Thread: Sick of life
08-25-2016, 06:46 AM
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Originally Posted By joshewwah⏩
I don't understand why you kids equate happiness with GF's? Jesus H..sack up and live life. Relationships aren't all what they are cracked up to be.I'd find a way to make sure that it lasts indefinitely
I won't find any girls that im looking for being a stemcel working in some stem office as a programmer
If I choose money and work in stem, ill end up like the car salesman guy. If I teach english overseas, I could probably get laid but I'd be poor as fuk
wat do
The stars aren't aligned in my favor
I literally have the chittest luck in life regarding women
I won't find any girls that im looking for being a stemcel working in some stem office as a programmer
If I choose money and work in stem, ill end up like the car salesman guy. If I teach english overseas, I could probably get laid but I'd be poor as fuk
wat do
The stars aren't aligned in my favor
I literally have the chittest luck in life regarding women
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08-25-2016, 06:51 AM
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Originally Posted By SuperStoob⏩
We're all gonna make it brah
Originally Posted By LieutenantGains⏩
I hope so, but life ain't giving me any "preview" or any signs of me making it any time soonno it doesn't brah
we're all gonna make it
we're all gonna make it
Originally Posted By RICHSTRONG⏩
Because maybe back in your day it was easy to find love and get laid?I don't understand why you kids equate happiness with GF's? Jesus H..sack up and live life. Relationships aren't all what they are cracked up to be.
These days its much more harder
And at that age, you should know the allure of being mesmerised by a woman. I would go lengths to get that high
08-25-2016, 07:02 AM
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I really don't know you, but based on the posts, your negative mindset maybe hurting your chances. Ya you may approach or whatever, but you are already mentally defeated. I also don't think its a good idea to seek out a woman to make you happy and that may be another reason why you are feeling depressed. You have put most of your happiness on "having a GF" that the stakes are THAT much higher when you are interacting with women, which probably makes you more nervous and less likely to succeed. I may be off, but its just what I gather from your posts.
You have a good physique based on your avi, so you obviously have lifting as a hobby. Outside of Uni you can pick up other hobbies that will introduce you to women. Don't think like after the age of(what 22 when people graduate college? I think i was 22ish) the only place to find women are clubs/bars. There are other avenues man. You will make it brah, I sorta side with your friend. The more you relax, the more it will come naturally. Ya talking to women/"gaming" them can take time if you are an FA, but the more you do it and the more relaxed you make yourself the easier it will become. You don't need that much experience to be comfortable and make a girl feel good.
A little secret, most of the time, any anxiety you feel during an interaction with a woman you just met, she is feeling too, if not more because most women are more shy than men. Go out and own it. You may be FA, but you aren't FA and LDAR crew, you are FA and going to make it crew!
You have a good physique based on your avi, so you obviously have lifting as a hobby. Outside of Uni you can pick up other hobbies that will introduce you to women. Don't think like after the age of(what 22 when people graduate college? I think i was 22ish) the only place to find women are clubs/bars. There are other avenues man. You will make it brah, I sorta side with your friend. The more you relax, the more it will come naturally. Ya talking to women/"gaming" them can take time if you are an FA, but the more you do it and the more relaxed you make yourself the easier it will become. You don't need that much experience to be comfortable and make a girl feel good.
A little secret, most of the time, any anxiety you feel during an interaction with a woman you just met, she is feeling too, if not more because most women are more shy than men. Go out and own it. You may be FA, but you aren't FA and LDAR crew, you are FA and going to make it crew!
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08-25-2016, 07:05 AM
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Originally Posted By joshewwah⏩
TLDRWent to some Japanese restaurant with a friend and talked about various stuff, after uni. He said that I was somewhat crazy in planning to go overseas to Asia, just to meet women, and said that I should just chill and that "ill eventually find someone". I countered with "Jobs don't get served to you; you have to go out and get what you want". He even said that I do take care of my appearance, can socialise, and look alright, yet I can't get laid. I told him that I do maybe get 1-2 eyefuks a year by women of similar nationality, but they aren't pretty enough, which is why I didn't do anything. I also told him that I approach girls but I never got even a single date with them.
