feeding a child is a big achievement nowadays ? fkn lol

his parents made him so they are responsible, I told my own parents that there was no point of me being here alive if they arent millionaires or billionaires , and they are not, so whats the point of having a kid then ?

thats why only rich people should have kids, so they can provide, what if the kid decides not to work ? if the parents are poor he will end up on the streets, if they are rich most likely they will buy him/her a house, car, pay for everything else, so yeah poor,middle class should not have kids fkn period

Damn boyo, you sure are smart right? A guy who doesn't show his face on an internet forum has issues? Like I said boyo, people don't like to get separated from me boyo, or else I would have had my space, boyo.

You just proved my point. Read some stoicism. No circumstances are good or bad, it's only your perception of them.

Yeah he sounds like he's being a baby about it, but I can sort of see from his POV. He probably has those parents who provide but are not supportive, because I have those type of parents. I appreciate putting a roof over my head when I need one, but they do absolutely nothing to help me emotionally, strategically, etc. They're paying the bills, but they're not teaching and guiding me how to pay my own bills. It's chit that I'm learning on my own, and it's harder without their support (in my case, HER support, because my dad is a deadbeat).

^ Please tell me you two are just trolling. I refuse to believe people like you actually exist.

I have some bad newz.....

Your past failure does not dictate future failure. It should be used as a point of reference to do better next time, not assume you will fail every time.

I'm not talking about being admitted to a mental health institute. I'm talking about speaking with a psychiatrist about getting the right kind of medication, and working with a therapist in conjunction with that. It's an out-patient process.

You have the find the right professional to get the right treatment. In my opinion, sitting down and telling someone "how you feel" doesn't help. What does help is behavioral therapy. Enough of trying to relive the past and try to replay the scenarios in your head. You need to focus on action aimed towards a better future, not try to troubleshoot the past.

Good god, what the **** is wrong with the people ITT? You sound like r9k from 4chan, ffs.

I hope that's not dedicated to me because there's nothing wrong with what I said.

Yo i had some offhand comment itt and then read this..

Life is so much better that way man. Youre working with that fear now but if you go do those things youre gonna think youre the chit..

Approach any girl you want; do whatever you want; meet anybody you want

The social circle bit sucks but not really. Guaranteed if you loosen up, go to the club and have a good time youll meet people. May not be the best people but potentially someone you can hang out with/ go to the bar with and then chit snowballs from there

Do you know how much better youll be than the avg man if you approach any woman you want at any time?

if you don't have a starting pay of 10k per month, height of 6'2, facial aesthetics of 8/10 at least, good family, blond hair blue eyes, you seriuosly need to LDAR because LIFE will NEVER be good for you, EVER.

so what if you're banging girls? you're not banging the creme of the crop and not making bank, They'll all rather mix with Chad than talk to your fukcing ugly ass.

If you are over 20 y/o and are living with your parents and complain about how ****ty they are, they need to get a restraining order against you so you would go outside and get a fkng life.

Get a job at McDonald's, earn enough to spend 2 yrs at a trade school and get a fkn unionized labor job or work in EMT (paramedic, firefighter etc). Shouldn't take you more than 3 years to turn your life around.

This is bb.com, should be easy enough to make a friend at the gym right? Get some strength, start lifting when all the other big strong dudes lift and talk to them a bit. Over time you'll develop a good friendship.

The minute you take your life, you let the world win. **** that, make this world your bitch.

The moment you say, it's impossible, you overshadow all those who came before you and made something out of nothing, and you instantly set yourself up for failure.

We see a lot of financial figures thrown around the misc, 100k this, 10k/day, and a lot of it is bull****, don't let that get you down. There may be some true ballers on the misc, great for them, they never said "it's impossible".

"Making it" is also different for everyone. You can have someone who makes 200k/year and be up to his eyeballs in debt, with a 10k net worth vs someone who makes 50k a year but has 30k net worth because of good investing/living within their means. The guy who makes 50k a year is "richer" than the guy who makes 200k, because he is a slave to the banks. He should have an easy 100k net worth but doesn't as he spends it as fast as he earns it.

You have to change your mindset, you have to decide you're going to make a change. Hell, start small. Pay off any remaining debt, and start socking away 10% of each pay check. While you're doing that read up on investing, and how to analyze the market.

You spend how many hours on the misc but it's too hard to spend time on something that makes you money? Posting Big titty gifs won't let you make it. You can't say tomorrow when it needs to be today.

AND don't bag on yourself because you're 25 and you feel like your behind. Bitch you have an easy 35+ more years left, eat right, live right and make it longer. You will regret being 90 years old looking back and going "damn, I should have just went for it"

Don't let anyone tell you, you can't do something. They're weak and have failed and are trying to drag you down. Prove them wrong. Success if the BEST form of revenge.

If your passionate about something, that's great. Take that passion and monetize it, when you love what you do you never really work and more often than not you make good money doing it.

The moment you say "I can't" you have lost.

