liberals

dont want to offend the bullies

My oldest is starting 3rd grade in two days. Going to tell him to stand up for kids who are bullied. I already told him to look after his younger brother and his friends if someone is mean to them. I already know that teachers don't give a damn unless it's right up their face.

Good stuff brah. I think it's important and it will also be great for the character development of your boys.

I'll get you on recharge.

There is 'bullying' and bullying for one. The latter breaks character ,most don't off themselves like this kid they grow up to have mental health issues in the worst cases a borderline personality disorder. Sometimes it doesn't change the course if you move schools, because unfortunately if a kid is seriously bullied in one school, something then is a bit off in his behaviour and a bully in another school can sense the weakness.

The solution really is threefold, first parents need to take notice of their children and act when they are bullied at a school. Don't ever dismiss it.

Second I would actually have laws brought in where schools were legally responsible for their students ,just like if a student arrived in school with a black eye from home social services may get involved, if a student arrives home with a black eye then the school could well end up in court as well as the bully ending up in youth court. Believe me if that was the case schools would have far more robust anti bullying policies. And psychological bullying would be on parity with a physical assault also.

Third as has been said earlier kids who are bullies themselves often have problems ,often at home, and I think it is worth social services doing an assessment on a bully and his/her family to check everything is normal.

The solution is not in most cases for the bullied kid to move classes or schools, it isn't solving the problem and passing it on to another school/class in some cases,By it not being resolved in the bullied kids mind it is storing up later problems in my view.They also need to take the focus a bit off the victim, and look at what is going on with the school/teachers and bully. The situation needs to be resolved then and there.

When I was at school a terrible bully was allowed to stay there simply because his father donated money to the building a gym. If his father had not done that he would have been expelled in my view. So as I said, sometimes in these schools where bullying is rife there is a stink of corruption that goes right to the top.

It's cliche because it's a basic human need. We're a social species and need to feel like we have allies. Totally agree about the definition of alpha, too.

Kids can be cruel little fukkers once they realize they have the ability to harm others without consequence.

I don't even know why people even rate this generation so ****ing highly it's a joke.

cliffs on the book you just wrote...........

Breaks my heart to see kids get bullied. So helpless and rarely ever did anything to deserve it other than exist.

And I can't really wrap my head around it. I was a bully myself when I was a kid. When I was 11, I made fun of this fat girl relentlessly. It was cruel how much we made fun of her, but we ALL did it. Even people in other grades. There were only three or four kids who didn't make fun of her, but they weren't really her friends either. It was cruel, but I can't even hate myself because I wasn't in control. No kid is truly in control at that age.

It's like, if life were a video game, kids are all a bunch of NPCs lacking self-awareness. Kids are cruel as fuk. You can do your best (or worst) as a parent and still not have any guarantees about how your child is going to behave. And I do feel like bullying is somewhat natural and unavoidable, so I believe the best thing you could do other than trying to teach your kids not to bully is to keep an eye out for kids that may be bullied themselves and find a way to teach them that they have worth despite what all the bullies say. And teach them how to endure, or to stand up for themselves, or switch them to another school if you have to.

On a side note, this is one of my favorite vids:



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AwPFIFXqg-M

You could make the argument that with how clueless and lacking self-awareness kids are that sometimes even bullies are deserving of sympathy... But fuk it, I love this vid, lol

Born and raised in Texas. Never heard of or seen a fawking homecoming mum. WTF is this chit?

I have no clue how at 13 you would even consider suicide. that is crazy

Systematic harassment does not build character or make you prepared for life as an adult. It breaks down your self esteem and makes you insecure and afraid of life.
As a parent I will not withdraw from confronting any bullying child and his parents directly.

As someone who has dealt with suicide before and seen the effect it has on a family, the idea of this 13 year old taking his own life is horrible.

To imagine how alone he must have felt for that to be his only option.

I know Miscers like to troll etc, but some of the comments ITT are pathetic.

Well then don't send them to public schools.

Brutal truth: sink or swim.

Of course is the internet anyone can be a tough guy on here no ones gonna see your face so might aswell be a dick allie.

Rip

i'm sure his parents said don't worry son , Jesus will protect you

sad as fuk dude

This might come off as a little dickish, but how does a kid have the balls to end his own life but not enough balls to STICK UP FOR HIS FUKKING SELF??

Didn't need to happen. 100% srs

interesting. must be certain parts

Some teachers legit join in on the bullying. It's just human nature to pick on the weak/easy targets. We had this kid in my school who was tormented by literally everyone. Even the teachers tormented him, must have been hell.

Yep, I thought the same thing.

Good looking young brah picked on? It's weird.


On a more heart-warming note (lol) - check out this guy who finally had enough of the little b1tch giving him crap. Picks him up and throws him to the ground.




This chubby kid got pretty popular after this was shown across Australia, and the world. I bet if he lost some of that young "puppy fat" to this day (this incident happened a few years ago), he'd be pulling mad pussy now lmao.

It's nice to see bullies (AKA pieces of dog chit) get what's coming to them.

Umm there is ALWAYS mental bullying for anyone that gets bullied. That goes without saying. And yes there is something someone can do in that situation. It's called sitting down with your kid and talking to him about it and putting things in place to stop it. Teaching your kid to fight is going to give him confidence whether it's mental or physical. Talking to the teacher and other kids parents is essential these days especially for younger kids.

Not sure if you are a parent or not, but I am and I have done these things. If you put your head in the sand and just say nothing can be done, then that's when things get like how it was for the kid in the article. The problem is parents don't even talk to their kids to find out what is really going on. And they don't take any action.

As far as the teachers, if you know your kid is being bullied, you call the teacher directly. If they don't do anything, you go over their head. As a parent, I've literally stood in front of a teachers desk over this type of thing before until it was resolved.

I think that everyone should watch the interview with that kid as well. Talks about how it is being bullied and contemplating suicide.

Children are cruel creatures and we live in an age where single mom's and liberal cucks are raising children. The majority of what's wrong with America today is the result of absent or non attention paying fathers. When I went tot he first grade my father told me not to pick any fights or start trouble but if someone started something deliver a quick jab to their nose. No warning or arguing. Just throw the punch first, and fast. Had a bit of rudimentary boxing lessons and that was that.


Was a small/shy kid. Maybe had a dozen altercations from the 1st-3rd grade. Became friends with everyone I had a problem with afterwards. Learning how to stand up for yourself is one of the most important things a person can do. Never had any problems or conflicts again after that. Never bullied or anything like that. People respect & like someone who isn't unnecessarily violent/doesn't look for or start trouble but will stand up for themself and not take any chit.