Went to some Japanese restaurant with a friend and talked about various stuff, after uni. He said that I was somewhat crazy in planning to go overseas to Asia, just to meet women, and said that I should just chill and that "ill eventually find someone". I countered with "Jobs don't get served to you; you have to go out and get what you want". He even said that I do take care of my appearance, can socialise, and look alright, yet I can't get laid. I told him that I do maybe get 1-2 eyefuks a year by women of similar nationality, but they aren't pretty enough, which is why I didn't do anything. I also told him that I approach girls but I never got even a single date with them.

Afterwards, we left and I told him that the cashier chick was pretty cute, and he said that I should have approached, but I said that she didn't give any signals (She was viet, judging from appearance). Earlier I told him of my beliefs that east asian women view my race as inferior and that I'll find trouble in getting what I want, but he said that he doesn't believe in that nonsense.

Now I just came home and a few hours later, im feeling depressed now because no gf, and because I missed an opportunity. I am also confused right now because I finish uni soon and that I'll have little to no opportunities to meet women I like (Viet, Korean, Japanese) after uni in Australia. I won't find gf material in clubs, I don't have any social circles. I won't find any in an office job and I can't just go eating out 5 days a week in hopes of approaching an asian girl. I could attend family friend parties, but all I'll get are filo chicks, which I don't want. It seems that I do have to go overseas to get what I want.

My thoughts are cluttered right now and im confused as fuk

srsly sick of life

we can't all be winners bro. sorry.

life just sucks not having a gf

After having a gf for a while you'll think "man life sucks, wish I were single again"


That's just how it works.

Yeah don't travel to another country just to get girls. That chit only works if you're rich as fuk, famous, or extremely good looking. The game is even harder when they know you're a foreigner who can't speak the language

Maybe you got in a relationship with the wrong person?
Yeah you're right, never thought about it that way. It would be hard to even meet people. But what if I learned the language?

So are you asian or not?

Yeah im filo

Guess I'm just different. Don't let anyone tell you not to do something if it's something you really want. I've smashed countless girls in other countries with no regrets. Foreign girls are way more fun than American ones. Go for it and have a blast brah

if you learn the language you'd have a better chance, but most East Asian girls worth dating meet guys through friends/work/school. I doubt you have those kind of connections as a foreigner

Married bro checking in......Pros and Cons man

Yeah im willing to do whatever it takes to get what I want (maybe)
Fuark

And I don't even have those connections here in Australia either

So im literally doomed?My life is so boring right now, and I want an escape, I want that feeling of falling in love because it just removes stress and gives you a high. Its intoxicating.

Well, there's your problem. Can't see your face so I cant rate it, but you better be havin a good personality or face. And why don't u want filo chicks?

Take your trip and enjoy it. Have a great time.

When you return, stop making getting a girl a priority and focus on improving yourself. Be the best you that you can be. The rest will follow.

My advice: if you really want to do it, make sure you know the language and culture before hand and have a job teaching English lined up so you live there long term so any potential girls you meet feel ok committing to something long term. They won't wanna date a guy who's traveling through temporarily

Yeah it sucks being filo because its even harder to get what I want. I got personal reasons why I don't like filo chicks, but if shes extremely pretty I'd make an exception

Last 3 months if yr lucky bruv, not worth totally rearranging your life for prolly

Literally those words are very similar to what my friend told me, that it would all come natural. Chit in life doesn't come natural, if it did, then the poor and starving people wouldn't be starving, since good things would "come their way".

Also even if I somehow took a trip to Korea or Japan, idk what I'd do there and I'd be just as awkward as I am right now in Australia.
Usually they want white people for teaching English there, so it would be hard for me to get one?

Brah, don't have a mindset of "maybe". Figure out what you want to do and go make it happen. You'll thank yourself later


Love you bb

do it.....DO IT. soft ass pussy

The perceived racial hierarchy in east asia is:
. White
. Asian
. SE Asian + Indians + Middle Easterns + Latins (Not sure about how these rank)
. Blacks

Guessing you know that already.

Do what? neck myself?
Yeah this is what I believe in. Maybe there has to be some east asian chick that doesn't want a lanky feminine asian guy, but has a fetish to get ravaged by some somewhat dark masculine barbarian looking guy? There has to be some right?

That intoxicating feel you crave can only last 3 months before reality hits in and after that it's the same chit as before just different smell

Believe

all i see is excuses, excuses and excuses, boyo you say that you have nothing going on in your live, so do something about it, start one or two hobbies
if you want to go abroad, go, search for volunteer jobs like teaching english in poor schools, or find a job, you don't need to worry about meet new people trust me it will be easy as ****

****git.

It's not your fault...



its not your fault...




it's not your fault...

down the road, not across

I'd find a way to make sure that it lasts indefinitely
I won't find any girls that im looking for being a stemcel working in some stem office as a programmer

If I choose money and work in stem, ill end up like the car salesman guy. If I teach english overseas, I could probably get laid but I'd be poor as fuk

wat doThe stars aren't aligned in my favor

I literally have the chittest luck in life regarding women

We're all gonna make it brah

no it doesn't brah

we're all gonna make it