Dear Care and Feeding,

My husband, “Drew,” and I have been fighting for weeks over whether our 5-year-old son, “Colton,” should be allowed to attend my brother’s wedding. Drew’s objection? My brother is gay, and he is marrying his partner. Drew claims that Colton will be “confused” by the whole thing, and he does not want to have to explain two men getting married until our son is older. I am outraged and hurt. Drew knew my brother was gay early on in our relationship and never expressed any misgivings. I’m so disgusted, I honestly don’t know if I want to remain married to him anymore. Would counseling help, or is this a feature, not a bug?

—Blindsided by Bigotry

Dear Blindsided,

I’m curious to know how long you and Drew have been together and if there’s anything you may have ignored in the past. Did he ever let a “no homo” slip or get visibly uncomfortable in the presence of a gay person? Perhaps he knew to hide his issues because of your relationship with your brother? Either way, this sucks and I’m sorry you’re navigating this with the man you love.

Ask him more about his aversion to having to explain to your son that men can marry men. Is he aware that there are same gender loving people in childrens books, movies and TV shows? That some of your son’s classmates may have gay parents? What exactly wold be confusing to him? For your sake and your son’s sake, I’m hoping that this is goofy ignorance, perhaps rooted in a religious background, as opposed to hateful ignorance. I hope you can politely explain how ridiculous he sounds and that he’ll be able to receive that.

But you must make it clear to him that your son will not be missing his uncles’ wedding, that you will be teaching him that people of all genders can be attracted to and find love with people of all genders, and that he isn’t to say a word to your child that challenges that. If your husband is unwilling to support your brother by attending his wedding with your son, then this isn’t a bug, this is a feature and you probably need to let the whole man go. If you think Drew would be receptive to counseling, then you can try and work things out. But if he’s revealed himself to be homophobic and unwilling to change that, then the only thing you can do is leave. If your son turns out to be queer, he will not be safe with a parent who doesn’t proudly support his right to exist in the world.

https://slate.com/advice/2026/06/parenting-advice-gay-wedding-disagreement.html

The "parenting columnist" in question:

In 2026 , if you don’t buy into this whole critical gay theory , end well it won’t . In b4 he’s cancelled for being Aids a phobic

"Colton, when a broad and robust man loves a slim and slender man, he pushes his meat rod into the slender man's shit pipe."

It's that simple.

Ironically putting their son in contact with gay people will exponentially increase his odds of turning out gay.

Most people who are LGBT are that way due to one or several of the following

1. They were abused or molested
2. They have an alphabet parent
3. They spent a lot of time around gay people or gay media

Normalizing alphabet culture and conveying that it is strong, brave, etc to kids increases their odds of adopting that lifestyle if they are ever confused or feel like an outcast in life. Abuse by a partner in a heterosexual relationship leads to distrust in the opposite sex, so that's another cause. Molestation/rape by any sex person at any point in life will fuck up any person's views on sexuality and romance.

And finally parents are everyone's first role models so if the parents are gay or troons the kids will look up to them and want to emulate them. This is why only normal hetero adults should be allowed to adopt children ded fucking srs

Nice set of cans on her

That 'tard never should have wifed her up in the first place, much less had a kid with her.

Father of the year.

I'd love to bury my face and cawk in between her teds. She was probably a lot of fun before she became a bitter old dried up hateful feminist.

This. Wood.

Gay uncle? You definitely don't want that phag within 100 yards of that little boy.

Problem is, if you're out of the picture not only will have zero say but that homo will likely exploit the situation to get access to your kid.

Play it carefully.