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07-08-2016, 12:29 PM
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I'll be very honest 100% srs.
Ever since I was young, I was watching videos how to approach women.
Watched Vitaly's and those Asian kids videos who approach girls.
Then googled lots of ways to approach women, including Corey Wayne, Julian w/e...
Then learned some tips from the misc.
And I still don't approach girls, haven't approached a single one.
I don't know.
I probably need to dig deep in my subconscious to get over my fears, some videos or tips won't help.
That's my own experience, but you could do better
Ever since I was young, I was watching videos how to approach women.
Watched Vitaly's and those Asian kids videos who approach girls.
Then googled lots of ways to approach women, including Corey Wayne, Julian w/e...
Then learned some tips from the misc.
And I still don't approach girls, haven't approached a single one.
I don't know.
I probably need to dig deep in my subconscious to get over my fears, some videos or tips won't help.
That's my own experience, but you could do better
*Go to the bathroom, flex in mirror and forget to pee crew*
*Shave one of my legs and pretend it's a girl in my bed crew*
*T-mobile worker laughed at me because only had one number for 5-friends/family list plan crew*
07-08-2016, 12:36 PM
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Originally Posted By xHiroko⏩
Thanks brah and I've been watching those guys (Julian, Owen, Justin Wayne, Vitaly, and other pickup brahs), reading pickup / misc, since I was around 16. You'd think with 5 years of consuming that chit, I'd be a lot better off and my confidence would be higher.I'll be very honest 100% srs.
Ever since I was young, I was watching videos how to approach women.
Watched Vitaly's and those Asian kids videos who approach girls.
Then googled lots of ways to approach women, including Corey Wayne, Julian w/e...
Then learned some tips from the misc.
And I still don't approach girls, haven't approached a single one.
I don't know.
I probably need to dig deep in my subconscious to get over my fears, some videos or tips won't help.
That's my own experience, but you could do better
Ever since I was young, I was watching videos how to approach women.
Watched Vitaly's and those Asian kids videos who approach girls.
Then googled lots of ways to approach women, including Corey Wayne, Julian w/e...
Then learned some tips from the misc.
And I still don't approach girls, haven't approached a single one.
I don't know.
I probably need to dig deep in my subconscious to get over my fears, some videos or tips won't help.
That's my own experience, but you could do better
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07-08-2016, 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted By DevonHardy⏩
Yeah.Thanks brah and I've been watching those guys (Julian, Owen, Justin Wayne, Vitaly, and other pickup brahs), reading pickup / misc, since I was around 16. You'd think with 5 years of consuming that chit, I'd be a lot better off and my confidence would be higher.
I mean, if you'd ask me how to approach women, then I'll be able to teach you well.
I know how they think, what they think, how men should approach, how they should act, relationship problems, etc...
But when it comes to me... no way I'll approach a woman.
*Go to the bathroom, flex in mirror and forget to pee crew*
*Shave one of my legs and pretend it's a girl in my bed crew*
*T-mobile worker laughed at me because only had one number for 5-friends/family list plan crew*
07-08-2016, 12:51 PM
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Originally Posted By DevonHardy⏩
What does it tell you if you've been trying it for 5 years without results? You on that tardtime bro? You do know the definition of insanity, right?Thanks brah and I've been watching those guys (Julian, Owen, Justin Wayne, Vitaly, and other pickup brahs), reading pickup / misc, since I was around 16. You'd think with 5 years of consuming that chit, I'd be a lot better off and my confidence would be higher.
The only proven method is the numbers game. One more time since you chose to ignore my previous comment:
Originally Posted By PisseninMisc⏩
I dunno how many times you *******s have to ask this question. There is no how. That's what "Just do it means". Don't think about it and try to figure out how to do it, you just go in.
Everyone knows females have the power to pick their guy, so all you're doing is providing an opportunity for her to let you hit it. It rarely really matters what you say. By the time you've talked to her for 30 seconds she'll know if she wants to fk you, date you, or say bye bye. You just need to sack up and stop being such a little ******* about being rejected. Fk your silly little emotions bro, just go talk to them and eventually one will be open to your approach.