Afterwards, we left and I told him that the cashier chick was pretty cute, and he said that I should have approached, but I said that she didn't give any signals (She was viet, judging from appearance). Earlier I told him of my beliefs that east asian women view my race as inferior and that I'll find trouble in getting what I want, but he said that he doesn't believe in that nonsense.
Now I just came home and a few hours later, im feeling depressed now because no gf, and because I missed an opportunity. I am also confused right now because I finish uni soon and that I'll have little to no opportunities to meet women I like (Viet, Korean, Japanese) after uni in Australia. I won't find gf material in clubs, I don't have any social circles. I won't find any in an office job and I can't just go eating out 5 days a week in hopes of approaching an asian girl. I could attend family friend parties, but all I'll get are filo chicks, which I don't want. It seems that I do have to go overseas to get what I want.
My thoughts are cluttered right now and im confused as fuk
srsly sick of life
Afterwards, we left and I told him that the cashier chick was pretty cute, and he said that I should have approached, but I said that she didn't give any signals (She was viet, judging from appearance). Earlier I told him of my beliefs that east asian women view my race as inferior and that I'll find trouble in getting what I want, but he said that he doesn't believe in that nonsense.
Now I just came home and a few hours later, im feeling depressed now because no gf, and because I missed an opportunity. I am also confused right now because I finish uni soon and that I'll have little to no opportunities to meet women I like (Viet, Korean, Japanese) after uni in Australia. I won't find gf material in clubs, I don't have any social circles. I won't find any in an office job and I can't just go eating out 5 days a week in hopes of approaching an asian girl. I could attend family friend parties, but all I'll get are filo chicks, which I don't want. It seems that I do have to go overseas to get what I want.
My thoughts are cluttered right now and im confused as fuk
srsly sick of life
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tfw no gf
08-25-2016, 07:07 AM
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Originally Posted By joshewwah⏩
No you won't.I'd find a way to make sure that it lasts indefinitely
There's something extremely wrong with your personality and your self-defeating attitude. No woman of value would want to even approach you, let alone spend time with you.
You need to stop making excuses about who won't like you or why they won't like you and keep approaching. Take your hits on the chin and keep failing. Failing is how we learn.
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Originally Posted By SSM12⏩
My friend told me to chill and so do youI really don't know you, but based on the posts, your negative mindset maybe hurting your chances. Ya you may approach or whatever, but you are already mentally defeated. I also don't think its a good idea to seek out a woman to make you happy and that may be another reason why you are feeling depressed. You have put most of your happiness on "having a GF" that the stakes are THAT much higher when you are interacting with women, which probably makes you more nervous and less likely to succeed. I may be off, but its just what I gather from your posts.
You have a good physique based on your avi, so you obviously have lifting as a hobby. Outside of Uni you can pick up other hobbies that will introduce you to women. Don't think like after the age of(what 22 when people graduate college? I think i was 22ish) the only place to find women are clubs/bars. There are other avenues man. You will make it brah, I sorta side with your friend. The more you relax, the more it will come naturally. Ya talking to women/"gaming" them can take time if you are an FA, but the more you do it and the more relaxed you make yourself the easier it will become. You don't need that much experience to be comfortable and make a girl feel good.
A little secret, most of the time, any anxiety you feel during an interaction with a woman you just met, she is feeling too, if not more because most women are more shy than men. Go out and own it. You may be FA, but you aren't FA and LDAR crew, you are FA and going to make it crew!
You have a good physique based on your avi, so you obviously have lifting as a hobby. Outside of Uni you can pick up other hobbies that will introduce you to women. Don't think like after the age of(what 22 when people graduate college? I think i was 22ish) the only place to find women are clubs/bars. There are other avenues man. You will make it brah, I sorta side with your friend. The more you relax, the more it will come naturally. Ya talking to women/"gaming" them can take time if you are an FA, but the more you do it and the more relaxed you make yourself the easier it will become. You don't need that much experience to be comfortable and make a girl feel good.
