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post 10000042191 02-07-2026, 07:40 AM
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Mind = blown that the average wedding costs $35,000

That's a down payment on a house or a decent new car.

https://www.markbroumand.com/pages/research-the-true-price-of-weddings-in-america
post 10000042198 02-07-2026, 07:45 AM
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My friend spent around £30,000 GBP on his wedding approx 10 years ago. Wouldn't be me.

Me & my girl are going to fuck off and get married on our own somewhere, then come back and just throw a party for everyone else. Let's be real, you blow all that cash for what? People that CBA going, other people that are only there for a piss up, half the people don't even eat the food, people that won't even remember it etc etc. Fuck that.
post 10000042208 02-07-2026, 07:50 AM
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That seems low for nowadays. I've heard some insane numbers for weddings in the past few years from IRL people.
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post 10000042260 02-07-2026, 08:38 AM
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mine was 45K in 2004, just went to a 100k+ wedding in Dec
post 10000042261 02-07-2026, 08:40 AM
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Waste of money srs. I don't understand why people don't just get married at the courthouse and throw a party for their friends/family. It would run them a few hundred dollars total.
post 10000042262 02-07-2026, 08:40 AM
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You should see what the Mexicans around here pay for a quince.
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post 10000042264 02-07-2026, 08:42 AM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking
mine was 45K in 2004, just went to a 100k+ wedding in Dec
I think mine was around 25K in the late 90's. That was at a top of the line restaurant/wedding venue for about 150 people. $70 to over 100K is what I've been hearing more recently. That's insane.
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post 10000042266 02-07-2026, 08:44 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422
I think mine was around $25K in the late 90's. That was at a top of the line restaurant/wedding venue for about 150 people. $70 to over 100K is what I've been hearing more recently. That's insane.
how much is late 90s 25k in current cash tho, has to be close to 70 gs as well
post 10000042273 02-07-2026, 08:47 AM
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Originally Posted By tehgosu
how much is late 90s 25k in current cash tho, has to be close to 70 gs as well
It's prob up there. Still seems crazy to spend $70K plus on one day.
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post 10000042305 02-07-2026, 09:11 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422
I think mine was around 25K in the late 90's. That was at a top of the line restaurant/wedding venue for about 150 people. $70 to over 100K is what I've been hearing more recently. That's insane.
the couple where both around 40 and make over 300K each, so a 100K+ wedding isn't going to crush them, the woman makes over 400K and she wanted what she wanted
post 10000042328 02-07-2026, 09:30 AM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking
the couple where both around 40 and make over 300K each, so a 100K+ wedding isn't going to crush them, the woman makes over 400K and she wanted what she wanted
I mean, if you have the money to spend go for it. Is that their first marriage?
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post 10000042330 02-07-2026, 09:31 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422
I mean, if you have the money to spend go for it. Is that their first marriage?
yes for both of them, so I imagine they have a lot of savings
post 10000042342 02-07-2026, 09:39 AM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking
yes for both of them, so I imagine they have a lot of savings
Oh def! First wedding if you have the money you might as well do what you want. I'd think it was crazy if that was for a 2nd wedding. If I ever got married again I'd prob do a destination wedding with just us, my son and my mom. Then maybe have a party here for friends.
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post 10000042346 02-07-2026, 09:40 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422
Oh def! First wedding if you have the money you might as well do what you want. I'd think it was crazy if that was for a 2nd wedding. If I ever got married again I'd prob do a destination wedding with just us, my son and my mom. Then maybe have a party here for fiends.
haha, if I ever get married again, I'll do whatever the bride wants
post 10000042402 02-07-2026, 10:18 AM
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I'd rather get married at a church then have a big dinner. Then go on a massive 3 week honeymoon and travel the world. Thinking Thailand, Japan, and South Korea.
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post 10000042442 02-07-2026, 10:51 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422
Oh def! First wedding if you have the money you might as well do what you want. I'd think it was crazy if that was for a 2nd wedding. If I ever got married again I'd prob do a destination wedding with just us, my son and my mom. Then maybe have a party here for friends.
Are you currently hoping/thinking that he might propose in the near future? Have you had that convo with him yet?
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post 10000042446 02-07-2026, 10:56 AM
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My fiancé and I are spending 15 to 20k for ~100 person wedding

Vietnamese wedding no less
post 10000042447 02-07-2026, 10:56 AM
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You can't get crap for 35k up here. At least if you want the full catered thing with hall, DJ, flowers, etc.

It's moronic that people pay that amount for a party just to show off for their friends and family.
post 10000042452 02-07-2026, 11:02 AM
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but who was wife ?
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post 10000042554 02-07-2026, 12:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Pats2022SBwin
Are you currently hoping/thinking that he might propose in the near future? Have you had that convo with him yet?
Not waiting or hoping. I have not wanted to remarry since my divorce. He's never wanted to get married or have kids. That was a huge discussion before I agreed to start dating since I'm obviously past the having kids stage. 4 years later he's still adamant that he doesn't want kids. If he proposed I'm honestly not sure what I'd do. I've always said that if I did remarry I'd want something very small and not fussy. I only thought about a beach wedding because his brother and his fiancee want to do a destination beach wedding and it sounded like a nice idea to just go away and do it.
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post 10000042571 02-07-2026, 12:23 PM
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That would buy a lot of real decent hifi gear.
post 10000042597 02-07-2026, 12:36 PM
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post 10000042624 02-07-2026, 12:50 PM
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It’s funny how much of society is just people being completely retarded to appease women. I’m no fan of Muslims but they got one thing right.
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