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Thread: Ex gf hit me up a few days ago

post 1457081213 08-11-2016, 01:44 AM
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Originally Posted By GenericHood⏩
you will fall into temptation with her and eventually have sex with her and complicate your life even more.
Oh nah bro that wont happen again. Simple solution to that is not going over to her house. Everytime I did I failed. So obviously I cannot be alone with her. Meeting up in public would be safe
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Originally Posted By youngarab⏩
Easy target in what way?lol I never did anything for her really. And I never broke NC she's the one who did and decided to be all nice now. And she did give me closure the first time she flat out said she cant be with a guy who doesnt sex her lol.
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this whole thread proves that you are an easy target

The fact you have put so much thought in this
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post 1457081343 08-11-2016, 01:47 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Sucking you in.
Yea, we didnt talk today. Im also gonna avoid texting the following days as well. As long as she doesnt text me I think it will be ok. Plus I was polite and answered nicely back to her so she knows im not ignoring or anything.
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post 1457081473 08-11-2016, 01:50 AM
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Originally Posted By butwhowasgains⏩
Because she wants attention/approval.

She is feeling bad and knows you will validate her.

I know girls like this, you are an emotional crutch



No.

The more contact you have the more responsible you will feel and the more power she has over you.

You are a nice guy youngarabrah, thats why she is doing this
Yeah I was leaning more towards that. I will just not text her from here on out as long as she doesnt initiate. I left it at a good note which is great because last time I feel like she had some type of grudge against me because I said I couldnt smash. Plus I remembered her bday so she wont have a bad image of me
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Originally Posted By youngarab⏩
Easy target in what way? lol I never did anything for her really. And I never broke NC she's the one who did and decided to be all nice now. And she did give me closure the first time she flat out said she cant be with a guy who doesnt sex her lol.
Oh my gawwwwwddd. I have too much homework to care about this. You know exactly what she's doing. You seem to be ok being manipulated by her, there's a difference between being a caring and Christian individual, and a outright dumbazz and you know that. Do what you gotta do. I should get back to deciding if answering this next essay question, or blowing my brains out, is easier anyways. Jokes! Sem srs..Stay safe xx
post 1457081623 08-11-2016, 01:53 AM
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she got anguish and grief written all over her with eye brows like dat mayne
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post 1457081633 08-11-2016, 01:55 AM
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Originally Posted By youngarab⏩
Yeah I was leaning more towards that. I will just not text her from here on out as long as she doesnt initiate. I left it at a good note which is great because last time I feel like she had some type of grudge against me because I said I couldnt smash. Plus I remembered her bday so she wont have a bad image of me
10/10 brah

End on a good note, part without regrets.

What happens with girls like this is they meet a genuinely decent guy, break up for whatever reason,and he becomes the pillar she rushes back to every time something goes wrong, i have seen it so many times. Becomes an endless cycle.
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post 1457081673 08-11-2016, 01:55 AM
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Originally Posted By Lastrepbrah⏩
Why are you making so many excuses for her? She has issues, she's depressed, she's this she's that. What does any of that have to do with you? I get you when you say you can't be heartless. I'm the same way at times. There's thousands of people out there with those problems plus more. At some point you have to come realize you can't save the world and bear everyone's burden. Trying to do so can potentially lead to unfavorable situations for yourself. Adults need to be adults, and be responsible for themselves at a point.

Somewhat incoherent but you get this gist

I think you're trying to justify sleeping with her. It's obvious when you talk about her, and how you "resisted" this day, and you guys have to be in public.

It's only a matter of time...
She has tons of red flags which she admits but I give her some credit. I've been with plenty of pretty girls like her. She is literally the only one who is honest/blunt and doesnt beat around the bush. Doesn't hide anything and tells it how it is. Lots of bad things about her but honesty to me is one of the best qualities in a person to me. I can't stand the ones I was with who would put on the fake good girl act and you find out their sloots and had some hidden agenda with you all along. With this one she told me everything about her so when things popped off it didnt even really shock or mess with me.
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post 1457081733 08-11-2016, 01:57 AM
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Originally Posted By BoomPowSurprise⏩
she got anguish and grief written all over her with eye brows like dat mayne
I was actually planning on fixing those when we were together lol.
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post 1457081773 08-11-2016, 01:58 AM
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Originally Posted By butwhowasgains⏩
10/10 brah

End on a good note, part without regrets.

