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post 1446210313 06-06-2016, 02:31 PM
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if you arent happy with something then just move the **** on pal
post 1446234763 06-06-2016, 05:16 PM
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She probably likes you, but is ashamed of you at the same time. She most likely worries about what her friends and family will think if she shows you as the guy she is "dating".
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post 1446235953 06-06-2016, 05:24 PM
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Women are social media whores. While you might be dating, she is trying to keep it shallow so when duddes do social media snooping and there is one pic with you and it has an ambiguous caption like "Great day today!" they will be like, oh she isnt serious with him and make some moves.

And the biggest problem is that she is only 22. She will NEVER stop loving social media. In 20 years, she'll have 40k pics, 15k selfies and 25k pics of her and "friends"
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lol don't be so quick to react here
keep banging and having fun, who cares.. you're laying all your eggs in one basket. Work on yourself and make yourself happy instead of putting expectations in hopes that she'll consider you boyfriend-material and post pics of you. You're insecure man, like REALLY insecure. I know this because I've been through this before. The best advice I can give you is keep a level head and keep smashing away. When the time comes, move on to the better girl, they're out there. Trust me.
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post 1446236803 06-06-2016, 05:29 PM
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Who cares? As long as you're ****ing her. You're 22 and she's 21. She isn't the one, I can guarantee it. Stop being so insecure about petty things like social media.

Also OP the reason is she's ashamed of you. Do you think she would be hiding pics of her and Brad Pitt if they were dating? Don't think so. She would be posting pics of them together every chance she gets to make all the other girls jealous and all the other guys want her more. That's how women work lol, it's all about status for them.
post 1446236943 06-06-2016, 05:31 PM
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Originally Posted By tillIDrop⏩
to clarify, I don't care about social media but I still use it...she's in my snapchat all the time. I've been in hers ONCE with my face showing and I don't trust ppl so I imagine she blocked some ppl from viewing it. I agree guys. I'm gonna tell her the following "I'm not an ahole and I can't force or ask you to post a picture to keep or break up so I'm just going to call it off, we can enjoy the time we have left and forget this all ever happened". Love u guys. I'm glad I'm not sounding crazy here.
I can't speak for all girls, but you having to ask her in the first place to upload photos of you on her social media...That's not cool, don't stay with someone who isn't so proud to show you off. Take it from a 24 year old girl who has her fair share of very pretty friends who have played that game your girlfriend is playing.... move on she is keeping her options open. Please do not beg her to PROVE anything to you, then its not authentic and you end up looking well... I don't want to be mean but kind of sad :/ So stay strong and dust her off!
post 1446238023 06-06-2016, 05:38 PM
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Find a random hot girl and get her to pose for a photo with you or if you can't do that photoshop yourself next to one. Then for the lols set that as your profile pic saying you're in a new relationship
post 1446238723 06-06-2016, 05:43 PM
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Originally Posted By LightsXout28c⏩
She probably likes you, but is ashamed of you at the same time. She most likely worries about what her friends and family will think if she shows you as the guy she is "dating".
No, just no. She's preventing her side dick options from expiring, because she's a fan of it. The less people that know about OP, the easier it is to **** around. And no shame going back to the fam.
post 1446238943 06-06-2016, 05:44 PM
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Originally Posted By tillIDrop⏩
Hello.
I'm 22 and my girlfriend is 21. Been together for a month and a half but plowin her for maybe 8 months. I really like her and our relationship has had some problems in the trust department...nothing serious like cheating though.

She posts pics on IG and loves social media. She has pics with her guy and girlfriends (and I'm ok with her having guy friends as I am not a controlling *******) but she never bothered to post one picture of us. She might have had me on snapchat once all this time but that's it. When I asked her about it , I was upset that she uploaded another pic with a guy friend. She says she looks bad in the pics we have taken before. And that she doesn't want her family becoming involved in her dating life which I agree is okay. I told her she didn't have to call me her boyfriend on Instagram where her family could see but to atleast have a picture up. She says she has one of dinner she was gonna post after she had finished posting a graduation picture and another picture with her friends again (guy included) which leaves my picture to be posted coincidentally at the time of graduation. I have zero pics with her on IG.