Everyone knows females have the power to pick their guy, so all you're doing is providing an opportunity for her to let you hit it. It rarely really matters what you say. By the time you've talked to her for 30 seconds she'll know if she wants to fk you, date you, or say bye bye. You just need to sack up and stop being such a little ******* about being rejected. Fk your silly little emotions bro, just go talk to them and eventually one will be open to your approach.
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07-08-2016, 12:55 PM
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Originally Posted By xHiroko⏩
Bro you just explained my feels. I've read the The Manual by W Anton like 5 times and honestly it's the best book I've ever read on getting girls. But, it's useless because I can't put any of it to work.Yeah.
I mean, if you'd ask me how to approach women, then I'll be able to teach you well.
I know how they think, what they think, how men should approach, how they should act, relationship problems, etc...
But when it comes to me... no way I'll approach a woman.
I mean, if you'd ask me how to approach women, then I'll be able to teach you well.
I know how they think, what they think, how men should approach, how they should act, relationship problems, etc...
But when it comes to me... no way I'll approach a woman.
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07-08-2016, 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted By DevonHardy⏩
Haha yeah, like someone gotta push you to do this, or else, you'll be forever alone.Bro you just explained my feels. I've read the The Manual by W Anton like 5 times and honestly it's the best book I've ever read on getting girls. But, it's useless because I can't put any of it to work.
Personally, girls approach me quite often without me doing anything, I still don't ask for numbers.
Sometimes they leave their numbers to me, sometimes not.
When I'm lucky, they just leave their numbers.
*Go to the bathroom, flex in mirror and forget to pee crew*
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07-08-2016, 12:58 PM
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Originally Posted By PisseninMisc⏩
Didn't mean to ignore it brah, I was meaning to respond, but I got swamped with school work and we had people over..What does it tell you if you've been trying it for 5 years without results? You on that tardtime bro? You do know the definition of insanity, right?
The only proven method is the numbers game. One more time since you chose to ignore my previous comment:
The only proven method is the numbers game. One more time since you chose to ignore my previous comment:
Yeah, I agree dude totally 100%. The thing is I really haven't been "trying" if I'm being honest. I see a girl and I chicken out, end of.
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07-08-2016, 01:10 PM
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Originally Posted By xHiroko⏩
Even though my confidence isn't that high, I don't think I look bad enough to be forever alone or ldar so I gotta get on it.Haha yeah, like someone gotta push you to do this, or else,you'll be forever alone.
Personally, girls approach me quite often without me doing anything, I still don't ask for numbers.
Sometimes they leave their numbers to me, sometimes not.
When I'm lucky, they just leave their numbers.
Personally, girls approach me quite often without me doing anything, I still don't ask for numbers.
Sometimes they leave their numbers to me, sometimes not.
When I'm lucky, they just leave their numbers.
And that's dope brah srs, mostly I just get girls mirin (or so other people tell me).
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07-08-2016, 01:11 PM
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Originally Posted By DevonHardy⏩
The reason why you chicken out is because you've filled your head with this PUA bullchit about how to approach. Take this from a 30 year old member of the EE crew: this chit is not a science. Beyond the obvious chit like get a haircut and don't look like a fkin bum, the other stuff about what to say and how to gauge interest and all that crap is a complete waste of time.Didn't mean to ignore it brah, I was meaning to respond, but I got swamped with school work and we had people over..
Yeah, I agree dude totally 100%. The thing is I really haven't been "trying" if I'm being honest. I see a girl and I chicken out, end of.
Yeah, I agree dude totally 100%. The thing is I really haven't been "trying" if I'm being honest. I see a girl and I chicken out, end of.
All you have to do is say anything. Do you really believe you're going to talk to a girl with your slick PUA lines and make her want to suck your dik using your magicboy wordsmith skills? Please give me a break. You just need to say ANYTHING and then ask for her digits / drink / coffee. That's it.
