS track there were some no-shows and I got bumped up to the fastest heat for the 1600m with a bunch of guys from a school with a pretty elite team. I ran the mile 30 seconds faster than I ever had merely because I was running with faster people and didn't want to fall behind. It was crazy to realize I could have been running that fast all along with a different mentality.
100000% this. The mind is a crazy thing man. It rises to the occasion (to a certain limit of course) but most people dont tap even 20% of their possibility (including myself)
But I have experienced this same thing in many facets of life. Perfect example.

To apply this to OP's thought on this and many other threads.

"Well I cant be rich"

My question. Why the F not? Its not like your time is preoccupied with other super important things like dating women or hanging with socialites. Go dive deep into something. Become an expert at it. Solve a major problem. And things will fall into place.
post 1701402123 05-22-2024, 09:07 AM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus
I have given you the cliff notes. The actual factors that played a heavy hand.

Good attitude
Passion about subjects and hobbies
Rich

Do you need to know what his brother's name was?
Ok, and I've gotten women without being rich, with an even worse attitude than I have now, and hobbies never mattered whatsoever.

So, almost like different things work for different people. I'm doing it this way, because its what worked for me. you dont have to like it.

I said what my plan is in the OP, this isnt an advice thread. Im not asking for it.

If you want to follow along, you are welcome to do so but I am not asking you to tell me what to do.
post 1701402223 05-22-2024, 09:13 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Ok, and I've gotten women without being rich, with an even worse attitude than I have now, and hobbies never mattered whatsoever.

So, almost like different things work for different people. I'm doing it this way, because its what worked for me. you dont have to like it.

I said what my plan is in the OP, this isnt an advice thread. Im not asking for it.

If you want to follow along, you are welcome to do so but I am not asking you to tell me what to do.
Fair. No worries. I will still offer perspective in context for people that may fee like they are in similar situation such as yourself but are open to listning to advice.

There are things I have noticed across all financially successful people (no inheritance)

They are hard workers
They are consistent (discipline)
They are focused
Time is a valuable resource
They are ADAPTABLE
post 1701404953 05-22-2024, 10:46 AM
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This motherfuker keeps calling himself an ethnic African and he sounds like a rich white kid from the burbs. Cant believe you all are falling for this chit
post 1701407953 05-22-2024, 12:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Akd123
This motherfuker keeps calling himself an ethnic African and he sounds like a rich white kid from the burbs. Cant believe you all are falling for this chit
He's actually not a troll sadly--he had another account on the misc before it was banned, and has posted pics several times back then (years ago) and more recently. He was also college friends with a guy who used to post regularly on the misc who vouched it was all true (he was a cool guy and had no reason to lie).
post 1701408873 05-22-2024, 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012
He's actually not a troll sadly--he had another account on the misc before it was banned, and has posted pics several times back then (years ago) and more recently. He was also college friends with a guy who used to post regularly on the misc who vouched it was all true (he was a cool guy and had no reason to lie).
vick wasnt a college friend, I grew up with Vick and we went grade school/high school together. but yes, all facts other than that.

Pretty racist to make assumptions of what black or african people sound like btw.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
vick wasnt a college friend, I grew up with Vick and we went grade school/high school together. but yes, all facts other than that.

Pretty racist to make assumptions of what black or african people sound like btw.
your so full of chit. your the one that keeps bringing up that your an ethnic African. no body would even know your African if you didnt tell them and you use the excuse you cant get woman because your an "ethnic African". Your the one whos being rascist. If you talked to me IRL the way you talk to people here id whoop your ass. ded srs. You are an arsehole and no woman with value would want anything to do with you and its not because of your looks
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Originally Posted By Akd123
your so full of chit. your the one that keeps bringing up that your an ethnic African. no body would even know your African if you didnt tell them and you use the excuse you cant get woman because your an "ethnic African". Your the one whos being rascist. If you talked to me IRL the way you talk to people here id whoop your ass. ded srs. You are an arsehole and no woman with value would want anything to do with you
This, BBMG and the fake Muzzlrpress (claims to be Indian) are clearly both white, I can tell from their voice.
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post 1701409543 05-22-2024, 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra
This, BBMG and the fake Muzzlrpress (claims to be Indian) are clearly both white, I can tell from their voice.
Why would Rebel012 lie? He just explained all the reasons to believe what I'm telling you. Why is he lying?

What would I even gain by lying actually?
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In on the Summer of Love.

Good luck bro
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra
This, BBMG and the fake Muzzlrpress (claims to be Indian) are clearly both white, I can tell from their voice.
BBMG is Black.. Haven't you noticed that his voice sounds like a mixture of Gary Coleman and Steve Urkel?

His voice doesn't sound White at all...
Everything I post is satire.
Tricknology Grand Master.
post 1701413173 05-22-2024, 02:11 PM
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Originally Posted By N0stradamus
BBMG is Black.. Haven't you noticed that his voice sounds like a mixture of Gary Coleman and Steve Urkel?

His voice doesn't sound White at all...
It depends on what racist expectation you have. I've heard that I sound white before.
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Originally Posted By artdecade
In on the Summer of Love.

Good luck bro
Gracias senior
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
It depends on what racist expectation you have. I've heard that I sound white before.
Naw, naw, mane... White guys usually have a nasally voice. You don't have a nasally pitch to your voice so I would never be convinced that you're White.


EDIT:: BTW, the way that BBMG gets hyper sensitive about racism is a clear indicator that he's Black.
Everything I post is satire.
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monster0ultra is trolling a lot more recently
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Originally Posted By donblaximus
100000% this. The mind is a crazy thing man. It rises to the occasion (to a certain limit of course) but most people dont tap even 20% of their possibility (including myself)
But I have experienced this same thing in many facets of life. Perfect example.

To apply this to OP's thought on this and many other threads.

"Well I cant be rich"

My question. Why the F not? Its not like your time is preoccupied with other super important things like dating women or hanging with socialites. Go dive deep into something. Become an expert at it. Solve a major problem. And things will fall into place.
For such a successful guy why do you over 8,000 posts on a dying bodybuilding forum? Most successful people wouldn't waste a minute of their time on a forum like this.
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Originally Posted By N0stradamus
EDIT:: BTW, the way that BBMG gets hyper sensitive about racism is a clear indicator that he's Black.
they would just say im faking it.
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Originally Posted By DZdun7
For such a successful guy why do you over 8,000 posts on a dying bodybuilding forum? Most successful people wouldn't waste a minute of their time on a forum like this.
Successful people are on the internet too.
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BBMG, I just wanna say one more thing...

I don't know why and I don't need to know why, but recently you seem EVER SO SLIGHTLY less of a dickhead than you used to be. It's subtle, but you've definitely "softened" just a touch IMO. Maybe you're going through some phase and will revert to the norm eventually, I dunno.

Anyway, whatever it is, try to keep it up. Chit, build on it if you can.
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