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post 1447784653 06-15-2016, 07:22 AM
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You're a woman, loads of women are bi-sexual. My partner is bi-sexual, its nothing out of the ordinary.
post 1447784693 06-15-2016, 07:23 AM
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How did you come out and have you told your closets friends and family?
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post 1447784813 06-15-2016, 07:23 AM
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Originally Posted By shesprints⏩
Am preparing myself for dealing with the crazy opinions people have about bisexuals, like "you're going to go back to men, right?" or "Pick a side."

I figured Misc is trial by fire, so shoot.
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post 1447784883 06-15-2016, 07:24 AM
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Originally Posted By shesprints⏩
Top. Yes. No, I feel gross having sex with most MEN. Like I have to shower many times afterwards and gargle with strong mouthwash and it's wrong and weird.For a long time I thought I just hated sex in general,but with women, no. Do you feel gross having sex with women?
Gonna' be completely honest with you, and don't take this the wrong way. But I've never felt that way after having sex with somebody, ever. Even when I lowered my standards a little bit because of the bar I was in, and took home a 4/10, I still didn't feel that way. So I'm going to be honest with you when I say this; it sounds a lot to me like you err on the side of lesbian or that you have very very high standards in men.

And the way that you've described your desires throughout the thread seems to suggest to me that you are significantly more attracted to women and that you prefer them over men. Not that there's a bad thing, but I personally feel that you may not really be bisexual. I'm not saying this to discredit you or to make you feel bad, but it really does sound like you're not very attracted to men. Especially from that statement alone.
post 1447784913 06-15-2016, 07:24 AM
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As a lesbian myself, I would like to say, congratulations on allowing your greed to seep into your sexuality... Mirin'!!!!

















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post 1447784953 06-15-2016, 07:24 AM
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Originally Posted By SpermWhale⏩
since you're bi, what is it you like about both? do you think your tongue action is better than mine? :-)
About men, I like the straightforwardness and high sex drive, it makes things easy and casual. I like that we can talk about lifting/bro culture and share workout tips, which most women and tbh the women I'm attracted to aren't usually into.

With women, I like the emotional awareness and softness and deeper connection and higher verbal intelligence. I also like that I can pick them up physically. I also like being the one to pay for dinner, walk people home, be the 'protective' one.

No, my tongue action is probably not as good as yours due to lack of sufficient practice, but I know what I like as a female so that probably helps. Got any tips?
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post 1447785543 06-15-2016, 07:28 AM
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I think you honestly might identify as lesbian, eventually considering your "gross" description of sex with most men and the straight male view thing.

How has your family/close friends reacted. Did any of them suspect anything?
Are you feminine yourself?
How old were you when you first noticed it was a genuine attraction?
post 1447785803 06-15-2016, 07:30 AM
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why don't you you eat the groceries, every lesbian porn I've seen the girl does it to each other. I mean when you are licking from behind, they are like .5inch away from each other.
post 1447785843 06-15-2016, 07:30 AM
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Originally Posted By V.I.C⏩
How did you come out and have you told your closets friends and family?
I came out just by telling people directly one by one, and then by posting on ********. I had a long dinner with my dad to try to explain things and it took me some time to trust his acceptance, because in the past he has said some stuff that is a little bit not pro-gay, because of his generation. But in general, it's been pretty positive. A lot of my friends were already gay and lesbian, which probably should've been a hint in the first place. Also, I came out when I fell in love with my best female friend. THAT was an awkward moment, because she was moving away and couldn't reciprocate. I'm still getting over her. But we're still good friends.
Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
Gonna' be completely honest with you, and don't take this the wrong way. But I've never felt that way after having sex with somebody, ever. Even when I lowered my standards a little bit because of the bar I was in, and took home a 4/10, I still didn't feel that way. So I'm going to be honest with you when I say this; it sounds a lot to me like you err on the side of lesbian or that you have very very high standards in men.

And the way that you've described your desires throughout the thread seems to suggest to me that you are significantly more attracted to women and that you prefer them over men. Not that there's a bad thing, but I personally feel that you may not really be bisexual. I'm not saying this to discredit you or to make you feel bad, but it really does sound like you're not very attracted to men. Especially from that statement alone.
I don't take it the wrong way at all. It's something I'm considering myself, but I don't want to declare myself a lesbian yet especially because I still do feel like I experience attraction to men. Maybe once I have more experience I'll identify lesbian. Maybe I'm just feeling more attracted to women right now. Maybe I'm just squeamish about sex.
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post 1447786303 06-15-2016, 07:33 AM
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Originally Posted By Flexish⏩
I think you honestly might identify as lesbian, eventually considering your "gross" description of sex with most men and the straight male view thing.

How has your family/close friends reacted. Did any of them suspect anything?
Are you feminine yourself?
How old were you when you first noticed it was a genuine attraction?
My dad says he suspected it for awhile when he noticed almost all my friends were lesbians and that I was sharing a bed with my best female friend a lot. My mom didn't. My brother said 'it explains a lot.' My cousin said, 'I thought you just couldn't find a man smart enough.'

