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Thread: Embarrassing moment with new roommates, should I reveal truth? (FA PROBLEMS)

post 1444146131 05-25-2016, 03:13 PM
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Only sad part of that story is being 25 with three other male roommates... Which isn't that bad on it's own, I guess, but three other roommates who sit around bragging about slays at 25 is pretty pathetic.
post 1444146191 05-25-2016, 03:13 PM
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Originally Posted By fj123⏩
just lie tell them around 14 or something

they're all lying too prolly

also only sloots have killcounts of 20+
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post 1444146221 05-25-2016, 03:14 PM
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post 1444146401 05-25-2016, 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Shortstop36⏩
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Lol. lettuce be real. you don't have a killcount of 5+

only true alphas have that killcount, and ur a beta ****
post 1444146581 05-25-2016, 03:16 PM
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If one of my friends told my that I wouldnt care at all and would try to help him out
post 1444146821 05-25-2016, 03:17 PM
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Originally Posted By alphafreak⏩
you have unrealistic standards
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post 1444147031 05-25-2016, 03:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Zwicker⏩
Only sad part of that story is being 25 with three other male roommates... Which isn't that bad on it's own, I guess, but three other roommates who sit around bragging about slays at 25 is pretty pathetic.
lol it wasn't what it sounds like, it just came up after some jokes


No idea why some of you think 4 single guys sharing a house is weird. Very common nowdays
post 1444147501 05-25-2016, 03:22 PM
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Originally Posted By TheDesertFox⏩
You should've lied. You should've said a modest number, like 4 or 5.

Just tell them that you didn't say anything because you felt embarrassed that they had so many lays and you only had about 4 or 5 (choose a number). Also tell them that you haven't hooked up in a while and that's also why you didn't mention it (because they seemed like ladies men and you thought they would laugh at you).

You still have time to save this situation. The choice is yours.
Thanks, this makes sense and if it comes up again somehow I'll say it

didnt want to lie but fuk it
post 1444147771 05-25-2016, 03:24 PM
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You are absolutely pathetic socially.

You could have made a joke, ex."I'm saving my virginity until marriage"and then"hahaha nah I'm just playing with you bros"and after that"I've only smashed a few times, definitely less than you guys though"and that's it. That's how you handle the situation.
post 1444150181 05-25-2016, 03:41 PM
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Originally Posted By 21stCenturyKid⏩
You are absolutely pathetic socially.

You could have made a joke, ex."I'm saving my virginity until marriage"and then"hahaha nah I'm just playing with you bros"and after that"I've only smashed a few times, definitely less than you guys though"and that's it. That's how you handle the situation.
Thats what I've done in the past but I didn't want to lie
post 1444152511 05-25-2016, 03:57 PM
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Originally Posted By GJLuke⏩
The above is a passage from Zan Perrion's beautiful book, The Alabaster Girl.
thanks man heard of that book, after reading the passage still clueless as to what it's about
post 1444153561 05-25-2016, 04:04 PM
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Originally Posted By HandsomeAryan⏩
I phucked 7 girls last semester and hooked up with like at least 4 others, you mad?
Wtf is the difference between smashed and hooked up?
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post 1444153801 05-25-2016, 04:07 PM
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Tell them the truth and own it.
post 1444154001 05-25-2016, 04:09 PM
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Just say 6 or something dude who gives a fuk
post 1444154591 05-25-2016, 04:14 PM
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is 20 + supposed to be alot ?
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post 1444155791 05-25-2016, 04:22 PM
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Originally Posted By GJLuke⏩
"A gentleman never kisses and tells. Too be honest a lot lower than you guys, but it's just something I've decided I want to keep to myself".
Cringe.

You think that is some kind of smooth deflection, but it comes across as gentlesir WK *******ry and just makes it incredibly obvious that OP is lying.

