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07-19-2026, 03:28 AM
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I'm starting to think that not being able to have children is a blessing rather than a curse
Me and my wife have been trying to have children for like 10 years. A bunch of miscarriages and ectopic pregnancies is the closest we got to achieving that goal. Pushing 40 now and I gotta be honest, I don't see it happening anymore, and I think she is also feeling burnt out about it all.
Now this obviously sucks, failing to realize your goals and your biological imperative. But on the other hand, perhaps there are upsides. Like more financial security? Less responsibility?
Nevertheless I think it puts me at risk of missing my inheritance and my dad will funnel the money secretly to my sister who has children. So the financial benefits of being barren may be canceled out by boomer spite.
Anyone of you in the same boat? Thoughts?
Now this obviously sucks, failing to realize your goals and your biological imperative. But on the other hand, perhaps there are upsides. Like more financial security? Less responsibility?
Nevertheless I think it puts me at risk of missing my inheritance and my dad will funnel the money secretly to my sister who has children. So the financial benefits of being barren may be canceled out by boomer spite.
Anyone of you in the same boat? Thoughts?
07-19-2026, 03:38 AM
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If having children is a financial decision for you, you should definitely not be having children.
Think of it as a kind of Darwinism but for general achievement and IQ as opposed to genetic selection in the broader sense.
Think of it as a kind of Darwinism but for general achievement and IQ as opposed to genetic selection in the broader sense.
07-19-2026, 03:41 AM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
You are a stupid real stupid motherfucker aren't you? Learn how to fucking read
If having children is a financial decision for you, you should definitely not be having children.
Think of it as a kind of Darwinism but for general achievement and IQ as opposed to genetic selection in the broader sense.
Think of it as a kind of Darwinism but for general achievement and IQ as opposed to genetic selection in the broader sense.
07-19-2026, 03:46 AM
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Originally Posted By smallcalves⏩
Out of the two of us, one of us has been selected by nature for our genetic value. See further, Darwin, C.
You are a stupid real stupid motherfucker aren't you? Learn how to fucking read
07-19-2026, 04:02 AM
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My life would likely be much different if I had kids, though of myself and 2 siblings I probably would have made the best parent, funny how that works out.
I don't want life to no longer be all about me, I want to be selfish, I want to be able to sleep all day if I choose then roll out of bed, make coffee, and play games for 12 hours, I don't want to have to worry about a kid.
And I wouldn't want to be a dead beat parent on welfare who can't even afford to pay child support, a child deserves fit parents, not welfare bums who will pass on the family tradition of living off the government, I know too many of those people.
I thank God everyday I didn't accidentally have kids with some of the whores I was with, I don't want to be eternally tied to some bitchy skank who is going to antagonize me everytime I want to see my kid, some of the girls I was with weren't so bad but some were a fucking nightmare.
A lot of you will say "herp derp COPE you're an incel", fucking morons you really think it hurts my feelings when an ugly guy calls another guy an incel? fucking moron, at least I used to have a life and got laid regularly unlike some of the idiots who post on here.
I don't want life to no longer be all about me, I want to be selfish, I want to be able to sleep all day if I choose then roll out of bed, make coffee, and play games for 12 hours, I don't want to have to worry about a kid.
And I wouldn't want to be a dead beat parent on welfare who can't even afford to pay child support, a child deserves fit parents, not welfare bums who will pass on the family tradition of living off the government, I know too many of those people.
I thank God everyday I didn't accidentally have kids with some of the whores I was with, I don't want to be eternally tied to some bitchy skank who is going to antagonize me everytime I want to see my kid, some of the girls I was with weren't so bad but some were a fucking nightmare.
A lot of you will say "herp derp COPE you're an incel", fucking morons you really think it hurts my feelings when an ugly guy calls another guy an incel? fucking moron, at least I used to have a life and got laid regularly unlike some of the idiots who post on here.
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Originally Posted By johnvee73⏩
My life would likely be much different if I had kids, though of myself and 2 siblings I probably would have made the best parent, funny how that works out.
I don't want life to no longer be all about me, I want to be selfish, I want to be able to sleep all day if I choose then roll out of bed, make coffee, and play games for 12 hours, I don't want to have to worry about a kid.
