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post 1460866423 09-05-2016, 03:24 PM
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Scary to date girls 30+ ... Dropping a life lesson here, Misc

Backstory: dated a chick in my 20's for four years and thought she was the one. Things ended up getting fu cked up fast, and I'm busy with academics, so that was that. Still busy with my routine, not much time to get serious- and to be honest not many girls can empathize with my schedule- but I've been trying to feel things out. Jumping from snatch to snatch gets old and trying to find something solid.

So I've been dating lately, and there's a reason these women in their very late 20's and 30's are single: they're out of their fu cking mind. This isn't taking into consideration CEO/lawyer/physician bitches that are really into their field of study (kind of like myself), but your run of the mill attractive female out and about. I know the Misc's general thought is "to hell with marriage" and all that, which is fine and good, but let me tell you something: unless you really want to stay single for your entire life, chances of you finding a quality mate as you age diminishes quickly. I used to hear about it and scoff at the thought, but it's true, the good ones really do get taken up fast in their mid-twenties.

Last night was my last straw, man. Tired of finding these aesthetic females that are literally insane. It's actually starting to worry me.

I'm just a little agitated and wanted to vent, brothers.

There's gotta be some of you that've 'woken up' from the delusion of sane women into their 30's as well.
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post 1460867323 09-05-2016, 03:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Hypernation
Backstory: dated a chick in my 20's for four years and thought she was the one. Things ended up getting fu cked up fast, and I'm busy with academics, so that was that. Still busy with my routine, not much time to get serious- and to be honest not many girls can empathize with my schedule- but I've been trying to feel things out. Jumping from snatch to snatch gets old and trying to find something solid.

So I've been dating lately, and there's a reason these women in their very late 20's and 30's are single: they're out of their fu cking mind. This isn't taking into consideration CEO/lawyer/physician bitches that are really into their field of study (kind of like myself), but your run of the mill attractive female out and about. I know the Misc's general thought is "to hell with marriage" and all that, which is fine and good, but let me tell you something: unless you really want to stay single for your entire life, chances of you finding a quality mate as you age diminishes quickly. I used to hear about it and scoff at the thought, but it's true, the good ones really do get taken up fast in their mid-twenties.

Last night was my last straw, man. Tired of finding these aesthetic females that are literally insane. It's actually starting to worry me.

I'm just a little agitated and wanted to vent, brothers.

There's gotta be some of you that've 'woken up' from the delusion of sane women into their 30's as well.
Your post is useless unless you tell some anecdotes about crazy 30 year old bishes
post 1460867393 09-05-2016, 03:31 PM
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nice pics bro
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post 1460867683 09-05-2016, 03:33 PM
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only hope is to find a good one thats divorced for some other reason than her being crazy or unfaithful. it happens,not alot..but it happens
post 1460867943 09-05-2016, 03:36 PM
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Originally Posted By sunchine
Your post is useless unless you tell some anecdotes about crazy 30 year old bishes
1. saying wacky religious chit while you're in the sac (and after)
2. Obsessive calling and texting
3. deer in headlight during conversations like not all the lights are on inside
4. Hyperinsecurities in bed
5. Bipolar as fu ck

The list goes on, man. I'm just saying these are probably girls you have all dealt with, but they're in utmost surplus past 29 years of age. It's terrible.
You have my word as a Schons.
post 1460868313 09-05-2016, 03:39 PM
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Number 4 oh lawd too much truth op
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post 1460868543 09-05-2016, 03:41 PM
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protip: it's women of all ages not just that age range lmao
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Originally Posted By shortstrokegym
only hope is to find a good one thats divorcedfor some other reason than her being crazy or unfaithful. it happens,not alot..but it happens
Yeah.... I'm not holding my breath. Was with a divorced one recently. Leaning heavily onbat **** crazyas per the reason of divorce that was most likely filed.
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post 1460868723 09-05-2016, 03:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Hypernation
Yeah.... I'm not holding my breath. Was with a divorced one recently. Leaning heavily onbat **** crazyas per the reason of divorce that was most likely filed.
Unfortunately thats usually the case, especially postpartum. man im glad im out of the game at this age. goodluck mane
post 1460868883 09-05-2016, 03:45 PM
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post 1460869113 09-05-2016, 03:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Hypernation
1. saying wacky religious chit while you're in the sac (and after)
2. Obsessive calling and texting
3. deer in headlight during conversations like not all the lights are on inside
4. Hyperinsecurities in bed
5. Bipolar as fu ck

The list goes on, man. I'm just saying these are probably girls you have all dealt with, but they're in utmost surplus past 29 years of age. It's terrible.
wow. can confirm. very similar experience. The common denominator being women that are 29+. complete bat chit crazy.
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post 1460869203 09-05-2016, 03:48 PM
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I want kids some day.

But women in their 30s who havent had kids are a whole different level of dating. They want to seal the deal in a year and have kids firmed up with you--either pregnant or plans to be.

The fear of aging out is very real to them at that age in my experience. Dating comes across as excessively transactional with them. You can almost taste the fear.

