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post 1445564883 06-02-2016, 06:03 PM
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Originally Posted By keels141
Don't know what you guys are talking about -
He's talking about a realization. Its one of life's major turning points.
do some fukking reading for yourself and learn to IGNORE SOCIETY COMPLETELY and UTTERLY.
Not possible.
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Originally Posted By Idioteque
30yr 200K+ income crew checking in. Happily Married to wife making $100K+, no kids YET.

Suicide not once...

Find something you like to do, get one of the bad boys and bury yourself on it



Explore your pain in competing in something...Join US Cycling and start in Cat 5 racing. Cycling is good bc its vs. alot of other 30yr olds that have something to prove, want an outlet for their frustration. You can be anti-social bc its not a team spot until you get good.





i didnt want to kill myself, until i read this. sounds awful
post 1445566203 06-02-2016, 06:10 PM
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Originally Posted By PisseninMisc
Dude, I dont have time to try to piece together your drunken rants. Take an extra 5 minutes and think real hard before you compose another paragraph so we can understand what the fk it is you are talking about.
Brah, I explained it already on page one. my family is psychotic. they let this family destroy itself over entitlement to a ****ing 2004 Toyota highlander. it was my car, and when they took it without my permission, they all went full scale psychotic because they realized that they were embarrassing this family, and I just sat down and watched it crumble. since I'm the one that didn't **** up the family, I am the target of displacement. 5 years been its like this, and I see no way out, not without becoming homeless.

and if you asked the other 4 members of my family, they would all tell a similar story as if they were me. I have been to jail once and mental institutions almost 10 times for claiming that this is my original point of view, and have been the rustler of many jimmies.

even right now, I'm too embarrassed to go out my room to get some food, because my mom will give me attention and act like shes some sort of angel. I already know nobody is an angel, but she is that psycho that she cant realize what shes doing.

my entire family is psychotic, and I have become responsible for keeping it together. I have to eat with them, sleep next to them, talk to them, shop with them, drive them around, and that's not the whole story. all of this with pain in my heart, knowing that the instant they lose their patience, returns the defensiveness, the attacks, etc.

a true FML story, go jack off to it.
post 1445566453 06-02-2016, 06:12 PM
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Originally Posted By bluka
Wow. This is why I barely misc anymore. Too many trolls and people like the one's ITT combining to make a cesspool of depression, unattainable dreams and negativity. You guys really need to get off the misc and let your distorted reality go back to baseline.

At the end the day you are the only one in control of your life. You can spend as much time as you want blaming others, not having this, not having that etc but the only person that can truely change your situation is YOU. Seriously if you actually put your mind to it, it can take as little as a few years to completely turn your life around.

Oh and a little advice for the introverted brahs. Learn that nobody gives a fuk about you. You are not the centre of the universe and no one will make fun or laugh at you for doing the things you're too nervous to do. They are too busy with their own life to worry about what you're doing.

Anyway thanks for motivating me to improve myself even more
Agree. Misc needs a reality check. Most dudes will work hard most there life and never afford a Lambo. This website sets unrealistic expectations. There's a reason you only see Ferraris and Lambos around rarely. (unless you are in Beverly Hills or something)

You just have to be humble. I am happy with my close to 100k pay at this point. I have 2 cars , a nice house and a beautiful wife.
post 1445566623 06-02-2016, 06:12 PM
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Originally Posted By KRANE
He's talking about a realization. Its one of life's major turning points. Not possible.
Yeah I've been through that turning point and realized I do not give a fuk what society thinks. If you increase your self-reliance then outside events/opinions have less of an ability to upset you.
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post 1445566843 06-02-2016, 06:14 PM
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^ brah. It's time to let it go. Stop holding onto to petty ****, forgive and move on with your life
post 1445566933 06-02-2016, 06:14 PM
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Imagine meeting that girl at 25, just starting off your career. A few years pass. You get married, have kids, start building wealth. You have it all: house, cars, kids are in a good school district doing lots of sports, activities, etc, kids are popular at school. You got it all. Approaching 40, your wife start to talk about not being happy, she wants a divorce. Now all those great things are gone. She gets the house, kids, a car, and alimony. That wealth you spend years building is half hers. A few months pass, you get a decent apartment. Then, your company decides to downsize and you lose your job. You think no big deal I have a lot of experience I'll find another job easily, yet your age, previous income, and experience are too much for some companies, the 23 year old HR person thinks your too old and expensive. You struggle to find a job, money is getting low and BOOM you have a heart attack that wipes out the rest of your savings.........now you are basically unemployable and penniless at middle age..........from the greatest heights to the lowest lows

