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post 1457078693 08-11-2016, 01:06 AM
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lol I have yet to see a successful long-term reconcilation with an ex-gf

Would go nc permanently
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post 1457078743 08-11-2016, 01:07 AM
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Originally Posted By butwhowasgains⏩
Lol i wouldn't say it if i hadn't been in the same situation.

Back out quietly if that's your style but don't get back into the situation
I kind of did , we havent talked today. This is after I declined her invite to her house last night. Not sure where to go from here. Dont want to come off as a dink head. But I also want to see why shes on such good behavior. Thinking of maybe taking her out for dinner or something and talking to her.
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Originally Posted By youngarab⏩
She had a chit childhood. Abusive drug addict parents. Taken away by cps when she was a little girl. Got married. Husband cheated on her and they got divorced. She got extremley suicidial and would cut her wrists. She got hopeless and turned to the bible one day. She wanted to change but it hasnt been so successful. I came into the picture and tried to be a good example but kind of failed along the way. Smashed and than she blocked me on everything when I told her lets be celibate till it gets serious. Think she took it the wrong way and thought I was unnattracted to her.

Either way. Shes not the type of person id go NC on. My other ex, yes. She was just a pathetic low person. This one is actually honest straight forward and trying to change but just not making much progress.
Sounds like she's a professional victim. Stay away.
post 1457078893 08-11-2016, 01:08 AM
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Originally Posted By slenderman67⏩
haha "She wants to smash but i really don't want to because i'm a christian, but i'm soooo tempted"

2 hours later

"so yeah brahs we smashed etc. as usual"
lmao give me a break ... I resisted yesterday. Thats a good thing.
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post 1457079023 08-11-2016, 01:09 AM
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Originally Posted By youngarab⏩
lmao give me a break ... I resisted yesterday. Thats a good thing.
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She was probably dumped recently
post 1457079063 08-11-2016, 01:10 AM
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insecure lonely koont...stay away.


let me bang away, she'll forget all about your ass
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post 1457079123 08-11-2016, 01:11 AM
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Originally Posted By EboBebo⏩
Sounds like she's a professional victim. Stay away.
I met her mom. She told me she got addicted to meth in the 90's and told me the entire story. was awkward af with her sitting in the room with us lol. Her mom told me how the dad is a abusive drunk. Its just a messed up situation. Her ex husband really did cheat too. Mutual friend on ******** told me her ex husband would always try to get at her when they were together.

Im not trying to make her sound like a good person but she does keep it real. Will flat out tell me she used to be a huge sloot lol
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post 1457079133 08-11-2016, 01:11 AM
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Originally Posted By youngarab⏩
She had a chit childhood. Abusive drug addict parents. Taken away by cps when she was a little girl. Got married. Husband cheated on her and they got divorced. She got extremley suicidial and would cut her wrists. She got hopeless and turned to the bible one day.
None of this matters in the long run, you can't be responsible for another adult. It'll only bring you pain onto yourself as well as her.

Keep contact to a minimum, agree to hangout in public if she gets lonely and suicidal, but you can't do anything to help her brah. She has to pick herself up.
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post 1457079273 08-11-2016, 01:13 AM
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Originally Posted By motilynn⏩
You're playing with fire bringing her back into your life YA.... You should've sent the flowers anonymously if you really needed to do that..
I wasnt even going to but she texted me earlier this week and was being so nice. Than she added me back on snap and I looked at her stories and just felt bad lol. She was at home on her bday. No friends or anything. Im such a sentimental ******* sometimes lmao
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post 1457079433 08-11-2016, 01:15 AM
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Originally Posted By GenericHood⏩
OP how is your security guard job going that you prayed for and got? Is your life better ever since turning into a believer?
Truth , but a whore who wants to change. inb4 you cant turn a hoe into a housewife.

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post 1457079513 08-11-2016, 01:16 AM
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Originally Posted By runhopjump⏩
She was probably dumped recently
Maybe. I want to see what this is about. She never acts like this. Literally. So somethings up.
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post 1457079603 08-11-2016, 01:17 AM
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Originally Posted By youngarab⏩
Truth , but a whore who wants to change. inb4 you cant turn a hoe into a housewife.

Its going very good I actually just got my hours bumped up because the client told my manager im doing a very good job and the employees love me. I've been blessed. Praise Jesus.
with sinning = less closer to god and jesus christ and the temptation to sin more. Just remember that
post 1457079643 08-11-2016, 01:17 AM
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Originally Posted By EboBebo⏩
She hasn't locked a better dude and you're her backup. /thread
Unfortunately this is the truth. It always is. She's good for a few bangs then you gotta go mate.
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
None of this matters in the long run, you can't be responsible for another adult. It'll only bring you pain onto yourself as well as her.

Keep contact to a minimum, agree to hangout in public if she gets lonely and suicidal, but you can't do anything to help her brah. She has to pick herself up.
Word. Yeah I didnt go yesterday because I knew their would be at least a 50% chance id fail and raw dog the chit out of her. Has to be in public. She hasnt said anything depressing yet though.
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post 1457079713 08-11-2016, 01:19 AM
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Originally Posted By youngarab⏩
I met her mom. She told me she got addicted to meth in the 90's and told me the entire story. was awkward af with her sitting in the room with us lol. Her mom told me how the dad is a abusive drunk. Its just a messed up situation. Her ex husband really did cheat too. Mutual friend on ******** told me her ex husband would always try to get at her when they were together.