And I wouldn't want to be a dead beat parent on welfare who can't even afford to pay child support, a child deserves fit parents, not welfare bums who will pass on the family tradition of living off the government, I know too many of those people.
I thank God everyday I didn't accidentally have kids with some of the whores I was with, I don't want to be eternally tied to some bitchy skank who is going to antagonize me everytime I want to see my kid, some of the girls I was with weren't so bad but some were a fucking nightmare.
A lot of you will say "herp derp COPE you're an incel", fucking morons you really think it hurts my feelings when an ugly guy calls another guy an incel? fucking moron, at least I used to have a life and got laid regularly unlike some of the idiots who post on here.
I don't want life to no longer be all about me, I want to be selfish, I want to be able to sleep all day if I choose then roll out of bed, make coffee, and play games for 12 hours, I don't want to have to worry about a kid.
And I wouldn't want to be a dead beat parent on welfare who can't even afford to pay child support, a child deserves fit parents, not welfare bums who will pass on the family tradition of living off the government, I know too many of those people.
I thank God everyday I didn't accidentally have kids with some of the whores I was with, I don't want to be eternally tied to some bitchy skank who is going to antagonize me everytime I want to see my kid, some of the girls I was with weren't so bad but some were a fucking nightmare.
A lot of you will say "herp derp COPE you're an incel", fucking morons you really think it hurts my feelings when an ugly guy calls another guy an incel? fucking moron, at least I used to have a life and got laid regularly unlike some of the idiots who post on here.
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07-19-2026, 04:07 AM
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When you stop trying to have children is when you'll have children
07-19-2026, 04:54 AM
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Some people just aren't meant for a wife and kids
Not for me
Whatever makes you happy
There's cons to everything
Wouldn't mind riding off into the sunset another 18 years with a nice woman that takes care of herself tho
Seems at my age, I have a better chance at getting pregnant than finding it
Not for me
Whatever makes you happy
There's cons to everything
Wouldn't mind riding off into the sunset another 18 years with a nice woman that takes care of herself tho
Seems at my age, I have a better chance at getting pregnant than finding it
07-19-2026, 07:09 AM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
Indians and Africans have like 10 kids each. According to you, Pahjeet has the greatest genetic value.
Out of the two of us, one of us has been selected by nature for our genetic value. See further, Darwin, C.
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07-19-2026, 07:35 AM
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07-19-2026, 02:26 PM
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩
Not the greatest. Just greater than OP.
Indians and Africans have like 10 kids each. According to you, Pahjeet has the greatest genetic value.
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I just woke up in the middle of the night, reflecting on life and stuff. I think that the prospect of NOT having children makes the rest of my life seem like going down a mountain, while the prospect of still having children makes it seem like first having to go up a mountain for 20-25 years before finally going down, but I'll be old as fuck by then, nearly at the bitter end. So I don't know about all that. Maybe I no longer want it
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Originally Posted By smallcalves⏩
Don't have that problem.. Maybe if you would have done your running back training since 1993 you wouldn't have this problem.....
Me and my wife have been trying to have children for like 10 years. A bunch of miscarriages and ectopic pregnancies is the closest we got to achieving that goal. Pushing 40 now and I gotta be honest, I don't see it happening anymore, and I think she is also feeling burnt out about it all.
Now this obviously sucks, failing to realize your goals and your biological imperative. But on the other hand, perhaps there are upsides. Like more financial security? Less responsibility?
Nevertheless I think it puts me at risk of missing my inheritance and my dad will funnel the money secretly to my sister who has children. So the financial benefits of being barren may be canceled out by boomer spite.
Anyone of you in the same boat? Thoughts?
Now this obviously sucks, failing to realize your goals and your biological imperative. But on the other hand, perhaps there are upsides. Like more financial security? Less responsibility?
Nevertheless I think it puts me at risk of missing my inheritance and my dad will funnel the money secretly to my sister who has children. So the financial benefits of being barren may be canceled out by boomer spite.
Anyone of you in the same boat? Thoughts?
6 days ago, 07:09 PM
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Originally Posted By theory⏩
I don't give a damn about the world being over populated
The world is over populated no matter how anyone tries to justify it. If you can't have quality kids and support them, don't even think about bringing one into this world.