A little secret, most of the time, any anxiety you feel during an interaction with a woman you just met, she is feeling too, if not more because most women are more shy than men. Go out and own it. You may be FA, but you aren't FA and LDAR crew, you are FA and going to make it crew!
This was my response to him and to you
"If I don't chill and take action, then life will pass by so fast that in the next moment, I would wake up and become a 40 year old virgin"
Also where to meet asian women after uni? I don't have access to social circles and won't find anything long-term material in a bar or club
Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
Thats easy for you to say, look at your avi. I am not tall, white and good looking as you. No offense, but this is like a rich person telling a poor person to "cheer up, life will get better", when in actual reality that rich person was born richNo you won't.
There's something extremely wrong with your personality and your self-defeating attitude. No woman of value would want to even approach you, let alone spend time with you.
You need to stop making excuses about who won't like you or why they won't like you and keep approaching. Take your hits on the chin and keep failing. Failing is how we learn.
There's something extremely wrong with your personality and your self-defeating attitude. No woman of value would want to even approach you, let alone spend time with you.
You need to stop making excuses about who won't like you or why they won't like you and keep approaching. Take your hits on the chin and keep failing. Failing is how we learn.
08-25-2016, 07:07 AM
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08-25-2016, 07:12 AM
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Originally Posted By joshewwah⏩
I understand that, but when I say chill, what I mean is relax, not don't try. Still try, still go after what you want, but don't put so much pressure on yourself. It'll only downward spiral.My friend told me to chill and so do you
This was my response to him and to you
"If I don't chill and take action, then life will pass by so fast that in the next moment, I would wake up and become a 40 year old virgin"
Also where to meet asian women after uni? I don't have access to social circles and won't find anything long-term material in a bar or club
This was my response to him and to you
"If I don't chill and take action, then life will pass by so fast that in the next moment, I would wake up and become a 40 year old virgin"
Also where to meet asian women after uni? I don't have access to social circles and won't find anything long-term material in a bar or club
I see you are in australia, I don't know where to meet asian women and I don't know the percentage of that population where you are, so I really can't help there. I am in America, so its probably a little different. Maybe try taking a couple language classes at a community college(do they have those there?). You might run into some asian women there, who want to refresh their language skills if they grew up speaking english at home. Maybe cooking classes? Taekwando/Martial Arts?
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08-25-2016, 07:15 AM
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Originally Posted By SSM12⏩
Yeah what he and you meant was to relax and not be hard on myself, but I have to otherwise I won't get what I want.I understand that, but when I say chill, what I mean is relax, not don't try. Still try, still go after what you want, but don't put so much pressure on yourself. It'll only downward spiral.
I see you are in australia, I don't know where to meet asian women and I don't know the percentage of that population where you are, so I really can't help there. I am in America, so its probably a little different. Maybe try taking a couple language classes at a community college(do they have those there?). You might run into some asian women there, who want to refresh their language skills if they grew up speaking english at home. Maybe cooking classes? Taekwando/Martial Arts?
I see you are in australia, I don't know where to meet asian women and I don't know the percentage of that population where you are, so I really can't help there. I am in America, so its probably a little different. Maybe try taking a couple language classes at a community college(do they have those there?). You might run into some asian women there, who want to refresh their language skills if they grew up speaking english at home. Maybe cooking classes? Taekwando/Martial Arts?
I'm sure there are lots of fobs in US as well. There are lots of them born here and international students at uni, but it is hard to get to know them since they are usually closed off and in their own groups with other fobs. I'd assume the situation is similar in both countries
08-25-2016, 07:16 AM
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You're trying to take the internet into rl and it's not working out for you bro
Your friend is right, listen to him
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Originally Posted By batspoof⏩
I don't like that country, and I'd easily fall for a gold digger thereGo to the phillipines.