The above is just an example of the things that can go wrong in life, get off the LDAR train and be grateful for what you have now cause it can change in the blink of an eye, live for today for tomorrow may never come. If you think that quarter life crisis is bad, wait til the midlife crisis...........it is a whole different ballgame. In the midlife crisis, you will regret every decision you ever made, you will regret not pursuing certain goals and careers, you will regret the time you wasted. It is one big party of regret, shame, anger, and depression. Value the time you're alive and can still make changes and adjustments to your life.
post 1445567893 06-02-2016, 06:20 PM
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Originally Posted By bluka
^ brah. It's time to let it go. Stop holding onto to petty ****, forgive and move on with your life
Sometimes in life, the deed is done, and it was so traumatic that I don't even know how to forgive it. Yes, that means we have a problem, and you may not like me.
post 1445568413 06-02-2016, 06:24 PM
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Originally Posted By TsarChasm
Agree. Misc needs a reality check. Most dudes will work hard most there life and never afford a Lambo. This website sets unrealistic expectations. There's a reason you only see Ferraris and Lambos around rarely. (unless you are in Beverly Hills or something)

You just have to be humble. I am happy with my close to 100k pay at this point. I have 2 cars , a nice house and a beautiful wife.
It's pretty amazing. It started out as just trolling but so many FA's and awkward brahs have brought into it hook, line and sinker.

BRB every woman is evil and out to fuk up your life whilst sucking 10 dinks per day
BRB if you're not 6'2, 220+ pounds, 8% bf with the face of a movie-star no woman will come near you
BRB if you're not earning in the top 5% by the time you're out of you're teens then kill yourself.

So many people on here are so far out of touch with reality it has completely destroyed their lives. It's pretty sad
post 1445568843 06-02-2016, 06:26 PM
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have you *******s ever thought about getting a dog?
post 1445569073 06-02-2016, 06:28 PM
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Originally Posted By bluka
It's pretty amazing. It started out as just trolling but so many FA's and awkward brahs have brought into it hook, line and sinker.

BRB every woman is evil and out to fuk up your life whilst sucking 10 dinks per day
BRB if you're not 6'2, 220+ pounds, 8% bf with the face of a movie-star no woman will come near you
BRB if you're not earning in the top 5% by the time you're out of you're teens then kill yourself.

So many people on here are so far out of touch with reality it has completely destroyed their lives. It's pretty sad
You cray brah. Do you like men? Cause men wont do those things to you, but women will. Why? CAUSE THEY AREN'T MEN. Easy to tell you don't get girls brah.
post 1445569283 06-02-2016, 06:29 PM
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Originally Posted By andishehhank
Sometimes in life, the deed is done, and it was so traumatic that I don't even know how to forgive it. Yes, that means we have a problem, and you may not like me.
Do whatever you want to do brah. Although you don't sound very happy and unless you want to spend the rest of your life like that at some point something has to change.
post 1445569813 06-02-2016, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted By andishehhank
You cray brah. Do you like men? Cause men wont do those things to you, but women will. Why? CAUSE THEY AREN'T MEN. Easy to tell you don't get girls brah.
Well.. Looks like there is no hope for you fatboy. Enjoy spending the rest of you're life locked away in a bedroom.
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Originally Posted By bluka
Do whatever you want to do brah. Although you don't sound very happy and unless you want to spend the rest of your life like that at some point something has to change.
I tried to change since day one after I lost the car. Then I realized I would end up homeless. So what am I now? I'm listening breah.
post 1445570413 06-02-2016, 06:36 PM
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Originally Posted By bluka
Well.. Looks like there is no hope for you fatboy. Enjoy spending the rest of you're life locked away in a bedroom.
You're a girl if you do that boyo, needing your ass to get kissed for some conversation.
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Not living up to expectations, lonely, etc. so they think what's the point of continuing life?

I will say that mental illness/depression occurs in successful people too. There are guys who have good careers, gfs, social lives, etc. yet are still unhappy and depressed inside even though they hide it on the outside. Depression has no regards for race, sex, income, etc. it can happen to anybody.
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post 1445571343 06-02-2016, 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted By andishehhank
I tried to change since day one after I lost the car. Then I realized I would end up homeless. So what am I now? I'm listening breah.
You lost a car? Get the fuk over it. Plenty of people have been through a lot worse. Your family is psychotic? Get the fuk away from them. Move out. Get a job.

Change your fuking attitude. All I hear from you is blah blah I'm a fat little manchild who lost a toy now I'm going to give up on life and it's everyone else's fault. Take responsibility for your own life and realise it is what it is because of you and noone else. Maybe then you'll grow up and shape your life to how you want it.
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A quote from Rick and Morty:

I mean, its not like hes a hot girl. He cant just bail on his life and set up shop in someone elses.
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Social media is killing more people than Cancer.

Serious.

Stop comparing yourself to others and start enjoying life.