6 days ago, 07:13 PM
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I think the main driver of trying to have children is feeling sorry for my wife and wanting to see her life purpose fulfilled, becoming a mother. But honestly for me personally, I don't know if I truly care so much. We are all going to be dead in a couple of decades and that will be the end.
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Originally Posted By smallcalves⏩
this is why social pressure exist which is good. Keeps the poors and unqualified from procreating. Thats why Japan and South Korea knows what they're doing when it comes to social pressure.
I don't give a damn about the world being over populated
6 days ago, 08:26 PM
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
I never said air mattress, I said mattress, don't misquote me.
You've said numerous times how you don't like your wife and she sleeps on an air mattress in your living room.
How odd...
How odd...
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Originally Posted By Skirrel⏩
no that's insane
have you and your wife thought about adopting kids? If you really wanted to raise someone, you could do that as well as help provide needy kids a home.
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Originally Posted By gmenfan40⏩
what part of having been trying for 10 years don't you understand phaggot
What's the point of being married if you don't plan to procreate? (Super Ded fkn Srs)
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Originally Posted By johnvee73⏩
You can go out and get a job and stop mooching tomorrow. Just saying.
I wouldn't want to be... on welfare...
For me, everything else lined up perfectly. Good career, good work life balance, amazing wife, etc. So having kids seemed like the next logical thing to do, plus it's awesome having a little version of you running around and watching them grow and learn. It's hard work, but it's rewarding work.
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I like kids as long as there someone else’s lol . Was never into having my own, but tbh it would have been really cool to have a son to dirtbike or pump iron with
Back with my Fam
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Originally Posted By johnvee73⏩
I actually agree, if you don't have the itch to have children just don't do it
My life would likely be much different if I had kids, though of myself and 2 siblings I probably would have made the best parent, funny how that works out.
I don't want life to no longer be all about me, I want to be selfish, I want to be able to sleep all day if I choose then roll out of bed, make coffee, and play games for 12 hours, I don't want to have to worry about a kid.
And I wouldn't want to be a dead beat parent on welfare who can't even afford to pay child support, a child deserves fit parents, not welfare bums who will pass on the family tradition of living off the government, I know too many of those people.
I thank God everyday I didn't accidentally have kids with some of the whores I was with, I don't want to be eternally tied to some bitchy skank who is going to antagonize me everytime I want to see my kid, some of the girls I was with weren't so bad but some were a fucking nightmare.
A lot of you will say "herp derp COPE you're an incel", fucking morons you really think it hurts my feelings when an ugly guy calls another guy an incel? fucking moron, at least I used to have a life and got laid regularly unlike some of the idiots who post on here.
I don't want life to no longer be all about me, I want to be selfish, I want to be able to sleep all day if I choose then roll out of bed, make coffee, and play games for 12 hours, I don't want to have to worry about a kid.
And I wouldn't want to be a dead beat parent on welfare who can't even afford to pay child support, a child deserves fit parents, not welfare bums who will pass on the family tradition of living off the government, I know too many of those people.
I thank God everyday I didn't accidentally have kids with some of the whores I was with, I don't want to be eternally tied to some bitchy skank who is going to antagonize me everytime I want to see my kid, some of the girls I was with weren't so bad but some were a fucking nightmare.
A lot of you will say "herp derp COPE you're an incel", fucking morons you really think it hurts my feelings when an ugly guy calls another guy an incel? fucking moron, at least I used to have a life and got laid regularly unlike some of the idiots who post on here.
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
You really enjoy complimenting yourself don't you
You can go out and get a job and stop mooching tomorrow. Just saying.
For me, everything else lined up perfectly. Good career, good work life balance, amazing wife, etc. So having kids seemed like the next logical thing to do, plus it's awesome having a little version of you running around and watching them grow and learn. It's hard work, but it's rewarding work.
For me, everything else lined up perfectly. Good career, good work life balance, amazing wife, etc. So having kids seemed like the next logical thing to do, plus it's awesome having a little version of you running around and watching them grow and learn. It's hard work, but it's rewarding work.
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Originally Posted By smallcalves⏩
I have no complaints in life. Sorry.
You really enjoy complimenting yourself don't you
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
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