Usually, if a guy's FA, it's pretty clear that he's FA and why he's FA. You really can't play it off as "I get some girls, I just don't want to talk about it", because it's pretty clear you don't get any girls. The only real question those guys have is whether your count is 1 or 0, so either way, commit to it and follow through.
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post 1444156521 05-25-2016, 04:26 PM
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If they are successful with women (though they are probably lying), then have them show you how it's done.
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post 1444157111 05-25-2016, 04:29 PM
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so how many dinks did you take OP?
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post 1444158121 05-25-2016, 04:35 PM
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just be real and own it. carry yourself with respect and no one will **** with you. if try and hide it and quiver like a lil bish then that's exactly how they'll treat you. people are different, stay true to yourself, don't feel the need to submit and be just like these guys because you want to fit in. if you want to go out and smash tons of girls like these guys then i'm sure they'll be more than willing to run with you, but you have to be real.
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Why are you FA OP? Have you just never put yourself out there much? If that's the case, tell them the truth, and chances are (assuming they are cool dudes) they'll make it their mission to get you laid.
post 1444158481 05-25-2016, 04:38 PM
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People who boast about their count are insecure as fuk and likely have had problems getting sloots when they were younger.
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post 1444158591 05-25-2016, 04:38 PM
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Originally Posted By GJLuke⏩
He's not lying though. What he's saying is the truth. He's just not giving the whole truth to the question. He's not lying though.

BTW, u mad that I am kind of a WK and still pull?

IMO being a white knight is the ultimate form of confidence.

You have no need to neg girls, or be a dick, because you are super confident, and can just love women.

Of course you have a backbone. But a confident WK with a backbone = the guys that women fall in love with. (srs)

Whiteknights who are nice to girls because they want their validiation.. now that's where the WK problem arises.
Yeah, it's not lying, but it makes the truth very easy to infer. There's a reason why he's not giving a number, and it's not because of this "gentleman" act he's just pulling out of nowhere.

Behavior doesn't really matter much one way or the other. If you look decent and girls are into you, you're going to get a lot of leeway with how you act. And if they don't like your personality, say you WK them but they want a bad boy? Who cares, there's more girls out there who want you anyway.

Now the gentlesir types, it's easy to tell those guys don't get laid. It's not that their "nice guy" behavior causes that and they need to be more "alpha". It shows they have an idealized, Disneyfied view of romance and that just underlines their lack of actual experience.

Inb4 a motivational post about confidence.
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post 1444158651 05-25-2016, 04:39 PM
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I didn't know people talked about how many they've slept with....

lol.. My count is zero haha idgaf
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Don't see what the big deal is.

Tell them and if they're decent roomates they'll help you get laid (if that is what you're after)
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Originally Posted By GJLuke⏩
He's not lying though. What he's saying is the truth. He's just not giving the whole truth to the question. He's not lying though.

BTW, u mad that I am kind of a WK and still pull?

IMO being a white knight is the ultimate form of confidence.

You have no need to neg girls, or be a dick, because you are super confident, and can just love women.

Of course you have a backbone. But a confident WK with a backbone = the guys that women fall in love with. (srs)

Whiteknights who are nice to girls because they want their validiation.. now that's where the WK problem arises.
Solid post man.

Being nice to women is a solid strategy. But you have to do it on your terms, with no expectations. Not in some pathetic hope that they will like you.
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Originally Posted By GetBig0rDieTryn⏩
just be real and own it. carry yourself with respect and no one will **** with you. if try and hide it and quiver like a lil bish then that's exactly how they'll treat you. people are different, stay true to yourself, don't feel the need to submit and be just like these guys because you want to fit in. if you want to go out and smash tons of girls like these guys then i'm sure they'll be more than willing to run with you, but you have to be real.
thanks man that makes sense
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personally id say im a virgin, theyll be like holy fuk lets get this kid some puss. it really doesnt matter as much as you think it does
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So your roomates are all lying and trying to make you feel bad about telling the truth?

you know they didnt bone 20 women each.
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Originally Posted By GJLuke⏩
He's not lying though. What he's saying is the truth. He's just not giving the whole truth to the question. He's not lying though.

BTW, u mad that I am kind of a WK and still pull?

IMO being a white knight is the ultimate form of confidence.

You have no need to neg girls, or be a dick, because you are super confident, and can just love women.

Of course you have a backbone. But a confident WK with a backbone = the guys that women fall in love with. (srs)

Whiteknights who are nice to girls because they want their validiation.. now that's where the WK problem arises.
As long as you aren't boring to girls like most WKs are. I prefer a ratio of 90% BK 10% WK because it's more fun for both parties.

Not to mention some girls DO need to get negged or they're not going to give you the time of day.
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lol pretty much what numerous guys have said, if they're actually decent friends, tell them the truth.

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