Lots of ****ing lazy, pathetic, pussies in this thread. Get the **** up and do something with your lives. Quit lazily sitting around bitching about how ****ty your life is. You want to achieve something? Get your ass up and go work for it. Seriously, that's what's wrong with this pathetic ass generation - no character, no fight. *******s

35 is my cut off, if i havent reached sufficient success by then i'll end it with a bang (srs). no point living after that age if you dont have it going for you

currently got a really awesome job, making the most i have ever made and 75% of year is travel around the world (spend most of time doing tourist stuff and banging sloots), life on total easy mode right now...but still dont feel content, always stressing about future and the knowing i can accomplish much more, but not really knowing what you want to do leaves you in a continuous limbo of "working" rather than "thriving"

tl,dr, im a *******

Join a damn trade if you don't have anything going for you that late in your life. Get out and do some fukking construction work. It's great exercise, you get a tan, and you are working up the ladder just by gaining experience.

Seriously, "operators" are making ~22/hour just digging holes with an excavator. If you stay with your contractor you'll get to travel and many pay for your food and lodge

Age : 25

at that age normal, functional human beings don't expect their parents to feed them.

my biggest shame as a dad would be having a useless aspie son who never leaves home and complains how hard life is, while I work to support him.

Let the fukkers rot away,they are useless

Did you ever end up moving to CA? Remember you posting about moving to Irvine.

Also agreed you are a ******* ayyy lmao

Don't stress it. Pay off your debt, put some money in the bank and just live. Take some time off to find your passion, we all have one. Main point is if you say you can't, you will start believing it and then you will be miserable.

Maybe what makes you happy is being debt free and living on some tropical island running fishing charters. You have no 9-5, no bills and you're a free man!

Success and what makes people happy is different for EVERYONE.

When you start pigeonholing your happiness into what makes someone else happy, you will be miserable.

Hitler was a starving artist and failed architect until his late 20's when he enlisted in the army. From then he became one of the most powerful people in the world and the leader of an empire.

Its never too late to change bros.

Oh boo fukkin hoo you pussy

You know how my past 5 years have been? Parents divorce, dad moves 1000 miles away, mom dies, 2 brothers move with dad, get engaged to girl who had been with me through it all, get cheated on, become raging alcoholic, and now I'm here. Getting sober and not feeling sorry for myself like a little bitch

My point is everyone has it tougher, you could be living in Honduras in a mud shack. MAN THE FUK UP and go do something with your life

Nah post #161 & #162

yeah im in SoCal right now, just got back after spending a month in France. I wish Cali wasnt such a liberal sh*thole because SoCal is fuking heaven on earth hhnnnnnggg i'd move here in a heartbeatthe way i figure it, every really awesome opportunity ive ever had has pretty much been a result of who i knew more than what i knew, so if that is any indicator, it is probable that future opportunities will follow that trend as well. not to be interpreted as "im going to be a lazy ******* and wait for someone to give me the golden ticket", but since i have no fuking clue what i really want to do, i have a feeling that i'll cross paths with something or someone and it will open a whole new door.

even though im full time employed making great money, i feel like i should be doing something in my free time (which i have a ton of) to benefit myself/finances/etc and get to the next level in life, but i just have no fuking clue. learn a computer/coding skill? learn investing? the more i think about it the more frustrating it becomes

oh well fuk it YOLO /ted

I'm 30 and just about to finish a degree...had chronic fatigue in my mid 20s and feel useless, it's never too late to better yourself and start making money, meet a girl, travel ect.

I think a lot of people on these forums have underlying mental issues and a overall chit outlook on life and paint a picture for themself that they are not what society wanted them to be or they are not reaching their potential. Goto south east Asia and get a wake up call on how life should be lived, no one gives a Fuk about material possessions and becoming a millionaire....it's a more simple way of life....what I'm saying is do what makes you happy, not trying to achieve things that might make you happy...cause if you aren't happy now you won't be happy with all the money or pussy in the world

I said **** it and started reading about investing. My rationale is, if I can misc for x amount of time, I can devote time to something that can make me money. I also had a few ideas for websites, I need some electives for college said **** it again and I am taking website development and I make gratuitous use of all the free online sources to compliment that.

Will my ideas become the next big thing? Who knows? Will my reading on investing allow me to make smart investing moves and strike it rich? Who knows? I have told myself I need to approach everything with the mindset that I am going to make it my bitch, do my best and go for it.

I will approach everything with the mindset that I want it so bad I hunger for it, who knows where I will end up, but no one will have the balls to say I didn't go for it.

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It's never too late to be who you might have been.

The media, particularly the entertainment media, is to blame for a huge chunk of this. When you're a teenager, they lead you to believe that every other kid your age is having a wild party/orgy and you're not invited. In your 20's, they lead you to believe that everyone else in their 20's lives like the cast of Friends or How I Met Your Mother, with a tight circle of friends and some hot chicks mixed in. In your 30's, they lead you to believe that everyone else your age is either a CEO or otherwise leading a comfortable life settled into a hot career.

I could go on, but you get the idea. The media has made the world much smaller. There's nothing wrong with that within itself, but.... they only focus on the ideal, not the average. And the average is much different.

OP, if you seriously base your concepts of success, happiness, or whatever on what you see on the TV screen, you're headed down the wrong path. Look around, think for yourself, and find where you fit in at any age.

an average day for me is wake up at 7:00, drink coffee and dick around on internet until 11:00, work until 5:00, come home and free time until bed

it's really making me feel guilty to have all this time and not be productive with it fffuuuuuuuuu

Fukim lmao age 30, single, 50k a year job, own place got flights books to Aruba and Disney world ****im lmaoooooo at u rotters.