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I'm sure the internet is somewhat skewed, but im certain that racial heirarchy does exist. If it didn't, then why aren't east asian women giving me signals or eye fuking me?You're trying to take the internet into rl and it's not working out for you bro
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08-25-2016, 07:22 AM
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Originally Posted By joshewwah⏩
Oh be hard on yourself to maybe go out of your comfort zone a little bit. And be hard on yourself, motivate yourself to go after what you want. But try not to be hard on yourself if you fail. You won't always be failing and you'll never have a 100% success rate.Yeah what he and you meant was to relax and not be hard on myself, but I have to otherwise I won't get what I want.
I'm sure there are lots of fobs in US as well. There are lots of them born here and international students at uni, but it is hard to get to know them since they are usually closed off and in their own groups with other fobs. I'd assume the situation is similar in both countries
I'm sure there are lots of fobs in US as well. There are lots of them born here and international students at uni, but it is hard to get to know them since they are usually closed off and in their own groups with other fobs. I'd assume the situation is similar in both countries
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Originally Posted By joshewwah⏩
Is that so? Because I was just like you and I talk to people with your exact problems every single fuucking day of my life. You are all the same. You all make excuses for why you are like this and like that because you're too petrified to fail and fail and fail and fail until you succeed. Success comes through struggle for 90% of us. You think I was always like this? Because if so, you're wrong.Thats easy for you to say, look at your avi. I am not tall, white and good looking as you. No offense, but this is like a rich person telling a poor person to "cheer up, life will get better", when in actual reality that rich person was born rich
Either you change what you're doing, attitude included, or you do the same things and get what you always get. The choice is yours.
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Originally Posted By SSM12⏩
Oh be hard on yourself to maybe go out of your comfort zone a little bit. And be hard on yourself, motivate yourself to go after what you want. But try not to be hard on yourself if you fail. You won't always be failing and you'll never have a 100% success rate.
Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
I've already failed like 6 times in my life, about 4 times last year. Haven't done it once this year, I just feel burned out from all the hard work with no resultsIs that so? Because I was just like you and I talk to people with your exact problems every single fuucking day of my life. You are all the same. You all make excuses for why you are like this and like that because you're too petrified to fail and fail and fail and fail until you succeed. Success comes through struggle for 90% of us. You think I was always like this? Because if so, you're wrong.
Either you change what you're doing, attitude included, or you do the same things and get what you always get. The choice is yours.
Either you change what you're doing, attitude included, or you do the same things and get what you always get. The choice is yours.
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"The rest will come" is a lie. Not taking specific and direct action to obtain something is a sure way to never get it. Unless you are an ultimate Chad, you're otherwise invisible to girls and most people for that matter. In other words, you might as well give up the dream and start rotting, boyo.
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Originally Posted By joshewwah⏩
Comfirmation bias. You see what you want to see to confirm your beliefs because your ego is fragileI'm sure the internet is somewhat skewed, but im certain that racial heirarchy does exist. If it didn't, then why aren't east asian women giving me signals or eye fuking me?