If she says no, you move on. If she says yes then she's saying yes I'm interested in suking your dik. It's not like girls dont know what's on your horny little brain homie. This is all common sense. Don't try to waste your time getting all scientific with it.
One more thing: girls are people like you and me so don't fantasize about one of them being your perfect princess. All the dirt comes to surface as soon as you start dating one or get in a relationship. So don't psych yourself out thinking you have to deliver a perfect magical pick up line to get a female thinking she is your dream girl. It's VERY likely that you are incompatible physically, mentally, spiritually, socioeconomically or just simply not click. Once you realize there is really nothing at all at stake you'll stop being so emotional about the approach and just go fkin talk to them.
TL;DR: Drop the PUA chit and just talk to a bunch of girls. Keep it simple, say Hi, ask for phone number and to get a drink/coffee. If they say yes that means they're interested and you just set something up and try to fk em. Does that not sound a little more reasonable than all that PUA bullchit you've wasted FIVE years of your life watching? It's okay tho brah, you know better now. Move on with your life mate, it's about time.
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07-08-2016, 01:15 PM
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Originally Posted By DevonHardy⏩
If a girl is 'mirin your physique, you can simply say "That's not my only talent" with a smile on your face.Even though my confidence isn't that high, I don't think I look bad enough to be forever alone or ldar so I gotta get on it.
And that's dope brah srs, mostly I just get girls mirin (or so other people tell me).
And that's dope brah srs, mostly I just get girls mirin (or so other people tell me).
She's most likely gonna ask what's your talent, and you can reply with "I can see the future".
She'll most likely ask you what do you see in the future, you can reply with "Me and you dating tomorrow" with a smile.
That's flirty, funny and spontaneous.
*Go to the bathroom, flex in mirror and forget to pee crew*
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07-08-2016, 01:15 PM
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Talk to women like you would anyone else. If she can tell you are nervous/not confident/trying to impress, you already lost. It doesn't matter in the slightest what you say, its how you deliver.
And some girls are nuts and logic doesn't matter with them. Just move on
And some girls are nuts and logic doesn't matter with them. Just move on
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07-08-2016, 01:16 PM
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Another thing that helps me:
Women RARELY get approached outside of clubs and chit. And even at clubs I doubt they get approached all the time.
By simply going up to her, you're at competition with AT most 3 other guys on her radar. On tinder, you're competing with thousands of dinks.
And by going up confidently, she will dig you. Confidence is a big part of the game. Don't let the misc fool you
Women RARELY get approached outside of clubs and chit. And even at clubs I doubt they get approached all the time.
By simply going up to her, you're at competition with AT most 3 other guys on her radar. On tinder, you're competing with thousands of dinks.
And by going up confidently, she will dig you. Confidence is a big part of the game. Don't let the misc fool you
Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
07-08-2016, 01:18 PM
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Originally Posted By xHiroko⏩
that's bare cringe soz brahIf a girl is 'mirin your physique, you can simply say "That's not my only talent" with a smile on your face.
She's most likely gonna ask what's your talent, and you can reply with "I can see the future".
She'll most likely ask you what do you see in the future, you can reply with "Me and you dating tomorrow" with a smile.
That's flirty, funny and spontaneous.
She's most likely gonna ask what's your talent, and you can reply with "I can see the future".
She'll most likely ask you what do you see in the future, you can reply with "Me and you dating tomorrow" with a smile.
That's flirty, funny and spontaneous.
07-08-2016, 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Realityy⏩
It's not what you say, it's HOW you say things.that's bare cringe soz brah
And if you know HOW to say these lines properly, you'll get girls throwing numbers at you.
How do I know? taught my close friends these lines, they all had success.
*Go to the bathroom, flex in mirror and forget to pee crew*
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07-08-2016, 01:28 PM
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Originally Posted By PisseninMisc⏩
Dude, I can't thank you enough for all the advice. Srs I'm going to put what you said to work.The reason why you chicken out is because you've filled your head with this PUA bullchit about how to approach. Take this from a 30 year old member of the EE crew: this chit is not a science. Beyond the obvious chit like get a haircut and don't look like a fkin bum, the other stuff about what to say and how to gauge interest and all that crap is a complete waste of time.