I don't care for social media nor do I care to be in the publics eye because our relationship is between us. But is this okay? The underlying message here is what bothers me. What should I do?

I asked here instead of the Tmisc section hoping to get a more mature response lol. Thanks guys.
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post 1446240313 06-06-2016, 05:52 PM
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lol its pretty obvious she's either ashamed of you or is banging other dudes on the side
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post 1446240963 06-06-2016, 05:56 PM
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Where are all those pics of her that she posts on ig?
post 1446241833 06-06-2016, 06:02 PM
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No pics, huh? Sorry OP...you know the misc rules, and I would be breaking them if I didn't neg you. No hard feelings.
post 1446242183 06-06-2016, 06:04 PM
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how you could get a girlfriend with such a beta mindset baffles me
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post 1446243403 06-06-2016, 06:10 PM
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Originally Posted By DukeWang⏩
No, just no. She's preventing her side dick options from expiring, because she's a fan of it. The less people that know about OP, the easier it is to **** around. And no shame going back to the fam.
This. She might not be cheating but it definitely sounds like she is trying to keep her options. You have 2 options.
1) play the same games as her and just post pics of you with other chicks. Let her get jealous..... I would not have the energy/time to do this as I have better things to do.
2) if your that jealous and Not content just f*cking her for a while: break it off. Will be better in the long run. I wouldn't even bother trying to explain the social media thing to her because she will just twist it around that you are being overbearing about it.....Would Just say it's not working out and your not feeling the relationship anymore. A lot easier to break up after a year, opposed to 3 years down the road.
post 1446243893 06-06-2016, 06:13 PM
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Originally Posted By SmackBang77⏩
how you could get a girlfriend with such a beta mindset baffles me
Not hard to get a girlfriend but bit seems as though this is either OPs first Gf or he tends to fall for girls easily. Because she obviously hasn't fallen that hard for him by the sounds of it. But if he doesn't change his attitude about women he's setting himself up to get burned a lot in the future.
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Originally Posted By TwoHumpChump⏩
Not hard to get a girlfriend but bit seems as though this is either OPs first Gf or he tends to fall for girls easily. Because she obviously hasn't fallen that hard for him by the sounds of it. But if he doesn't change his attitude about women he's setting himself up to get burned a lot in the future.
yeah and he says he was fukking her for 8 months before starting a relationship, like dude if u can fukk a girl for 8 months why ruin it by becoming exclusive ? SMH
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post 1446247003 06-06-2016, 06:30 PM
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Originally Posted By SmackBang77⏩
yeah and he says he was fukking her for 8 months before starting a relationship, like dude if u can fukk a girl for 8 months why ruin it by becoming exclusive ? SMH
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excuses like that are always red flags.. don't even waste your time fighting with her just start talking to other girls and post up pics hanging out with girls, is that possible for you? you sound like the weak one in the relationship, if you want my honest opinion on your relationship.. it's doomed to fail anytime soon. You're too much of a sissy and she's full of red flags. Great chemistry!
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Originally Posted By tillIDrop⏩
She does love me guys and is faithful she just likes the image I guess. She says she was gonna post a pic of us but then says its in line with other pics and will happen prolly around graduation. Why that day? The day where she goes home and leaves the fun college life and doesn't have to worry about how she looks with me as a part of her image? That's why I was cool with her posting a pic later till I realized its BS unless she were to post it before grad.
Jesus Christ you're a pussy


Fukkin listen to yourself, you're getting all worked up over your sloot gf not posting pics of you.


Until you catch her doing something, quit acting like a ******* and stop worrying. If anything, your constant ****giness is only gonna make her run quicker.

Stop stressing so much, keep your options open (which is clearly what she's doing) and live your life. If it works out, cool, if not, keep it moving.