You're fcking yourself up reading so deep into all this stuff. It's okay to read in, to glance at it, to use it in your real life to guide you... but it's possible to take it too far, and you get into this downward spiral of outlandish beliefs, confirmation bias, outlandish beliefs, confirmation bias... and then you seek out other people who are on the same sort of cycle but are deeper in it than yourself and you take onboard their crazy beliefs and next thing you know you've fallen so far down the rabbit hole that you can't get back up and live life in the way that other people can, and you get severely depressed and suicidal and no matter how hard you try you can't just put your thoughts at rest and do what millions of other people do every day and then you're fcked - damaged, sometimes permenently
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Originally Posted By NotANun21⏩
Woah that escalated quicklyComfirmation bias. You see what you want to see to confirm your beliefs because your ego is fragile
You're fcking yourself up reading so deep into all this stuff. It's okay to read in, to glance at it, to use it in your real life to guide you... but it's possible to take it too far, and you get into this downward spiral of outlandish beliefs, confirmation bias, outlandish beliefs, confirmation bias... and then you seek out other people who are on the same sort of cycle but are deeper in it than yourself and you take onboard their crazy beliefs and next thing you know you've fallen so far down the rabbit hole that you can't get back up and live life in the way that other people can, and you get severely depressed and suicidal and no matter how hard you try you can't just put your thoughts at rest and do what millions of other people do every day and then you're fcked - damaged, sometimes permenently
You're fcking yourself up reading so deep into all this stuff. It's okay to read in, to glance at it, to use it in your real life to guide you... but it's possible to take it too far, and you get into this downward spiral of outlandish beliefs, confirmation bias, outlandish beliefs, confirmation bias... and then you seek out other people who are on the same sort of cycle but are deeper in it than yourself and you take onboard their crazy beliefs and next thing you know you've fallen so far down the rabbit hole that you can't get back up and live life in the way that other people can, and you get severely depressed and suicidal and no matter how hard you try you can't just put your thoughts at rest and do what millions of other people do every day and then you're fcked - damaged, sometimes permenently
But I think it has some relevance, because I don't really like girls who are darker than me, so it would make sense that girls don't want guys who are darker than them. I know im being a hypocrite going after lighter skinned girls, but still, the heirarchy to a point exists
This is not something I hate, its just something I accept. It will be more difficult to get an east asian girl due to the innate human instinct to dislike darker people
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Originally Posted By joshewwah⏩
either get one or continue with this sob party you *******Too cheap to get one
you depend on people's perceptions and validation and it's making you miserable
you're crying here about your failures with bishes but honestly - if you were a random woman, would you date your current self?
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you're talking out of your ass brah srsWoah that escalated quickly
But I think it has some relevance,because I don't really like girls who are darker than me, so it would make sense that girls don't want guys who are darker than them.I know im being a hypocrite going after lighter skinned girls, but still, the heirarchy to a point exists
This is not something I hate, its just something I accept.It will be more difficult to get an east asian girl due to the innate human instinct to dislike darker people
But I think it has some relevance,because I don't really like girls who are darker than me, so it would make sense that girls don't want guys who are darker than them.I know im being a hypocrite going after lighter skinned girls, but still, the heirarchy to a point exists
This is not something I hate, its just something I accept.It will be more difficult to get an east asian girl due to the innate human instinct to dislike darker people
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Originally Posted By joshewwah⏩
None of that is true in the real world brah, people fall in love with all sorts of other people. Dating site stats and whatever other stuff you can come out with about yourself and your preferences are completely external to that realityWoah that escalated quickly
But I think it has some relevance, because I don't really like girls who are darker than me, so it would make sense that girls don't want guys who are darker than them. I know im being a hypocrite going after lighter skinned girls, but still, the heirarchy to a point exists
This is not something I hate, its just something I accept. It will be more difficult to get an east asian girl due to the innate human instinct to dislike darker people
But I think it has some relevance, because I don't really like girls who are darker than me, so it would make sense that girls don't want guys who are darker than them. I know im being a hypocrite going after lighter skinned girls, but still, the heirarchy to a point exists
This is not something I hate, its just something I accept. It will be more difficult to get an east asian girl due to the innate human instinct to dislike darker people
You really need to take a step back and look at what you're doing to yourself before it's too late. Like that other brah said, if you can't do this yourself and see that this is all complete madness, then you need to get a therapist to help you do it
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Originally Posted By SlimJoker⏩
I don't depend on validation, I depend on easily getting what I wanteither get one or continue with this sob party you *******
you depend on people's perceptions and validation and it's making you miserable
you're crying here about your failures with bishes but honestly - if you were a random woman, would you date your current self?
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you're talking out of your ass brah srs
you depend on people's perceptions and validation and it's making you miserable
you're crying here about your failures with bishes but honestly - if you were a random woman, would you date your current self?