All you have to do is say anything. Do you really believe you're going to talk to a girl with your slick PUA lines and make her want to suck your dik using your magicboy wordsmith skills? Please give me a break. You just need to say ANYTHING and then ask for her digits / drink / coffee. That's it.
If she says no, you move on. If she says yes then she's saying yes I'm interested in suking your dik. It's not like girls dont know what's on your horny little brain homie. This is all common sense. Don't try to waste your time getting all scientific with it.
One more thing: girls are people like you and me so don't fantasize about one of them being your perfect princess. All the dirt comes to surface as soon as you start dating one or get in a relationship. So don't psych yourself out thinking you have to deliver a perfect magical pick up line to get a female thinking she is your dream girl. It's VERY likely that you are incompatible physically, mentally, spiritually, socioeconomically or just simply not click. Once you realize there is really nothing at all at stake you'll stop being so emotional about the approach and just go fkin talk to them.
TL;DR: Drop the PUA chit and just talk to a bunch of girls. Keep it simple, say Hi, ask for phone number and to get a drink/coffee. If they say yes that means they're interested and you just set something up and try to fk em. Does that not sound a little more reasonable than all that PUA bullchit you've wasted FIVE years of your life watching? It's okay tho brah, you know better now. Move on with your life mate, it's about time.
All you have to do is say anything. Do you really believe you're going to talk to a girl with your slick PUA lines and make her want to suck your dik using your magicboy wordsmith skills? Please give me a break. You just need to say ANYTHING and then ask for her digits / drink / coffee. That's it.
If she says no, you move on. If she says yes then she's saying yes I'm interested in suking your dik. It's not like girls dont know what's on your horny little brain homie. This is all common sense. Don't try to waste your time getting all scientific with it.
One more thing: girls are people like you and me so don't fantasize about one of them being your perfect princess. All the dirt comes to surface as soon as you start dating one or get in a relationship. So don't psych yourself out thinking you have to deliver a perfect magical pick up line to get a female thinking she is your dream girl. It's VERY likely that you are incompatible physically, mentally, spiritually, socioeconomically or just simply not click. Once you realize there is really nothing at all at stake you'll stop being so emotional about the approach and just go fkin talk to them.
TL;DR: Drop the PUA chit and just talk to a bunch of girls. Keep it simple, say Hi, ask for phone number and to get a drink/coffee. If they say yes that means they're interested and you just set something up and try to fk em. Does that not sound a little more reasonable than all that PUA bullchit you've wasted FIVE years of your life watching? It's okay tho brah, you know better now. Move on with your life mate, it's about time.
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07-08-2016, 01:30 PM
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I watched my friend's older bro (who got more a$$ than a toilet seat) get brutally shot down when he approached a 10/10.
He took it completely in stride, on to the next. No MISC threads, no tears, just went to a different area and tried again.
Made me realize that the fear of "what if?" is worse than the fear of rejection.
Even the best don't have a 100% success rate.
He took it completely in stride, on to the next. No MISC threads, no tears, just went to a different area and tried again.
Made me realize that the fear of "what if?" is worse than the fear of rejection.
Even the best don't have a 100% success rate.
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07-08-2016, 01:36 PM
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Originally Posted By gharlow⏩
Got you on RC. One of the most important lessons to learn as a man and a human being is to accept and deal with rejection. It's an important lesson in the dating game, but also in all facets of life. You can't get emotionally shut down like a little bish every time someone gives you the cold shoulder.I watched my friend's older bro (who got more a$$ than a toilet seat) get brutally shot down when he approached a 10/10.
He took it completely in stride, on to the next. No MISC threads, no tears, just went to a different area and tried again.
Made me realize that the fear of "what if?" is worse than the fear of rejection.
Even the best don't have a 100% success rate.
He took it completely in stride, on to the next. No MISC threads, no tears, just went to a different area and tried again.
Made me realize that the fear of "what if?" is worse than the fear of rejection.
Even the best don't have a 100% success rate.