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Originally Posted By tillIDrop⏩
Hey, let me tell you guys something. Most of us are lifters...we are good looking dudes in good shape. We can bang girls purely for the sex if we really wanted to do it so bad. That's not a big deal and it's not impressive. The real challenge is getting the same girl to bang over and over again and to even go so far as to call her your boyfriend and tell you that you're the only guy she ever wants to ****. THATS the kind of power that interests me. At the same time, I'm a good guy and hold myself to the same standards as I hold her to. I'm an honest brah. I'm not marrying this girl either.
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Originally Posted By tillIDrop⏩
Hello.
I'm 22 and my girlfriend is 21. Been together for a month and a half but plowin her for maybe 8 months. I really like her and our relationship has had some problems in the trust department...nothing serious like cheating though.

She posts pics on IG and loves social media. She has pics with her guy and girlfriends (and I'm ok with her having guy friends as I am not a controlling *******) but she never bothered to post one picture of us. She might have had me on snapchat once all this time but that's it. When I asked her about it , I was upset that she uploaded another pic with a guy friend. She says she looks bad in the pics we have taken before. And that she doesn't want her family becoming involved in her dating life which I agree is okay. I told her she didn't have to call me her boyfriend on Instagram where her family could see but to atleast have a picture up. She says she has one of dinner she was gonna post after she had finished posting a graduation picture and another picture with her friends again (guy included) which leaves my picture to be posted coincidentally at the time of graduation. I have zero pics with her on IG.

I don't care for social media nor do I care to be in the publics eye because our relationship is between us. But is this okay? The underlying message here is what bothers me. What should I do?

I asked here instead of the Tmisc section hoping to get a more mature response lol. Thanks guys.
3 pages in and no answer.


If you actually love her and are seriously over 21......grab your sack and tell her how you really feel.

You want honesty? If she is your true oneitis, she'll realize you and little Jake and Sally will outlive her kin folk. Make your alpha specimen known. Your situation sounds like bullchit. Never had any decent female not want to post with me. I'd NC. <-------that way then do a 360 and walk out.
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Keep her just because shes an easy lay, but don't invest anything more emotionally than you already have.
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Originally Posted By DukeWang⏩
No, just no. She's preventing her side dick options from expiring, because she's a fan of it. The less people that know about OP, the easier it is to **** around. And no shame going back to the fam.
This x 2, my ex was the same. She doesn't want people outside her closest circle to know that she is in a relationship, cause she wants to keep all her side dicks on backup and is probably still talking to them behind your back. You can't change these girls, she's not ready to stop riding dicks and settle down.

Basically she will have no respect for your feelings towards the other guys and not back you up on them. She will allow them to continue orbiting her, will talk to them, possibly fuk them etc. with no remorse. She doesn't care whether you stay or leave cause she still has all her side dicks available in an instant. If you continue the relationship you'll be alone in swatting away orbiters for the entire duration.

And from experience I wouldn't bother dealing with a girl like that again.
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Originally Posted By roko79⏩
if she isn't proud to show you off in pictures to those she feels closest to, then she isn't your girlfriend.
This x2.

I know most people are saying your issue is petty but imo this is a valid question. I went through something similar with my ex not too long ago. Awesome girl, cute as ****, she would often take pictures of us, post them on snap, or mcm on IG, but she would always delete them after a short time. I never noticed at first but caught on eventually. Also little dumb **** like guys hitting on her on social media I would say something, not being confrontational, but letting them know she was happily taken you feel me, and I started noticing she would even delete those comments from me and leave all the heart eyes and bull****.

Long story short she still had feelings for her ex who cheated on her, tried saying she loved me but wasn't completely over him, and I pretty much said peace right then and there. We talked for a month, dated for a month, awesome girl but I need a woman not a girl that likes being cheated on. Instant turn off.
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Originally Posted By tillIDrop⏩
I asked here instead of the Tmisc section hoping to get a more mature response lol. Thanks guys.
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post 1446265393 06-06-2016, 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted By spurz89⏩
Also if she was been fukking OP for 8 months and not been exclusive until recently making she doesnt want to answer questions about how long they have been involved. Maybe had a different bf/fukk buddy during that time as well
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She's hiding you because she's either ashamed of sharing you to her friends and family, or as mentioned, she's keeping her other options and male attention open. Both not good.
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