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you're talking out of your ass brah srs
I cry here, but never show it in real life. I only complain when I don't get what I want. If life somehow gave me a gf, there would be no need to complain
Originally Posted By NotANun21⏩
If none of it is true, then why are east asian countries usually xenophobic and view south-east asian countries and cultures inferior? They view SEA countries as chitholes, like we as the misc does with Brazil. They have their right to their opinion, but it does exist, and that would be part of the reason of my failures (I will agree that there are other factors in play, but this one is also a part)None of that is true in the real world brah, people fall in love with all sorts of other people. Dating site stats and whatever other stuff you can come out with about yourself and your preferences are completely external to that reality
You really need to take a step back and look at what you're doing to yourself before it's too late. Like that other brah said, if you can't do this yourself and see that this is all complete madness, then you need to get a therapist to help you do it
You really need to take a step back and look at what you're doing to yourself before it's too late. Like that other brah said, if you can't do this yourself and see that this is all complete madness, then you need to get a therapist to help you do it
I've seen lots of WMAF couples in real life. This might be "confirmation bias", but I honestly see more of them, than more of a South-east asian male and east asian female. I obviously see more non-interracial couples in the city than interracial, but WMAF is the most popular interracial couple combination I've seen.
08-25-2016, 07:47 AM
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Originally Posted By joshewwah⏩
You haven't done it once this year? Then you aren't being hard on yourself to get what you want. The way I see it man, the more you try, the more likely it will be that you succeed. And you know what, once you succeed, and you will, the more you try(thats just odds), all those failures will mean NOTHING to you.I've already failed like 6 times in my life, about 4 times last year. Haven't done it once this year, I just feel burned out from all the hard work with no results
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Say you tried today and you happen to get a coffee date or something that turns into something more are you really going to give a **** about those 10 times that turned into nothing? They mean something now because you haven't had much success, but you WILL have success. Then they will mean nothing. You are 20. As I got older, I learned that most things that seem like a big deal that day, week or month turn out to not be a big of a deal as time passes. Right now you are in a rut with women, but you won't be forever.
Also, if you want to make the most of your remaining time at uni, I would be approaching any/every girl I found attractive. Has a boyfriend/gets rejected? Who cares, I won't see any of the kids after I graduate. Especially if you think this is one of the few chances you have to meet women you like. If I knew now what I knew when I was at a University I would have taken this exact advice and I wouldn't feel like I missed out on a few opportunities.
Dude its August, 4 months left in the year and you haven't tried? C'mon man, go out and get what you want.
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From your post OP, all I hear is "Boohoo, I got no girl". Big deal.
Make something out of yourself first and became financially stable then worry about girls.
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Wow, six whole failures?!?! You poor thing! I fail 6 times a weekend with women. That's how it's supposed to be. Not going to keep feeding into your pity party but just know that you need thicker skin and to fail more.
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Originally Posted By SSM12⏩
I do look for opportunities to approach, but I always look for signals before approaching. Last year I did 4 cold approaches to girls that gave no signals of interest, and only got 2 numbers and a 1st date with one who was a fob. If I don't look for signals, ill be repeating history and will end up in a dead end, where ill get nowhere with a particular girl.You haven't done it once this year? Then you aren't being hard on yourself to get what you want. The way I see it man, the more you try, the more likely it will be that you succeed. And you know what, once you succeed, and you will, the more you try(thats just odds), all those failures will mean NOTHING to you.
Say you tried today and you happen to get a coffee date or something that turns into something more are you really going to give a **** about those 10 times that turned into nothing? They mean something now because you haven't had much success, but you WILL have success. Then they will mean nothing. You are 20. As I got older, I learned that most things that seem like a big deal that day, week or month turn out to not be a big of a deal as time passes. Right now you are in a rut with women, but you won't be forever.
Also, if you want to make the most of your remaining time at uni, I would be approaching any/every girl I found attractive. Has a boyfriend/gets rejected? Who cares, I won't see any of the kids after I graduate. Especially if you think this is one of the few chances you have to meet women you like. If I knew now what I knew when I was at a University I would have taken this exact advice and I wouldn't feel like I missed out on a few opportunities.