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07-08-2016, 01:41 PM
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well, do you want to be 60 and wonder what if?
You are 21, tell me you never tought "what if I had the balls to do this but now its to late?"
Well, live life to the max, just go for the kill. Whats the worse that can hapen, a rejection? lol At least you wont be 60 wondering what if...
You are 21, tell me you never tought "what if I had the balls to do this but now its to late?"
Well, live life to the max, just go for the kill. Whats the worse that can hapen, a rejection? lol At least you wont be 60 wondering what if...
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Originally Posted By gharlow⏩
This hit me hard man srs. No excuses now.I watched my friend's older bro (who got more a$$ than a toilet seat) get brutally shot down when he approached a 10/10.
He took it completely in stride, on to the next. No MISC threads, no tears, just went to a different area and tried again.
Made me realize that the fear of "what if?" is worse than the fear of rejection.
Even the best don't have a 100% success rate.
He took it completely in stride, on to the next. No MISC threads, no tears, just went to a different area and tried again.
Made me realize that the fear of "what if?" is worse than the fear of rejection.
Even the best don't have a 100% success rate.
Originally Posted By xHiroko⏩
Lol might try that line, I mean fuk it right? What's the worst that could happen lol?It's not what you say, it's HOW you say things.
And if you know HOW to say these lines properly, you'll get girls throwing numbers at you.
How do I know? taught my close friends these lines, they all had success.
And if you know HOW to say these lines properly, you'll get girls throwing numbers at you.
How do I know? taught my close friends these lines, they all had success.
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07-08-2016, 01:48 PM
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Originally Posted By DevonHardy⏩
Thats the problem. You grew up with no confidence and you dont know whats possible if you act different because you are used to rejections / no attention / no validation.Will rep the new boyos ITT when I'm off r/c, thanks again brahs
Srs question: I'm trying to work on my confidence and chit, but right now I'm feelin like chit. Do you brahs srsly think I'm gonna make it with girls? Because at times I feel like I'm not good looking enough, I know I shouldn't feel that way but I do.Growing up fat with zero confidence does that to you.
Thanks for legit answers.
Srs question: I'm trying to work on my confidence and chit, but right now I'm feelin like chit. Do you brahs srsly think I'm gonna make it with girls? Because at times I feel like I'm not good looking enough, I know I shouldn't feel that way but I do.Growing up fat with zero confidence does that to you.
Thanks for legit answers.
YOu could use drugs to lower your inhibition and try to see that its actually possible to jump over your fears but the damage is not reversable of your fcked up childhood.
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Also, as others have said. Eye contact. Look her in the eyes while you are talking, you will see she will start smiling from the power of that moment. I dont know how to explain but I always feel something inside when I look at the eyes of a girl while we are having a convo and she smile without wanting to show it.
Aw fck, ill let more experienced english miscers give you some tips.
Aw fck, ill let more experienced english miscers give you some tips.
07-08-2016, 01:55 PM
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The more you do it, the more comfortable you get with it.
Think about the first time you ever went into the gym or started a new lift. You were nervous, not very sure of yourself. Then as you went the next time, it was better, easier. You had more confidence.
The hardest part is doing it the first few times. Don't beat yourself up over being denied cause that's the worse that could happen.
Think about the first time you ever went into the gym or started a new lift. You were nervous, not very sure of yourself. Then as you went the next time, it was better, easier. You had more confidence.
The hardest part is doing it the first few times. Don't beat yourself up over being denied cause that's the worse that could happen.
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Originally Posted By boredFA⏩
Damn, so I'm not aesthetic after all. Thanks for the honesty brahThats the problem. You grew up with no confidence and you dont know whats possible if you act different because you are used to rejections / no attention / no validation.
YOu could use drugs to lower your inhibition and try to see that its actually possible to jump over your fears but the damage is not reversable of your fcked up childhood.
Slayers are born.
You lost the genetic lottery of being a female and beinga goodlooking malethat is an alpha from the start.
YOu could use drugs to lower your inhibition and try to see that its actually possible to jump over your fears but the damage is not reversable of your fcked up childhood.