What happens with girls like this is they meet a genuinely decent guy, break up for whatever reason,and he becomes the pillar she rushes back to every time something goes wrong, i have seen it so many times. Becomes an endless cycle.
Yup. Its a good thing in a way though. It gives them hope that their is good people out there. Hopefully it made her less suicidal .
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post 1457081813 08-11-2016, 01:58 AM
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Originally Posted By youngarab⏩
That wouldnt make you feel bad though lol ?
The way I see it, she has and is still trying to use you because you're a nice guy. I like to see nice guys get the W every once in awhile over these girls, so no I wouldnt feel bad at all if I was you.
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post 1457081993 08-11-2016, 02:03 AM
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Originally Posted By motilynn⏩
Oh my gawwwwwddd. I have too much homework to care about this. You know exactly what she's doing. You seem to be ok being manipulated by her, there's a difference between being a caring and Christian individual, and a outright dumbazz and you know that. Do what you gotta do. I should get back to deciding if answering this next essay question, or blowing my brains out, is easier anyways. Jokes! Sem srs..Stay safe xx
Ignoring anyone regardless isnt christian, especially someone struggling with change.... so you can call me a dumbass all you want . And dont get me started on your little situation lmao
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post 1457082113 08-11-2016, 02:05 AM
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Originally Posted By hardestgainer⏩
The way I see it, she has and is still trying to use you because you're a nice guy. I like to see nice guys get the W every once in awhile over these girls, so no I wouldnt feel bad at all if I was you.
In any case I wont be texting her unless she gets in one of her little depressed phases and reaches out to me.
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post 1457082983 08-11-2016, 02:25 AM
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Originally Posted By youngarab⏩
Ignoring anyone regardless isnt christian, especially someone struggling with change.... so you can call me a dumbass all you want . And dont get me started on your little situation lmao
My little situation, is no longer a situation. Merely because I was the one that destroyed that, and he is not desperate, lonely,or damaged, that he needs to reach out for my approval or attention. Nor would he...Beyond that, I think this comes down to you being on a temp high because of her emotions suddenly changing and its giving you a false idea that she is changing because/for you. Which isn't the case. Could she change? Sure. Will she change for you and because of you? No. You can be an example in her life if you need to be, but by the way you're talking about her, it leads me to believe your a lot more invested, than merely setting a Christian example for her.
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Originally Posted By youngarab⏩
She has tons of red flags which she admits but I give her some credit. I've been with plenty of pretty girls like her. She is literally the only one who is honest/blunt and doesnt beat around the bush. Doesn't hide anything and tells it how it is. Lots of bad things about her but honesty to me is one of the best qualities in a person to me. I can't stand the ones I was with who would put on the fake good girl act and you find out their sloots and had some hidden agenda with you all along. With this one she told me everything about her so when things popped off it didnt even really shock or mess with me.
You've been with plenty of girls like her? And lots of bad things about her or a person are best qualities to you?


Seems to be a pattern here bruh. Something tells me this isn't your first time in this type of situation.
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Originally Posted By Lastrepbrah⏩
You've been with plenty of girls like her? And lots of bad things about her or a person are best qualities to you?


Seems to be a pattern here bruh. Something tells me this isn't your first time in this type of situation.
No i meant ive been with a lot of cute girls like her
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Originally Posted By Nobleneckbeard⏩
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Originally Posted By Tongyo⏩
only on the misc are there brahs who are ldar forever alone crew and brahs on that no sex time with girls lining up for their D.
Feels good to be true to myself brah . Cant continue living a lie
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Originally Posted By youngarab⏩
Feels good to be true to myself brah . Cant continue living a lie
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shes realizing shes losing her glow.

Also isnt this the crazy one that roasted you for wanting to wait until marriage?
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Originally Posted By Tongyo⏩
only on the misc are there brahs who are ldar forever alone crew and brahs on that no sex time with girls lining up for their D.
banging sloots can be more effort than its worth sometimes a good fap and watching a movie alone is better
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There's only three reasons girls contact an exbf.....

1 - Booty call (most common in my opinion)
2 - Seeking validation / attention / trying to make you jealous
3 - They need some of their sh!t back from your place. (But this could also tie into 1 and 2)

There's only two reasons a man contacts his exgf....

1 - Booty call
2 - Calling for booty

(Although I suppose a lot of boys might want some sort of closure, prolonging the horrible feels. NC until the feels have died. Then A) Stay NC forever or B) Proceed to booty call if she wasn't a lunatic. That is the best protocol and the closest thing to "closure" you'll get, boyo.)
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Originally Posted By youngarab⏩
She had a chit childhood. Abusive drug addict parents. Taken away by cps when she was a little girl. Got married. Husband cheated on her and they got divorced. She got extremley suicidial and would cut her wrists. She got hopeless and turned to the bible one day. She wanted to change but it hasnt been so successful. I came into the picture and tried to be a good example but kind of failed along the way. Smashed and than she blocked me on everything when I told her lets be celibate till it gets serious. Think she took it the wrong way and thought I was unnattracted to her.

Either way. Shes not the type of person id go NC on. My other ex, yes. She was just a pathetic low person. This one is actually honest straight forward and trying to change but just not making much progress.
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