Dude its August, 4 months left in the year and you haven't tried? C'mon man, go out and get what you want.
Say you tried today and you happen to get a coffee date or something that turns into something more are you really going to give a **** about those 10 times that turned into nothing? They mean something now because you haven't had much success, but you WILL have success. Then they will mean nothing. You are 20. As I got older, I learned that most things that seem like a big deal that day, week or month turn out to not be a big of a deal as time passes. Right now you are in a rut with women, but you won't be forever.
Also, if you want to make the most of your remaining time at uni, I would be approaching any/every girl I found attractive. Has a boyfriend/gets rejected? Who cares, I won't see any of the kids after I graduate. Especially if you think this is one of the few chances you have to meet women you like. If I knew now what I knew when I was at a University I would have taken this exact advice and I wouldn't feel like I missed out on a few opportunities.
Dude its August, 4 months left in the year and you haven't tried? C'mon man, go out and get what you want.
Originally Posted By Shortfuze⏩
By the time I ever get financially stable, I would have gone insane due to being singleFrom your post OP, all I hear is "Boohoo, I got no girl". Big deal.
Make something out of yourself first and became financially stable then worry about girls.
Make something out of yourself first and became financially stable then worry about girls.
Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
So I gotta keep cold approaching randoms, without even considering my chances of success prior to that (by looking for signals of interest), and somehow brute force my way through?Wow, six whole failures?!?! You poor thing! I fail 6 times a weekend with women. That's how it's supposed to be. Not going to keep feeding into your pity party but just know that you need thicker skin and to fail more.
Originally Posted By qportx⏩
Maybe you are with the wrong person?dat feeling when feeling sick of having a gf and missing being single.
08-25-2016, 07:55 AM
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look man you're lying to yourself, you're trying to rationalize your delusionI don't depend on validation, I depend on easily getting what I want
I cry here, but never show it in real life. I only complain when I don't get what I want. If life somehow gave me a gf, there would be no need to complain
I cry here, but never show it in real life. I only complain when I don't get what I want. If life somehow gave me a gf, there would be no need to complain
get off the internet and get a therapist srs
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Originally Posted By joshewwah⏩
What's your source?If none of it is true, then why are east asian countries usually xenophobic and view south-east asian countries and cultures inferior? They view SEA countries as chitholes, like we as the misc does with Brazil. They have their right to their opinion, but it does exist, and that would be part of the reason of my failures (I will agree that there are other factors in play, but this one is also a part)
I've seen lots of WMAF couples in real life. This might be "confirmation bias", but I honestly see more of them, than more of a South-east asian male and east asian female. I obviously see more non-interracial couples in the city than interracial, but WMAF is the most popular interracial couple combination I've seen.
I've seen lots of WMAF couples in real life. This might be "confirmation bias", but I honestly see more of them, than more of a South-east asian male and east asian female. I obviously see more non-interracial couples in the city than interracial, but WMAF is the most popular interracial couple combination I've seen.
I have the idea in my head that all Canadians are polite, the internet goes on and on about it, I could say "Well the attitude in Canada is one of hospitality"
But until I get there and find out of it's true, or if one of them calls me a chithead and whacks me with a hockey stick as soon as I get off the plane I'll never know. The world is changing, each generatation is different from it's parents, sometimes going to complete opposites to rebel. Misc is hating on Brazil, that doesn't mean that all of America hates Brazil, that all of white people hate Brazil, It doesn't mean that any of them have ever been to Rio. Fck, I'd go as far as to say most of misc doesn't hate Brazil - they don't believe half the chit they say it's just bandwagoning which is only a problem if you buy into it as much as you have because your real life is lacking and this is your escape.
And yeah the 2nd part - it's confirmation bias, you subconsciously ignore everything that doesn't fit your view of the world because as I said your ego is very fragile.
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