Slayers are born.
You lost the genetic lottery of being a female and beinga goodlooking malethat is an alpha from the start.
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07-08-2016, 02:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Nelly87⏩
Appreciate the advice brah.The more you do it, the more comfortable you get with it.
Think about the first time you ever went into the gym or started a new lift. You were nervous, not very sure of yourself. Then as you went the next time, it was better, easier. You had more confidence.
The hardest part is doing it the first few times. Don't beat yourself up over being denied cause that's the worse that could happen.
Think about the first time you ever went into the gym or started a new lift. You were nervous, not very sure of yourself. Then as you went the next time, it was better, easier. You had more confidence.
The hardest part is doing it the first few times. Don't beat yourself up over being denied cause that's the worse that could happen.
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Thanks again for the advice and help brah. Srs, this has been such an eye opening thread. Probably won't bump this again, but I'll be reading again when I need to.
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07-08-2016, 02:24 PM
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Originally Posted By xHiroko⏩
Yeah.
I mean, if you'd ask me how to approach women, then I'll be able to teach you well.
I know how they think, what they think, how men should approach, how they should act, relationship problems, etc...
But when it comes to me... no way I'll approach a woman.
I mean, if you'd ask me how to approach women, then I'll be able to teach you well.
I know how they think, what they think, how men should approach, how they should act, relationship problems, etc...
But when it comes to me... no way I'll approach a woman.
Originally Posted By DevonHardy⏩
I'm trying to do a pickup business gaiz. srs. no troll. its not gonna be easy I feel like I'm in fetus stages as far as that goes. But I came across pua material in middleschool at 12, I was chubby with long hair and shy. It awoke a big change in me and I wouldnt be the same person I am right now. I wouldnt have multiple pretty girls with my initials permanently in their skin. I wouldnt know what its like to have a threesome, or what its like walking down the street with two hbbs that are getting along socially that both accept you touching the other sexually in public. I must be a narcissist because that was way more reality-blowing and satisfying than the threesome. How far I'd come along to get to this point.Bro you just explained my feels. I've read the The Manual by W Anton like 5 times and honestly it's the best book I've ever read on getting girls. But, it's useless because I can't put any of it to work.
I know I know, pua is creepy sh*t blah blah all u have to do is *generic advice*. Thats cute and all. But none of that would have let me do the crazy sh*t I've done. Science explains everything in the world. Your delusional if you think dating/attraction is an exception to this.
Naturally the crowd it attracts has some elliot rodgers to the point of an entire subculture who have read everything top to bottom. But cant do it in irl so the redpill is born. I dont want to start rambling too much before a bunch of random betas call me a ******* and tell you some generic durr have confidence dont care advice.
None of which explains WHERE or HOW to approach women with this advice. Sorry bro I'm too pragmatic for that. Its like wanting to get good at basketball but not wanting to learn fundamentals cuz "i jus wanna be natural and do da fancy crossova" because you feel some type of way about playing basketball for technique and winning and not for "the love" of the game. I love the game when I'm winning. 70% of divorces being initiated by women is not winning. Its a pattern of men taking Ls.
Ask me anything breh I mean that dead srs you are going to get legit fukken advice. I have actual evidence here I'm not some no-avi dude giving cookie-cutter cereal box list tips.
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07-08-2016, 02:26 PM
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Originally Posted By OhsoClutch⏩
Sounds good brah, I'll hit you with a PM in a minI'm trying to do a pickup business gaiz. srs. no troll. its not gonna be easy I feel like I'm in fetus stages as far as that goes. But I came across pua material in middleschool at 12, I was chubby with long hair and shy. It awoke a big change in me and I wouldnt be the same person I am right now. I wouldnt have multiple pretty girls with my initials permanently in their skin. I wouldnt know what its like to have a threesome, or what its like walking down the street with two hbbs that are getting along socially that both accept you touching the other sexually in public. I must be a narcissist because that was way more reality-blowing and satisfying than the threesome. How far I'd come along to get to this point.