I try and date girls around 24-26. Keeps things sort of sane.
post 1460869283 09-05-2016, 03:49 PM
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Yea man let that be a lesson for you young miscers

all the good/normal girls get wifed up before 25....

there's a few diamonds in the rough, but you'll be left with the single moms/Crazys
post 1460869293 09-05-2016, 03:49 PM
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Originally Posted By LurkoLantern
It's time for you to join our Order, young herald

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Lol.. sign me up, I shall learn the ways as squire first class.
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post 1460869583 09-05-2016, 03:52 PM
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Because once a woman has a 3 in front of her age she KNOWS she's old. In their twenties they can still cling to youth, but there's no hiding it anymore at 30. If she's married then who cares, but still trying to club, party, be the center of attention, and all that crap at 30+ is just sad. Like, really sad.
post 1460870003 09-05-2016, 03:55 PM
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I'm glad so many of you bros know what I'm talking about right away. Love ya'll (some homo).
It's been really getting me down lately.

Like being selective is something that's looked down upon and has been shooting me in the foot as of late.

The most common thing is finding her, 29+, and she's attractive, nice house, solid job, but she's a complete fu cking nutcase. Like... I sit there wondering how she has the set-up she does and can tie her shoes and drive to work every morning. Ugh.
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post 1460870193 09-05-2016, 03:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Hypernation
I'm glad so many of you bros know what I'm talking about right away. Love ya'll (some homo).
It's been really getting me down lately.

Like being selective is something that's looked down upon and has been shooting me in the foot as of late.

The most common thing is finding her, 29+, and she's attractive, nice house, solid job, but she's a complete fu cking nutcase. Like... I sit there wondering how she has the set-up she does and can tie her shoes and drive to work every morning. Ugh.
how/where did you meet her?

maybe you're not looking in the right places. there's a lot of of young, professional single women in NYC, for example
post 1460870563 09-05-2016, 03:59 PM
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Good ones are usually taken at that age. Only the left overs who were too crazy to be snatched up. Das not it meng.
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Originally Posted By darudefartstorm
how/where did you meet her?

maybe you're not looking in the right places. there's a lot of of young, professional single women in NYC, for example
Yeah.. maybe it's the area. I wasn't referring to one in particular, but the whole lot of them for the most part. They seem to always have that equation:

nice place, 29+, attractive, good job, completely bat chit crazy (wait wut???)

Sometimes I meet them while I'm out, sometimes through friends.
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Im 26 now and could never date a girl older than me.
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Originally Posted By ProboscisMonkie
Im 26 now and could never date a girl older than me.
I don't blame you. I like the look of women in their 30's, but like many a Miscer has already stated: the good ones are taken (aside from the needles in the haystack).



Case in point: I dabbled for a while in the cuck-scene. Guys letting me bang their girls/wives in front of them, etc etc. Believe it or not, those girls were fu cking great. Setting aside the whole warped "fu king me in front of their bf/husband" thing- which 9 times out of 10 was all his idea- they were super cool and would make awesome girlfriends. Lol... ah, what a world.
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Can confirm, am 31 and try to only date girls around 25 for this reason. But as I get older it's more and more difficult to date girls around 25. Chit is terrifying.
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Case in point: I dabbled for a while in the cuck-scene. Guys letting me bang their girls/wives in front of them, etc etc. Believe it or not, those girls were fu cking great. Setting aside the whole warped "fu king me in front of their bf/husband" thing- which 9 times out of 10 was all his idea- they were super cool and would make awesome girlfriends. Lol... ah, what a world.
How does something like that get arranged?
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Originally Posted By Hypernation
I don't blame you. I like the look of women in their 30's, but like many a Miscer has already stated: the good ones are taken (aside from the needles in the haystack).



Case in point: I dabbled for a while in the cuck-scene. Guys letting me bang their girls/wives in front of them, etc etc. Believe it or not, those girls were fu cking great.Setting aside the whole warped "fu king me in front of their bf/husband" thing- which 9 times out of 10 was all his idea- they were super cool and would make awesome girlfriends.Lol... ah, what a world.
Um, what? Not sure if srs.
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Originally Posted By hermes3893
How does something like that get arranged?
Use the internet. CL or swinger lifestyle. Be cool and physically what she's looking for.
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Originally Posted By Hypernation
1. saying wacky religious chit while you're in the sac (and after)
2. Obsessive calling and texting
3. deer in headlight during conversations like not all the lights are on inside
4. Hyperinsecurities in bed
5. Bipolar as fu ck

The list goes on, man. I'm just saying these are probably girls you have all dealt with, but they're in utmost surplus past 29 years of age. It's terrible.
Yep, those sound like human beings, alright.
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Originally Posted By ineedadrink
Um, what? Not sure if srs.
Srs.

Very attractive, killer body.
Intelligent and a lot of fun- usually outgoing.

They just, uh... ended up with a cuck or something along the way.
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Originally Posted By sv722
Why is it terrifying?
Would like to find someone to settle down with. Getting more and more difficult with each passing year.
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Originally Posted By Hypernation
Srs.

Very attractive, killer body.
Intelligent and a lot of fun- usually outgoing.

They just, uh... ended up with a cuck or something along the way.
Your idea of a perfect "sane" wife is someone who engages in the cuck scene, which is about as weird and sexually deviant as you can get. Even if it's the guy's idea like you pointed out, the fact that she married a guy like that and went along with his chit absolutely means that she's nuts.

Before reading that post, I was going to agree with you and say that is why you should date women who are mid-twenties or younger. But after reading that last post, I'm going to say that you're probably getting with these crazy broads because you're nutty yourself. That and you're attracted to it and/or you're a terrible judge of character.
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