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Thread: 41, single, no kids, no girl. How late am I? Do I still have a chance?

post 10000251675 2 days ago, 01:57 PM
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How do people like you actually exist? You guys must be awkward and weird as fuck.

It's so easy to get laid and get a girlfriend. The hardest thing in my 30s wasn't finding women, it was finding a woman that I thought was worthy of making my girlfriend. I had so many women that I banged and told them that I wasn't interested in dating them, mostly because they were whores and didn't have the qualities of being a future wife. (Super Ded fkn Srs)
post 10000251737 2 days ago, 02:44 PM
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-Where are you on the looks scale?

-What is your fitness level?


-What is your financial status.


Being 41 is only detrimental if you make it. You can still date mid 20s - early 30s.
post 10000251745 2 days ago, 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted By nevermadeit⏩
I didn’t think I’d be in this boat when in my 30s and was optimistic but here I am. I will be turning 42 later this year.

I really messed up on some dates earlier this year and haven’t had any date for 4 months. There are no dating prospects on the horizon so I’ve been focusing on trying to make friendships with guys and girls by going to events. I try to hang out with those newly met friends on weekends.

I’m in the best financial situation in my life but no girl. I’m not looking for casual stuff, wasted time so I don’t make any effort towards that. Ideal scenario would be to meet a high quality girl who I mesh well with (at my age I’m not seeking perfection at all), have a committed relationship as life partners, maybe have kids, and work a well paying job that I’m good at and low stress.
yes at 41 u can still make it but time is running out srs u have a few years but u need to move NOW srs

skip all online dating

u need to put urself in places where u are sober and where single women go

church
dancing classes
volunteer at animal shelters
fitness classes

pick one that maps best to ur interest if nothing interests u then pick one at random

u need 1-2 years of getting to know ur woman before u breed her so don't date old women srs
I put effort in all my threads srs

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post 10000251750 2 days ago, 02:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
Don't sell yourself short. You have a set of tits that could rival prime Dolly Parton.
Thanks for the kind words

You have superior side boobs to me though so not bad yourself
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post 10000251754 2 days ago, 02:58 PM
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Originally Posted By gmenfan40⏩
How do people like you actually exist? You guys must be awkward and weird as fuck.

It's so easy to get laid and get a girlfriend. The hardest thing in my 30s wasn't finding women, it was finding a woman that I thought was worthy of making my girlfriend. I had so many women that I banged and told them that I wasn't interested in dating them, mostly because they were whores and didn't have the qualities of being a future wife. (Super Ded fkn Srs)
Yeah I'm old fat and bald and banged multiple civilians (whoremaxxer lingo for non prostitutes) when I was dating in my late 30s

It's not that hard even if you're old fat and bald
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post 10000251755 2 days ago, 02:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Papi_Chulo⏩
Thanks for the kind words

You have superior side boobs to me though so not bad yourself
If we combined forces, imagine what we could achieve.
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post 10000251757 2 days ago, 03:00 PM
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Be careful what you wish for because you might just get it.
post 10000251758 2 days ago, 03:00 PM
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1⏩
yes at 41 u can still make it but time is running out srs u have a few years but u need to move NOW srs

skip all online dating

u need to put urself in places where u are sober and where single women go

church
dancing classes
volunteer at animal shelters
fitness classes

pick one that maps best to ur interest if nothing interests u then pick one at random

u need 1-2 years of getting to know ur woman before u breed her so don't date old women srs
A lot of this chit is stupid. Almost any quality woman in your age range will be married (or in a srs relationship).

The only real option is to take by force imo
post 10000252029 Yesterday, 06:16 PM
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Originally Posted By ayyylmao⏩
wtf is a dravidian

The DARK type.
post 10000252036 Yesterday, 06:20 PM
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1⏩
yes at 41 u can still make it but time is running out srs u have a few years but u need to move NOW srs

skip all online dating

u need to put urself in places where u are sober and where single women go

church
dancing classes
volunteer at animal shelters
fitness classes

pick one that maps best to ur interest if nothing interests u then pick one at random

u need 1-2 years of getting to know ur woman before u breed her so don't date old women srs
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post 10000252037 Yesterday, 06:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Papi_Chulo⏩
Thanks for the kind words

You have superior side boobs to me though so not bad yourself
He doesn't actually, your tits are bigger than most
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post 10000252605 Yesterday, 06:47 AM
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Originally Posted By gmenfan40⏩
How do people like you actually exist? You guys must be awkward and weird as fuck.

It's so easy to get laid and get a girlfriend. The hardest thing in my 30s wasn't finding women, it was finding a woman that I thought was worthy of making my girlfriend. I had so many women that I banged and told them that I wasn't interested in dating them, mostly because they were whores and didn't have the qualities of being a future wife. (Super Ded fkn Srs)
You would be shocked at the amount of young men - especially ages 15-30 - who have zero idea how to even interact with other humans properly, much less women. It's because they grow up in front of video games and online, with no real human interaction, along with a healthy dose of porn and social media thirst traps.

And surprise surprise, when it comes to actually speaking to a real woman they have no idea how to do it. Lots of them are even so socially anxious they have a hard time going out in public.
post 10000252651 Yesterday, 07:36 AM
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What the fuck is with you guys crying like bitches waiting 20+ years doing fuck all!??

I don't feel sorry for you. Get the fuck out of the house.I'm a manlet and have minimum fucked 18 different women. Get your shit together and get off the fucking Internet.
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post 10000254173 14 hours ago, 01:43 AM
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It's not a big deal or shameful anymore to be single/familyless as you get older.
post 10000254194 13 hours ago, 02:36 AM
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depends on your hair and how old you look


its probably over


financial status.... eh if you have money you can get chicks but they will never actually be attracted to you, many guys dont care but many more cope and lie to themselves and think the girls really do like them and that gets them into trouble
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