I know I know, pua is creepy sh*t blah blah all u have to do is *generic advice*. Thats cute and all. But none of that would have let me do the crazy sh*t I've done. Science explains everything in the world. Your delusional if you think dating/attraction is an exception to this.
Naturally the crowd it attracts has some elliot rodgers to the point of an entire subculture who have read everything top to bottom. But cant do it in irl so the redpill is born. I dont want to start rambling too much before a bunch of random betas call me a ******* and tell you some generic durr have confidence dont care advice.
None of which explains WHERE or HOW to approach women with this advice. Sorry bro I'm too pragmatic for that. Its like wanting to get good at basketball but not wanting to learn fundamentals cuz "i jus wanna be natural and do da fancy crossova" because you feel some type of way about playing basketball for technique and winning and not for "the love" of the game. I love the game when I'm winning. 70% of divorces being initiated by women is not winning. Its a pattern of men taking Ls.
Ask me anything breh I mean that dead srs you are going to get legit fukken advice. I have actual evidence here I'm not some no-avi dude giving cookie-cutter cereal box list tips.
I know I know, pua is creepy sh*t blah blah all u have to do is *generic advice*. Thats cute and all. But none of that would have let me do the crazy sh*t I've done. Science explains everything in the world. Your delusional if you think dating/attraction is an exception to this.
Naturally the crowd it attracts has some elliot rodgers to the point of an entire subculture who have read everything top to bottom. But cant do it in irl so the redpill is born. I dont want to start rambling too much before a bunch of random betas call me a ******* and tell you some generic durr have confidence dont care advice.
None of which explains WHERE or HOW to approach women with this advice. Sorry bro I'm too pragmatic for that. Its like wanting to get good at basketball but not wanting to learn fundamentals cuz "i jus wanna be natural and do da fancy crossova" because you feel some type of way about playing basketball for technique and winning and not for "the love" of the game. I love the game when I'm winning. 70% of divorces being initiated by women is not winning. Its a pattern of men taking Ls.
Ask me anything breh I mean that dead srs you are going to get legit fukken advice. I have actual evidence here I'm not some no-avi dude giving cookie-cutter cereal box list tips.
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07-08-2016, 03:49 PM
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Originally Posted By TugOfPeace⏩
Motivating, thanks brahWow.. what a dick.
I disagree.. slayers are not born. Powerlifters are not born. Theoretical physicists aren't born. World class athletes aren't born. Entrepreneurs aren't born.
They're made through continuous effort applied in the right direction.. just like slayers. Sure aesthetics help, but confidence is built, doesn't matter at what age.
The way to make it out of a ****ed up mindset isn't easy.. my belief is this is how:
1) Reduce your exposure to the toxic beliefs that shaped your mindset in the first place - get off misc, get off social media, stop putting yourself in situations where you know you'll get destroyed
2) Spend a lot of time controlling your thoughts - meditation is an absolute must for this. Shut out negative beliefs
3) Don't fuking fap.. or look at porn
4) Continuously put yourself in forced social situations such as getting a job as a cashier or waiter
This kind of stuff doesn't happen overnight but the results will be real
I disagree.. slayers are not born. Powerlifters are not born. Theoretical physicists aren't born. World class athletes aren't born. Entrepreneurs aren't born.
They're made through continuous effort applied in the right direction.. just like slayers. Sure aesthetics help, but confidence is built, doesn't matter at what age.
The way to make it out of a ****ed up mindset isn't easy.. my belief is this is how:
1) Reduce your exposure to the toxic beliefs that shaped your mindset in the first place - get off misc, get off social media, stop putting yourself in situations where you know you'll get destroyed
2) Spend a lot of time controlling your thoughts - meditation is an absolute must for this. Shut out negative beliefs
3) Don't fuking fap.. or look at porn
4) Continuously put yourself in forced social situations such as getting a job as a cashier or waiter
This kind of stuff doesn't happen overnight but the results will be real
♏ Deus. Rex. Sum. Veni, Vidi, Vici
The One.
B/S/D: 375 / 475 / 500lbs.