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im right about that age..
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Originally Posted By andishehhank
You're a girl if you do that boyo, needing your ass to get kissed for some conversation.
Not really people like you just piss me off. You act like your family are pure evil yet they are keeping a roof over your head and feeding your fat ass.
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Originally Posted By andishehhank
Brah, I explained it already on page one. my family is psychotic. they let this family destroy itself over entitlement to a ****ing 2004 Toyota highlander. it was my car, and when they took it without my permission, they all went full scale psychotic because they realized that they were embarrassing this family, and I just sat down and watched it crumble. since I'm the one that didn't **** up the family, I am the target of displacement. 5 years been its like this, and I see no way out, not without becoming homeless.

and if you asked the other 4 members of my family, they would all tell a similar story as if they were me. I have been to jail once and mental institutions almost 10 times for claiming that this is my original point of view, and have been the rustler of many jimmies.

even right now, I'm too embarrassed to go out my room to get some food, because my mom will give me attention and act like shes some sort of angel. I already know nobody is an angel, but she is that psycho that she cant realize what shes doing.

my entire family is psychotic, and I have become responsible for keeping it together. I have to eat with them, sleep next to them, talk to them, shop with them, drive them around, and that's not the whole story. all of this with pain in my heart, knowing that the instant they lose their patience, returns the defensiveness, the attacks, etc.

a true FML story, go jack off to it.
Honestly bro, and dont take this the wrong way, you probably do need to talk to a psychiatrist and therapist.

You're either delusional and in denial or what you're saying is true in which case you have to remove yourself from that environment. Either way what I read was that you had 5 years to take action, but sounds like you're at square one still. Why is that? Get to thinking and go figure it out.

People have figured out larger problems than a fkin '04 toyota highlander. Move the fk on it's been years and you're still here posting and moping about it. It's a done deal stop reliving the same issue over and over.
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Originally Posted By bluka
You lost a car? Get the fuk over it. Plenty of people have been through a lot worse. Your family is psychotic? Get the fuk away from them. Move out. Get a job.

Change your fuking attitude. All I hear from you is blah blah I'm a fat little manchild who lost a toy now I'm going to give up on life and it's everyone else's fault. Take responsibility for your own life and realise it is what it is because of you and noone else. Maybe then you'll grow up and shape your life to how you want it.
HA, like this is all over a measly car? sure boyo, you know it all don't you?

I have changed my life and grown up, and what was the result? the realization that people are a bunch of slackjawed *******s who say they'll do something and then don't do it. Who am I to try to save the world? Am I Jesus? GTFO
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Originally Posted By andishehhank
HA, like this is all over a measly car? sure boyo, you know it all don't you?

I have changed my life and grown up, and what was the result? the realization that people are a bunch of slackjawed *******s who say they'll do something and then don't do it. Who am I to try to save the world? Am I Jesus? GTFO
**** bruh, get some help.

I have a feeling you're going to become the next Misc psycho to lose it in real life lol.
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Originally Posted By bluka
Not really people like you just piss me off. You act like your family are pure evil yet they are keeping a roof over your head and feeding your fat ass.
Sure boyo, like I can't take for granted that I live in a good house. I was advised to listen to my parents, and when I did, they turned into 2 faced, and then blamed me for doing so. Don't you think there is a more appropriate way to treat a son? I hope so.
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Originally Posted By andishehhank
HA, like this is all over a measly car? sure boyo, you know it all don't you?

I have changed my life and grown up, and what was the result? the realization that people are a bunch of slackjawed *******s who say they'll do something and then don't do it. Who am I to try to save the world? Am I Jesus? GTFO
You're a lunatic brah. Come join us in the real world when you're done moping.
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This you guys?


Personally I have an issue of not having any desires. There's nothing motivating me to wake up tomorrow. I simply go along with life feeling indifferent.
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Originally Posted By PisseninMisc
Honestly bro, and dont take this the wrong way, you probably do need to talk to a psychiatrist and therapist.

You're either delusional and in denial or what you're saying is true in which case you have to remove yourself from that environment. Either way what I read was that you had 5 years to take action, but sounds like you're at square one still. Why is that? Get to thinking and go figure it out.

People have figured out larger problems than a fkin '04 toyota highlander. Move the fk on it's been years and you're still here posting and moping about it. It's a done deal stop reliving the same issue over and over.
Once again, sure boyo. I should slander myself and tell a mental clinic that I am not sane. Oh wait, I did for 4 years. The result? What you see here boyo. If I need something done right, I gotta do it myself, boyo.
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Originally Posted By andishehhank
Sure boyo, like I can't take for granted that I live in a good house. I was advised to listen to my parents, and when I did, they turned into 2 faced, and then blamed me for doing so. Don't you think there is a more appropriate way to treat a son? I hope so.
Blah blah they are horrible, the worst people in the world. They haven't kicked you out. They feed you. They pay for your internet so you can spend all day and night in your room.

Maybe they aren't as bad as they seem or you would be alot leaner and homeless. It's all in your head brah. I think you might have some issues kid.
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