Im not trying to make her sound like a good person but she does keep it real. Will flat out tell me she used to be a huge sloot lol
Lol at dating a former meth addict. Strong standards. How old is this bish?
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Originally Posted By GenericHood⏩
with sinning = less closer to god and jesus christ and the temptation to sin more. Just remember that
In what way am I sinning right now though? Im just trying to lift her spirit up.
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post 1457079803 08-11-2016, 01:20 AM
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Originally Posted By EboBebo⏩
Lol at dating a former meth addict. Strong standards. How old is this bish?
No her mom was the meth addict. She was explaining it to me in front of my ex (her daughter). And it was awkward hearing her explain how they took her away because she was a terrible mom lol. She just turned 26
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Originally Posted By PaulFry⏩
Unfortunately this is the truth. It always is. She's good for a few bangs then you gotta go mate.
Im not banging though. Thats the reason she cut me off last time we talked. So for her to hit me up knowing I wont is strange.
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is this the same girl from the other thread?
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Originally Posted By Boerdeur⏩
is this the same girl from the other thread?
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
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lol this.


She was inviting you over because she's seeking acknowledgment and approval since no one remembered her. Just smash then go NC

edit: read you didnt wanna smash, just go NC
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Originally Posted By youngarab⏩
I wasnt even going to but she texted me earlier this week and was being so nice. Than she added me back on snap and I looked at her stories and just felt bad lol. She was at home on her bday. No friends or anything. Im such a sentimental ******* sometimes lmao
Can you just listen to me for a minute? Pls... Just... Look, why do you think she has no friends? Because she did the same thing to you, she did to them. The difference? They finally had enough and distanced themselves. I'm not saying you need to completely stay away from her. I'm telling you to pull your head out of your ass for ONE second. She knows you're an easy target due to your history with her. Of course she's going to contact the one person that didn't treat her like utter sh!t after her many tantrums and sh!t mood swings. You're litteraly rationalizing this because you didn't get closure from it the first time it ended.

She's going to do the same thing, if you want to chance that? By all means, go ahead. Just remember this- When someone shows you who they are.. Believe them.
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Originally Posted By youngarab⏩
In what way am I sinning right now though? Im just trying to lift her spirit up.
you will fall into temptation with her and eventually have sex with her and complicate your life even more.
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Originally Posted By youngarab⏩
She was being really really nice. Asking me how work was and how my family and all about how life was going for me.... which is strange because 99% of the time its always about her lol.
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Originally Posted By youngarab⏩
I kind of did , we havent talked today. This is after I declined her invite to her house last night. Not sure where to go from here. Dont want to come off as a dink head. But I also want to see why shes on such good behavior. Thinking of maybe taking her out for dinner or something and talking to her.
Because she wants attention/approval.

She is feeling bad and knows you will validate her.

I know girls like this, you are an emotional crutch
Originally Posted By dazeeman⏩
smash n dash bro, why not?
No.

The more contact you have the more responsible you will feel and the more power she has over you.

You are a nice guy youngarabrah, thats why she is doing this
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smash n dash bro, why not?
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Why are you making so many excuses for her? She has issues, she's depressed, she's this she's that. What does any of that have to do with you? I get you when you say you can't be heartless. I'm the same way at times. There's thousands of people out there with those problems plus more. At some point you have to come realize you can't save the world and bear everyone's burden. Trying to do so can potentially lead to unfavorable situations for yourself. Adults need to be adults, and be responsible for themselves at a point.

Somewhat incoherent but you get this gist

I think you're trying to justify sleeping with her. It's obvious when you talk about her, and how you "resisted" this day, and you guys have to be in public.

It's only a matter of time...
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Originally Posted By hardestgainer⏩
lol this.


She was inviting you over because she's seeking acknowledgment and approval since no one remembered her. Just smash then go NC

edit: read you didnt wanna smash, just go NC
That wouldnt make you feel bad though lol ?
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Originally Posted By motilynn⏩
Can you just listen to me for a minute? Pls... Just... Look, why do you think she has no friends? Because she did the same thing to you, she did to them. The difference? They finally had enough and distanced themselves. I'm not saying you need to completely stay away from her. I'm telling you to pull your head out of your ass for ONE second. She knows you're an easy target due to your history with her. Of course she's going to contact the one person that didn't treat her like utter sh!t after her many tantrums and sh!t mood swings. You're litteraly rationalizing this because you didn't get closure from it the first time it ended.

She's going to do the same thing, if you want to chance that? By all means, go ahead. Just remember this- When someone shows you who they are.. Believe them.
Easy target in what way? lol I never did anything for her really. And I never broke NC she's the one who did and decided to be all nice now. And she did give me closure the first time she flat out said she cant be with a guy who doesnt sex her lol.
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