07-08-2016, 04:09 PM
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Just fukkin lol at all the bluepilled phggots on here saying all u need is confidence. OP if you want to know the honest and harsh truth go on social media and dating apps, if you can't smash hot sluts regulary and get alot of matches with dating apps then you are not good looking.Truth is chads don't have to try and approach . .....they can't be FA. Even the most retarded and autistic guy will slay at least one sloot a week from social media if he is good looking.
People on here all delusional saying approach 100 sloots... Chad can just log on tinder right now and get a 9/10 to suck his dick 1 hour later. 95/5 rule. No offense but at 5'9" and not being white already reduces your chances of being a slayer by a large margin , you will have to run perfect game and have strong social connections and networking to smash sloots even on a monthly basis.
Girls check out everyone it dosent mean chit tbh. Some of them are thirsty enough and slooty enough to stare at other guys even if they only fukk 6'4" white chads.
And the reality is slayers are born not made like some1 said. If you didint smash in high school, chances of becoming a slayer are basically non existent. I know it's hard to swallow the red pill but it's the reality. A small percent of men have been smashing sluts since they hit Puberty and they will keep doing it until they die while we rot .
People on here all delusional saying approach 100 sloots... Chad can just log on tinder right now and get a 9/10 to suck his dick 1 hour later. 95/5 rule. No offense but at 5'9" and not being white already reduces your chances of being a slayer by a large margin , you will have to run perfect game and have strong social connections and networking to smash sloots even on a monthly basis.
Girls check out everyone it dosent mean chit tbh. Some of them are thirsty enough and slooty enough to stare at other guys even if they only fukk 6'4" white chads.
And the reality is slayers are born not made like some1 said. If you didint smash in high school, chances of becoming a slayer are basically non existent. I know it's hard to swallow the red pill but it's the reality. A small percent of men have been smashing sluts since they hit Puberty and they will keep doing it until they die while we rot .
07-08-2016, 04:32 PM
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Originally Posted By MrDerickBeast⏩
Honestly I don't even think I'm ugly or my height is a problem (I wouldn't get any attention or compilments). The problem is I don't try, like at all.Just fukkin lol at all the bluepilled phggots on here saying all u need is confidence. OP if you want to know the honest and harsh truth go on social media and dating apps, if you can't smash hot sluts regulary and get alot of matches with dating apps then you are not good looking.Truth is chads don't have to try and approach . .....they can't be FA. Even the most retarded and autistic guy will slay at least one sloot a week from social media if he is good looking.
People on here all delusional saying approach 100 sloots... Chad can just log on tinder right now and get a 9/10 to suck his dick 1 hour later. 95/5 rule. No offense but at 5'9" and not being white already reduces your chances of being a slayer by a large margin , you will have to run perfect game and have strong social connections and networking to smash sloots even on a monthly basis.
Girls check out everyone it dosent mean chit tbh. Some of them are thirsty enough and slooty enough to stare at other guys even if they only fukk 6'4" white chads.
And the reality is slayers are born not made like some1 said. If you didint smash in high school, chances of becoming a slayer are basically non existent. I know it's hard to swallow the red pill but it's the reality. A small percent of men have been smashing sluts since they hit Puberty and they will keep doing it until they die while we rot .
People on here all delusional saying approach 100 sloots... Chad can just log on tinder right now and get a 9/10 to suck his dick 1 hour later. 95/5 rule. No offense but at 5'9" and not being white already reduces your chances of being a slayer by a large margin , you will have to run perfect game and have strong social connections and networking to smash sloots even on a monthly basis.
Girls check out everyone it dosent mean chit tbh. Some of them are thirsty enough and slooty enough to stare at other guys even if they only fukk 6'4" white chads.
And the reality is slayers are born not made like some1 said. If you didint smash in high school, chances of becoming a slayer are basically non existent. I know it's hard to swallow the red pill but it's the reality. A small percent of men have been smashing sluts since they hit Puberty and they will keep doing it until they die while we rot .
♏ Deus. Rex. Sum. Veni, Vidi, Vici
The One.
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