I think I'm feminine myself in how I present. I don't wear a lot of dresses or makeup, though, and I have a fairly masculine mindset. I would say it's a mix.

I didn't realize I was attracted to women until I was 27. But tbh I was in denial for many years, probably starting at age 11 or so. Like I said, my anorexia interrupted my libido significantly.
Originally Posted By mcdojo⏩
why don't you you eat the groceries, every lesbian porn I've seen the girl does it to each other. I mean when you are licking from behind, they are like .5inch away from each other.
Well, real sex isn't like porn.
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post 1447786323 06-15-2016, 07:33 AM
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Originally Posted By PAU1⏩
<--------------- Female Misc
Male misc--------------->

Op caught in between.
post 1447786423 06-15-2016, 07:34 AM
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tbh i can't tell ur gender anyway so i guess good for u
post 1447786963 06-15-2016, 07:37 AM
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post 1447787003 06-15-2016, 07:37 AM
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Originally Posted By shesprints⏩
Am preparing myself for dealing with the crazy opinions people have about bisexuals, like "you're going to go back to men, right?" or "Pick a side."

I figured Misc is trial by fire, so shoot.
You've mentioned your bi side plenty of time on the misc, so no surprises there. Good for you srs.
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post 1447787403 06-15-2016, 07:39 AM
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Originally Posted By nick753⏩
I don't know whether it's funny or sad how much you women crave attention
^this

Is this all about attention or what OP? Seems like it is.
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post 1447787473 06-15-2016, 07:40 AM
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post 1447787513 06-15-2016, 07:40 AM
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post 1447787663 06-15-2016, 07:41 AM
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Originally Posted By shesprints⏩
I don't take it the wrong way at all. It's something I'm considering myself, but I don't want to declare myself a lesbian yet especially because I still do feel like I experience attraction to men. Maybe once I have more experience I'll identify lesbian. Maybe I'm just feeling more attracted to women right now. Maybe I'm just squeamish about sex.
It's definitely good to be open to all possibilities, which is mainly why I mentioned that. It's precisely because it sounds like you're erring on the side of lesbian that you should explore that route and embrace it if it really feels natural to you. Once again, this is all new to you and you'll eventually be able to discover and affirm what your sexual identity really means to you. Right now, you're not necessarily sure, and it's totally okay to consider yourself bisexual. You're opening new doors, and life is--and always has been--about exploring.

Don't close any doors, but be open to the fact that you might actually prefer women over men. There's nothing wrong with that
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post 1447787803 06-15-2016, 07:42 AM
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I'm heading to work but will answer more questions later.

I do like attention. But being bisexual has nothing to do with my desire for attention. I think we all seek attention and approval, male and female. Is that bad?
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post 1447788483 06-15-2016, 07:46 AM
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Originally Posted By shesprints⏩
I'm heading to work but will answer more questions later.

I do like attention. But being bisexual has nothing to do with my desire for attention. I think we all seek attention and approval, male and female. Is that bad?
Planning on changing your username to "shescissors"?
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post 1447788773 06-15-2016, 07:48 AM
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What do women get out of being bisexual? Men can eat pussy as well as a woman, plus have a dink? Women are inferior sexual partners. They don't have all the right equipment for the job.
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post 1447788873 06-15-2016, 07:49 AM
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Serious question: who gives a ****?

Are you proud you're bisexual..? It's almost like when people "come out" as gay/bi, we're supposed to act like it's the best thing ever, when really it just means you're not normal.

I am getting annoyed at all this sort of crap. Go **** dudes, **** chicks, **** whomever, just don't pretend you should be given a damn medal.
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post 1447789503 06-15-2016, 07:53 AM
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Originally Posted By InstantLoser⏩
Planning on changing your username to "shescissors"?
lmao
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Originally Posted By ImpressiveGainz⏩
Serious question: who gives a ****?

Are you proud you're bisexual..? It's almost like when people "come out" as gay/bi, we're supposed to act like it's the best thing ever, when really it just means you're not normal.

I am getting annoyed at all this sort of crap. Go **** dudes, **** chicks, **** whomever, just don't pretend you should be given a damn medal.
abnormalities are the only reason these AMA threads are made brah. OP didn't come across as though she thought being bi is really cool IMO either.
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Originally Posted By Kuzon⏩
abnormalities are the only reason these AMA threads are made brah. OP didn't come across as though she thought being bi is really cool IMO either.
Bisexuality/homosexuality is a sign of mental illness.
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Originally Posted By Kuzon⏩
abnormalities are the only reason these AMA threads are made brah. OP didn't come across as though she thought being bi is really cool IMO either.
Fair enough, but that was more of a general sort of statement vs. directed at her.

Like this sort of crap:http://radaronline.com/photos/celebs.../photo/821966/
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Makes thread saying she's bisexual

Talks about how sex with men is gross


It's called being a lesbian OP. Jesus Christ, it's not that hard to figure out.
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Originally Posted By motilynn⏩
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